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Hello Guys, once when i was in grade 12 i liked this chubby chick, we were so close and we hangout a lot and i thought i get this clear message that she wanted to be with me or something and end up telling her all my feelings and after listening to me until i finish she said " she was not ready for such kind of relations " and i was hurt and embarrassed and good thing i joined campus and managed to get over her but the thing is now that i have a decent job and settle somehow and start to think about the future i wonder how i am ever gonna ask a girl on a date or tell her that i like her!!
I am kindda traumatized and it took me a long time to realize it.

fyi i have never been in a serious relationship ever since!!
And have no idea how to fix it sooooo i thought i should share it and get other peoples perspective on the issue

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Hey you all this is not a vent but I just thought I needed to share the lessons that I have learnt this year. And maybe help people out there who needed to hear this.
Lesson #1 Don't try!
Lesson #2 You don't know shit what people are going thru don't judge. Or be rude!
Lesson#3 Blood over anything!
Lesson#4 The brighter ur light the greater the shadow.
Lesson#5 Never ever portray urself as anything u aint. Ur life ain't a movie!
Lesson#6 Be kind eventho people are ungrateful!
Lesson#7 Put God first and the rest will follow
Lesson#8 Forgive but also forget
Lesson#9 Live ur life with integrity say ur words and mean them.
Lesson#10 People are weird...they will always be weird...laugh with them anyway
Lesson#11 The only precious gift we have and a gift that u can give freely is your time. Yet work on urself 100%
Lesson #12 Be happy despite ur mistakes or ur past
Lesson#13 Shut up!
Lesson#14 Speak to the one who listens even tho he knows what ur going to say daily
Lesson#15 Never make ur momma cry.
Last but not least dont waste ur time reading vents or listening other people problems. Thank u very much. I am out

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Hello guys...
Eski yhen melsulgn bezi zemen wend hono b/n 18 - 23 horny yalhone wend ale..? Malet erasun control argo minamin beka no sex before marriage yemil wend ale..? Eski kale help me how do u get that strength beka yhen neger beat mareg felgalew gin alchalkum am rly horny weys edmeye new mnim mareg aychalm..?😒

bezi mkniyat 2 set godchalew salafrkrachew abryachew hogne enesu serious r/n nener expect miyaregut ene gin for kissing and makout neber abryachew yehonkut bezi mknyat lela set lalemegudat bye set alkerbm neber but caring lay menkebakeb maseb bechgrachew gize merdat minamin gobez negn mnim alasatachewm betam new mikorubgn minamin..

Ahun lay am trying to get over this horny behavior beka endemnim bye lemersat ena lemetew mokralew byalew am struggling on this thing so i need help from those of who's 21 like me and strong on sexual things..?🙏

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I'm 25 and things are getting very very confusing. If you ask people about me at least most of them would say I'm the nicest person. But there are a lot of evil thoughts inside my head. And I'm afraid I might be a sex addict. I think some of it started when I started dating my ex. And it's very hard for me to not think of women in a perverted way.
This is something I've kept to myself for sometime. I've confessed it once to my confessor but everything came back again after a few months break. And because I haven't been able to speak about this with people (even with my closest friends) I feel like I will implode sooner or later. It'd be great to find someone who would take a couple of minutes to pray for me... or anyone who knows how I can get out of this.
And there is one other thing. I've had a crush on my best friend for like ten years now. She's with someone else now but it doesn't seem like I'm able to take it as it is. I mean I've never tried anything bad but I still want to move on and accept things.

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hey beautiful ppl hw u all doin??Soo i had a crush on him and he treated me too good i mean he showed signs and gived attention nd my friends thought he love me too but we didn't talk to each other that much but know each other slightly bcuz of family and we live at the same neighborhooed ngr i know him better soo before a yr he texted me and he was lieing to me about himself and started sayin i luv uh and bla bla bla to tell u the truth i wasn't quite sure about his love cuz he seems confused and fling i doubt he was in relationship at that time nd stopped chatting after that soo recently i became sure bout the r/n stuff(the fuck it was hurting) when i texted him with this fake acc and he told me he brokeup with her before a yr which means they brokeup after he texted me like he camed straight to me like I'm i a rebound or a seasonal fling for u bitch like we weren't close eko but he choosed me among all the bitches around him.soo now he is kinda Depressed & lonely & wants a friend beside him. Soo he consider me as his bestie(even tho he smtimes flirt)and want to meet me in person soo guys what do u say shuld i go mate him in person and told him why he lied about every thing or shuld i keep being friends with the fake acc or shuld i move on and nvr get bothered about it plzz guys i would love to change,help him even tho it seems impossible i still care.

