False Digital State

You are never valued just based on what you know.
You are valued based on your problem-solving skills, decision-making ability, discipline, creativity, and your ability to handle situations by yourself.

But today, these things are slowly getting affected because of your dependency on the Internet.
People have started forgetting how to make decisions by themselves. Before making even a small decision, they ask an AI bot, search on Google, or look for someone else's opinion.

And when you keep doing this, you slowly stop thinking for yourself.

People are even writing their messages which are completely from AI. At some point, you have to ask yourself:
Are these really your thoughts anymore?

The problem is not using AI.
The problem starts when you become so dependent on it that you can't function properly without it.
Because in the real world, you won't always have AI with you.
There will be situations where you have to make a decision yourself.

There will be problems where nobody will tell you what to do.
There will be moments when there is no Google, no ChatGPT, no YouTube tutorial, no one to guide you.

At that time, you will have to depend on your own brain.
And if you haven't used it for years, don't expect it to suddenly perform perfectly.

Your brain also needs training.
And this isn't only about AI.
Look at how we are living today.
You are more concerned about the videos on YouTube, messages on Telegram and notifications on your phone than the people sitting with you at home.

You know more about the lives of people on Instagram than the lives of the people you meet every day.

You are more interested in a girl on Instagram because of her filtered pictures than in the girl you actually meet in real life.

You are constantly trying to create new memories for your camera and your social media...
while forgetting to actually live the moment.

We record everything. We post everything. We share everything.
But sometimes, we forget to experience anything.
We are becoming so connected to the digital world that we are slowly becoming disconnected from the real one.

Technology was supposed to make our lives easier.
It was never supposed to make us incapable of living without it.
So use the Internet.
- Use AI, use technology.
But don't let them think for you.
Don't let them make every decision for you.
Don't let them replace your relationships.
And don't let your screen become more important than your life.

Use technology, but don't become fully dependent on it.
Because the goal of technology should be to make you more capable,
not to make you incapable without it.

- variable | #var526

Are you too a coward?

- Taking no stand for yourselves, acting cowardly, lacking confidence, saying yes to everyone and everything. Are you among such people?
- Do you try to be in the good books of everyone?
- Shame is on you.

Let me tell you a story:
A boy was like this, but he had great dreams and aspirations in life. Maybe you too have great dreams and aspirations, but he died as an average person in life. No one valued him; he wasn't taken seriously. Because he was a coward. This world never values cowards.

Don't be like that boy.
- Be wise and brave. Bravery without wisdom is dangerous.
- Acquire knowledge.
- Stop wasting your time and living life like other people.
- Stop living life like the majority around you do.

Live differently, or die average. But I don't want you to die average, so work every single day for greatness and enlightenment in life.

- variable | #var527

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You aren't lucky; you have to make yourself lucky.

Everything counts. Whatever good or bad you do, you have to pay for it.

If you read my messages, this might shape your mind towards greatness. If you read the right books, they may help you in decision-making. If you discuss the right things with people, that might provide you with more insights.

Accumulation of knowledge from all different sources, even if it's just a sentence, can provide you with an advantage to be lucky tomorrow.

People may call you lucky then, but there's a direct relation between that luck and something which you did in the past.

Luck is the visible result of preparation, timing, relationships, behavior, and past actions.

- Winning the lottery isn't luck; maybe you enrolled at the right time. The timing was right.
- Getting a job with a referral isn't luck; maybe you developed great and genuine networking so they choose you.
- Your selection in any tv-show isn't luck; maybe they liked your behavior.
- That beautiful girl accepting your proposal isn't luck; maybe she liked a few aspects of your life.

In a nutshell, the thing which I want to teach you is: no one is lucky without any effort. "LUCK FAVORS THE DESERVING ONE."

Now, maybe you work hard but aren't able to crack a job, and someone working less than you gets in easily. It doesn't mean you are unlucky. You have to accept that there is something in that person which you don't have. Maybe in the job interview, he looked smarter and more confident than you. Maybe he corrupted them, which you couldn't. He shaped his luck, but you complained.

