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hi hw r u all i hope ur fine so here it goes im a girl who have it all hard i mean since my chilhood life hasn't been treating me well i didnt have normal childhood ive been exposed to things and yea life goes on i passed it as a teenager i wasn't the fun girl or smart one i was just average girl quiet doing good at school but let me tell u i didnt have it easy my parents used to beat me or scold me for not getting good grade so changed i focused on my studies and get good grades thinking it will make me happy but no i was depressed i wasnt happy i was just living in my own world my mentality wasnt good but i cant talk to any friends or family we all know how people in our society dont want to talk abt mental health so i suck it up and lived i used crying at night as a coping mechanism and i make my priority on getting good grades an being doctor i was obssesd with it that keeps me alive u know i had susucidal thought yaw i passed it then boom grade result came back and ya i didnt get to go yo medicine all my dream came to end but anway i lived as it is given go to campus meet people learn to laugh but i was not happy maybe i dont know wat happines is so i made few good and bad friends but stiil keep learning and focus on getting grades i wasnt great but i wasnt bad too studying was like my get away mechanisim then i met a guy if u ask me wat my love life was i had someone i love like childhood thing yaw it didnt workout so the guy i met he changed my life i find new thing to look up to love at first he was my friend but that changed to something i loved him but u can guess he didn't love me back its ok we continue to be friend gen yaw it didnt workout we had fight over fight and covid hits then boom i lost it all it sarts boilling my emotion all and all and we had a fight during that time and it ended so that broke me so hard and fam saw it and but life goes on i cried tried sucide gain weight so fast family commented on it so istart getting in shape work out and that changed me i start being happy but then i have to go campus so when i did i met with that guy again and we fight as always gen there was a change he showed feeling ena we start dating but it wasnt easy we fight yaw life is not easy so i hande it but now it came to point where we will be apart and i cant do anything abt it why does life have to take everything i love it may not seem a problem for some of u but im hurting GOD has been ignoring my wishes or dreams yaw i will live then get married to someone have a child work and die at last gen it doesnt feel good it hurts

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Hey I am a girl and 21 the thing is I sweat like a lot after my grandmother passed away it really got worse idk if it's related but when I heard she passed away my one arm got like paralyzed for a moment just since that I sweat like hell and it's getting worse this days. It's just my armpit n if it's too hot my back too if anyone had the same condition and got better pls share thanks in advance.

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I really believed she was the one , she had me thinking I was in love and stuff and I spent so much time and attention on her and she really hit me with the " we should be friends ,bestfriends even " and it really broke my heart and now we don't even talk ,she just ignores me and I'm done with her but she really messed me up ,I don't even feel like dating anyone anymore it's been 4 months and I still avoid flirting ......she just was immature, took guys attention and emotions as a game cause I wasn't the only guy she did this to and used them for attention,she went through 5 guys in 2 years

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Hi everyone I'm a girl 26yr old and I don't have a bf ..the thing is I had a bf 3 years ago and we stayed for only 6 month then we broke up now he have a gf but I can't forget him I tried to move on and seeing some one then I will lost my feelings no one can't be like him he was my firs😭now he started taking to me and we met in person once I was happy for that but now he started calling me "my sis" he mentioned this word in every texts 🙆‍♀I can't hold this now 😭BZW he knows everything about me even about those guys after him,so what should I do? Please help me 😭

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Hey everyone, I am about to say something controversial and I hope nobody gets offended.

So, I live around a church that tends to get very loud sometimes (when there is an important day coming or when it is fasting time)- and by this I mean the ground gets shaken type of loud. I don't know what to do to help me sleep or do some work at home. I do understand that the event is important and I don't want to offend anyone, I am just curious to see if anyone has the same experience and has a solution.

Thank you.

