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Hey guys
Nice meeting you again
I wanted to ask yall something since you guys were SO FREAKN helpful last time...i was a 12+1 and i passed..barely but i passed and now i kinda don't know what to learn...i mean i know we all have to learn an extra year this year but hoping that goes as planned what should i learn...i'm into tech i do a little bit of coding and all but i kinda don't have the drive as i did before so I'm afraid if i choose that i won't be happy and all so if yall have any suggestions i'd love to hear them. And also people that learnt computer science and or software engineering...can yall tell me of its worth it. Thanks for your time.😁

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Am girl,22
Am struggling in life nothing seems to get right because am that kind of person that gives without any hesitation doing things for peoples make me happy more that I do it for my self that how I was raised putting other before you I doesn't come with any strings I just give coz I know how its like not to be given cared loved to be ignored not to be heard,I stopped with being friend with my best friend becoz she is the opposite dont even know to give I wonder why peoples has to be like this people use me at any opportunity they get and am tired so tired

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So am a girl, and I have a bf, we been having sex a lot and today I woke up and there is this pain under my belly button, it won't let me move, it stops only when I lay down, so anybody know how to make this pain go away, and can too much sex cause this?

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I'm 22 and i have had a handful relationships in my life, but the most recent one was the one girl i truly loved. My first love if you will. We dated for about a year and she was truly amazing. She had been hurt in the past by an ex and she had deep rooted trust issues i had to work through. I had never felt the way i felt about her for anyone else and so i did everything in my power to make her feel secure, to make her see how amazing she was and that i wasn't out to get her, that i would do anything to show her she could be loved for who she was. I really believed i made her feel good about herself and she finally came around. Things were amazing and she also became one of the most stable supportive forces in my life. She was there for me and i was for her and I thought the love was real. However towards the end of our relationship, she started getting distant and things just weren't quite the same. She kept saying she knew she wasn't being fair to me and that she had no idea why she was feeling the way she was feeling, and she swore she would do better. unfortunately i responded to the way she was acting by being insecure, because i felt like i was losing her and she was slipping back....looking back, i realize that made things worse because i started acting anxious around her. But anywho, the nail in the coffin came when she called me out one afternoon and she was on the verge of tears. She told me that the previous night she hung out with one of her exes (that she was with prior to the one that hurt her) and that she realized she still had feelings for him and ended up kissing him. However she still wanted to make things work with me and she would do anything to get me to forgive her and to forget him. We kept going back and forth because i was blown away she could do that to me after everything i had done for her after just one night with the dude and that lasted a couple of weeks, but I was trying to heal so i could get to a position of forgiveness, because she really did seem devastated about what she had done. I was an idiot to consider that because just a few days after that she claimed a lot of stuff in her life had started to go wrong, she was losing people right and left, that she wasn't okay and she didn't want to waste my time anymore....bicha long story short, she ended up breaking up with me, on top of all the other bullshit and after i tried to ignore my pain to help her. It's been tough to recover from and let go of the anger and hurt, and i'm still working on that.....I only ever wanted the best for her and my most meaningful relationship had been destroyed in a matter of weeks, it all makes me feel so played....like she used me to get her confidence back and fucked off when i fulfilled my purpose.....but i guess what i'm trying to figure out is how do i fully let go and get rid of these lingering feelings? I want to move past it but i don't want to jump into another relationship in this state because that's a recipe for disaster and being alone for a couple of months hasn't helped as much as i hoped either......my ability to trust has been shattered and i feel like i lost the best version of myself when she never gave a damn.

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I have very bad body image. I was always a fat child. I would say i was clinically obese at the age of six (horrible i know) i never taught bad about it, people actually told me i looked very cute. But that soon changed in 2nd grade where i started getting bullied a lot. Honestly, at that time it didn't hurt me at all. I joked around with my bullies actually. But then 5th grade rolls around and people started referring to me as a "Gorilla". That really really affected me. I started being sad and wanted to hide my body at all times. People even started using my color against me and called me mad names, usually saying i looked like a very big gorilla, or "Gambella" (which shouldn't really be an offensive term" my grandmother even used to call me "ባርያ" which offended me, but i kept blaming it on the fact that she was illiterate. 6th grade comes and i hit a really bad breaking point, i wanted to have a "glow up" the summer before 7th grade. In summer break i decided to eat as little as possible and overexercise as much as possible. I did great for one month, lost some weight but the rest of the break i binged so hard i became obese again. 7th grade was the worst. I used to beat myself up for existing honestly. Every comment made on my looks started being permanently stamped in my brain. I was stuck in a binge starve cycle. 8th grade puberty hit me. My mom would always tell me ill lose the weight when i hit puberty, but i gained a lot. I became more aware of my surroundings and how everyone was either skinny or pretty. People would always compare me to my sister "she is so beautiful what happened to you?" I even became aware of my bodytype and that even if i lose the weight i will never have my dream "hourglass" body and had an unfeminine shaped inverted triangle body. 8th and 9th grade passed with me being in the same binge-restrict cycle, hating my body and looks. To make matters worse i have "acanthosis negricans" which makes my skin look absolutely disgusting, i have back pains and cant dress like any other teenager and have to hide in shirts and hoodies that are 10 times bigger than my size.

