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I have family that love me , job that pays me, school that is going to be great paying career in the future. But i have no boyfriend and no real female friend that i can go to when i am sad or going through someone that i need emergency help with. I know i am blessed! sometimes i feel so alone because i dont have someone i can share my life with and it sucks. How do i get over this feeling?? I am close to family but we dont talk about personal stuff. I know alot of people and im not antisocial but i have no real bestfriend and it hurts :(
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I have family that love me , job that pays me, school that is going to be great paying career in the future. But i have no boyfriend and no real female friend that i can go to when i am sad or going through someone that i need emergency help with. I know i am blessed! sometimes i feel so alone because i dont have someone i can share my life with and it sucks. How do i get over this feeling?? I am close to family but we dont talk about personal stuff. I know alot of people and im not antisocial but i have no real bestfriend and it hurts :(
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Hello to you all.First time venting. I have been in this channel for some time now and i love how you all try to help each other and need help from you this time.
So i had a girl started our thing about 7 years ago. At first it was bro sis kinda thing relation since we were very little but it was changed after some time. After it was changed (we become adults) we didn't label it and continue our thing lovin each other without having the talk. But after some time i heared all the people around us get jelous at our thing and they say they are both the same person and they are the dream couple. I had only her as both my best friend and my love. I have other friends since they tried to do bad things and brake us up all of them.I had some idea of it (the jelousy part )at that time about this and when people ask me i said we're just friends or we're bro n sis. I did this not to jynx our thing and having fear of losing her coz of the rumors since we didn't label it. But to be sure and to leave this fear behind after some time i made the move and kissed her and i think she didn't like it so i kinda distort the situation and we passed that moment. So we keep on our thing lovin havin a good time but after some time she left the country with out even telling me. She told this after she got there and this made me angry at that time but i let it go since my love for her was that much. But since she got there our thing become ugly and then talking or texting become less and less and we stopped talking after some time. So it became hard for me since i loved her very much. Ididn't know what got in to her. I wasn't able to forgot about her so ye gibi life in addition to this became very hard for me i got sick all the time i lost about 7kg weight. When we were together i was a very top smart student not to exaggerate but since this happened education become less important to me my grade got low and low and day to day my routine become doing my best to forget abt her but it is very difficult. So after we parted I tried to meet with new people but i lost interest in everything or hated every people they irritate me i think i may became introvert so i didn't know anything how to talk to a girl or sth. With the help of my best friend (yeah she is the only true friend i got thank God), i tried to change and improve since this is bad for me and not to let down my parents.
But not long ago i heared she got with someone and i lost my close relative in this time and i think my previous feeling what i was trying to forget is coming back and i don't know what to do i don't want to again be in that situation coz it led me to dark path.
I'm not depressed or sth but just heart broken.
So you guys what can i do about this thing also how can i be with new people with out looking like creepy since i forget how to talk or sth
So please help guys...thanks
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Hello to you all.First time venting. I have been in this channel for some time now and i love how you all try to help each other and need help from you this time.
So i had a girl started our thing about 7 years ago. At first it was bro sis kinda thing relation since we were very little but it was changed after some time. After it was changed (we become adults) we didn't label it and continue our thing lovin each other without having the talk. But after some time i heared all the people around us get jelous at our thing and they say they are both the same person and they are the dream couple. I had only her as both my best friend and my love. I have other friends since they tried to do bad things and brake us up all of them.I had some idea of it (the jelousy part )at that time about this and when people ask me i said we're just friends or we're bro n sis. I did this not to jynx our thing and having fear of losing her coz of the rumors since we didn't label it. But to be sure and to leave this fear behind after some time i made the move and kissed her and i think she didn't like it so i kinda distort the situation and we passed that moment. So we keep on our thing lovin havin a good time but after some time she left the country with out even telling me. She told this after she got there and this made me angry at that time but i let it go since my love for her was that much. But since she got there our thing become ugly and then talking or texting become less and less and we stopped talking after some time. So it became hard for me since i loved her very much. Ididn't know what got in to her. I wasn't able to forgot about her so ye gibi life in addition to this became very hard for me i got sick all the time i lost about 7kg weight. When we were together i was a very top smart student not to exaggerate but since this happened education become less important to me my grade got low and low and day to day my routine become doing my best to forget abt her but it is very difficult. So after we parted I tried to meet with new people but i lost interest in everything or hated every people they irritate me i think i may became introvert so i didn't know anything how to talk to a girl or sth. With the help of my best friend (yeah she is the only true friend i got thank God), i tried to change and improve since this is bad for me and not to let down my parents.
But not long ago i heared she got with someone and i lost my close relative in this time and i think my previous feeling what i was trying to forget is coming back and i don't know what to do i don't want to again be in that situation coz it led me to dark path.
I'm not depressed or sth but just heart broken.
