Many children are neglected after separation with little supervision, nurturing, support, or protection. The roles of the each parent are innate and common sensical, yet such basic sense is increasingly uncommon. This leaves our precious young ones vulnerable inside and outside of their homes. The household is often a group of familiar strangers.

A vessel only gives what it holds and it’s no wonder that many in the up and coming generation are ill prepared for adulthood, marriage or parenthood.

Neglect is often more detrimental than abuse because neglect is parental inattention/apathy while abuse is negative attention. Don’t pass down generational dysfunctional to future generations.


Islamic custody laws shine a bright light on the individual responsibilities of the mother and father whether still married or separated. These rights are all the more crucial after divorce.

Learn the rights of Muslim children, then educate, implement, & enforce.

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[أكثر ‌النُّفوس البشريَّة صرعى مع هذه الأرواح الخبيثة]

قال الإمام ابن القيم -رحمه الله- في زاد المعاد ٦٣/٤:

ولو كُشِف الغطاء لرأيت ‌أكثر ‌النُّفوس البشريَّة صرعى مع هذه الأرواح الخبيثة، وهي في أسرها وقبضتها تسوقها حيث شاءت، ولا يمكنها الامتناع عنها ولا مخالفتها، وبها الصَّرع الأعظم الَّذي لا يفيق صاحبه إلَّا عند المفارقة والمعاينة، فهناك يتحقَّق أنَّه كان هو المصروع حقيقة.

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وصية عالم رباني

‏📌*نصيحة:*

*قال العلامة ابن عثيمين رحمه الله تعالى (حاول أن تبتعد عن كل شيء يجلب الهم والحزن والغم لتكون دائمًا مستريحًا منشرح الصدر مقبلاً على الله وعلى عبادته وعلى شئونك الدنيوية والأخروية ، فإذا جربت هذا استرحت ، أما إن أتعبت نفسك مما مضىٰ أو بالاهتمام بالمستقبل على وجه لم يأذن ‏به الشرع فاعلم أنك ستتعب ويفوتك خير كثير*)
فتح ذي الجلال والإكرام (٥٣٣/٣)

‎💎𝐀𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐍𝐞𝐰 𝐌𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐬 [𝐑𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐬] 𝐭𝐨 𝐈𝐬𝐥𝐚̄𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐒𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐟𝐢𝐲𝐲𝐚𝐡❗️

‎𝐐𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 & 𝐀𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 with Shaykh Dr. ‘Abdullāh ibn Zalfīq ad-Dafīrī [حفظه الله]

‎♦️𝐐𝐔𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍:

‎We bring you glad tidings, beloved and esteemed Shaykh, that some of our brothers have embraced Islām, and all praise is due to Allāh. They have also embraced the Salafi Da’wah, and for that, we are deeply grateful to Allāh.

‎What advice do you have for them, and how should they begin their journey in seeking knowledge? May Allāh bless you and reward you abundantly, and may He make you a source of benefit for Islām and the Muslims❓

‎🅰️𝐍𝐒𝐖𝐄𝐑:

‎“𝐴𝑠𝑠𝑎𝑙𝑎̄𝑚𝑢 ‘𝑎𝑙𝑎𝑖𝑘𝑢𝑚 𝑤𝑎 𝑅𝑎ℎ𝑚𝑎𝑡𝑢𝑙𝑙𝑎̄ℎ𝑖 𝑤𝑎 𝐵𝑎𝑟𝑎𝑘𝑎̄𝑡𝑢ℎ，

‎Welcome, dear Maḥmūd. May Allāh bless you with goodness. This is wonderful news, a tremendous glad tiding that gladdens the hearts of all believers. I ask Allāh, the Mighty and Majestic, to spread Islām, the Sunnah, and the Salafi way among His servants. May Allāh reward you with goodness for your efforts in following the path of da’wah to Allāh, the Mighty and Majestic.

‎And Allāh, the Mighty and Majestic said:
‎‘𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝗻 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗲𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 [𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀: “𝗠𝘆 𝗟𝗼𝗿𝗱 𝗶𝘀 𝗔𝗹𝗹𝗮̄𝗵 (𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝗢𝗻𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀),” 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝘀 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝗺 (𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘀 𝘂𝗽𝗼𝗻 𝗛𝗶𝘀 𝗢𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿), 𝗮𝗻𝗱] 𝗶𝗻𝘃𝗶𝘁𝗲𝘀 (𝗺𝗲𝗻) 𝘁𝗼 𝗔𝗹𝗹𝗮̄𝗵’𝘀 (𝗜𝘀𝗹𝗮̄𝗺𝗶𝗰 𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝘀𝗺), 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗲𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀: “𝗜 𝗮𝗺 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗠𝘂𝘀𝗹𝗶𝗺𝘀.”’[Sūrah Fussilat 41:33]

‎𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬, 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠:

‎1️⃣ 𝗧𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗧𝗵𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗙𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗹 𝗣𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗽𝗹𝗲𝘀: [A foundational text in Islāmic creed authored by Shaykh Muḥammad ibn ‘Abdul-Wahhāb, explaining the core principles every Muslim must understand: knowing Allāh, knowing the Prophet ﷺ, and understanding Islām based on evidence from the Qur’ān and Sunnah.]