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Hey pepps, hw yall , so here's the thing, I am really obsessed with my self. Bka, I can't stop it. I literally don't give a fuck about anyone, I am selfish for myself. I make fake ass scenarios for my self, about me and my self. Everytime I see my self on the mirror ong like sth excitement comes out of the blue. I feel shocked. I wanna kiss myself, and I wanna marry myself too. These thing began 3 years ago , now it really grow and I can't stop it. My confidence will literary touch the sky, I don't have any friends, my family are always mad, like why I am always by myself with myself? My cousins which used to be my besties are r getting mad 🙂🤣🤣, like I don't make that much time for them like I used too, and the thing rn is I wanna make some time for ppl like I wanna be sweat, kind and shit. But I can't. Me doesn't allow me. It's always me to me, me over me. Me and me. I would kill for my own happiness. I care for my self and everything like a very caring mom can take care of her baby. I am the mom for me, and a baby for me. I wish i could run to the beach and hug into my own arm. I can't stop talking myself to the mirror. I don't like everything about me, I LOVE EVERY FUCKING THING ABOUT MEEE. Ima about to worship myself like, I am so obbssed, and I feel like everything deserve for me, the sky , the ocean. One day I go to the supermarket and by myself a bunch of red flowers chocolate and everything. I spoiled my self so hard, more than the Kardashians spoil there kids, so help like I just kind of want to be sweet to ppl, and shit. But🤮🤮, I hate it,





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Do you remember last Saturday ለመገናኘት ተቀጣጥረን but something came up and ሳንገናኝ ቀረ ።...and ቤት ስገባ this old song by Sergualem Tegegn was playing on the radio
አንቺ አካል እንግዳ እንግዳ ጠብቀሽኝ ብቀር
አንቺ አካል እንግዳ እንግዳ ሳላገኝሽ ብቀር
አንቺ አካል እንግዳ እንግዳ ጠማሽኝ እንደ ጉድ
አንቺ አካል እንግዳ እንግዳ ራብሽኝ እንደ ጉድ
That song hitted me different that day.
I fell in love for this beautiful and kind soul you got. And I am happy. My mind is preoccupied with nothing but with the thought and idea of you. Whenever I have a thing or two I rush to you or pick up my phone and talk to you. And whenever I listen to a good music It is you who pops out in my mind.
You are all I ever wanted. You have filled the void inside me. You are kind and caring. You always see the good in people. You were always there when I needed you. And compared to you all other things seemed less and rubbish.
But sometimes I feel like You are too good to be true. And I feel like that I am dreaming and you are that unreal entity in my dream. And I fear that one day when I wake up from my dream you will not be there. And like all dreams what I remember will be vivid and fuzzy. And like all dreams puff you will fade away and I will return to my sad and real life.
But here I am listening to your talks and enjoying your laughs yet feeling guilty that I have cheated on my sadness and misery with you and my happiness.
You came into my life with this charm and a heart full of love. And you unwire and unlearn all I know and learn of this world. And you wake me up from my deep sleep and changed the way I see the world.
Yet here I am looking for misery on days of my happiness. Yet here I am with you and doubting your existence. Here I am having something so real and good yet suspicious and questioning and scared of it. Yet here I am having difficulty unwiring and unlearning of things I were thought and learn.
Isn't it ironic that sometimes we look for sadness on times we are happy. Isn't it out of sorts that sometimes we long for the past which in a way was shitty than the present. Isn't it foolish that sometimes we get scared of something so good and throw it down the pit. Isn't it a sad reality that sometimes we doubt the now and the real and look for the unknown and the unreal. Isn't it sarcastic that Sometimes the hardest thing in life is to unlearn and unwire of the things you were thought and know

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Hey guys i relly really need to vent.....everyone knows i sooo crazy and funny yes that's truth,there is some people that thinks i will never cried and get bored like i'm soo sociable that much.but no one understand me why..i choose crazyness bcz i don't wanna feel my pain,don't wanna feel myself it's been long time i stoped listen to yself cz everything is bad inside and it hurts so i choose to be crazy and to ignore evetything,but it's hard to contunue in this way like i can't countie from the rest of my life like this .. so should i listen to my self even it hurts or what can i do please say something.