So you guys what can i do about this thing also how can i be with new people with out looking like creepy since i forget how to talk or sth
So please help guys...thanks
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I donβt know how to start, it seems like everything has gone dark. I was raped by someone I know, I was drunk and it hurts so much. I donβt know who to go to, my mom would kill me and I hate myself for ever putting myself in such a vulnerable state. I hate him for making me feel so helpless. Iβm afraid I might be pregnant and I canβt have a baby, my family would ostracize me and I canβt handle the embarrassment. I donβt know what to do, I donβt know if I can continue anymore. Iβve given up hope in myself and my future. Help me please
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I donβt know how to start, it seems like everything has gone dark. I was raped by someone I know, I was drunk and it hurts so much. I donβt know who to go to, my mom would kill me and I hate myself for ever putting myself in such a vulnerable state. I hate him for making me feel so helpless. Iβm afraid I might be pregnant and I canβt have a baby, my family would ostracize me and I canβt handle the embarrassment. I donβt know what to do, I donβt know if I can continue anymore. Iβve given up hope in myself and my future. Help me please
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I'm 22, soon to be 23 and i'm in a truly dark place in my life.....i'm going to be graduating in not too long and i'm truly terrified of what will come next....i've tried to stay present but i feel this looming sense of doom approaching. I was never really any good at making friends, but when i started university i finally made a group of friends and i felt like the bonds would be solid and it would go the distance. I always wanted the best for them and was always good to them and they were to me as well. We were each other's support systems and we did so much together. I have also been in a handful of relationships and i didn't think much of them until the most recent one. We met about a year and a half ago. She meant everything to me and i treated her like a queen.....i made her feel good about herself at a time when she needed it the most and she made me feel like i could be loved for who i am. I loved her from the bottom of my heart and she did as well....or so i thought. Long story short, she cheated and not too long after, she left. This was a few months ago, and it crushed me. And now i've never felt more disconnected from my friends....i feel like they're pulling away.....things are kind of weird now and the energy is just off......my gut is telling me that they won't be around for much longer and i'm devastated......i feel like i'm truly incapable of making lasting bonds with people and everyone just ends up leaving.....i've tried to find love for myself but that only gets me so far and the loneliness is crippling.....add to that the fact that i can't seem to find a sense of direction for my life and i truly feel like i'm fucked. I never liked what i'm going to school for but i didn't want to drop out of school, so i stayed and i have no clue what career path to commit to. I'm so lost and i'm not getting any younger
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I'm 22, soon to be 23 and i'm in a truly dark place in my life.....i'm going to be graduating in not too long and i'm truly terrified of what will come next....i've tried to stay present but i feel this looming sense of doom approaching. I was never really any good at making friends, but when i started university i finally made a group of friends and i felt like the bonds would be solid and it would go the distance. I always wanted the best for them and was always good to them and they were to me as well. We were each other's support systems and we did so much together. I have also been in a handful of relationships and i didn't think much of them until the most recent one. We met about a year and a half ago. She meant everything to me and i treated her like a queen.....i made her feel good about herself at a time when she needed it the most and she made me feel like i could be loved for who i am. I loved her from the bottom of my heart and she did as well....or so i thought. Long story short, she cheated and not too long after, she left. This was a few months ago, and it crushed me. And now i've never felt more disconnected from my friends....i feel like they're pulling away.....things are kind of weird now and the energy is just off......my gut is telling me that they won't be around for much longer and i'm devastated......i feel like i'm truly incapable of making lasting bonds with people and everyone just ends up leaving.....i've tried to find love for myself but that only gets me so far and the loneliness is crippling.....add to that the fact that i can't seem to find a sense of direction for my life and i truly feel like i'm fucked. I never liked what i'm going to school for but i didn't want to drop out of school, so i stayed and i have no clue what career path to commit to. I'm so lost and i'm not getting any younger
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She is doing it again. Just as I start respecting her again, just as I started loving her as a mom, she has to go and ruin it. You may be asking what the hell is this random girl talking about.
Let's start from the beginning, my screwed up past starts when my so called uncle ruined my innocence when I was too young 9 to be precise it went on for a couple years but then it stopped and I did everything I could to forget it I didn't have problems forgiving though, and the next strike was multiple almost rapes that happened by the people I trusted at the end tho it forced me to live back the memories long story short I got into a bad place and on top of that I found out that my mom was cheating on my clueless dad, try imagining finding nudes of your mom sent to a random stranger and calling him her love and a lot more that I don't wanna relive, after that my life was a series of failed suicide attempts until I finally met him, my first best/boyfriend, oh he was sweet and caring and mostly there for me until very recently he saw a vent on here that looked like it was written by me too good to look like a coincidence, idk if that was a bad thing or not because it at least made me realize that for the long run it wasn't really me he wanted anyway it's been almost two weeks since we finally broke up, I've been in a weird place being mad at him and then myself, sending all these texts while he wasn't online and then deleting it before he saw it, I was almost ready to pick up the blade long since I forgot but before a couple of minutes I just saw my mom has started cheating again I thought she stopped, I thought she was done with it, but I saw it, all of it, I'm so done
I'm gonna be looking for the perfect place and time to do it and I have a bucket list to fully scratch off but it's decided and I'm actually not afraid nor sad
Thanks for reading even though it's worthless
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She is doing it again. Just as I start respecting her again, just as I started loving her as a mom, she has to go and ruin it. You may be asking what the hell is this random girl talking about.