Im in 10th grade now, i finally adressed that my terrible eating habbits arent gonna take me anywhere. And the little pity parties i throw for myself aren't gonna help either. I want to atleast lose the weight so i can be treated as a human from now on. Maybe even like myself a little and enjoy my junior and senior years. I have about 10 kilos to lose. But i have no idea how to lose weight without going back to restricting and binging. I have five months til junior year and honestly no idea where to start or what to do. Help.

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Hello everyone! So I am a girl and wants to start new business but got confused when and where to start. I am thinking to go to Dubai and bring items to sell here in Addis. But I am confused which type of item is preferable to be profitable. And where can I get ekawochen mirekebegn sew. And please give me some idea is it a good idea yhn sera mesratie? I mean can I be profitable? Please help me with informations who knows this business.
Thank you in advance

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I just wanna ask guys some questions. Would u ask a girl whom u see ur future with (whom u love) for a nude? Isn't it a red flag for girls? And Isn't it disrespectful?

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I am Rohit
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I'm 26.
I don't know you can hide my identity or you can reveal... At this point of life it doesn't matter... But here is my story:


Me any my girlfriend got separated because of religion... She is a muslim and I'm a hindu.. I couldn't do anything because I'm not employed at this time and neither I had the guts to face my community nor did she ..I convinced myself if she is happy in marrying someone from her own religion then may be I would also remain happy to some extent..

But it wasn't the case.. now I'm depresed when she seems happy, whenever I see her pics with her husband... May be I'm selfish.. I keep stalking her profile... Check her last seens and.... When I am writing this I know she is online and all this is eating me from inside... I don't know what to do with all those memories, emotions, thousands of pictures of her stored in my drive... It's getting worse day by day.... What should I do with my life...how will I survive....

And this is so recent... The fact is, we never had any fight or argument when we separated, she told me that she will remain in touch... I told her not to worry about me focus on her new life, and her happiness matters the most... But when that actually happened, a void got created in my life... and I feel that she doesn't care anyomore, she is happy with him in such a short time... She even told me in texts... And asked me to move on, which I agreed myself... But my negative thoughts and my selfish human nature and all those memories are like a nightmare to me...I hope no one gets to feel this way... No religious or cultural boundaries come in way of love.... Sorry for showing my grief to you all who are themselves feeling some kind of pain...

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Hey I'm a 24 years old dude and I have an amazing bestfriend from highschool. We both went to cathedral and we had an instant friend connection that lasted for years. We were each others diary litrally. We did everything together, she was like the person I wanted by my side in this lifetime. She was the person I imagined my self I talk to even in my older days in these world. After a while she introduced me to one of her friends they weren't that close but she kinda wanted us to date. So we did. And now it's been 3 years with this girl. But two weeks ago this girl that I love, the girl am promised to marry made me when I say made physically made me tell my bestfriend that our friendship can not continue. My bestfriend is probably so mad at me for ghosting her like this. It makes me cringe. But She is a very jealous woman like she told me if u ever c her again I'm done mnamn , idk what to do. My bestfriend is undoubtedly my favorite person in this world. And now its been two weeks since we talked. Its hurting me bewnet what should I do. I tried to make my fiance understand that it's purely friendship from both sides and theres nth more. But there's this thing like every one just assumes sth is going on we always laughed at that. I begged her to not make me do that but she said she is intimidated by how close we are. Fuck that was my sister litrally. Yes I love my gf but its fucked up losing the person I rocked with for 8 years is heartbreaking. Demo the funny part is she is the one who introduced us. Her jealousy is over the roof, she even suggested that i should set her up with someone so that it can create a lil distance in our friendship and I said no to that. What should I do? Thanks.

