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Assume you and your partner had the same religion, or you both were atheist or agnostic, then u find out your loved one changed her/his belief on God and become agnostic or atheist waym degmo the other way like was an atheist then start believing. What you gonna do?
you will try to change them or you will broke up, ways u will stay with them as they are ?
1, if u try to change them wouldn't that be "not loving them as they are " and push them ?
2, if you choose to broke up, wouldn't that be hard? coz you loved them and you have planed your future life with them. but unfortunately they aren't as they used to be.
3, if u choose to stay with them, obviously your journey wont be the same, specially if u both are devoted to what u believe in and think anything against your belief is dump, wouldn't that create disrespect between you too? if u say we can handle it with tolerance think about the family you will create family and think about ur future children too.
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I don't know whether the Admins will approve or not but here we go. I am a dude. The thing is I have been diagnosed with Anal Fissure. I have been to a specialist and he gave me an ointment. It relieved the pain for a while and then got back when I finished the medicine.

Went back again and he gave me the same ointment and told me to use a sitted bath more often ( He actually said it the first time also). I used the med and the sitted bath and stopped when I finished. It have been more than a year and the fissure is still here and is annoying and I can't move my bowels properly.

Is there anyone here who got rid of it for good?

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Hey guys, hope you're doing good. I'm a girl, soon to be 19. So I'm here hoping if you guys can give me an advice. Um so I'm light skinned. I'm half Ethiopian and even my mom who's Ethiopian is light skinned from the start. But that's not my issue. I've had skin allergies since I was a kid .I've been allergic to honey, nuts , eggs and cotton clothes. It was easy avoiding those to be healthy, but now sth came up and I'm losing my shit. Its been 2 months since my skin started to have a huge red spots. Its just like vitiligo except its bloody red. And it burns like hell and I can't sleep at night. Even on my bed, when I scoop around my skin burns. And my mother is saying its just temporary but the red spots that appeared 2 months ago are getting even redder. So now almost my entire body is covered with that and its painful to touch anything with a little bit of force. Any ideas how I can keep it in control? Because I'm not handling it well, and honestly I dont care if my skin decolorizes itself, I just want the burning sensation to stop.

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I'm a 22 girl I have been suffering from depression for a long time.Since my parents were and are the kinda of people that say what's in their mind directly they didn't choose words when they say smthg when they are mad or not when they talk to us(me and my sister) so it kinda broke my childhood my mental state usually you kinda depend on your family to support u emotionally when your a kid cause u don't know how to deal with it and yelubetem Esu lay I'm scared of telling them how I feel what I get through my day cause of the fear of what their opinion is their words will break me again yemelew nw on head yalew cause of the past and ahunem lay so because of this I don't know how to deal with guilt rejection shame disappointment embarssment they are things bottled up in my heart and it hurts. telling my friends I cant cause they don't know this side of me ena eyekeldku nw memeslachew I talked about depression one day and they thought I'm was kidding so tewekit farther menager.when ever this things happen my anxiety is back like I will remember every moment of bad things words thought not good at all.I cry till I can't breath like my hands shake my hearts so much. I forgive my parents but it's hard for me sometimes I don't know who to lean on whom trust I don't wanna to be knocked on my knees every time I need to deal with my traumas so I'm asking you how do people deal with this I want to know. I wanna be happy i need to heal from this things that I'm facing to face other things.I need to figure things out and move on in my life not living in fear and shame in myself cause of the words in NY mind.I don't even know how to love my self anymore.I dont want to be emotional needy person I need to get out of this help me!! I think I need a therapy or psychologists for my depression and anxiety recommend me if you know pls.

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Hi everyone this is my first time venting hope you can hear me out though its not something big just needed opinion so its a question for guys is it ok if girls asks you out or do u feel embarrassed the thing is there is this guy ho is giving me the look and ever time I turn our eyes meet and I just can't hold it anymore so is it ok if I first approach him and talk to him thank you

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Hi there the thing is i am in my twenties i cant enjoy anything im actually so lonley and idk if you could relate but i just want to be alone and i feel lonely😂 i push every one away but i want to talk to them my social anxiety is getting worse and i have no friends my fam are toxic and i feel better alone than with them i feel degraded please any tips would help it just sucks and hurts