Let's start from the beginning, my screwed up past starts when my so called uncle ruined my innocence when I was too young 9 to be precise it went on for a couple years but then it stopped and I did everything I could to forget it I didn't have problems forgiving though, and the next strike was multiple almost rapes that happened by the people I trusted at the end tho it forced me to live back the memories long story short I got into a bad place and on top of that I found out that my mom was cheating on my clueless dad, try imagining finding nudes of your mom sent to a random stranger and calling him her love and a lot more that I don't wanna relive, after that my life was a series of failed suicide attempts until I finally met him, my first best/boyfriend, oh he was sweet and caring and mostly there for me until very recently he saw a vent on here that looked like it was written by me too good to look like a coincidence, idk if that was a bad thing or not because it at least made me realize that for the long run it wasn't really me he wanted anyway it's been almost two weeks since we finally broke up, I've been in a weird place being mad at him and then myself, sending all these texts while he wasn't online and then deleting it before he saw it, I was almost ready to pick up the blade long since I forgot but before a couple of minutes I just saw my mom has started cheating again I thought she stopped, I thought she was done with it, but I saw it, all of it, I'm so done
I'm gonna be looking for the perfect place and time to do it and I have a bucket list to fully scratch off but it's decided and I'm actually not afraid nor sad
Thanks for reading even though it's worthless
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I'm the type of person that bottles up everything but today I decided to vent.
I have been molested by men more times than I can count and the thought of a man touching me petrifies me to my core. I can't sit there with you and have a conversation I start fidgeting, my hands start shaking, my face turns red. What do you want me to open up to you about the Disney princess(sleeping beauty) theme birthday I had when I was 10 or the fact that I was emotionally and physically abused to a point where I cut my inner thighs, binged then shoved a toothbrush down my throat or straved myself for days... Where my anxiety creeps in the shower to a point where I can't even breathe. I want physical affection I motherfucking do but all that comes to my mind is the pain that was inflicted upon me. There's more to me than just what occurred in my life I enjoy long walks on the beach, culinary mastermind(Mac& cheese.) I'm grateful for everything that I have, I don't take anything or anyone for granted. I hope you enjoy the rest of you're day. Thank you for reading.????????
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I'm the type of person that bottles up everything but today I decided to vent.
I have been molested by men more times than I can count and the thought of a man touching me petrifies me to my core. I can't sit there with you and have a conversation I start fidgeting, my hands start shaking, my face turns red. What do you want me to open up to you about the Disney princess(sleeping beauty) theme birthday I had when I was 10 or the fact that I was emotionally and physically abused to a point where I cut my inner thighs, binged then shoved a toothbrush down my throat or straved myself for days... Where my anxiety creeps in the shower to a point where I can't even breathe. I want physical affection I motherfucking do but all that comes to my mind is the pain that was inflicted upon me. There's more to me than just what occurred in my life I enjoy long walks on the beach, culinary mastermind(Mac& cheese.) I'm grateful for everything that I have, I don't take anything or anyone for granted. I hope you enjoy the rest of you're day. Thank you for reading.????????
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I wanted to ask yall something since you guys were SO FREAKN helpful last time...i was a 12+1 and i passed..barely but i passed and now i kinda don't know what to learn...i mean i know we all have to learn an extra year this year but hoping that goes as planned what should i learn...i'm into tech i do a little bit of coding and all but i kinda don't have the drive as i did before so I'm afraid if i choose that i won't be happy and all so if yall have any suggestions i'd love to hear them. And also people that learnt computer science and or software engineering...can yall tell me of its worth it. Thanks for your time.π
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I wanted to ask yall something since you guys were SO FREAKN helpful last time...i was a 12+1 and i passed..barely but i passed and now i kinda don't know what to learn...i mean i know we all have to learn an extra year this year but hoping that goes as planned what should i learn...i'm into tech i do a little bit of coding and all but i kinda don't have the drive as i did before so I'm afraid if i choose that i won't be happy and all so if yall have any suggestions i'd love to hear them. And also people that learnt computer science and or software engineering...can yall tell me of its worth it. Thanks for your time.π
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Am girl,22
Am struggling in life nothing seems to get right because am that kind of person that gives without any hesitation doing things for peoples make me happy more that I do it for my self that how I was raised putting other before you I doesn't come with any strings I just give coz I know how its like not to be given cared loved to be ignored not to be heard,I stopped with being friend with my best friend becoz she is the opposite dont even know to give I wonder why peoples has to be like this people use me at any opportunity they get and am tired so tired
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Am girl,22
Am struggling in life nothing seems to get right because am that kind of person that gives without any hesitation doing things for peoples make me happy more that I do it for my self that how I was raised putting other before you I doesn't come with any strings I just give coz I know how its like not to be given cared loved to be ignored not to be heard,I stopped with being friend with my best friend becoz she is the opposite dont even know to give I wonder why peoples has to be like this people use me at any opportunity they get and am tired so tired
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So am a girl, and I have a bf, we been having sex a lot and today I woke up and there is this pain under my belly button, it won't let me move, it stops only when I lay down, so anybody know how to make this pain go away, and can too much sex cause this?