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So I don't know what I'm supposed to do, is it wrong to expect the love and affection you to someone back? Is it wrong to be upset when someone you consider your close friend forgets your birthday? Is it wrong to want to be loved? Like my friends might love me but somehow I need reassurance from time to time, I need them to tell me how much I mean to them once in a while because it just makes me happy, I always tell them that I love them and how much they mean to me but somehow I don't have anyone that tells me that and it's very upsetting, is it wrong expecting this from friends? I mean I don't mind it if they expect anything from me because I know I'll always be above and beyond everyone's expectations because I literally can't sleep if one of my friend is upset me and they mean the world to me so what am I supposed to do to get just a lil affection???🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭

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Heres the thing me n my cousin are at the same age we grew up close but now something is different i think she have sexual feeling for me now . She's making me see her naked , touching her self , having long eye contact, and this signs are increasing intensity recently

Wht shd i do she was very innocent type of girl i don't know what got in to her its like she's completely different person this days she even bumps to me intentionally rub against me where ever i lay down

I dont know what to do how to tell her to stop and now im scared if im gona lose control

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Married. Over 10 years. Kids. A year ago, I was chatting with a young woman online, flirting. My wife found it. She moved out of the house, said she couldn't believe me anymore. The chat was totally wrong, but I really had no intention of cheating on her in real life. That's not just it though. There was some DD element in our relationship, and I thought that spiced up our sex life (and it did). She said that became "a wake up call" for her and said what we had was "not normal". The problem is not that she thinks (although it did bother me big time that she did not talk to me about how she felt all those years), but she talked about it to all her friends, and our mutual friends (essentially all friends of mine). She showed them screen shots of the chat I had with the girl online, and said she is "scared" of meeting me even in public space. Anyway, fast forward a few months, we got back together. The thing is, when we got back together, she got this whole different attitude. She'd forward my texts to ppl, every argument we had became a matter of life and death. The other day, I told her her phone was busy for a long time when I was calling her, and she blarted out "እና ገና ለገና አንተ ትደውላለህ ብዬ ሰው አትደውሉ ልል ነው?". I didn't reply. As a final try to mend things, I sent her a long text (because when we talk, the topic gets diverted) explaining that I love her, I'm sorry for everything and blah blah. And then she replied saying she can't trust me, that we are done as a couple, and thus needs to talk to others about what is going on between us to check its "normality". I don't mind she talks to others about the details of "us" at this point, but she talks to EVERYBODY, including people we are not close with at all, my family etc etc. And then she said to pray and wait. We are still living under one roof, and I am watching every word I say, every emotion I display (because it gets interpreted in the cruelest way possible). I want it to work esp. for the sake of the kids. But I don't know how to keep this going, and I'm not sure if I can. Anything?

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Ok so here goes nothing
So the thing is that I was in this serious relationship with this guy 9 months ago obviously we broke up and the reason was that he told me that he didn’t love me anymore and to be honest I saw it coming at the time
The break up was really tough not gonna lie because he wasn’t the first guy who lost feelings for me out of the blue and trust me that’s not an easy thing for a very insecure person like me besides he was my first love
Now that I have told you the story this is where the problem starts few weeks ago I started taking this extra class and guess what? he ended up taking the class too . The first time I saw him I was extremely in shock I didn’t even know what to do nor say but then after a few days started to have feelings again but then he called me asking for a note and all so I ended up finding out we are cool now the problem is that I’m still in love with him!!
Like man it’s been 9 months how and the worst part is that he asked me so many times to get back together in those months and I said no like I was 100% sure that I was over him I don’t know where this feelings are coming from I still have the same exact feelings for him as I used to have when we were together I’m not gonna lie I want him back so bad but I can’t risk the possibility of getting my heart broken again and I would talk to my friend about this but I know for a fact that they’re gonna say that he ain’t shit and the I deserve better and I know that that’s why I’m not going to get back with him but God how much I think about him every day, every time and every second ( this ones a lil clingy ngl😂 ) but seriously I’m obsessed with this guy demo he’s so hot when did he get so hot ?!
Point is idk what to do should I know my worth and live like shit loving the guy that might love me too but can’t treat me better without ever being with him or get back with him and live in a toxic relationship? You guys answer me this and thank you in advance ❤️

