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I am fortunate enough to know this at early age and i want to share it ...
On a sunny afternoon, A man decided to go fishing. He took a case of beer to drink because it was a particularly hot day. As he waited to get lucky, he started sipping beer. Fishing is a patience game, but most people don’t know how to wait. As the man waited, he consumed can after can of beer. The afternoon wore on. The hot sun and the beer made him drowsy. All of a sudden, a big fish bit the bait and tugged at his fishing line. A the man, who was sitting at the very edge of the riverbank, slipped and fell over into the water. A small boy and his father were passing by. The little boy turned to his father and said, β€œDaddy, look! Is the man fishing the fish, or the fish manning the man?” Look at your own life and answer this question as honestly as you can. Are you running your own life, or is it running you? You have pursued so much for your well-being: your home, your business, your car, your spouse, your family, your social status. But look back now and see: have you caught the fish, or has the fish caught you?

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Hey everyone, I'll just cut to the chase quicky lol. I am a teenage girl and the thing is I've been losing faith on God lately. Like I used to be so religious trust me I used to rest the bible every night until something really bad happened to me and then I just stopped praying I couldn't see the point anymore. And after a while of my detachment from god I read this book online I think it's by goddard or something, it's just got me to believing in nothing, like I started to bieilive that we bring everything to our selfs and doubting gods existance. Point is I feel guilty about it, trust me I do, I remeber the joy I had thinking god would save me from everything but After life started getting fucked lost all faith and just not sure if he exists. So if someone is logical enough to convince me of his existance I'd appreciate it.


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Hi ere labd new begebriel sim when did i become so dull jessus i have no personality and more idk when to laugh and be serious beka social cue chirash teftobignal ere please someone help me weyne how could i be like this in my 20's how is this the best years of our life???how???please what helped u or what motivates you ere bizu tata alebgin ere mereren abo depression is fucking me

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Mundane girl as I, somehow got to glimpse what might seem a tiny synopsis of a magical world.
My small delicate heart once erupted with absolute joy I never knew was conceivable.
I muse of the sweet melody and harmony I once felt with nostalgia that I am trying to hold on.
I saw beauty and wonder. I knew, I remembered to breath and let go.
But I slipped, I slid, I tripped again. I snuck into a zone I have been trying to shun.
what blissfulness was I talking about? where is the trace of that joy I once used to rant about?
Has there ever been a moment where my heart felt full, Where I felt hopeful for tomorrow?
Floating with the ever-stretching universe, Wondering, when will I finally be sucked in the blackhole?
Suicidal kids telling me suicide is not the answer. I wish I knew how to heal them all.
I did pray, I did hope, can’t you tell sometimes I don’t need your advice?
Can you just hug me when i cry, pat my back and make me feel heard?
mom can’t handle my tears, i am giving her the smile that she deserves.
I will not solve my problem like that, I won’t leave the baggage on someone else.
I’ll get through this year, this month, this week, this day, this minuet.
We are all broken by design, there Is nothing more I can do about it.
This vessel I felt stuck in, one day I will learn to love it.

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I wake up, my room is coated with a dream like glaze of another reality. I don't quite recognise myself in the mirror, well not the external part atleast. The organised combination of skin and flesh is quite familiar. But I don't have the slightest clue of who I am. The distant field of memories I own makes me believe the person of yesterday's views are but mimicry, normal by subjective definition. He wanted a life of Solice, of control, happiness, and reconciliation, so naive.
This juncture where my sanity and madness touched was met by the separation of who I am and was.
This is all to say nothing is anything unless you want it to be. No one would know colors if sight didn't exist, no one would know odor if smell didn't exist, so what would there be if there was no one to think, no one to tell one thing from another, everything would be the same as nothing. Now I live with this constant existential dread on my back, all my past philosophies and ideologies are irrelevant and insignificant now, I'm gone, just a vessel of my former self

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It's so hard not having her in my life.
I'm 19 and I dated alot of girls but it was just like enji nothing more and I eventually broke each and everyone's heart. I met her and everything changed. I was the happiest in my life every time I saw her things were just butterflies and rainbows with honey and gold. But then as time went on she changed completely. He conversation became dull and felt like someone who doesn't wanna talk. We argued every second. Then we broke up. I asked around and she was cheating. The guy even said "why are asking about my girlfriend".
My world was shattered. I think its karma u know because of the tears i caused i shouldn't be allowed to have a happy ending right. I still want her back but if I chase her she will get further away. Tbh I don't know what to do or say. I'm depressed and its ruining my friendship with other people and family too.
I don't need to move on I just wish thing were back ende dro

