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Boy will this be a vent. Moving to Ethiopia for the first time ever had it's own trouble's it brought out the worst in my mother. I would get bullied in school for not being "Ethiopian" enough which is complete bullshit to my defense when I am one in every way possible and I was also bullied for my body as well. I come home and every single day my grandmother calls me αˆΈαˆ­αˆ™αŒ£ she said "αŠ αŠ•α‰Ί αˆ΅αˆˆαˆα‰³αˆαˆͺ(which is so not true) α‹²α‰ƒαˆ‹ αˆαŒ… α‹­α‹˜α‹  α‰΅αˆ˜αŒ«αˆˆαˆ½) and she would call me an immigrant and would tell me to go back to where I came from. My mother was very mean to me she calls me ugly and so I would talk back and I told her "to get the fuck off of me" once which I regret said I'm sorry and went down on her knees. Then I would get molested in school by our dean, my grandmother would fire every beautiful househelp we ever had they comforted me in ways no can even though I didn't understand Amharic back then the thing's they said gave me hope cuz I was considering suicide at that point. I would go to the suk, cook, clean do everything and she would tell me to go buy beer and homeboy followed me to my house and threatened to kill me I would tell my mother (about the αˆˆαŠ¨α‹ that was happening even though I never wore anything that would attract a man and she looked me in my eyes and said I was lying when I told her he grabbed my ass with his bare hands and he would kiss my neck hold my wrists to a point where my hands turn red.) (They would literally scream αŠ αˆ΅α‹°αŒαŒ αŠ₯α‰ α‹³αˆ»αˆˆα‹ to me and the entire neighbors knew, why would anyone care about me right.) I would go to her work place (she has a spa.) I would iron the sheets and stay overnight cuz I didn't want her to sleep on a massage table. I ran away once I had 10bucks in my pocket and the bible I had no idea where I was going I didn't know the places and it was a day before Ministry. I also packed my bags and decided to run away I asked her for my passport she said no we argued I left. It was beyond excruciating. Then we fought physically she hit me and I hit her back. መፈጠαˆͺ α‹«αˆ΅αŒ αˆ‹αŠ α‹¨αŠ• α‰€αŠ• αŠα‹α’ The cold floors where my friends where my hands where αˆ°αˆα‰ αˆ­ from the αŒŽαˆ› I got hit with. ቀይ αˆ˜αˆ†αŠ• αˆ²α‹«αˆ΅αŒ αˆ‹α’ Any ways that was something I kept hidden but decided to let go I don't know what got into me but sorry for the length of the vent. Hope all of you are okay.????????

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I'm a medical student who failed a year and also had withdrawn from the same year cause i couldn't take the stress and pressure from it. Now that you all get the gist my life has become a constant regret and reminder of how unworthy my existence is all cause i built myself as this smart girl who had a good future ahead and i know this minor set back couldn't crumble all of it but it did! It shook me to the core! i had no plan b or c and that took a toll on me. I hate this field and all it has took from me and now every time i try to study i just couldn't cause i can't seem to stop myself from wondering if all this pain is worth it and it's not! I'm not saying this just cause i failed i also see my surrounding those who are ahead of me and even those who have graduated most are still regretting their decision, depressed or using drugs as a cope up mechanism and all this for what? Societal and parental pressure and sometimes your own subconscious mind trying not to let go of that speck of yourself is what kept them going and are this the right things to base your future on? I can't shake off this thoughts or move on from them and now i'm stuck i told my parents about this and of course they didn't understand. Seeing my friends is getting harder this days cause of how they got their shit together, working and living their independent life and none of them had to struggle for 7 years. I'm lost at this point

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Hi hello I'm a guy and 20 in my life I struggle with emotions I don't handle them well , I also can't coexist with my feelings I always try to be harsh but I always back out cause i think it will make me a bad person even if it right to be harsh bzclly I can't express my emotions to some one as my mom says "lemen twa feret atelem" I will never express my emotions so can some body helpπŸ˜žπŸ˜žπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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Selam seweoch

