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I appeared here a couple of times years a go. Now i faced some serious issue that i couldn't share even with my friends. So i wanted to vent it here. I might get some advice as well IF THERE ARE ADULTS WHO CAN FEEL ME.

I'm an adult, approaching 30. Raised by almost without parents, here n there. Been through sooo much rough times. Now thank God i made it and build up my life, house,car, career, business. I'm at a good track እግዚአብሔር ረድቶኝ።

Now the problem is, i slept (had sex) with this woman who lives by my house. She has a husband. They been together for 2 years i guess. He's a very decent person, studying his MSc in medic (cancer specifically ይመስለኛል) .

She made me do it by alcohol and stuff. ብቻ እኔ ፍላጎት አልነበረኝም።

አሁን ነገሩ በጣምም ደሞ ጭንቀት ውስጥ የከተተኝ ያለችው ነገር ነው።
"" እኔኮ ባሌን እወደዋለሁ! ግን ልጅ ለመውለድ ብዙ ሞክረን እምቢ አለ! እሱ (ባሏ) ደሞ ችግር የለውም መፍትሄ አይጠፋም አትጨነቂ ይለኛል። ግን ደሞ እስከመቼ..""
አይነት ነገር ነግራኝ ነበር።
Ever since that day I'm not in peace. I had a dream. To get married በወግ በመዓረግ ፣የመጀመሪያዬን ልጅ መውለድ.. በቃ ሃሳቤ ሁሉ እንደዛ ነበር። ራሴን ስራ ውስጥ ቀብሬ የኖርኩትም ለዛ ነበር።
Btw..im kinda workaholic. በጣም በችግር ስላለፍኩ እሱን ለመበቀልም እና የተሻለ ሰው ለመሆን ሁሌ ከራሴ ጋ ፉክክር ላይ ነኝ።

So what's worrying me now is that
" is she purposely gonna get pregnant from me???"
"Her innocent husband ግፍ ነው የሰራሁበት????"

ለማን እንደማዋየው ግራ ግብቶኛል። በነጋታው ያለውን ነገር አስረድቻት; እባክሽ እንዳታረግዢ፣ ባልሽም መልካም ሰው ነው እንደዛ አታድርጊበት፤ እኔንም ህልሜን ታበላሽባለሽ። ብዬ አስረዳኋት እና postpill ገዝቼ እንድትወስድ ሰጠኋት።

ያው እሺ አለች። የምጎዳውም እኔ ስለሆንኩ አላረገውም አታስብ ምናምን አለች። ግን pill ስትወስድ አላየኋትም።

በጣም ጨንቆኛል።
ብታረግዝስ???
ከማልፈልገው ሰው ልጅ ሊኖረኝ ነው?? በዚ ሁኔታ ልጅ እንዲኖረኝ አልፈልግም!
ደሞ ምናልባት ወልዳ ግን ባሏ ላይ ብታሳብበውስ?
የልጁ የወደፊት እጣ ፋንታ ምንድነው? እኔ ሌላ ትዳር ብመሰርት እና ልጆች ባፈራ..ከረጅምም ጊዜ በኋላ የኔ ልጆች ከሌላ ሴት ከወለድኩት ልጅ ቢጋቡስ??

ይሄ ሁሉ ጭንቅላቴን ሊያፈርሰው ነው።
Please የሆነ ነገር በሉኝ።

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Both males and females pls confirm this.
Is it true that male attraction is physical and female attraction is smtn else? Like what are the chances that you'll see a good looking man with a not so good looking girl. But u can see a goddess-like girl with an average male or even an ugly one. Cause like guys first look at her ass or boobs and then try to get her number. Ik that cause I myself do that too. Majority do ofc , not 100%. But for a girl it's waaay more complicated. They'll just look at a guy and be attracted for some other reason. Silly things like the way he talks or walks. Does this mean the ugly girls get no chance? I'm a guy and I'd say I'm a 6 but my ex was a 9. Ik that cause many ppl were like how TF did he land her? And also girls actually like bad boys you can't deny that. Why tho? What makes the rude player guy more attractive than the simp?
Thank you for all your answers. Feel free to say anything

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Hey so it's not a vent it's a question I live in US like be scholarship minam nbr yemetahut ke 4 amet befit gen refugee teyeke sira minamn mesrat jemerku I quit the class ena ahun wede Ethiopia minam memtat alechelem wereqete eskistekakel ena biyans wereqeten agigneche wede etio lememtat biyans sint amet new mifejew eski mitaku kalachu or endezi yagatemachu malachi please tell me

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Hi there awsome people im what people consider shy until u know me and im in my 20s if i get close to someone i block them i avoid social events and all im about to graduate and it has become worse i wasn't like this quarainte sigeba labd dereskugn ahunim im really depressed and please help me or tell me what helped u out of a dark place or a book please im so numb

