“fear of being known, need to be seen”
i needed the psychological explanation to this statement, so i found one.
first of all, guys! it’s a trauma response🤡
the reason we resist being known is that each of our stories is marked by beauty and brokenness; dignity and depravity; glory and shame.
as simple as that.
some of us don’t open up and allow others in. even though we want to be known, we decide the risk just isn’t worth it. the longing to protect ourselves proves to be stronger than the longing to be known by others.
i needed the psychological explanation to this statement, so i found one.
first of all, guys! it’s a trauma response
the reason we resist being known is that each of our stories is marked by beauty and brokenness; dignity and depravity; glory and shame.
as simple as that.
some of us don’t open up and allow others in. even though we want to be known, we decide the risk just isn’t worth it. the longing to protect ourselves proves to be stronger than the longing to be known by others.
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i consider any apartment will be fine, as long as outside is new york
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It's nice when someone sees us,
or has the ability to see us..
it requires trust
you spend a lot of time building walls, it's natural to want to see if someone is clever enough to climb over them
or has the ability to see us..
it requires trust
you spend a lot of time building walls, it's natural to want to see if someone is clever enough to climb over them
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i have three deadlines
till tomorrow🎀
till tomorrow
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«we talked, she was the same inside as I am, from the same kind»
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