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Okay So I'm a highschool student and last year was really tough for me I lost all my friends without knowing why the only thing I know is that they hated me from the begining and I broke up with my first boyfriend(I know it wasn't the time and I really regret about that) also my grades weren't that cool but The new year is coming and there's school and everything again so I just saw comment boxes and observed that there are mature people in this channel so guys please give me some plans to work on and help me to become the better version of myself the next year from your experience in life.

Thank you.🤎

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I am 19 and i have a boyfriend we have been together like 8 years he is my bestfriend brother and many thing ena ahun like distance lay nene almost wedfitm endzaw ahun yalhut america nw esu dmo Ethiopia ena betam hard honbgal endet handle endmnaderge gera gebtogal... enwadadln besu sure negeg gn mn maderge endalbn alwknm ... pls give us some advice i don't want to lose him endet mature mhone endlbn ...

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Some men hate feminists as if we're not the only people who believe men can actually do better 🤨,some of you people are fine in gutter.
And i don't think how straight men relize how they drag themselves.
Ya'll sleep with a women that you just met and later call her "natsy and easy" for sleeping with YOU? So basically, she has to lack self respect to allow YOU inside of her body. And y'all comment "Daddy Issues" or "Fatherless activities" under videos of women twerking. So if she is that way because her father ran off then you agree! MEN ARE THE PROBLEM! At the same time Y'all ask why feminists bash men all the time but the only men that we criticize are misogynist,predators, abusers and extra ..so if you guys think that we are bashing men in general, then you are the one who thinks that men are trash!!

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Hello there. I'm a 19 year old girl(about to be 20)
So here's the thing...I've been in a serious relationship (relatively), a not-so-serious relationship, a friends with benefit relationship, an unclassified relationship....and ppl..NONE OF IT WORKS. I just cannot find the right person. And don't mistake 'right' for 'perfect'..I'm not looking for perfect. I might be oblivious, but not that much. I just really want to settle. I wanna meet the right guy, stay with him through thick n thin and tell my kids 'we met when we were teenagers????'

Dmo gnbare lay 'sex mareg efelgalehu' teblo yeteletefe ymesl andn sew le samnt salawara they come at me like 'sex enarg????' ...seriously ppl.

I've been asked for this shit by all the partners in the relationships I listed above and currently, I despise even the thought of sex. I'm a virgin and I fear the stupidity, ignorance and genuine sgtna of the men around me might force me to stay that way.

Call me naïve but I just wanna meet some one online or in person who I can talk to as just friends for a couple of years and then we suddenly realize we're meant to be more...????

Bcha I don't even know wat I'm asking you guys for...I probably just needed to hear (read) myself talk (type)

Thanks anyway.

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I was always against the idea of venting and all, but I gotta get this off my chest. M 21 y.o here. So there's this girl in my campus and it's been almost 2 yrs since we started talking. We talk a lot (or atleast used to) on tg and I honestly enjoy every fucking minute I spend talking to her. I can't say anything on her behalf, but she clicks with me so well like nobody else, and I'm starting to worry that I'll never meet someone like her. She has anti-social phases and I have had my hardest times tryna be close to her. Fun fact we don't even say hi to each other menged lay ketegenagnen, despite us talking about everything and nearly everyday on tg. I'm so fucking tired of passing her by on streets and pretending I didn't see her. I tried to make it sth real, sth that's not just a virtual thing but it didn't work out. Never have I given this much effort into a girl, but lets just say she has this boundary that she won't let me pass. I have feelings for her but I don't really mind being her bestie. And the worst part is I just can't see her caring side. She says we are friends but c'mon a friend would, at the very least, wish you a goodluck on your exams or asks you how it went. I mean how wouldn't you say your wishes to a friend knowing that he has exams the next day? I surely know that if I stop talking to her, our friendship comes to an end. And I constantly can't have the energy, right? And recently I told her that I'm crushing on her (or she kinda knew). She has a dude and I would've been okay if our friendship was great, and the fact is, it isn't. I'm in a middle of nowhere and I'm really tired of constantly throwing efforts into something with no fucking positive outcomes.