So the thing is I have this mutual friend with my bf ena ena ahun and amet hononal malet yechalal be guadegnet ke bf ga demo 2 wer ena bezi giziyat west I realized that guadegnachn yehonew lij betam selfish enfehone...ena kene ga bezum anegenagnm ke bf ga gn hule yegenagnalu ena he is using him betammm my bf le esu sil betammmm bizu ngr argual esu gn nothing....ena i told ma bf lmn endezi endemihon ena esun yehen ngr eyaweke zm endale negeregne ena ene gn I can't let him to be like this anymore beye le bf esum endesu endihonebet areku ena our friend menaded jemere ena his selfishnessm bedemb ayenew ena gn ma bf metfo sw enadarekut tesemagn betam yewah nw leza nw he is using him ....gn demo yewah mehon tiru nwa?...gn demo bezi keketele betam yegodabignal yene bb boy plz help me mn larg.... Liju demo beka betam ego alebet ena andem esu meselegn endezi miyaregew beka hule hule ma bf yefelegwwn ngr hula yaregletal gn and kn enkuan alchelm kale yenadedl mnmn ena I don't think it's how friendship works a? So plz help me mn large ene bf liju lay endikeyerbet yarekut maybe bersu siders yemaral beye nw gn Yehe ngr chirash bfn eyanadedew ena eyasamemew nw so plz tell me wt to do

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Hi, am really stressed. I lost my virginity to my first bf. We are both Muslims. One month after that, he said he is not sure in this relationship and suggested breakup... It hurts a lot😰. That broke my heart. We dated only for 3 months, now we are not together, he is gone, just like that. The problem now is my family are asking questions related to my virginity, they are planning to give me away in arranged marriage. I told them I am, party because I didn't bled, and it was only one day we have sex, it was not also painful. Am stressing too much now, worrying abt what would happen... Would any Muslim guy marry a non-virgin girl? Would I be disappointment to my parents, I really love them and I don't want them to feel ashamed because of me....what is my fate? And what shall I do? It is urgent, helpπŸ˜₯

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This is my first time using this bit so I'm sorry if it doesn't look right πŸ˜…
I feel bad venting because so many people have way worse lives than me but venting is healthy so I might as well even if the stuff I vent is weak compared to other people. Here we go πŸ˜…

I hate everything about my life even though it's better than a lot of other people. I know my life is better than a lot if other people because I have friends with worse lives than me but I can't do anything to help them because I'm too young. I live with my mother and stepfather because I'm not 18 yet and they're homophobic and transphobic. They insult "they gays" any time they're brought up in conversation saying, "it's disgusting" and things like that. I'm gay but they don't know because I don't want to deal with their ignorant hate. My friends are lgbtq though and it pisses me off when my parental figures, the ones who should be supportive and loving no matter what, are willingly ignorant and hateful towards something that means so much to me. I resorted to... Not so good coping methods for a while and now I'll have scars for the rest of my life because I was just too pissed off at them but I couldn't do anything about it. I don't have anything that I can safely punch, I'd probably end up hurting myself if I did punch something because I'm bad at things like that, I can't scream because they'll get mad at me, all I can do is be patient and I'm not a very patient person. Then I remember other people have it even worse than me and it just makes me want to hide in a cave far away from humanity for the rest of my life. Logically I know I shouldn't be complaining since I have it better than quite a few people but it still hurts, all of it does. And then they ask why I want to move away as soon as I can? Yeah, gee, I wonder why! Totally not because you're both mentally abusive and in one case physically abusive... Totally...
Anyway, I'll stop there because I don't know how long I should be making these but I probably went over the limit πŸ˜…