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So am a girl, and I have a bf, we been having sex a lot and today I woke up and there is this pain under my belly button, it won't let me move, it stops only when I lay down, so anybody know how to make this pain go away, and can too much sex cause this?
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I'm 22 and i have had a handful relationships in my life, but the most recent one was the one girl i truly loved. My first love if you will. We dated for about a year and she was truly amazing. She had been hurt in the past by an ex and she had deep rooted trust issues i had to work through. I had never felt the way i felt about her for anyone else and so i did everything in my power to make her feel secure, to make her see how amazing she was and that i wasn't out to get her, that i would do anything to show her she could be loved for who she was. I really believed i made her feel good about herself and she finally came around. Things were amazing and she also became one of the most stable supportive forces in my life. She was there for me and i was for her and I thought the love was real. However towards the end of our relationship, she started getting distant and things just weren't quite the same. She kept saying she knew she wasn't being fair to me and that she had no idea why she was feeling the way she was feeling, and she swore she would do better. unfortunately i responded to the way she was acting by being insecure, because i felt like i was losing her and she was slipping back....looking back, i realize that made things worse because i started acting anxious around her. But anywho, the nail in the coffin came when she called me out one afternoon and she was on the verge of tears. She told me that the previous night she hung out with one of her exes (that she was with prior to the one that hurt her) and that she realized she still had feelings for him and ended up kissing him. However she still wanted to make things work with me and she would do anything to get me to forgive her and to forget him. We kept going back and forth because i was blown away she could do that to me after everything i had done for her after just one night with the dude and that lasted a couple of weeks, but I was trying to heal so i could get to a position of forgiveness, because she really did seem devastated about what she had done. I was an idiot to consider that because just a few days after that she claimed a lot of stuff in her life had started to go wrong, she was losing people right and left, that she wasn't okay and she didn't want to waste my time anymore....bicha long story short, she ended up breaking up with me, on top of all the other bullshit and after i tried to ignore my pain to help her. It's been tough to recover from and let go of the anger and hurt, and i'm still working on that.....I only ever wanted the best for her and my most meaningful relationship had been destroyed in a matter of weeks, it all makes me feel so played....like she used me to get her confidence back and fucked off when i fulfilled my purpose.....but i guess what i'm trying to figure out is how do i fully let go and get rid of these lingering feelings? I want to move past it but i don't want to jump into another relationship in this state because that's a recipe for disaster and being alone for a couple of months hasn't helped as much as i hoped either......my ability to trust has been shattered and i feel like i lost the best version of myself when she never gave a damn.
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I'm 22 and i have had a handful relationships in my life, but the most recent one was the one girl i truly loved. My first love if you will. We dated for about a year and she was truly amazing. She had been hurt in the past by an ex and she had deep rooted trust issues i had to work through. I had never felt the way i felt about her for anyone else and so i did everything in my power to make her feel secure, to make her see how amazing she was and that i wasn't out to get her, that i would do anything to show her she could be loved for who she was. I really believed i made her feel good about herself and she finally came around. Things were amazing and she also became one of the most stable supportive forces in my life. She was there for me and i was for her and I thought the love was real. However towards the end of our relationship, she started getting distant and things just weren't quite the same. She kept saying she knew she wasn't being fair to me and that she had no idea why she was feeling the way she was feeling, and she swore she would do better. unfortunately i responded to the way she was acting by being insecure, because i felt like i was losing her and she was slipping back....looking back, i realize that made things worse because i started acting anxious around her. But anywho, the nail in the coffin came when she called me out one afternoon and she was on the verge of tears. She told me that the previous night she hung out with one of her exes (that she was with prior to the one that hurt her) and that she realized she still had feelings for him and ended up kissing him. However she still wanted to make things work with me and she would do anything to get me to forgive her and to forget him. We kept going back and forth because i was blown away she could do that to me after everything i had done for her after just one night with the dude and that lasted a couple of weeks, but I was trying to heal so i could get to a position of forgiveness, because she really did seem devastated about what she had done. I was an idiot to consider that because just a few days after that she claimed a lot of stuff in her life had started to go wrong, she was losing people right and left, that she wasn't okay and she didn't want to waste my time anymore....bicha long story short, she ended up breaking up with me, on top of all the other bullshit and after i tried to ignore my pain to help her. It's been tough to recover from and let go of the anger and hurt, and i'm still working on that.....I only ever wanted the best for her and my most meaningful relationship had been destroyed in a matter of weeks, it all makes me feel so played....like she used me to get her confidence back and fucked off when i fulfilled my purpose.....but i guess what i'm trying to figure out is how do i fully let go and get rid of these lingering feelings? I want to move past it but i don't want to jump into another relationship in this state because that's a recipe for disaster and being alone for a couple of months hasn't helped as much as i hoped either......my ability to trust has been shattered and i feel like i lost the best version of myself when she never gave a damn.