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I hate myself what should I do if everyone says they raised me so I should be thankful everything I achieve it's because of them they say I never asked to live so they don't deserve to tell me they are tired of taking care of me YOU KNEW YOU WERE GONNA HAVE TO DEAL WITH ME AFTER THE THING YOU DID IF YOU DIDN'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF ME JUST DON'T MAKE ME GODDAMNIT

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sasbew fkl lene altefterem i am 24 n girl uk i never been in serious r/ship b4 na like every one around me eyegebu nw guadegnoche mnamn na like ahun ahun kome endalker eyferaw nw uk betam mokryalew r/ship wst lmegbat gin at the end it didn't workout chrash lben sbrewt nw mihedut na i dont knw what to do is there any one who ve this kinda issue kome endalker blo mifera

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Okey I'm searching for someone...I've meet her this Saturday Hawassa at may 13 (7 launge)...ene be achir tikur kemis neberku keguadegnoche ga bota aten kenante ga endinkemt gabezachun keza tish feta bilen egna tilenachu wetan...silkshn salwesd simshn salawk salawerash...enja wedjeshalew dinget kalesh nigerign enja bicha hassabe kanchi ga kertual koyu eyalshin neber yewetanew...anchim filega keza bet kezi behuala altefam ezi kalesh alehu beyign...tsegurshn be achir tekortesh endewend neber yelebesshw enja libe kertual anchiga anagrign ebaksh...

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hello , guess who turned 23 , still living with her parents ,has nothing to her name, has no friends and had no one intrested in her for the longest time ever , had no one to spend her birthday with even her fam forgot its her birthday , stuck in a college she was forced to go to , has no apitite for food that resulted in looking skinny as hell , and is stuck in her room crying since yesterday, but i guess no one will notice,but what if they do , all she get is "ayzosh"

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Hey y'all i hope you doing great. When i come back to myself i've been struggling with money problem for a while my family isn't in a status to fulfill my needs but we try to make it work i don't usually eat my lunch at school because of money problem and i have a girlfriend she really helps me but i want to help sometimes its betam shitty always receiving and my friends are out of my league they all have a family that can surly support them in anything i really need to find a job and I'm a college student. If anyone can tell me a part time job i would be so thankful. Good night peeps and thank you

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Hey a female here,19. I have a question, is it okay to lose feelings for someone you liked before? and the person is amazing and all but you lose feelings for abseloutly no reason? Cuz am in that situation and idk what to do? Is it my problem or what?

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I knew u were toxic. I knew u would just walk away from my life. I knew it from the start. Despite all of these, I fall for u. I thought we both were broken and we would heal each other, but I was wrong. When u told me the reason y u loved me is because I'm broken, I stopped wanting to heal. U made me feel special till I fall for u and once I did, u started to back off. U made me feel bad about myself. U made me feel insecure. If u knew u would walk away like that why the fuck did u enter into my life? Like why bro? Did u feel better after shattering me into pieces? U knew I was already broken. Demo u never loved me. U just wanted to fuck me. I knew that but I chose to ignore it. Coz the truth hurts. I wanted to believe that I can be loved. I can be appreciated for who I am. But, I was wrong. U were no different from others. I just wanted u to treat me right. Was that too much to ask? U never cared about my feelings. But I never regret u. I still yearn the old days. I still cherish the time we spent together. I never regret that. The only thing I regret is the fact that I screwed up my life for us. However, U thought me to love myself before loving anyone else. I realized that I'm the only one who will stay by myself. Everyone will walk out of my life like u did.

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Hello everyone!
So, there was this guy I met online. About 5 months back, we met in person. We clicked right away. After a few dates, we confessed our feelings, and that led us to be relationship. We met very frequently and learnt a lot about each other a lot. And we both believe we're a match. The thing is, guys, he lives abroad. And he just left yesterday. He comes to Ethiopia every 2 years. I am pretty sure we both are on the same page and love each other at this point. But I have this huge doubt and insecurity regarding long distance relationship. I have no idea if it works. Idk if he won't be tempted to cheat on me cuz I don't see him in person. Idk if he'll lose interest in me cuz we can't be hanging out in person. He said he has not been in LDR before and that we will figure it out together. But the fear of losing him is killing me already. Guys, what do you think I can do on my side to make him keep interested and commited since day one of our LDR despite the long distance between us so that I can prevent our break up cuz of it for I wanne have a future with him.

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I got a question for all the pretty,kind and smart girls who have went to universitys So I just saw a vent about fear of the uni life coming up ahead and mine goes like this....