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I went to church on a very hurtful day and I saw this little man named Nathaniel. I love children and he came next to me and played games on my phone he was so sweet. Then it became a habit I would go there everyday during the evening and we played this game (αŒŽαˆ› αŠ αˆˆα‹ αŠ¨α‹› α‰ α‰₯αˆ¨α‰΅ α‹­αŒˆα‹αˆ idk the name I'm sorry.) I saved every penny I ever had when I got money for allowance or anything like that and I would buy him a car or cookies or anything and I gave him my stuffed animal(Mr Sealy I got him for Christmas when I was 10.) We would play hide and seek and the way he laughed melts my heart and he was so ቀይ to a point where I looked like his mother and people asked me if he was my son. He told me α‹¨αˆ†αŠ α‰€αŠ• αŠ αŠ•α‰Ί αˆ΅α‰΅αˆ˜αŒͺ α‹°αˆ΅ α‹­αˆˆαŠ›αˆ and αŠ₯α‹ˆα‹΅αˆ»αˆˆα‹ አለኝ it took a lot from me to hold back my tears and I hugged him so tightly. I had no idea that me spending 3hours with him had an impact I made that little man happy and I love him and it showed me what type of a mother I would be and I love him and I pray for him just like I pray for everyone else.
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hey random guy wanting to spread a little positivity and love so ik its hard living in harsh cruel world ik the feeling of loneliness feeling unwanted in this world but no matter how much it gets worse dont give up dont give up on life and most importantly dont give up on ur self yeah you heard me right quitting is not an option you are beautiful u are intelligent you are charming and see those things in you believe in ur self try to blurr out the negative ones dn let negative people put trash on just cuz they are the dumpster feed you soul on what u vison ur self try new things if ur not in a good mood today listen to music read books sleep anything to drown out the negative feelings thoughts out of your life and i want to tell you something i believe in you so shall you believe in ur self i love u so shall you love ur self i care about you so shall you care about ur self just hang in there the storm thats rocking ur boat will pass as long as u keep sailing through the tides of life and at the end ull have a sunshine idk for whom this might be helpful but just sharing a portion of love for you today

keep smiling champ u can do it

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Hey.
So I am an 18 yo girl and I am a little lost ig. And lately I am feeling really empty, lonely, depressed. The thing is I am a bit socially awkward. And I just want someone to talk to. I want to listen and be heard, but not in person. I would like to have a friend who is a little bit lost too. Maybe we could help each other sort somethings out. We could get to know one another without any expectations. And I really want a guy friend, but not to turn it to into something else. Just honest intentions.
Idk if u get it, but have you ever felt like this?
Can anyone relate?
That's my vent ig. Thanks.

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Selam ..... semonun mn endehoniku alakim beka betam eyedeberegn new beka betinshu betilku menaded malkes mnamn honoal sraye lemisale zare kibat likeba yizhe tedefabign keza kuch biye malkes jemeriku keza enate metach ena ene gezalishalew mnamn bitilegnim makom alichalikum le 50 birr kibat sew endemotebet endih malkese lenem gra gebitognal dro dro enkwan kibat yikirna mnm bitefabign alichenekim neber bicha over gid yelesh sew neberiku ahun gn betinsh betilku medeber honal sraye 10 birr enkwan bitifa beka erasen mewukes jemiralew beka yeahun life enideza honoal mn endehoniku lenem gra gebitognal hulunim neger eyataw eyemeselegn new hulunim... be ahunu yetimrt wutetem betam keniswal ...demo kehulum keakime belay yehonew neger 24 seat masibew neger binor sex new beka sex bicha endalareg demo gwadegnaye yelem ategebe kesu wuchi demo kemanim ga mareg alifeligm esu betam nafikognal memitat demo ayichilm demo miyasitelaw neger huletachinm fikiregnamoch ayidelenim FWB relation lay nen gn kesu betam fikir yizognal mn endemareg alakim binegrewum mnm lewut magignet michil ayimesilegnim bicha hulu neger astelitognal timrt asitelitognal gibiw astelitognal sew asitelitognal bicha sewoch mn mareg endalebign alakim adiss life mejemer feligalew gn keyet endemijemir alakim
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Ebakachihu judge atarigugn demom keyikirta ga church hiji egziabher ga kirebi mnamn atibelugn amagn salhon keriche sayihon esun eyareku new lela yeteleye ena miredagnin hasab new yefelekut

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Hey guys I'm back, i m 20 years old guy,... last time I told you about how girls treat me and leave me heartbroken simply because I've opened myself... and some of you have asked me to explain further more, so here we go...

People tend to take advantage of my niceness, and as a pleasant guy, you get walked all over. My girl bestfriend used to have problems with her boyfriend, and every time she had a fight with him, guess who was there? me. When she needed stg, I was always there; when she had a fight with her family, I was there; and when the storm hit me, no one was there. she don't even pick up her phone ..πŸ˜₯.. I regret every time I let someone know too much about me. and other woman I met did similarly.... and I'm weary of this nonsense... As a result, we ignore one another and act as the other person does not exist at all. However, I know deep down that this isn't how I want it to end.