Shape your luck from today, prepare yourself.

Now I want to teach you UNFAIR ADVANTAGE.
This is any advantage which you can use to surpass others, even if they are smarter than you.
Winning is more about strategy than working like a labor. In fact hardwork is equally important, but more than that is the strategy.


In the next post, I'll explain the unfair advantage.

- variable | #var528

Unfair Advantage

Once, I was in an auditorium where there were people better than me and more knowledgeable than me. However, I stood up confidently, delivered a speech, and was appreciated later because I did something without preparation that no one else was able to do.

I don't say, "I am special and better, that's why I could do it." Instead, I call it my unfair advantage.
Speaking in English in front of people is my unfair advantage. Maybe someone more qualified than me can be overpowered when we are speaking in front of the public simply because I can express myself confidently.

An unfair advantage is an ability or circumstance you have that makes you unique to some extent. It separates you from other people, and in many cases, it is something that other people cannot easily take away from you.

Your unfair advantage can be:
- Being born into a rich family.
- Having a good partner who genuinely thinks about your betterment.
- Your skills.
- Your physique.
- Your language or communication ability.
- Your beauty.
- Your confidence.
- Your experiences and the things you have gone through.
- Your ability to connect with people.
Something you can do naturally that others struggle to do.

Some unfair advantages are given to you by birth or circumstances. Others are built over time.
Once you find an advantage in yourself, you have to hone it and make it sharper. You have to keep improving it until it becomes something that clearly separates you from other people. Later, you can use that ability to create opportunities for yourself and compete with people who may be stronger than you in other areas.

Maybe someone doesn't look better than you, isn't richer than you, or isn't as confident as you. But that person may be extremely smart in something else. That is his unfair advantage. Through that ability, he can become more charismatic, more valuable, or more influential than you in a particular situation.

This is why you shouldn't look at another person and think, "He is better than me." You may simply be looking at his unfair advantage while ignoring your own.
Find yours.
And once you find it, hone it until people cannot ignore it.


- variable | #var529

Society in general doesn't like a successful woman.

Whatever I will say you below, it happens majority of the times. Exceptions are always there who will not get affected with your progress.

If you are a working woman in any company and performing better than others, they will feel jealous of you. A lot of times, they will envy you.

A man of the same age at same place may think, “She's superior to me, and I can't control her. He starts despising you subconsciously.”

And a woman from a previous generation who isn't successful may subconsciously think that you are living a better life and surpassing her. “She will not prefer to like you”.

Sometimes, for a woman, it's very difficult to manage and handle it. Only a wise woman knows how to deal with it.
Be wise, gain knowledge, and protect your peace.

Times are changing. I say it and will always say it: the trend is changing. Women are now increasingly operating independently and participating in professional life.
It's fact-based. These days, we can see emerging women entrepreneurs, working women, and successful women. Opportunities for women have changed significantly compared with previous generations.

Girls and women are also achieving strongly in education and professional fields. There are women who are operating independently and making their own decisions, something that was far less common in many previous generations.

In my booklet, “Female: Her mind and the world she will shape,” I clearly mentioned a lot of things about it.

If you are a woman and can afford it, do take it. If you can't, kindly don't purchase it.


- variable | #var530

This is a magical world, and you are the magician.

Almost everything is possible to achieve which you think in your mind. All you need to do is apply magic. And only the magicians apply magic. So the first step is to become a magician.

When I talk about magic, I don't mean to whisper some incantations. Because that magic doesn't work here. If magical spells were real, then everyone would have been rich with great businesses.
This is real magic, not any trick.

Let's talk about real magic. To become that magician requires experience, effort, skills, emotional mastery and life knowledge.

Once you master these things, you will learn decision-making, your mind will become stronger, and eventually, you can get whatever you want.

You will become emotionally strong, you will learn to say NO, you will avoid those who aren't good around you, who aren't productive and good, even if they are your close ones.

- Your words will be wisdom.
- You will be valued.
- People will appreciate you.
- You will navigate through any maze in life.

That's the magician which you have to become.