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Hi😊. Hope ya'll doing gr8.
So... I need an opinion or an advice call it whatever u want. Also I suck at writing so just bare with me aight. Here's the thing... I'm a girl just turned 19 met a guy like almost 6 mothers ago, and when I tell you we clicked on every ground bekaaa, and I rly like the dude like I've never felt this way about anyone. But after 2 months and a half I gotta leave, got a scholarship in Europe, and I'm like mamaye what is u doing?πŸ€¦πŸΎβ€β™€. And ik that it's gonna hurt like a mf when the time comes and we have to say goodbye. I fucking hate goodbyes! Also I tried bringing it up when we was talking and he basically ignored the topic, like he was shared or something he just avoided the conversation. And tbh I don't think I can do long distance relationships idk help!

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Hi. I'm girl. I'm 20 years okd nd I hve this tiny prblem tht will probly mske u insult me so I refrained frm venting abut it bt now I hve no choice. Any medical stdnt, dctr or anyone wth experience please share ur advice. The frst time I had sex ws when I ws 17. I ws intimidated into the situation so I can confidently say I didnt give my consent. nd I didn't like it so I insisted in havng sex wth tht persn again jst to hve tht sense of power back. Bt tht got me into a loop of one nighters. By the time I graduated highschool I had sex with 13 guys. I remember all of thm. I ws smart and prtected myself frm STDs, HIV or even prgnancy. Whn I got to uni gn hulum ngr tkyrebegm. My newly given complete freedm nd my over the sky sex drive ws killing me. nd I ws always the persn who didnt wrry myself abt thngs I jst go fr whatever I wnt nd if things go bad I try to clean thm as possible nd jst move on. In short I try my bst not to victimize myself. Jst tryng to tell u I'm perfctly ok mentaly. During the two yrs of uni I'm clueless abt the amunt of guys I've had sex wth. Prbably more than 30 thogh. I don't remember half of thm. Jst the ones who did smthng dffrnt during the sex nd the ones who buy me gifts aftrwads. I nvr accpt money. I've nvr been wth a sugr dady or a girl. u hve to realize how I'm always doing it for the sex. Now my prblem is aftr quarntine came, I had to be home so I startd mastrbatng nd at the end of quarntine I realized how I cldn't feel anythng anymre. I tried porn, even a vibrator but nthng wrked. I jst decided to stop havng sex, mastrbatng nd jst anythng involvng my pussy for a mnth or two so it can bounce back or smethng. But I cldn't wait and after a month I had sex with a guy and I couldn't feel anythng. I called the guy frm first yr tht made me orgsm the most in my life. Asebut ahun esun ghost arge nbr relationship selefelege I didn't care abt how desprate I sounded. I jst heded for it. He agreed. Rdculous amounts of cnfdence gets u anythng, ladies ????. nd he did make me orgsm bt it was more like a stop scream frm my pussy than an orgsm becaus I didnt feel anythng. If anybdy here knws anythng abt what I'm going throu pls let me know.

P.S: I'd rly appreciate it if u keep the slut shaming to urslves. I've had so mny ppl call me tht nd u callng me tht doesnt make u any more innocent.

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From the very beginning, when I saw the comment I knew it was trouble. And even on the top off a cliff ready to jump off I couldn't leave without my last dose of hurt rightπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. I run towards it like it was a my last hurrah. And yeah, you did good, you did an amazingly fine job.
But you know why I'm confused, because I don't know whose work it was. Did you do it with all that toxicity you seem to possess or did I make this perfect image of you, the right candidate for the final demolition. I don't know you and yet you own most of me now. I wanna go back to not wanting anything, I wanna go back to being so carefree, to begin obsessed with final things.

I'm now cold, freezing, alone, and starving. But none of it penetrates my wall like the desperation, the need for something I don't even know.

I know this all may not even make sense but I'm just tired, so needy and I want control. I want control on my mind, on my body, on my emotions that decide everything for me, everything.

Sorry you had to waste a minute on this.

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So I was raped by this guy I was seeing a long time ago. Back then I had no idea how things work and I thought that was how things work. Ahun sasebew gen that was so wrong and it affected me in so many ways.. And I thought I would feel better if I confronted the guy so I did. But he doesn't regret it and he said so many terrible things to me. And now I feel terrible and sad. I can't describe how I feel.. I'm not going to work or seeing my friends or doing anything I used to enjoy.. I just spend my days in my bed. I don't wanna be like this. My dad is getting worried and I have a bright future ahead of me. I wanna get over this and move on with my life..