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Bare with me and tell me what I should do say do this it'll help do that go here and there please
I have a Problem with my self and my mother so my parents divorced and I grew up with my father and I Recently started living with my mother.
I am talking about me who deals with migraine a Complete PSYCHO and an OCD who lose her shit every single day and my mom who deals with fucking bipolarity and A.d.h.d guys my life is hell I swear she is not really Diagnosed but I see her Behavior and what I read is Exactly her
She does what I hate all day and when I get pissed I get sick my nose bleeds and I have 0 like 0 fucking patience I screammm When I am I can't Control it I swear she does something I can't stand and I just list everything she did to me since childhood ( its toxic I know) and I spend the night crying feeling bad that I did that.
I hate loud foot stapes I hate when someone breaths loud talks loud and doesnt keep things clean and takes their hands of off my stuff and I like small talks you know I hate long Conversations I wanna talk the main point and uk stop talking and my mom you guys my mom talks veryyyy Loud and one minute she ask me what she should cook for breakfast before I Answer she says Something about something and when I'm about to answer that another question comes up and She just sits on my bed and Leaves her socks on the floor and touches my something and leaves it on the bed like how fucking hard is it to put something back to its place how harddd is it
And there are times when she is Completly Sleepless for the whole Night and that she moves around the house doing none sense see now I feel sad with what she is going thru but I got my own Pain too she just moves around the house touching things making loud voices Without Caring she is Disturbing the house
One time she couldnt sleep and thought of just collecting her dirty cloths and Putting everything in the fucking washing machine do you know how fucking loud a washing machine is and it was ke lelitu 7 seat😭
Tell me how do I get this woman to collect her thoughts to stand for a second and think what she is doing if it makes sense if its useful if its affecting anyone else also how do i help her with her mood swings that I didnt mention and should be mentioning more than anything cause there are times when the house is so fucking Chaotic because of her she wakes up from sleepless night and choose violence she fights with everyone she says rude things for no Reason and this goes on for like 2 weeks and the other 2 weeks goes like with her laughing alone and jumping like a toddler 😭 What is this if its not bipolarity tell me what is Should be doing i'm crazy she crazier how am I suppose to not be botherd and maintain a good relationship with my mother
Oh and by the way my mother is more Suicidal than me I swear I swear sometimes that stress me out
We both deal with same amount of depression and negativity if you're wondering she is in her 30's never dated nobody after my dad nothing in life worked out for her honestly same thing happening to me everyday we both struggle and it feels like I'm living jer story it pains me everytime I see her down bad she feels unloved useless and you know she's like in the middle of a conversation something hits her and she says why am I the way I am or like zare bemot or tenesche betefa 😭 And thats what goes on in my mind to you know
this some serious shit I need to fix yo help me out

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Hi guys.....this is gone be long but plz read it I am here to ask u one thing to pry for me ....... this is what happens I am 22 cumpus student ......and until a month ago I was this like nerd medical student....... and this happened .....me and my friend ware talking mnm ena they start talk about dating guy sex mnm and they all are like having sex mnm......ena I start thinking about it and i was saying like school isn't everything mnm.......so I like wesenku laregewu ... ( Degmo like kind of break up with most of my ex bf bcz of sex) ......and there was this guy like ( he was like my crush high school lay) ena he ask me out neger and I say yes and we want few dates but one day we start drinking ( I don't drink that often so I get drunk) bcha he ask if I want to get room and I say yes ......bcha we do it .....and it was painful and I start regretting it the next day.......and he literally ghost me and I promise my self I will never see him.....bcha the pain last like a week and I got my period then my friends told if I didn't do it again it will start hurt mnm so I call him and we did it and he say he say like want keep dateing mnamn and say he ghost me coz he didn't know what to say mnm but I say no so we go our separate ways................this happened now .......I should have see my period like 2 day ago..... still it didn't came 1st thought it was the post pill..... But I am scared like crazy I took a pregnancy test but It came out negative but still I don't trust that kind of testers . .....I was thinking about going to clinic but I know they use the Same kind of testers + If I get pregnant the 2nd time we had sexit is to early too tell.... bcha I am thinking to order my self a test and do it In the hospital ( I study there)........but if get pregnant gatan it is the end of the world for me ....I know I will kill my self ya I know there are possibleits abortion mnm but the problem is there is only one Mari stops clinic in our town and my dad work there ......and private clinical.... they say it is like 2000 and I don't have that kind of money in my hand and I can't ask my family and If kekoye degmi it will complicate things( I can't tell the guy degmo)....... now I can't sleep ,eat,study I am just crying all day........bcha plz pry for me I have still chance like not being pregnant ...and that will save my life.....and girls plz think again before u done anything evething has it own conciconce.... and anyone who took post pill and got her period late plz tell me how long.....I am scared kmr I don't want die...I want to live and see my self called a doctor.........but only GOD know....if u believe in GOD please remember me with ur prayers u could save someone's Life..... plz don't talk about like if I get pregnant to not do anything too keeping the baby coz I remember like when I was grad 11 4 tega wetche my father almost fainted gatan and this will kill him...bcha tnx for listening