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I wanted to be good for u. I really did try. Turning a blind eye to my own pain, I tried to see through urs. I fought. I fought but lost. I truly loved u. I loved u in ways I don't think I would ever love anyone else. At some point, I'd have given all I got just to be in ur arms, just to feel ur lips land on mine. It was too overwhelming and I almost ended up losing my sanity in the run. Remorse had drenched me inside and out. I was shackled to the ground by the 'what if's. I naively believed it was all my fault and I'd not have lost u forever if it wasn't for how I was. I resented myself for being me and for going through what I've gone through. But, my love, it was neither of us. We were just two broken souls who wouldn't have been able to handle each other. We were just not meant to be. So if you ever read this, I wish you could see how much I want you to move on. I haven't moved on but I know I'm closer than I ever was. So u should, too. U should forgive me and urself and break through. Yeah, it's gonna be hard and may take all the patience in u. But don't ever give up! Keep pushing through.

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20 female Socially awkward.🙂
I just wanna know how bad life gets after collage if I don work on my social life rn.


Idk how to say this shit but it's just I'M Abnormal in a complicated way that almost no one would understand I took the personality test and its said I'm advocate (counselor) pa! Funny but that's the only thing that makes a little sense rn. It just specially in class I'm weird .. I'm very sensitive empathetic too and very polite when I talk I hate being surrounded by many people even being talked to! I've these two classmates which I'm close to ...I don wanna talk no one except them anytime I talk ppl I barely know I get awkward (they're like tf is wrong w her) and my moods change week after week sometimes in days I get talkative somedays and completely mute other days and there are days I get to laugh behonew balhonew 🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀
I really don't care about people btw it's just me ryt but i get concerned betam I've friends I talk to abt this stuff...the amazing part is I understand people betam not only that I feel like I can read their minds! Anyway it has been long since I started feeling like this but I wasn't always like this I was almost fine in high school (ABNORMAL called crazy but I lived in my own world so i never cared or concerned about anything) I just want to write it out and yeah I mean does it get better when I'm real adult?

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Hi guys I think it's my 2nd time venting.
I'm writing this to all girls out here. I just need some clarification and a closure on a certain subject that has been on my mind for quite awhile now.
So the thing is am a guy 18 kinda good looking tall like 6ft anyways I have a girl best friend we've been friends for 3 years now (I know it's not that long) and after a while I started to develop feelings for her and she told me all sorts of stuff abt her exs and how they treated her and other stuff that am not gonna go into detail so this at the beginning of this year she told me she broke up with her bf during quarantine and then I thought I should definitely make a move on her so school started (btw I'm 12th senior and never been in a relationship am an awkward dude that has trouble talking with girls). And these days she used to hold my hands when we get back from school and I was like okay 😳 and also told me she loved me like"by the way I love u."that's what she said word by word Anyways when I was abt to man up and tell her how I feltafter those words gave me the courage I needed this friend of mine told me he confessed to her and she said okay so I was like FUCK NO THIS ISN'T HAPPENING. And lately she's been avoiding me and we aren't as we used to be so I'm confused af wtf do I do I'm not an expert on this kinda of things so just help me even if it doesn't work out lemme try what I can.
Thanks in advance and sorry for the long ass vent🙏🏼🙏🏼.

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Oh my God I feel horrible. I feel like i am seeing my life being wasted right in front of my eyes. I just feel shit. I am overwhelmed and I dont know what to do. I am 23 i have got a job with an okay salary but i feel like i am wasting my youthful years. I want to make more money. It's like i am having a mid-life crises but at 23. I can't just get a grip.

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Hey. I am 23, gentleman. And I was in a 3 year toxic relationship. It took my everything away. Till I couldn't be sure if I am mentally damaged or not. All my friends left because I couldn't keep up with all the toxicity. I thought love was enough, but it isn't. I am done now. I feel so much free and alive. I am trying to start my life. Have new friends. New circle. Some people to have quality time with. I am trying to hit that restart button in my life. I am here taking the first step. Thanks.

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Okay so I am a private guy so I don't talk about my feeling often but I think venting about it might help I'm a guy age 19 and I have been stuck in this r/s pause for about 1 year now its not that I don't date or flirt I just started losing interest in trying hard...I would like something stable with someone but I also wanna have fun at the same time...and most girls I meet are either thinking about marriage or are only in it to have fun... And I know there is a girl out there who can give me both...