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Hey guys how are u
I am a guy 22. I just wanna start by saying i am a bi guy bisexual and i enjoy different types of stuff but my vent is not about that it's about the constant feeling of horniness. I am 24/7 horny that idk what to do about it+i dont want sth serious with people relationship wise and as u know almost all the ladies in this country only wanna have sex if they have some serious relationship even though they are not sure they are gonna end up with the guy uk. And becha idk what to do about thia thing and it is consuming up much of my time.

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Hello there ..
Im saron and tmrw I'll be turning 22 and I'm not looking forward to it cuz of all the memories.
I've had a huge crush on this guy ever since I got to c him. Since 9th grade it was a long time ago. He was out of my league ofc am an introvert who loves reading books and had a small circle and he was basically so out going. There was sth about him I dont know if it was his charm or humor but he just made me so happy. As time passes it became more than a crush like I remember if he didnt show up to class I would feel bored all day mnamn. anyway It took a while but I got to be his frnd not like a best friend but the kinda friend he asked for music suggestions, or the kind of frnd who he got to experience great food with we loved going to new places and eat. I fell for him hard really hard. It was crazy cuz everytime we hang out I would get so nervous that I mess up everything, and he would just be so cool abt it. A part of me believes he knew I loved him just a fraction part of me, cuz he made me so nervous that I made it obvious or maybe he just brushed it off as she is introverted and shy. The most defining moment was when he remembered my birthday and called me at 12 am to be the first one to call and he sang me a happy birthday song playing keyboards. And I remember how happy I was that day and I had to bite my tongue to not say the words I love you. it was just those things he did that made me love him. After that we would just compete to be the first one to call on each others birthdays. We connected deeply, I thought to my self I would never risk what we have by confessing cuz I know he wasnt in the same place I were. I just wanted to be near him, he loved making fun of me and he had this thing where he used to tease me about my face color he always joked abt how I dont look like habesha cuz im too pale looking..so many memories ...
then about 9 months ago he was out with his frnds I remember I didint talk to him for abt a week during that time covid shit was crazy mnamn ena it was one of those days that he got him self in a car accident and died. The way I found out was on fb someone posted saying rip. I remember my heart beating out of my chest and I fought with the reality and believed that if I call him he would pick up and say he is alright. So I just called back to back his phn didnt work. Till this day I havent fully accepted that he Is gone. It pains me to know that he never knew what he meant to me. It broke my heart so much at some point I felt like I had a heart disease. I had this pain in my chest every breath I take, and the damn quarentine made it all worse for me. I cried every night knowing he wont get to grow up, have kids, get married and just live life. And today I decided to torcher my self by listning to Sean Kingston's why u wanna go. and just broke down knowing he loved that song. I felt the heartache all over again, im probably sure Im gonna be one of those ppl who hate there birthdays. I'm scared to wake up tmrw cuz the memories will come. Anyone reading this am sorry ik its long if u can take anything from this if u love someone and ur holding it in tell them now, dont waste time. They might not be here for long.

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its urgent pls help guys i need some one to talk to just some stranger who is good listener n understandable am fucked up right now i just score less mark not bcoz am not studying its bcoz am chance less am just depressed right now fuking depressed pls get me out of this btw am girl n 22

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Hey there everyone!
So when i was reading a vent last time i saw one with a hyperhidosis, social anxiety and nervous sweating relating problems and in the comment section lots of people actually shares this thing. Im am one of them.
Such problem occur usually when we are talking infront of stranger. Last week i participated in a skill up training and speaking infront of others was a heavy burden for me. But i tried to control my self, breathing slowly then i somehow beat it.
And now im thinking of to prepare an event where only people with such problem participate and then we do like a small coffe talk kind of think. The main idea is to overcome the problem by training ourselves to talk infront of strangers. The fact that every one suffer from the disease helps us to be a little bit free.
So anyone a person, organization who can help us or already have such programs, i will be glad to meet you. And those of u who suffer from such problem lets help each other! COME ON WE CAN BEAT iT! This thing is ruining our life so HELP Us!!!!
#HYPERHIDROSIS #Socialanxiety #Nervoussweating

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Hi everyone well i'm girl the things is I have been soooooo horny this week the problem is I'm still v and also I'm under age and lately all I think about is sex like and it's been bothering me a lot and everything I see has started to turn me on I really hate it also I only have guy friend now I already stopped hanging out with them because I'm afraid something might happen please help is there something that can stop me from being horny I really hate it..