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So this is my story im happier than i used to be but the thing is i am a univeristy student about to be 3rd year before going to univeristy i was all alone in a big house i was very lonely i didnt have anyone my age i felt alone only daughter i have my mom and dad but whenever they go i felt alone my mom is sweet women so after i finish highschool i also had allergic reaction to the shower of the house maybe its because i did not like the house so i cant shower and i couldnt handle it anymore the loneliness and allergy everything so i asked them when i finish highschool i want to move out beka i cant do this so surprisingly they said alright but the house they got for me is very expensive 6000 birr a month and now im 2nd year shower very good i dont feel lonely nomore but the money😭they pay for it but i couldnt go on no more what if they are struggling to pay my house rent eyalku techeneku i cant even see my mom eyes nomore i feel sad so today i told her whatever happenes i dont want you to pay nomore and shower lela bota eyareku i can get back to that lonely place alkyt and am i wrong?

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Hey you guys how are u all doing? I hope all great and stuff. So I am here to ask everyone to give me an opinion on stg that I am planning to do. So I am girl and been dating this guy for 2 years. I mean we had our the best and happy moments together. But then again dude could be emotionally abusive. Like a lot more abusive and even calls me names and the names are like Soo uk god damn. And his excuses were like I didn't mean to, it was out of anger. And his way of showing love and affection for me depends on his mood. The worst part is when I don't tell him about my life he gets pissed and when I do especially the dark side of it he freaks out and say why did u tell me?and shit. Let's not even talk about the past where he cheated or showed me his interest for another woman. I pretend to fool myself like maybe we weren't that into eachother. But I actually was. He even used to get pissed when I told him I loved him more than anything.
Now he says that back but the names and some stuffs didn't stop. But you know no talking about the past as long as I kept up with it uk. But even right now his way of hurting me changed but he didn't. Yet again I am so in love with him (Cringey ). But it starts to feel like I am the one who's trying to keep us together. So I am trying to keep my distance from him but what if I make a mistake and lose him? Would I be able to handle life without him? I really don't know what to do.

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I lost everything. 5 internships this year alone ruined the chance to become medalist from my section (I am college student) and my suicidal ideations resurfaced anyone who has gone through the same thing please give me advice I have lost my will to keep going

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Something I found while reading, hope it helps some of u guys.

in one study, they asked supporters of two presidential candidates (George W. Bush and Al Gore) how happy or unhappy they expected to be if their candidate won or lost. 4 Then a month later, after Bush won, they went back and asked people how happy or unhappy they were about the outcome. Bush supporters were less enthused than they expected to be and Gore supporters were less upset than they expected to be.
But here’s the kicker: five months later, psychologists asked the same people how happy/upset they remember being after Bush won, and across the board people exaggerated how they had actually felt at the time.
Bush supporters remembered being happier than they were, and Gore supporters remembered being more upset than they were. It seems that our estimations of how happy/unhappy we are become more and more exaggerated the further away from the present they occur.
This means that horrible family trip that we hated so much as a kid probably wasn’t as bad as we thought it was, and winning the Call of Duty 4 tournament we practiced so hard for won’t actually be as enjoyable as we expect. The reason for this is that our minds aren’t capable of remembering every tiny detail of experience, nor are they capable of predicting every detail of experience either. As a result, our mind takes the general vision of an experience (past or future) and fills in the blanks. If what we remember was somewhat painful and unenjoyable, we just assume that all of it was painful and unenjoyable. If, in our future fantasies, all we can imagine are the enjoyable and exciting aspects of an experience, our mind goes ahead and fills in the blanks and assumes everything about the situation will be great.
That's all I Got🙏🏾

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Is it ok to want to find closure from your rapist? Is it okay to want to talk to him or confront him about what he did? Is it okay to want to hear him say sorry? Is it okay to feel this way or am I just crazy or weird?

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Girl 19. So.. I was a feminist. Like a real hard core feminist. My whole existence seemed like it had a purpose, that is to be a feminist and to help my fellow sisters. I didn't just go around saying I was a feminist though. I did everything for that belief, i started campaigns, movements, charity and all that. Like I said I "was" a feminist. Am not anymore because I realised something. Men will be men. I am gone say this real clear. 95% of men are trash. Period. Am being generous saving the 5%. Anyway, I learned to live with it. I accepted the creatures that I was made to live with which consist of half the population. This is just the way they are, can't do shit by being a feminist. I will admit some things have changed by feminism. But still there is something in them that makes them men. I have learned to live with it. I have found my inner peace.😇😌