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Hey fam how y'all doin so tomorrow is father's day and i felt so broken .no my father didn't die but i just hate him and i grew up wishing plzz god give me a real dad who cares abt me mnamn like my imaginary dad who i have been daydreaming every sec of my life if god give me a chance to change just one thing about my entire life i will say another dad who actually cares and to escape from reality i imagine the father that i want and it helps alot but i just can't fill the hole inside of my heart i just can't i know it's really affecting my life like I'm always insecure i hv trust issues i don't think I'm enough i don't think anyone will fall for me because even my dad didn't love me sooo and now I'm starting to get worried about my future. Am i gonna marry a toxic guy like him am i even gonna marry what if my husband is shity dad for my kids like mine will my kids go through the things I'm going through will my scar fade will i be able to be the women i wany irregardless of my emotions and my fear is there someone who could fill my hole no and it sucks not to be able to move on from the things you can't change anyways thanks for reading my stupid vent but i just want to get this off my chest

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Hey, 23 male 3rd yr medical student somewhere in Addis. first i would like to thank the admins of this group its been phenomenal so far πŸ™ŒπŸ½. so here is the thing, last week i met my high school friends from different campuses and we been hanging out and talking, and almost all of them were talking about their experiences with girls and about their relationships mnamn . And i was dead silent because i had none of thOSE things. so since that day it was bothering me a lot why not me || its not that am not attractive in fact i have been told am good looking but idk for some reasons have not had a girl. so the question is IS THIS NORMAL? and for the girls would i have chances against those who have experiences mnamn???? what are your thoughts? i just wish if i had some one to talk abt this kinda stuff. thanks. have a good day y'all.

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Okay I'm y i need to ask a question especially boys ..... when u date a girl do u all boys think about kiss and stuff like this ??like when i talk to this boy he was so sweet mnamn then we meet and he want to kiss but i don't want that to happen on our first date but he compel me to kiss him i was so shocked and I'm like sexy,shapy girl and every boy that i talk to they want me legizeawi neger just kiss or stuff ......and the other day the boy ignored me first he didn't but i told him betam miyastela gize kesu ga endasalefku mnamn then he says sorry betam mnamn then now he is ignoring me ene negn weys esu tfategna ye gd esun mesam neberebgn first date lay or what??

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Hey ...I dont know for how many times I have vented here ..here we go again...I am 23yr old girl..I have been in kind of relationship with some one for about 6 or more month...it was good at first knowing that some one loves u or who supports u ...but after some times I am not feeling it as I should ...I tried so hard but am not happy ...I didnt find him so free,not able to be my self with him and he didn't understand from my face bcha I feel like he doesn't know me,but ik he loves me I love him too but I am not happy right now,ik may be time will solve things but in my opinion relationship must be having fun with each other to be free when u r with them and it's killing me how to tell him that because he is so amazing person..and also kumngrrega mature person ena he have helped me through bad times but am not feeling it now a days and help ur girl out how to solve it..tnq 😊

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First time an i dont know how this goes but hope you read it till the end.
For the people who say feeling numb.
Am am 18 year old girl and i never felt anything literally anything love hate anger sadness joy happiness fear anything and it was like this since forever from the time i remember some one close to me die i dont feel sad or bad or anything i cant even get why people are sad? When my aunt died and the whole family crying i was just there with dry eyes looking at them couldn't feel a thing even like i lost an object i felt nothing before i was worried called my self a monster hated my self (the only feeling i felt in my life) so i hang on it the hate made me remember i have feeling too that i am human too but after time that feeling left and when people started noticing i started faking those emotions doing what people around me do when they are happy sad just like a mirror doing what the person in front of me does but lately i have this need to feel i wanna feel something i wanna feel sad happy angry those emotions people normally feel.
When am writing this am hoping that you won't call me a monster because it will be useless if someone out there went through this and have an advice then please help me to feel.

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This is the first time I've ever told this to anybody, so I hope speaking about it can help me get over it.