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So it's basically my first time here .... Eeeelooo ma ppl... so here is the point I am very motivated and passionate person... like in every kinda way.
In work, in my studies even wid my frnds.
but I fail to see the point at night I sit before my computer and analyze my life.... I sit back and observe everything and I just don't see the point...
my love life is at an end I suck at it.... I think I am way good to ppl and I just can't read in between the lines.
ppl always make me feel bad, u name it frnds, boyfriends.. family...
i mean ik I do have the potential I just don't know why I am surrounded with suchlike people... that pulls me down instead of supporting me to go further...
And now I just want to distance my self off everything sometimes even vanish.. maybe forever... I always get hurt constantly and I seem to handle it well.
I am the wingman for everyone, the funny one the one who's there when in need but when I am the one stuck in the mud I see no one but myself pulling my shit together and idk guys fr... it's depressing sometimes I try my best to put on a happy face every time but as the day passes by I wish I passed away too and idk what to do fr.

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Okay hi I need to vent idk about what but let’s see….
So Im a senior in high school and I would ave to say my life is literally perfect I mean I’m in a good shape I have good grades my fam is not crazy rich but we are pretty good I am religious. I have prayed and asked egziabeheren and enatun dengel mariamn everything that you ever wanted and you might say it’s a lie gn I promise I got everything. The only problem is me it’s like I don’t keep my end of the deal but they still haven’t failed me and I’m very glad about that. When I say I’m the problem it’s like I lie I masturbate I hold grudges I listen to songs I dance I watch pornography I hate I use bad words I judge people beatekalaye I sin and I hate it. And kehulum belay the masturbation Ian’s I was thinking of neseha megebating gn idk how to tell the priest like in Amharic like how could I say those words how would I say what I did… but I guess that’s the whole point of it a. Like us telling the priests our sins and meshemakeking and metsetseting that’s what it’s gonna take tselot tsom and metsetset I just need help on how to stop my self from masturbating and how to tell the priest that I masturbated like the exact words. Pls if you have any idea on how to do those two things help me but if ur one of those who are like “ masturbating is normal it’s okay there ain’t no God anyway be open minded”dudes pls save me the lecture like dont spread ur stupidity on to others just be teachable and learn the right way

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I don't know how to start and I know he used me will .to satisfy his sexual interest by convincing me it's not . I was sexual assault today . It was so hard being help less .I know for like 2 days .till today I don't know that u can use some by saying I am protecting u . I trust him bc he always talk abt how much he loved his wife and children . I didn't know that he would have carriage to do that. I was wearing long dress t-shirt alebabesesh nw endaybaal enkuwan . don't know becha this yr was taf someone plz recommend me therapists . I feel numb .yehi tengnnet ayedelm . Plzzz some one help

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Idk who wana hear this but here goes
Y is everything hard for good hearted people :( Y is everyone take them as a joke Y!!? And Y are people heating Y not love , I sometimes wonder how can a human be so cruel 😔 I mean we forgot who we are we are mortal eko!! who knows wht would happen? And people have no faith now days .... Y is this generation satanic we forgot our God can do anything we forget he the one who have solution we completely think we can make it through wiz out pray or asking. We even opt for help from people than our God!!!
And I realized that patient is everything !! We need that and who knows when someone be bad for u or hurts u or when u have that one person whom u trust the most breaks u apart that u think ya won’t trust anyone anymore! Have faith I mean I am not saying trust people but have faith that one day u get wachu want or wayyyyy more than that cuz our God is not human cuz he loves u cuz he want u
Pls don’t take it as mere so I am saying
And pls don’t be harsh on me 🥺
Esty let me tell u wht happened to me
I have been loner my entire life I was the girl ya know who had no one and cuz I rather be lonely that to fake wiz people and that was me and people tend to hate that but I didn’t care but it hurt to have no one and I was that girl whom no one chooses to be wiz because of my personality and my look .... but suddenly something changed “puberty” yea that shit hits me hard !!!! then people was like who ya ! how? Y ? Whtt?!!!😂 and I had friends and all that good stuffs but the same me it me eko but they don’t care they are like I love her personality she unique 😒 I mean whtt !? I was the the same girl whom ya all refused to be wiz that girl whom was a trash ( yemn maskabet 👏) god and all I am saying is be u !!! lelawn egzeabeher work adero yazegajewal
And people can change I mean don’t trust on like I trust her/him they are good and they like deza denzi remember people can change!!^•^