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I have very bad body image. I was always a fat child. I would say i was clinically obese at the age of six (horrible i know) i never taught bad about it, people actually told me i looked very cute. But that soon changed in 2nd grade where i started getting bullied a lot. Honestly, at that time it didn't hurt me at all. I joked around with my bullies actually. But then 5th grade rolls around and people started referring to me as a "Gorilla". That really really affected me. I started being sad and wanted to hide my body at all times. People even started using my color against me and called me mad names, usually saying i looked like a very big gorilla, or "Gambella" (which shouldn't really be an offensive term" my grandmother even used to call me "α£αα«" which offended me, but i kept blaming it on the fact that she was illiterate. 6th grade comes and i hit a really bad breaking point, i wanted to have a "glow up" the summer before 7th grade. In summer break i decided to eat as little as possible and overexercise as much as possible. I did great for one month, lost some weight but the rest of the break i binged so hard i became obese again. 7th grade was the worst. I used to beat myself up for existing honestly. Every comment made on my looks started being permanently stamped in my brain. I was stuck in a binge starve cycle. 8th grade puberty hit me. My mom would always tell me ill lose the weight when i hit puberty, but i gained a lot. I became more aware of my surroundings and how everyone was either skinny or pretty. People would always compare me to my sister "she is so beautiful what happened to you?" I even became aware of my bodytype and that even if i lose the weight i will never have my dream "hourglass" body and had an unfeminine shaped inverted triangle body. 8th and 9th grade passed with me being in the same binge-restrict cycle, hating my body and looks. To make matters worse i have "acanthosis negricans" which makes my skin look absolutely disgusting, i have back pains and cant dress like any other teenager and have to hide in shirts and hoodies that are 10 times bigger than my size.
Im in 10th grade now, i finally adressed that my terrible eating habbits arent gonna take me anywhere. And the little pity parties i throw for myself aren't gonna help either. I want to atleast lose the weight so i can be treated as a human from now on. Maybe even like myself a little and enjoy my junior and senior years. I have about 10 kilos to lose. But i have no idea how to lose weight without going back to restricting and binging. I have five months til junior year and honestly no idea where to start or what to do. Help.
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I have very bad body image. I was always a fat child. I would say i was clinically obese at the age of six (horrible i know) i never taught bad about it, people actually told me i looked very cute. But that soon changed in 2nd grade where i started getting bullied a lot. Honestly, at that time it didn't hurt me at all. I joked around with my bullies actually. But then 5th grade rolls around and people started referring to me as a "Gorilla". That really really affected me. I started being sad and wanted to hide my body at all times. People even started using my color against me and called me mad names, usually saying i looked like a very big gorilla, or "Gambella" (which shouldn't really be an offensive term" my grandmother even used to call me "α£αα«" which offended me, but i kept blaming it on the fact that she was illiterate. 6th grade comes and i hit a really bad breaking point, i wanted to have a "glow up" the summer before 7th grade. In summer break i decided to eat as little as possible and overexercise as much as possible. I did great for one month, lost some weight but the rest of the break i binged so hard i became obese again. 7th grade was the worst. I used to beat myself up for existing honestly. Every comment made on my looks started being permanently stamped in my brain. I was stuck in a binge starve cycle. 8th grade puberty hit me. My mom would always tell me ill lose the weight when i hit puberty, but i gained a lot. I became more aware of my surroundings and how everyone was either skinny or pretty. People would always compare me to my sister "she is so beautiful what happened to you?" I even became aware of my bodytype and that even if i lose the weight i will never have my dream "hourglass" body and had an unfeminine shaped inverted triangle body. 8th and 9th grade passed with me being in the same binge-restrict cycle, hating my body and looks. To make matters worse i have "acanthosis negricans" which makes my skin look absolutely disgusting, i have back pains and cant dress like any other teenager and have to hide in shirts and hoodies that are 10 times bigger than my size.
Im in 10th grade now, i finally adressed that my terrible eating habbits arent gonna take me anywhere. And the little pity parties i throw for myself aren't gonna help either. I want to atleast lose the weight so i can be treated as a human from now on. Maybe even like myself a little and enjoy my junior and senior years. I have about 10 kilos to lose. But i have no idea how to lose weight without going back to restricting and binging. I have five months til junior year and honestly no idea where to start or what to do. Help.
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Hello everyone! So I am a girl and wants to start new business but got confused when and where to start. I am thinking to go to Dubai and bring items to sell here in Addis. But I am confused which type of item is preferable to be profitable. And where can I get ekawochen mirekebegn sew. And please give me some idea is it a good idea yhn sera mesratie? I mean can I be profitable? Please help me with informations who knows this business.