‎2️⃣ 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 Ḥ𝗮𝗱𝗶̄𝘁𝗵 𝗼𝗳 ’𝗨𝗺𝗮𝗿:
‎‘𝘼𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙟𝙪𝙙𝙜𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙮 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨.’ [This ḥadīth is fundamental for understanding the importance of sincerity and intention in actions & statements.]

‎3️⃣ 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 Ḥ𝗮𝗱𝗶̄𝘁𝗵 𝗼𝗳 ’𝗔𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗮:
‎‘𝙒𝙝𝙤𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙣 𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙞𝙣 𝙖𝙘𝙘𝙤𝙧𝙙𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙖𝙛𝙛𝙖𝙞𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙞𝙩 𝙧𝙚𝙟𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙚𝙙.’ This ḥadīth, narrated by Muslim and included in the collections of Al-Nawawī in his Forty Ḥadīth and Ibn Rajab in Jāmi' al-‘Ulūmm wal-Hikam, highlights the importance of adhering to the Sunnah.

‎4️⃣ 𝗧𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗺 𝘁𝗵𝗲 Ḥ𝗮𝗱𝗶̄𝘁𝗵 𝗼𝗳 𝗝𝗶𝗯𝗿𝗶̄𝗹:
‎In this ḥadīth, Jibrīl asks the Prophet ﷺ about Islām, Īmān, and Iḥsān, and the Prophet ﷺ concludes by saying;
‎‘𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙅𝙞𝙗𝙧𝙞̄𝙡; 𝙝𝙚 𝙘𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙞𝙤𝙣.’
‎Explain the lessons from this ḥadīth step by step [to give them a comprehensive understanding of their religion.]

‎𝐀𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐬, 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨:

‎➤ A deeper study of 𝗞𝗶𝘁𝗮𝗯 𝗮𝗹－𝗧𝗮𝘄ḥ𝗶̄𝗱 (The Book of Monotheism).
‎➤ A detailed explanation of 𝗔𝗹－𝗔𝗿𝗯𝗮’𝗶̄𝗻 𝗔𝗹－𝗡𝗮𝘄𝗮𝘄𝗶𝘆𝘆𝗮𝗵 [The Forty Ḥadīth of Al-Nawawī].

‎These works collectively clarify the foundations of Islām, Imān, and Tawḥīd.

‎𝑀𝑎𝑦 𝐴𝑙𝑙𝑎̄ℎ 𝑔𝑟𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑠𝑢𝑐𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑚𝑎𝑘𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎 𝑠𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑐𝑒 𝑜𝑓 𝑏𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑓𝑖𝑡 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝐼𝑠𝑙𝑎̄𝑚 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑀𝑢𝑠𝑙𝑖𝑚𝑠.”

‎☞︎ 𝗌𝗅𝗂𝗀𝗁𝗍𝗅𝗒 𝗉𝖺𝗋𝖺𝗉𝗁𝗋𝖺𝗌𝖾𝖽 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗌𝗆𝖺𝗅𝗅 𝖺𝖽𝖽𝗂𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇𝗌．

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‎♻️”Aɴᴅ ʀᴇᴍɪɴᴅ, ꜰᴏʀ ɪɴᴅᴇᴇᴅ, ᴛʜᴇ ʀᴇᴍɪɴᴅᴇʀ ʙᴇɴᴇꜰɪᴛs ᴛʜᴇ ʙᴇʟɪᴇᴠᴇʀs” [⁵¹:⁵⁵]

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⚠️ I compiled this collection of advices and rulings with three people in mind: (1.) Youth or anyone else readying themselves for marriage; (2.) Parents and guardians searching for suitors; & (3.) Couples and families who would like to strengthen the foundations of their marriage. In other words, it was researched with almost everyone in mind. May Allah strengthen our families and communities.

The five purposes of marriage are:

(1️⃣.) Chastity (lawful fulfillment of natural sexual desire).
(2️⃣.) Children (to reproduce and raise righteous youth).
(3️⃣.) Companionship (to cooperate in building a family).
(4️⃣.) Community (the linkage between families & strengthening of community via the marriage bond).
(5️⃣.) Commitment (ensuring longevity by marrying for the right reasons and fulfilling marital duties).