I've experienced something very traumatic a few months ago. I remember running back from the park crying, barging into the shower as soon as I reached my home to wash all the remnants of the filth I had been put through, then burned by clothes to forget all that has happened. Some people might be disappointed by my actions in what has happened. I know I could've handled the situation better. Trust me, I've been beating myself for not coming up with some way to avoid what has been done to me almost every night. I even get nightmares about it to this day. It was terrible. I wouldn't wish it upon anybody.

By now, you're waiting for me to start explaining what exactly happened, so I'll get to it. The quicker I let it out, the easier it will be.

A raccoon shat on my pants.

No, don't laugh. It's not funny. It was disgusting. It was horrible. It was pure torture! It was degraded and I can never recover from it.I was peacefully reading a book on a bench beside a beautiful tree when that horrid creature rushed out behind the trash cans and jumped on my lap. It stared into my soul with those beady, demonic eyes, it's filthy snout twitching. I froze. I didn't know what to do. I could tell it wasn't crazed because it was calm, so I stayed where I was, in a staring contest with the raccoon because I was too much of a wimp to do anything about it. But then, I felt the disgusting sensation of something warm soiling my pants.I was horrified because I thought I peed myself. But then as soon that foul creature hopped off and danced away, I saw that it had planted it's dark, ugly faeces on my precious khaki pants. I cried. I wailed. I cursed the gods for what they have done to me. I closed my eyes and desperately hoped that I was in a scary dream, but no. It was real. It had happened. And all I could do was live with it, however painful it may be.

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Where do i find lub???!
Its almost a year since we have been together. We spend a lot of time at my place but she is still vergine, we've done it all except penetrating. She has a trauma on what she has heard abt first time sex. Betam yamegnal tlalech snmokr, and ever since we started we agreed to try lub. Gn eyeresahut eskahun almokerkum lemegzat
Actually its just lub yet endemagegn endtnegrugn new gn bezaw whats ur opinion on whether a lub could be a solution or not?? And what do u know abt this kinda trauma??
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So ladies and gentlemen Need Advice,

I'm a guy 23. My relation life isn't much. I start to focus on personal growth and finding myself early in my early teen age. So I tend to focus on work and things that could help me better everyday. Simply, I don't chase girls. I'm too busy to do that.

And I don't regret any of my decisions, I'm grateful.

But two days ago, I was on an event I invited suddenly and saw this girl. She is so gorgeous. The way she talks. Her body ... I can't express it... She is just perfect. I fall for her immediately. She looks like she is also attracted to me... we have very little conversations, but it was a business event so.. we have very little conversation and interrupted by something. I want to talk to her more, but as usual I was rushing to a meeting .. I went out early even not getting her phone number. I regret the moment I left the place and still thinking about her.

I want to ask ladies, If it's ok if someone calls you suddenly from such small Conv-time and how do you respond?

And guys, what would you do if you where me.

Need to hear from both side.

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Hey guys my name is grey and when i say grey its a nickname i got from girls look guys i dont know its a European or american thing but i am like 100% into pleasing or doing extraordinary sexual stuff since i was 16 and i never got tired of it till year and half ago when i met this amazing,confident and stunning girl. We clicked like so good and honestly i never taught i could meet someone not only does connect with mind but also heart too so when i started to talk to her i let go of my 6 month ( friends with benifits ) partner and gave all in but the biggest flaw is she is a girl that cant get out the house even once a week cause when corona was there it was okay but after corona man it is really hard and we met like 5 times in 18 months you dont fucking know how hard it is for me not being to see the girl i loved in about forever so we never kissed,we never did anything and its been like 17 months since i had sex and ever touched or pleased a woman gen this days i get horny like out the blue like in the middle of the fucking day and i masterbate to cool my self off once in 3 or 2 days but she doesnt understand me malet she doesnt even send nudes her dirty side is completely zero and she says we have to meet alot before anything happens but she cant get out. For a guy that used to choke and spank that whole 50 shades of grey stuff now i feel like she isnt the one for me malet i can wait but after that imagine only having sex one position like imagine her saying no when you want to get down on her imagine you spanking and she taking it the wrong way guys i love her i really do our minds and heart connect on a max level but my kind of erotica and her kind of erotica is very very different and i dont know what to do? What should i do?

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