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Hello everyone! So I am a girl and wants to start new business but got confused when and where to start. I am thinking to go to Dubai and bring items to sell here in Addis. But I am confused which type of item is preferable to be profitable. And where can I get ekawochen mirekebegn sew. And please give me some idea is it a good idea yhn sera mesratie? I mean can I be profitable? Please help me with informations who knows this business.
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I just wanna ask guys some questions. Would u ask a girl whom u see ur future with (whom u love) for a nude? Isn't it a red flag for girls? And Isn't it disrespectful?
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I just wanna ask guys some questions. Would u ask a girl whom u see ur future with (whom u love) for a nude? Isn't it a red flag for girls? And Isn't it disrespectful?
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I'm 26.
I don't know you can hide my identity or you can reveal... At this point of life it doesn't matter... But here is my story:
Me any my girlfriend got separated because of religion... She is a muslim and I'm a hindu.. I couldn't do anything because I'm not employed at this time and neither I had the guts to face my community nor did she ..I convinced myself if she is happy in marrying someone from her own religion then may be I would also remain happy to some extent..
But it wasn't the case.. now I'm depresed when she seems happy, whenever I see her pics with her husband... May be I'm selfish.. I keep stalking her profile... Check her last seens and.... When I am writing this I know she is online and all this is eating me from inside... I don't know what to do with all those memories, emotions, thousands of pictures of her stored in my drive... It's getting worse day by day.... What should I do with my life...how will I survive....
And this is so recent... The fact is, we never had any fight or argument when we separated, she told me that she will remain in touch... I told her not to worry about me focus on her new life, and her happiness matters the most... But when that actually happened, a void got created in my life... and I feel that she doesn't care anyomore, she is happy with him in such a short time... She even told me in texts... And asked me to move on, which I agreed myself... But my negative thoughts and my selfish human nature and all those memories are like a nightmare to me...I hope no one gets to feel this way... No religious or cultural boundaries come in way of love.... Sorry for showing my grief to you all who are themselves feeling some kind of pain...
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I am Rohit
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I'm 26.
I don't know you can hide my identity or you can reveal... At this point of life it doesn't matter... But here is my story:
Me any my girlfriend got separated because of religion... She is a muslim and I'm a hindu.. I couldn't do anything because I'm not employed at this time and neither I had the guts to face my community nor did she ..I convinced myself if she is happy in marrying someone from her own religion then may be I would also remain happy to some extent..
But it wasn't the case.. now I'm depresed when she seems happy, whenever I see her pics with her husband... May be I'm selfish.. I keep stalking her profile... Check her last seens and.... When I am writing this I know she is online and all this is eating me from inside... I don't know what to do with all those memories, emotions, thousands of pictures of her stored in my drive... It's getting worse day by day.... What should I do with my life...how will I survive....
And this is so recent... The fact is, we never had any fight or argument when we separated, she told me that she will remain in touch... I told her not to worry about me focus on her new life, and her happiness matters the most... But when that actually happened, a void got created in my life... and I feel that she doesn't care anyomore, she is happy with him in such a short time... She even told me in texts... And asked me to move on, which I agreed myself... But my negative thoughts and my selfish human nature and all those memories are like a nightmare to me...I hope no one gets to feel this way... No religious or cultural boundaries come in way of love.... Sorry for showing my grief to you all who are themselves feeling some kind of pain...
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Hey I'm a 24 years old dude and I have an amazing bestfriend from highschool. We both went to cathedral and we had an instant friend connection that lasted for years. We were each others diary litrally. We did everything together, she was like the person I wanted by my side in this lifetime. She was the person I imagined my self I talk to even in my older days in these world. After a while she introduced me to one of her friends they weren't that close but she kinda wanted us to date. So we did. And now it's been 3 years with this girl. But two weeks ago this girl that I love, the girl am promised to marry made me when I say made physically made me tell my bestfriend that our friendship can not continue. My bestfriend is probably so mad at me for ghosting her like this. It makes me cringe. But She is a very jealous woman like she told me if u ever c her again I'm done mnamn , idk what to do. My bestfriend is undoubtedly my favorite person in this world. And now its been two weeks since we talked. Its hurting me bewnet what should I do. I tried to make my fiance understand that it's purely friendship from both sides and theres nth more. But there's this thing like every one just assumes sth is going on we always laughed at that. I begged her to not make me do that but she said she is intimidated by how close we are. Fuck that was my sister litrally. Yes I love my gf but its fucked up losing the person I rocked with for 8 years is heartbreaking. Demo the funny part is she is the one who introduced us. Her jealousy is over the roof, she even suggested that i should set her up with someone so that it can create a lil distance in our friendship and I said no to that. What should I do? Thanks.