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Hi I am dude and I still think about my ex it's been 1 and a half year since we last spoke I was a total jerk let me start from the beginning I think we met almost 3 years ago its was pretty casual they were ditching class I was sitting alone listening to music they came by we talked we exchanged numbers within 3 weeks we are in relationship idk how it happened but we clicked but we only talked in telegram when we meet in person I was not as comfortable as talking to her in text and voice messages but we named kids 🤦‍♂ and I got scared!  the commitment☠ I suggested we should break up she broke down I can still feel her pain she gave me Room to apologize but I was relieved at moment I didn't wanna get back together but that was one my worst mistake in my life she was that kind of person most people wouldn't be grateful for but when she leaves you would end like me sitting in the pile of remorse one thing I learned tho pain really changes people it did not only change me but her too back then I was this spoiled brat who is not grateful for what he has I was soo materialistic and my parents obviously could not afford me I wouldn't blame them I use to get so irritated when this four words come out of my dad mouth "I don't have money" so I took matters to on my hands and tried to make money I wasted 3 years the only thing i got was depression and she didn't like this materialistic me she thought I was too obsessed with money she was totally right I wouldn't miss one unboxing and reviewing video she was the most minimalist person you could ever think of she was happy by what she got and i ruined it for her after we broke up she became materialistic Idk how it happened the best reason I could possibly think of is I left her without an explanation I only said its was me and I was right this commitment was 📈 anyway she took it really hard and she might thought the reason I broke up with her is she is not caught up in this world yet chasing shiny stuff trying to show the lives your not living or maybe I overthinked it but I am pretty sure she changed alot and a year and half ago I think I found the voice messages I saved it in my clouds incase she deleted it and she did right after we broke up listening to it was not a good idea
Being depressed, heartbroken and feeling her pain that I made her go through I just couldn't stop the self hatred all the things I did not only to her but everybody else it just kept coming and I couldn't take it anymore so I apologize to her and you know she is beautiful from the inside out when she replied with lovely words made me feel better about myself and she changed me alot I am very happy by what I got it's just life takes the hard way teaching me a lesson and this was not for your guys It was meant one person and not my ex either i met this lovely girl after after my ex politely turned me down and i didn't expect nothing esle I just wanted her to accept my apologies and she did 🙂 and life goes on and this lovely girl I promised myself i would treat her like angel and I thought she would heal my scars from the past but she finished it off 🤡but I wouldn't blame her for it was meant to be.👆

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Hi guys🤗 ....here is the thing I'm a girl and for the Past two days ,i was with My bf and we Were having sex too many times.I can't even count ☹️and now my thing has become very very red and it hurts so much 😥 I'm burning what should I do?

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Why's suicide so bad? Why does everyone keep telling me taking your own life is cowardly and selfish? Do they know what it feels like? What it is to have no hope? To be born from illiterate and poor parents whom not only hate themselves but make you hate yourself too? What it is to be a stress ball for a single parent's frustration? To be broken, both mentally and spiritually? To have questions unanswered and a gloomy future? To have nowhere to go? Everytime i get close to someone they proceed to efficiently hurt me, make me insecure about myself and what i don't have. Everytime i love someone, even if it's reciprocated the gaps between us feel too big and life becomes bitter again. Where can i go where i wouldn't feel inferior? Except ofcourse end it all.

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I suddenly listened Gosaye's music 'ewedihalew bila' I felt that fr... I tried to move.. i tried to hide my pain... eshi mn larg... I decided wrong decisions for not to be close to you... left out from addis... got new direction for life... gn It didn't work... eshi mn larg.. life is unfair ewnet how dare i miss u koy.. u are the one who broke me eko...alchalkum... eshi mn larg..

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Hey guys i really need u'r help i have been in a relationship for more than a year now ena my bf uses every suse u can think of ena slemakom minamin sawaraw bizu family issue endalebet ena stressun relief miyareglet esu bicha endehone yinegregal ena bezi miknyat ansmamam currently gin sekro eyedewele mayhone neger yinageregal z next day ehen issue sinanesaw tifatun wede ene yazorewal ..am a virgin ena z fact that am planning to stay that way till marriage affect eyaregew endehone ena bicha behone way tifatega yaregegal ...ena min hone meselachu akum maleten he took it as a sign of conditional love and he said he want unconditional love like z way he loves me...so what do u suggest what would u do if u find u'r self in this situation

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