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This is going to be long but i want to share my thoughts. What are we doing people? what is this country becoming? we are divided more than ever where are we going?? I had a panic attack when hachalu died & after the madness i thought it would be the end of it but thing's are getting worse. Do we really have to experience what the people from Rwanda or Syria experienced?? This thought alone gives me anxiety & makes me want to loose hope. I know the people of our country are humble & god fearing but it takes one incident to create a never ending cycle of war & horror. I want to end this by saying let's listen to each other let's see the other sides story & let's understand where they are coming from instead of judging or siding against one group/ethnicity.
Thank you for reading & god bless or whoever is up there bless you❤️

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Hello, a 20 something human being here. So the thing is that i was once deeply in love..things didn't work in the end and i ended up being painfully hurt, it took me everything i had to keep going. Fast forward, i am now free of the bitterness, anger and hatred towards the person that betrayed me. Even tho the person did me wrong, now i wish nothing more than happiness to them. Ena i realized that i have moved on for real ahun. The problem is that i completely lost any attraction towards other people, yflg bmokr i can't seem to feel the connection with people. Eshi esu ykr gn ahun worry yargegn is when i started to feel disconnected towards my family too, whenever i am around with people i care about, be it my family or friends, i get this anxious feeling in my stomach where it makes it hard for me to breath probably and cause of that i tend to avoid being in the same room as the other members of my family, i lost almost all my friends cause i won't pick up when they call, or show up when they make plans mnamn. In short the people i love they make me feel threatened somehow, i don't feel safe when I'm around them anymore. It's like i have become allergic to people. The only people i feel comfortable with r strangers, enesunm only the ones i talk on some randombots. Bezi keketlku i know that I'll be estranged from every person i have ever known and be truly all alone. If u guys have gone through this please share some advices.

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Hi people’s I am venting today but it’s nat a vent it’s more of a question am a dud 20 new for cumpas I have a girl who I loveeee soooooo much soooo much and I’ll be going to adama real soon and the thing is I feel like we will lose our closeness like end-up separating and I don’t want that to happen we’ve been together for a year we’ve been through sooo many fights soooo many things and my question is do u think we can be close in long distance most of u will say no man it’s nat but advices people who have been in these situations what’s the wrong things to do what are the right things to do I’m sooo ready to do the work for her and ik she is to so help me🙏🏼🙏🏼..thank u

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I don't know what to do I'm conflicted. A few days ago my ex contacted me and said he wanna start things over. I told him no because he would hurt me and leave me again when the going gets tough as he did before.(he has that pattern) Now I'm a bit conflicted about things I wanna give him a chance but he already proved to me he won't change his ways.(I asked him again do u think u would do the same thing again and he said I don't know) And I know that if he really loved me he would change some things.(compromise on some things)
I'm just so confused and hurt at the moment. Why would he text me back after he broke things off with me. He gave up on us not me.I gave my all in our relationship and he let me down. And now my peace of mind is interrupted. I'm a mess at the moment. I don't feel okay at all. That text shocked me to my core. I'm constantly second guessing the decision I made even if I know that it was right.(he didn't care about me). My heart aches everytime I think about it. (I really liked his annoying ass😪😪)

Just wanted to let it all out.

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Here goes nothing, so I've never felt anything in the church right, not inside not outside not nowhere, i don't know if I didn't pay attention enough or something but i never felt any 'presence' as they say. I don't know what it is, i didn't even choose to be there i just grew up into it and i just did what people told me to do and now i have all these questions in my head that i can't even ask people. And the thoughts the intrusive thoughts my Godddddd!!! This has no flow so just bear with me okay, so recently i just wanted to know better about the history about the Israelites so i started reading from Genesis and i started this like God said he made pharon(king of the Egyptians) say no and not release his people because he wanted to show he is and i just kept reading and reading and i can't help but have questions about God, and if i want to believe in in God i shouldn't question him right but i do!!! U might say God is sovereign and no one can stand up and question him. And u might also say he is righteous and nothing he does is wrong, but if we say he sovereign aren't we kinda obligated to say he's righteous. Sorry if u don't understand that 🤣. There's also the thought that i have in which i say that I'm not saying he's wrong for doing this and he's right for doing that cause he does what pleases him right, and people die, people live throughout that, so what if i don't want part in that, what if i don't want to serve God whose actions give me nightmares? What then? As i said the Egyptians kind said no because God made him say no and God showed who he is. He killed them all. He made him say no and he killed them allll, I'm sorry if I'm offending anyone but you have no idea how much i struggle with these thoughts i can't help it. I've never vented and I'm happy i did and i NEED your prayers i really need it. Sometimes i think I'm not possessed by a demon, i am the demon. Please help