- People will ask, how you became this person.
- Your spouse will feel proud of you, he/she will think how is it possible to become a person like you.

And when you will be praised, you will still continue to grow to maintain your magical powers.

- variable | #var531

For Future Moms

Every mother should take a promise from her son or daughter.
When you are truly loved by someone, like your mother, where there is no selfishness, you naturally understand their love. And when they take a promise from you, there are high chances that you will genuinely work for that promise.

The promise should not be taken during a random conversation. It should be taken at a time when the son or daughter is calm, sitting with you, and listening carefully to you.

There must be some emotional aspect as well, to make it more effective. Tell them some stories, maybe something from your own life, or something that happened when they were young. Make them understand why the promise matters.

To some extent, make it emotional. Not to manipulate them, but so that they can find meaning in it. Maybe, at that moment, they will realize that something in their life needs to change.

The reason why I say MOM is because a mother loves her children in a way that is difficult to compare. There is no comparison between a mother's and a father's love, but a mother often goes through a different kind of pain for her children.

When you fall ill, it is your mom who may not be able to sleep properly. She listens to you. She knows your little things. She can stand with you and even fight with the world for you.

Maybe your mothers cannot get this message today.
But you are young. Tomorrow, when you become a mother, remember this. When your children become old enough to understand what you are saying, sit with them, talk to them, tell them stories, and take a meaningful promise from them.
Then see the magic.

Dads should also do it. But with moms it becomes more effective.

- variable | #var532

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Rebirth!

It is time for rebirth and it's possible.
The first principle of self-improvement is self-destruction; you must destruct your current self to see your new self.

Back then in 2025, I wrote a detailed article on that.

Read it now.

You are going to be rewarded in public for something you do in private.

Whatever you do in private, its results are visible in public.

Success is often the result of preparation in private.
Keep working in private to see results in public.

- variable | #var533

Serve to Survive

"You must serve to survive."
This is one of the fundamental principles of existence.

You cannot expect to receive everything without giving something in return. As you grow from a child into an adult, you begin to understand that even within a family, relationships require contribution. Your skills, time, responsibilities, and financial support become ways of serving the people you love.

- To survive in a company, you must contribute value. If you stop fulfilling your responsibilities, you may eventually lose your position.
- To sustain a marriage, you must invest time, care, understanding, and effort. Love alone is not enough if you stop nurturing the relationship.
- To maintain your health, you must serve your body through proper nutrition, exercise, rest, and discipline. Neglect it, and sooner or later, you will face the consequences.
- To maintain friendships, you must offer loyalty, attention, and support. You cannot expect a friendship to remain alive if only one person keeps giving.
- To grow in life, you must serve your goals through consistent action. Dreams without effort remain dreams.

Look around you. Almost everything you wish to preserve demands something from you. Your relationships demand care. Your body demands discipline. Your career demands competence. Your dreams demand sacrifice.

The world does not run on expectations; it runs on contributions.
But remember, serving does not mean becoming a slave to others. It means understanding your responsibilities and giving what is necessary to sustain what matters to you.
The deeper you look into life, the more clearly you understand this principle: if you want something to stay in your life, you must continuously give it a reason to stay.

Nothing meaningful sustains itself forever without effort.
The more you grow, the more you understand it.
Serve to survive, sustain and grow. Nothing comes free.

- variable | #var534

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Be Ready to Be Questioned.

If you teach something, be ready to be questioned. It is an indispensable quality of a teacher.
If you lack sufficient knowledge of a subject, stop pretending to be an authority over it.
A teacher is supposed to be prepared for every question which can come about the topic.

People may ask questions that sound basic, foolish, or even stupid to you. But that is exactly where your patience, knowledge, and character are tested. Never lose your temper because someone questions you.

Unfortunately, many teachers, professors, and tutors fail to understand the importance of questioning. They consider lectures a one-way process, where they speak and others listen. But questioning is not a disturbance in teaching; it is an essential part of it.

A true teacher welcomes questions, no matter how basic they seem. He says students to ask students. A person who cannot tolerate questions has misunderstood the purpose of teaching.