So am a girl and am not exactly afraid of joining the campus life or anything but I have made some rules of how things are gonna be like for me there.so my first rule is to be a loner at the dorm it will be Hard for me bc am friendly and am very good with getting along with people's no matter what and who they are I mean like if ur a freak I'm a freak when am with you,if
Ur shy and can't talk to pep's I'll be shy to know u better,if ur one that likes to study the whole time I'll be that too and if u like to talk about boys the whole day long I'll do that too well you get the point so....I wanted to be a loner bc am afraid that I'll get wrapped up in all other people's problems and fall back from my studies and I really want to choose the ppl's I became friends with but if I talk to someone just for once they think am the best friend they've been looking for no jokes😳this is how I got all my friends.and am a looker too and guys can't resist me and I can't resist hot lookin guys with good attention so the question is how can I keep my distance from all the things that's going on around me and I really can't distinct the good ones from the bad once this days bc everybody's fake and shows you a different kind of a personality till you became very close and can't get out of that rlship so hw did u guys got through it all and what is the best and nice way to push people out of my life while am there really need your advice so.....

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Hey there,am a girl 22
If there is any doctor please help me today i found out that i have pcos(polycystic ovary syndrome) i have irregular period excessive weight gain especally around the belly even if i workout everyday ,discoloration of skin and my doctor prescribed me birthcontrol for 3 month,rhe thing is i dont want to use the pill because it makes me fat plus is there any kind of way i cant control my hormones without any pills how can i lose weight

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im 21 who got an issue like most ppls
i started working since i was young (famwork) at that time i meet some one that changed my life .i was busy doing such thngs and i loved her asf and she became my gf.but i wasnt focusing on work .... after 2 or3 years we broke up by many cases but she was having 2 ppls at the same time and i heard this thing after we broke up and now i became depressed easily .i am doing my work and i achived so many tng through this shor time but i feel like i wane start a rln with sone one and then i will start thnking about past.sometimes i tnk my work will affect my rln and sometimes i cant believe any one . i need your help . what are you gone do benea bota bitihonu ?

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There is much confusion about how a person should be. I was raised in America and not by Habasha people. I am Ethiopian and have come to Ethiopia to visit family. They are oblivious as to who and why I am the way I am. There is virtually no desire in them to understand who I am. They have a notion of who I am from what they have heard from other people, who I have not lived with by the way, and correcting that was most of what I have been doing and I’m at the level of 1 or 2 out of say 100. I have instead tried to understand the culture and belief systems they have but they are not entirely knowledgeable in what and why they do things. I am also not fluent in Amharic, but can survive a casual conversation. I have tried to understand specific words to build an intuition of the associations from which cultural beliefs arise but that has also been difficult due to the structural ambiguity of the Amharic language. I am not invested enough to learn the language as being a “correct” speaker will only make genuine conversations harder. I have come to view the dynamics of my relationships with my family to be inconclusive and so have just decided to see if I can keep them questioning the certainty of their judgements a-bay as well as mine. If anyone as had similar experiences I’d like to know what you have done.

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Im wishing everyone is doing well.
Readers discretion is advised. This is not me crying out for help maybe I am idk I don't.
I always thought of my body as an art work not monet per se. It was beautiful to me I loved the dimples at the back of my spine, curves, thigh crease, strechmarks every flaw on it. I always walked around the house nude even when my ma and little sister were there it made feel in sync and I loved the feeling. Truth of the matter is I gained weight.. good bye curves and I am mortified. I have been eating then shoving a toothbrush down my throat.. My boobs have gotten big to a point where my bras don't fit me anymore I almost had a whole mental breakdown in the shower the other day. My anxiety is at its highest peak. And for the first time in a long time I wanted to cut my thighs or burn it.
And I am exhausted. Thanku if you came this far. I have no intentions of making any of the readers or anyone for that matter sad I just couldn't hold it anymore. I am a grenade one day I'll explode and obliterate everything in my wake.
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My girlfriend temper is getting out of control eyedebedebechign new what should I do? she even bite me. She is short but u have no idea the damage she leaves on my face. At work ppl are asking me why are u all scratched up belela ngr askeysalew but now am fuckin tired of this shit.
Yesterday as we were going to her moms house taxi west honen she remembered sth I did then she start to talk shit then I told her can't it wait? Pls dont make a scene I begged her. then as soon as we get off she starts kicking me, literally ppl on the street are looking at us pls stop alkuat then she was like I dont care abt that. I was like am done with this shit, betam kemenadede yetenesa I was gonna leave her without saying shit to her on the spot. Then I was like we cant go to ur moms house fighting like this so go anchi ene I'll meet u tmrw alkuat then she got even more pissed and yelled already ezi dres meteh atemelesem and she starts to kick again and (physically )mind u physically dragged me in to her moms house I could never lay hands on a woman but tbh she pushed me over the edge I was close to hitting back and the whole time we were there she didnt say a word to me. How disrespectful could u be gn? Yezemed program nbr she sat next to me chatting with someone. We didnt say a word to each other i was so mad but I didnt wanna start shit ezam honen zem byat I said goodbye to her mom lehed sel and i left her there we were suppose to go together but I was just pissed. Then last night I thought abt it and I don't know I can't do this shit anymore. This morning she sent this long ass text telling me how could u leave me at moms I thought we were gonna talk abt it when we both cool off
I love this girl but it cant continue like this she doesnt know how to control her emotions any suggestions..
Or should I just move on