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Eden you little innocent looking peace of shit you have finally made me vent. I know u here reading all this crap. Mann I used to think I am one tough mf. heck, I used to make fun of all my friends when they be in love and shit. But now am here thinking about you and your string art which I threw away btw (you owe me 250) I went out of my comfort zone to make you happy maybe it's Becouse I can't find someone as goofy as you. We could have hit it off you know until you turn out to be one of them attention sucking nerds

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Hi guys 25 here and is the thing am the type of guy who loves to stay at home unless it's for work or some occasional stuff mnmn I do go out to have fun mnmn gin I highly prefer home and when I meet people most of them enjoy going out mnmn I do to but not as much as them even when I meet a girl ofcourse we would go out and stuff but I want to stay home watch movie with her cuddle fight mnmn just chill beka me and her I don't know if this is just me but this what I like so is it weird of me to do that do girls hate that? I mean for me i think this kind of connection brings people together

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Hey guys I am male and 22 the thing is I don't even know who I am what kind of personality I have when I am with my friends that I love I act as a well mannered properly behaving guy but with some of them and in my mind all I think is dirty thoughts and I curse people in my mind a lot and all I think is those f words I want to become clean of this dirty thoughts but when I try I always find myself back at it again I feel like I am pretending to be a nice person to my friends when I am not when my mind can't stop producing these dirty thoughts I started using this words back in highschool and I thought it was fun I used to be proud using those words but now I hate it it is so much it's disgraceful but I can't help it that's what comes in my mind when I am angry is there anything u suggest I should do guys thank you

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I hope this vent gets approved.

I've watched all the youtube videos, searched google and all but I couldn't be satisfied. Why are MOST of you girls attracted to guys that you for sure know they gonna eventually? To vent it here? To cry over it whining all guys are the same? Even if the nice guy is handsome, not in problem financially and is ready to lit up your life you still ditch him for the asshole one. I just want to know why.

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Hello, it's not a vent but it's more of an experience sharing. I'm just here to tell you about the truth that has set me free, I just can't be silent about it. So as human beings we all have the same basic questions, why do we exist? what's the whole point of life? Why do bad things happen in life? and many more, I feel like each and every human being has a space inside needing to be filled, often times we try to fill in that gap with people, our jobs, school and so on but it never seems to be good enough to quench our thirst. Personally I tried to silence the inner longing for a greater purpose than the shallow things of this world with people and school, I thought changing my outside would somehow automatically make me okay on the inside unfortunately all those attempts were vain and somehow they left me at an even more confusing place. Until I found God or atleast God found me, it happened slowly yet all at once, I started spending time with God nothing too fancy just asking him to change me and to settle all the wave of confusion inside of me, just genuinely being myself before him and it took time but all I know is that when I see myself now I'm not the person I was before I don't know how he did it but he managed to fix my brokenness and calm the waves of uncertainty. It was like I finally found the true piece for my puzzle. And never have I ever felt so at peace not bc everything is going well but because I know that he is with me throughout the highs and lows and the places in between. You may ask, so what's the whole point of this writing? Well I just thought that It would be so selfish of me to hold it all to myself ik this might not mean anything to most people but it might help atleast a single soul and that would mean the world to me. All God wants is our hearts, he is perfect and he lacks ntn nor needs anything from us but he is so loving that he wants us to experience the splendor of who he is and the real question is are we willing to let him love us with a love that has no conditions nor expectations? I'll be praying for y'all and contact me if u want to talk more about this.

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I feel like I'm a meek guy. There is just no character to me, A persona of sorts. I'm 21 but I feel like I have a mind set of an 8 year old. I sense a deep inadequacy to get my needs met. I see my peers evolve thrive and dance their way thru life and enjoy their early 20s whilst i lurck in the background failing at every endeavor. There is just no emotional maturity to me. I can't hold a conversation with women or anyone really. I can't get out of my head, I constantly hear voices that speak of my incompetence. The frame thru which I view the world needs serious retooling because even normal things like stricking a conversation with a woman seems threatening and impossible to me. It's funny how I've never seen a pussy in my life yet I still crave it like I've had a taste. I wish I had a good person and a stable relationship but I don't. My friends recommended I sleep with a prostitute. I don't want to but my penis can't give me a break. I'm bitter and resentful all the time and now ke campus lichar nw. Techarku enji. Bcha yeah.

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