A teacher is supposed to have mastery over their subject. Some pretend to possess that mastery, but when questioned, they divert the discussion, change the topic, answer inefficiently, or try to silence the person asking.

Remember: Your authority as a teacher is not proved by how many people listen to you, but by how confidently you can answer their questions.
And if you don't know the answer, have the courage to admit it. Saying "I don't know" is far more respectable than pretending to know.

Teach with knowledge. Answer with patience. Admit with honesty. Never fear questions.


- variable | #var535

TALK LESS.

Not every thought needs to be spoken.
The more you talk without limits, the more likely you are to say things you don't mean, waste your time, and create problems that never needed to exist.

You need to learn to pause. Choose your words carefully. Know when to speak and when to remain silent.

Your words have power. Don't weaken them by overusing them.

Speak when you have something meaningful to add. Listen to understand. Let your actions speak when words are unnecessary.

Have you ever noticed that truly wise and knowledgeable people don't talk a lot in bragging way?

It doesn't mean you should remain silent all the time. It means knowing when your words are necessary and when silence is the wiser choice.

The more you talk without thinking, the more likely you are to say things that add no value.

Remember, the goal is not to speak less just for the sake of it, but to make every word count.

- variable | #var536

Marriage Material

I pity those who get married without being ready for marriage.

Marriage is not just about loving someone, living together, or celebrating a wedding. It is about being ready to build a new life with another person, where your decisions, responsibilities, priorities, and even habits may have to change.


You must be mature enough to compromise when necessary, not out of weakness, but for the betterment of your relationship and the peace of your family.
Sometimes, you will have to sacrifice personal desires for something greater than yourself.

You must understand the responsibility of raising a family. Bringing children into this world is one thing; raising them with wisdom, values, and the right education is another. You must be willing to become the kind of person you would want your children to learn from.

You don't need to know everything before getting married, but you must be willing to learn, grow, and take responsibility. You must have enough understanding to educate your children, not just academically, but also about life, character, relationships, and the world around them.


Why does being marriage material matter?
Marriage cannot survive on love alone. Without maturity, responsibility, understanding, and the willingness to adapt, even people who love each other can grow tired of one another. Small disagreements become major conflicts, responsibilities become burdens, and eventually, people may begin to regret the very decision they once celebrated.

Marriage is not something you should enter simply because you have reached a certain age or found someone you love.

Before you decide to build a life with someone, become someone capable of building one.

You need to understand that the person with whom you will live, is going to have some different habits where you have to adapt.

Marriage is often called as the beginning of a new life.
- Once a person gets married, he/she has to make mind to sacrifice a lot.

VT believes in building great people. And becoming marriage material is one part of becoming a great human being in married life.


- variable | #var537

Marriage Material
coming coming
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THERE IS BOOM IN MARRIAGE BREAK-UPS.

When you see how many marriages are falling apart or people aren't happy with spouses, one question naturally comes to mind:
What if this happens to me after I get married?

It's a frightening thought. But fear alone won't protect your relationship. Understanding, maturity, preparation, and the right mindset can make a difference.

And I want you to know one thing:
I won't leave your hand when it comes to helping you prepare for life.

I've been working on a booklet titled MARRIAGE MATERIAL.

It's not about painting marriage as a fairy tale. It's about understanding what marriage actually demands of you.

Inside, you'll find realistic examples, practical ideas, common mistakes, and possible solutions to help you understand the responsibilities of marriage before you step into it.

Because marriage isn't just about finding the right person. It's also about becoming the right person.

📖 Tomorrow, I'm sharing it with you.

However this booklet will be paid, as it deserves dedicated work and thoughtful preparation. However, VT Graduates will receive a 50% discount as a token of appreciation for their journey with us.

My advice? Don't wait until you're married to start learning what marriage requires.

Be curious. Tomorrow might change how you look at marriage forever.


YOUR MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BREAK. TO PREVENT FROM IT, ACCESS THE BOOKLET TOMORROW.

- variable | #var538