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😮‍💨hey y’all how ya doin
I’m just feeling silly for venting this but who cares 😂how do I even start
So I’m a girl in Addis I have a boyfriend not expecting stg serious tho we both freaks and ever since we clicked well , uk we talk about them dirty stuff and all that and idk if it’s y’all boys thing but he loves to eat theoretically.. we never actually did anything
So I’m like thick sexy kinda girl I’m curvy and he always mimics about eating me and yess I 💯 percent want it . I would prefer a man with good eating ability than bigger size !yesss 🤷🏽‍♀️😂
So what’s my point ? Good question
I’m light skinned and my coochie is so much darker Ig that’s kinda normal … but what’s not normal isss it’s weird like u don’t understand it’s so so weird I even don’t wanna look at it 😂it’s just that I’m super clean and eat healthy drink water I’m clean .and as some point I was even worried I tried looking up for some black and weird choochies on porn and yeah there are some but Ig porn is all an act and I can’t brag anything out of it so summing things up .. Boys , especially with the urge of eating would u eat such kinda coochie all clean and good but looks hell lotta weird and for the girls do u have dark and maybe weird ones too
Any opinion would help and
I need ur honest answers.. thanks y’all 💜

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Hey guys can u suggest me a good book to read

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Hmmm...okay.....am here just to know what the easiest way to kill yourself is....i mean like less pain if possible...if not some way that no one can save me after i take the action....don't waste ur time to convince me not to do it mnamn.... i hv never been to a r/ship or any of those ppl's problem that u could solve, so it will nvr help...but telling me what i asked for will help like so much (help me)!

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Hey guys, hope y'all doing good. Before I say what Im about to say, I'd like to thank this channel's creaters for making it a place where we can let out what's bothering us and such. So, I've been trying to change my taste for books. I used to read romance most of the time and suspense every now and then. But, looking around and thinking of what's actually beneficial for my futurity, made me realize this isn't going good. So, what would you suggest as a beginning for me? A book that's not entirely about a specific topic thats other than my former preferences? Like, it has to touch lots of idea , could be history, politics, conspiracy with a little bit of love. I've read those kinds of books too to change myself but I didn't enjoy it as much as I expected. Figured its good to ask numerous people. That is all. Thanks in advance

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Hey everyone,

So I was in a relationship with this girl for few months and it wasn't great. She has a real problem with affection. She doesn't like kissing, hugging. Knowing this I was pretty sure sex was out of the question so I tried to understand her. I was hoping this was related to something in her past so I tried to show her some affection here and there so that she can be comfortable around me.

After few months, she become a different person. She was always trying to start a fight with me, and started loosing it. I didn't know what the issue was so I tried to talk her but she kept saying condescending things (it seems she wants to stop the relationship).

So we broke up. To be honest I really liked this girl. I wanted to be with her a lot and breaking up with her really hurt even though deep down I know it was the right thing to do.

What do you guys suggest I should do to move on? I am in need of a friend that can I really talk to.

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Is it true what they say about how after the first time you have sex if you dont do it again right away or the next day it will be painful. Is it scientifically proven? And also if it's true is it going to be painful for a while or everytime you have sex for the rest of your life

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Its my first time venting here . I wanted some ideas from you guys. I did sth to my bf then then we broke up and he told me he didnt want me and he said "i needed u for goods ... " and we had a bad time... After that we started talking normal and he use to care for me but now he wont care less . but i still care for him and i was trying to correct my mistakes but he is still the same and that keeps killing my moral and i am very weak now so should i stop and try to forget completely or should i keep trying.
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My wife is killing me slowly by slowly. I knew even before i married her that she was a slut but she promised me to change and ever since i married her, my life turned upside down. I loved her, i still love her and she was good for the first one year only for me to realise she was flirting with two different men on whatsapp. We had a heated argument back then we even separated because all i have been since i started seeing her is insecure that she will gladly give herself to another man who shows her attention. It was not until this January that i realised she had seen and fucked one of her men friends and since then i have been kind of sick. Every time i think about that i feel in my body like some kind of fluid that runs through my fingers and i become dumb in my joints or something. I still live with her and have sex with her once in while when i get super horny but i think her presence is detrimental to my health and i should kick her and our son who i don't think is mine out then start over again.
I wonder why women cheat on good men.

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