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So, I recently found out my Mom is having an affair with someone for almost 3 years now.
So I confronted her because I've suspected her for the last 7 months and I have a lot of proof. Ever since I started monitoring her I've caught her several times doing stuff with the man, including sex. I didn't say anything because I felt I shouldn't get involved in it...my parents marriage has always been someway but my dad really loves my mother, he does everything she needs.
But what really made me angry is this...
Recently I found a pregnancy test in her drawer and it showed a positive mark, 2 lines. I didn't say anything, as usual. Then like some funny movie I chanced on her and saw her show the result to the guy.
The guy comes to our house always because of Mom's work as a real estate agent and he was given the job as her driver. So me I was standing upstairs watching her and she showed it to the guy first, and I saw them laughing and doing some flirtatious stuff back then, she put her hand on her tummy. So I confronted her. She confessed to me about the affair, but denies she is pregnant. I mean how did you deny that? You can't hide pregnancy. I think she wants to pin it on my dad that he's the father.
So when I confronted her it got heated for a while but when she realized I knew she calm down. That I shouldn't tell my father and what what.
The test too at first she said, it had been there for a long time. Later I was like nah, so I went to ask again and after a few conversations about the affair, she said the pregnancy test was just the usual checking of what what and she's even going through the stage of menopause. The woman is in her 40s buts shes still very attractive. I didn't believe but I let it go. Now this is the new part. The next day I saw her underwear (excuse me) in the morning in the family bathroom since I was supposed to go out to my friend's place and I didnt have time to wash myself I put my clothes there in the laundry basket for the help and as I was getting my money from the pocket of my shorts, I accidentally touched her panties on top of the pile of clothes, it was covered by the skirt she wore the night before. So probably she had put it there not long before. I saw some weird discharge on the front..still wet. Thickish and translucent. (sorry for the gross description)
I asked some female friends and their answers werent encouraging.
Because I was curious, I tried to observe and noticed that she recently always washes her underwear whenever she takes a bath. Usually this woman is so busy with work that she just puts everything on her help
So why the sudden change?

Again I confronted her and this time I didn't ask like a question, I just told her I knew so what's up. Finally she confessed, this was just two days ago. She said has been releasing discharges of blood. Aren't you the one who said menopause??
Yesterday like for 5 hours since she woke up at 6 am, me too I wake early to exercise, I noticed she had been going to the washroom very often.
I went to the bin outside later and checked inside and guess what? another pregnancy test. Do you know what she told me when I asked her again, she said was just fooling around and put the pregnancy test in soy sauce.
Like these things are what is making me angry. She still thinks she can lie to me and play with my mind like I'm still a child? Least you can do is be honest with me! I've caught you red handed with your driver having sex several times, I jie my eye. Yet shes still lying?

My dad still doesn't know. I'm stuck in the middle of knowing the affair, and confused if I should tell my dad and my extended family the truth.
I wanted to keep quiet and let things play out but at this point she's pissing me off.

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No! I wasn't meant to be Loved. I know I wasn't meant to live a life filled with Love. I still don't know my purpose in life but I know Love is not one of it. Maybe Love is not for me. Regardless the Love I gave, the care I showed being there whenever needed everything doesn't matter, non of it.  I loved you knowing I wouldnt be Loved back. I knew i will be pushed away like the other times. I already saw it coming. But thank you for letting know that I am worthless.    

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I’m here because, well I don’t really know. I think that’s worse than anything. Having a reason to feel heartbroken and depressed is one thing, but I have no reason. I’m here feeling alone and dark but I’m with the love of my life, I feel depressed but I’m nowhere near my low point. I have no idea why I’m here or why I’m sad. But I am. I shouldn’t be. I’m 19 and already a second year Med student scoring spectacular grades. Why am I sad? This is my prime, this was supposed to be the best part of my short life. I just want to feel happy, but I need to find out why I’m sad first. And yet, I know not how to do that. I don't know if I can keep this going for very long.

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