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I hope someone helps me I am really depressed I had a friend he was sooo sweet and caring well I only know him for 2 weeks but he treated me like I have never been soo I was there for him I stayed up all night till he finishes his work and go back home because I really loved him and cared about him but well we had to meet and it was the best day ever I have never felt like being myself with anyone like I did with him we had a great time and so did I then we thought why wouldn't we meet again and then we did we had soo much fun and maybe I sound crazy but we talked like 3 hr a day for those 2 weeks it was like I new him my whole life and I kinda loved him but it was a forbidden love he recently got our of a relationship and stuff and I said I would understand and wait even if it took 5 years for him to forget about her but then he didn't call all day and I was soo worried i couldn't reach out to him I texted but he didn't reply I was scared to death that something happened to him but in the morning he texted that he couldn't be my friend cause I was forcing him to be in a relationship which I didn't i was worried sick about him of course I love him and he is my friend but I didn't even say anything he just left me all alone I was in a bad place before he came into my life but that all changed the minute he promised he would be her for me and I believed him I just needed a friend to hug me be with me is that too much to ask after all I have been through being raped being betrayed being bit up till I bleed 😭😭 don't I deserve happiness even if its from a friend even if I end up all alone I keep making things hard for myself crying every night remembering those times and his smile and the way he huged me mnamn I need help plsss I have been hurt alot I don't wanna commit a suicide like i did before I just need a friend 🥺😭😭

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Hello guys
I hv been venting here about my relationship and it helped. Thank you. But i think my situation needs more like a professional Advisor anybody there who knows a relationship advisor? I googled and got some psychotherapists but thats not what i wanted. Someone who specialized on relationships
Better in person but
Am fine if its on phone as well.
Thankyou in advance

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Hey guys I really need to vent rn and am guy teenager,
So before some years I've been loving this girl lately, Like I used to love her so much and one day I proposed her as many peoples do. But she refused me because she doesn't think she is ready for relationship. I was really hurt at that time because I thought she love me because of this weird signs girls show but still she refused me and I was confused and hurted at the same time. And I tried to forget her by trying to have another gf stuff and continue with her as a friend then after years we became more close than ever as a bestfriend. And she started showing me this weird acts and signs again and I really used to love her so I loved her again rn. And I broke up with my gf because I was thinking it would work out now. But I think she is trying to work out things with her ex and get back with him. And seeing this is really hurting me rn but at the same time I dont wanna leave everything behind and leave her too because even I love her she is the reason for me to live and even my one beloved friend. And I think if I ask her again our friendship will be ruined. So what should I do?
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You all ever struggling with missing someone you should let go for your own sake
Like I met him months ago he played me well
I still don't get it why i miss him so much
Eventhough he pushed me
My heart always asks for him
And sometimes I feel like life is short so just talk to him but when I start talking the whole conversation is all on me
He replies me very late ..and generally he doesn't care at all but at the beginning when we first met
He was the one who used to text me and all
It's obvious that he isn't interested in talking to me but I feel something for him and it's being struggle for me to let go of my feelings
I don't want to start talking to him again but it's affecting me like when I talk to other guys ... Beka mnm lisaka alchlam
I'm stressing out how do I forget him I don't even know why I cry

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