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I wanna ask this question to all the girls out their. So not long a go I breakup with my gf & she gave me reasons why we can't workout ( almost all of 'em were things that are true) so I decided I should work on this things & maybe we'll get back together. But she moved on & find herself a new bf. So yeah I tried to know what kinda guy he was & it turned out he was financially stable but all the things she told me to Chang were fake. like this dude was worse.
Why attracted to toxic things? I really respected her I was going through the pain of Chang because it felt so real. It still feels real. I'm not complaining I'm actually glad I met her cause my life is changing for the better but the thing is this "Love" tng is soooo misunderstood.
I was an asshole yeah I know but what changed with the new guy?
The thing I wanna say is, it's not just my ex only but most of you girls are harming yourself because of toxic relationships ( mostly the young once) I'm seeing this kinda tngs constantly. I tried to get to know some of 'em just to knw why go through it? & you will be surprised what love ment to them. The ignorance is so deep. Most of you are not even dating a human, you are dating the devil himself. & expecting love in return?
Anyways the woman I'm looking for is like one in a million. All this social media shit is creating ppl with the same personality. I just can't see any difference anymore u all r acting the same. Worse!!! You all are trying to be the same.

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yeah he's tired of me, he's bored n i hve no clue why, how.. i asked n all d answers r positive but d action differs, i wanted to give u space n turns out opposite i became more clingy, i didn't mean to tho, he knows that i don't have any other person to talk to but still he's ok with ignoring me, ymechh engdih

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okay I'll make it short
I'm 19, girl, who's gonna be a freshman this year.i got into AASTU and I'm an introvert so I'm not pretty sure if I'm a social butterfly nd shit(my friends tell me i am though) that as it is I've never done anything thing on my own, so please can u guys tell me wt I've to bring, do... nd stuff like that
I'm from AA btw so I'll be goin back and forth from home to dorm
tnx in advance besties😊

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Hi everyone, I'm a guy in early 20's. Since childhood ive had this feeling of what i should be doing like that is my life's purpose. I see it everywhere in dreams in books like everywhere i turn something prompts me to it and am not complaining its what I really want to do am just giving context. So since like forever I've been holding out on most things people my age have been doing not that its bad but such cause it never feels right or I get anxious ... i rarely go for outings even with my family, ive never had a girlfriend, my friends have been few and so i give them my all when i can. No alcohol like the only fun thing i do is read or watch movies. Then in 2019 ending i started getting very anxiety attacks and it always comes with a feeling of failure like am failing and its really paralyzing like i could just get mood swings and get depressed after it happens and sometimes for days so I decided that i would only focus on getting my financials right early so that it would help get to the mission faster then i can relax and get rid of the things that where making my life unbearable while they pointed at the one same mission ive had since forever...That being said i put social media on hold everytime i vacate or when ever i can then focus solely on the mission at hand but i realised that all the people i called friends, brothers, sisters, close friends they started acting up. I used to always text them or call or wateva but now that I cut back on those things I realised that I always was the one to reach out and when I stopped they never did and when they did it was to make me feel bad because somehow I've neglected them and I've become arrogant and self centred. It was like I was going crazy. People I was always there for through thick and thin and that was alot cause am an empath and soo easy to talk so they always come to me are now saying all sort of things to make me feel bad just for having something bigger other than them. A few times of this and I thought maybe it was those who were just using me that are been uprooted from my life so i didnt think too much in to it but recently my last 2 friends that i had have also turned same and now all that pain from the others and now those 2 has filled me up and am hurting like very very much. I cant help but think maybe I was wrong, maybe its my fault and there is something i missed but then when I dont focus on what i have to do too i cant do anything else if i go out with them or be with them especially physically the anxiety and overthinking and all that becomes overwhelming so i had to stop and when i try work on the mission too the people i thought i could count on are all gone. I dont have the strength to go forward and i cant loose focus too. Ive become soo depressed and anxious lately i really need to catch a break before i loose it. Or maybe am a wining child πŸ˜”. Sorry for pouring my whole life baggage on you guys

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I see most of foreign "entertainment" coming to Ethiopia quite hard and for people who are caught in the illusion that the main stream media brings on and for those who need their eyes opened to the whim of this situation....

I urge you to take time and listen to this music. Not only listen but understand it well. Thank you.

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I have this girlfriend, she was my friend initially and I told her I have feelings for her. Her reply was that she has a boyfriend and we cannot date. She's 20 and the guy is 30. The guy eventually got married without telling her. When she got to know she was sad and came to me crying. I consoled her and we had sex. I thought she's now over the other guy but it turns out she's not. The guy even though married still wants them to date secretly. The girl told me she also loves me and at the same time the other guy. I decided to leave but she says no, she loves me. Right now I don't know what to do. I don't want to share anyone in a relationship. Please help me.

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