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Hey I'm a 24 years old dude and I have an amazing bestfriend from highschool. We both went to cathedral and we had an instant friend connection that lasted for years. We were each others diary litrally. We did everything together, she was like the person I wanted by my side in this lifetime. She was the person I imagined my self I talk to even in my older days in these world. After a while she introduced me to one of her friends they weren't that close but she kinda wanted us to date. So we did. And now it's been 3 years with this girl. But two weeks ago this girl that I love, the girl am promised to marry made me when I say made physically made me tell my bestfriend that our friendship can not continue. My bestfriend is probably so mad at me for ghosting her like this. It makes me cringe. But She is a very jealous woman like she told me if u ever c her again I'm done mnamn , idk what to do. My bestfriend is undoubtedly my favorite person in this world. And now its been two weeks since we talked. Its hurting me bewnet what should I do. I tried to make my fiance understand that it's purely friendship from both sides and theres nth more. But there's this thing like every one just assumes sth is going on we always laughed at that. I begged her to not make me do that but she said she is intimidated by how close we are. Fuck that was my sister litrally. Yes I love my gf but its fucked up losing the person I rocked with for 8 years is heartbreaking. Demo the funny part is she is the one who introduced us. Her jealousy is over the roof, she even suggested that i should set her up with someone so that it can create a lil distance in our friendship and I said no to that. What should I do? Thanks.
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I wanted to be good for u. I really did try. Turning a blind eye to my own pain, I tried to see through urs. I fought. I fought but lost. I truly loved u. I loved u in ways I don't think I would ever love anyone else. At some point, I'd have given all I got just to be in ur arms, just to feel ur lips land on mine. It was too overwhelming and I almost ended up losing my sanity in the run. Remorse had drenched me inside and out. I was shackled to the ground by the 'what if's. I naively believed it was all my fault and I'd not have lost u forever if it wasn't for how I was. I resented myself for being me and for going through what I've gone through. But, my love, it was neither of us. We were just two broken souls who wouldn't have been able to handle each other. We were just not meant to be. So if you ever read this, I wish you could see how much I want you to move on. I haven't moved on but I know I'm closer than I ever was. So u should, too. U should forgive me and urself and break through. Yeah, it's gonna be hard and may take all the patience in u. But don't ever give up! Keep pushing through.
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I wanted to be good for u. I really did try. Turning a blind eye to my own pain, I tried to see through urs. I fought. I fought but lost. I truly loved u. I loved u in ways I don't think I would ever love anyone else. At some point, I'd have given all I got just to be in ur arms, just to feel ur lips land on mine. It was too overwhelming and I almost ended up losing my sanity in the run. Remorse had drenched me inside and out. I was shackled to the ground by the 'what if's. I naively believed it was all my fault and I'd not have lost u forever if it wasn't for how I was. I resented myself for being me and for going through what I've gone through. But, my love, it was neither of us. We were just two broken souls who wouldn't have been able to handle each other. We were just not meant to be. So if you ever read this, I wish you could see how much I want you to move on. I haven't moved on but I know I'm closer than I ever was. So u should, too. U should forgive me and urself and break through. Yeah, it's gonna be hard and may take all the patience in u. But don't ever give up! Keep pushing through.
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20 female Socially awkward.π
I just wanna know how bad life gets after collage if I don work on my social life rn.
Idk how to say this shit but it's just I'M Abnormal in a complicated way that almost no one would understand I took the personality test and its said I'm advocate (counselor) pa! Funny but that's the only thing that makes a little sense rn. It just specially in class I'm weird .. I'm very sensitive empathetic too and very polite when I talk I hate being surrounded by many people even being talked to! I've these two classmates which I'm close to ...I don wanna talk no one except them anytime I talk ppl I barely know I get awkward (they're like tf is wrong w her) and my moods change week after week sometimes in days I get talkative somedays and completely mute other days and there are days I get to laugh behonew balhonew π€¦πΎββπ€¦πΎββ
I really don't care about people btw it's just me ryt but i get concerned betam I've friends I talk to abt this stuff...the amazing part is I understand people betam not only that I feel like I can read their minds! Anyway it has been long since I started feeling like this but I wasn't always like this I was almost fine in high school (ABNORMAL called crazy but I lived in my own world so i never cared or concerned about anything) I just want to write it out and yeah I mean does it get better when I'm real adult?
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20 female Socially awkward.π
I just wanna know how bad life gets after collage if I don work on my social life rn.
Idk how to say this shit but it's just I'M Abnormal in a complicated way that almost no one would understand I took the personality test and its said I'm advocate (counselor) pa! Funny but that's the only thing that makes a little sense rn. It just specially in class I'm weird .. I'm very sensitive empathetic too and very polite when I talk I hate being surrounded by many people even being talked to! I've these two classmates which I'm close to ...I don wanna talk no one except them anytime I talk ppl I barely know I get awkward (they're like tf is wrong w her) and my moods change week after week sometimes in days I get talkative somedays and completely mute other days and there are days I get to laugh behonew balhonew π€¦πΎββπ€¦πΎββ
I really don't care about people btw it's just me ryt but i get concerned betam I've friends I talk to abt this stuff...the amazing part is I understand people betam not only that I feel like I can read their minds! Anyway it has been long since I started feeling like this but I wasn't always like this I was almost fine in high school (ABNORMAL called crazy but I lived in my own world so i never cared or concerned about anything) I just want to write it out and yeah I mean does it get better when I'm real adult?
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Hi guys I think it's my 2nd time venting.
I'm writing this to all girls out here. I just need some clarification and a closure on a certain subject that has been on my mind for quite awhile now.
So the thing is am a guy 18 kinda good looking tall like 6ft anyways I have a girl best friend we've been friends for 3 years now (I know it's not that long) and after a while I started to develop feelings for her and she told me all sorts of stuff abt her exs and how they treated her and other stuff that am not gonna go into detail so this at the beginning of this year she told me she broke up with her bf during quarantine and then I thought I should definitely make a move on her so school started (btw I'm 12th senior and never been in a relationship am an awkward dude that has trouble talking with girls). And these days she used to hold my hands when we get back from school and I was like okay π³ and also told me she loved me like"by the way I love u."that's what she said word by word Anyways when I was abt to man up and tell her how I feltafter those words gave me the courage I needed this friend of mine told me he confessed to her and she said okay so I was like FUCK NO THIS ISN'T HAPPENING. And lately she's been avoiding me and we aren't as we used to be so I'm confused af wtf do I do I'm not an expert on this kinda of things so just help me even if it doesn't work out lemme try what I can.
Thanks in advance and sorry for the long ass ventππΌππΌ.
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Hi guys I think it's my 2nd time venting.
I'm writing this to all girls out here. I just need some clarification and a closure on a certain subject that has been on my mind for quite awhile now.
So the thing is am a guy 18 kinda good looking tall like 6ft anyways I have a girl best friend we've been friends for 3 years now (I know it's not that long) and after a while I started to develop feelings for her and she told me all sorts of stuff abt her exs and how they treated her and other stuff that am not gonna go into detail so this at the beginning of this year she told me she broke up with her bf during quarantine and then I thought I should definitely make a move on her so school started (btw I'm 12th senior and never been in a relationship am an awkward dude that has trouble talking with girls). And these days she used to hold my hands when we get back from school and I was like okay π³ and also told me she loved me like"by the way I love u."that's what she said word by word Anyways when I was abt to man up and tell her how I feltafter those words gave me the courage I needed this friend of mine told me he confessed to her and she said okay so I was like FUCK NO THIS ISN'T HAPPENING. And lately she's been avoiding me and we aren't as we used to be so I'm confused af wtf do I do I'm not an expert on this kinda of things so just help me even if it doesn't work out lemme try what I can.
Thanks in advance and sorry for the long ass ventππΌππΌ.
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Oh my God I feel horrible. I feel like i am seeing my life being wasted right in front of my eyes. I just feel shit. I am overwhelmed and I dont know what to do. I am 23 i have got a job with an okay salary but i feel like i am wasting my youthful years. I want to make more money. It's like i am having a mid-life crises but at 23. I can't just get a grip.
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Oh my God I feel horrible. I feel like i am seeing my life being wasted right in front of my eyes. I just feel shit. I am overwhelmed and I dont know what to do. I am 23 i have got a job with an okay salary but i feel like i am wasting my youthful years. I want to make more money. It's like i am having a mid-life crises but at 23. I can't just get a grip.
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Hey. I am 23, gentleman. And I was in a 3 year toxic relationship. It took my everything away. Till I couldn't be sure if I am mentally damaged or not. All my friends left because I couldn't keep up with all the toxicity. I thought love was enough, but it isn't. I am done now. I feel so much free and alive. I am trying to start my life. Have new friends. New circle. Some people to have quality time with. I am trying to hit that restart button in my life. I am here taking the first step. Thanks.
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Hey. I am 23, gentleman. And I was in a 3 year toxic relationship. It took my everything away. Till I couldn't be sure if I am mentally damaged or not. All my friends left because I couldn't keep up with all the toxicity. I thought love was enough, but it isn't. I am done now. I feel so much free and alive. I am trying to start my life. Have new friends. New circle. Some people to have quality time with. I am trying to hit that restart button in my life. I am here taking the first step. Thanks.
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Okay so I am a private guy so I don't talk about my feeling often but I think venting about it might help I'm a guy age 19 and I have been stuck in this r/s pause for about 1 year now its not that I don't date or flirt I just started losing interest in trying hard...I would like something stable with someone but I also wanna have fun at the same time...and most girls I meet are either thinking about marriage or are only in it to have fun... And I know there is a girl out there who can give me both...
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Okay so I am a private guy so I don't talk about my feeling often but I think venting about it might help I'm a guy age 19 and I have been stuck in this r/s pause for about 1 year now its not that I don't date or flirt I just started losing interest in trying hard...I would like something stable with someone but I also wanna have fun at the same time...and most girls I meet are either thinking about marriage or are only in it to have fun... And I know there is a girl out there who can give me both...
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