i think one day we'll all change and it doesn't matter how old we are...one day we'll wake up and realize we don't like a certain food anymore or we've fallen in love with something we used to hate. our opinions about our appearance will have changed. we'll no longer agree with certain behaviors or ways of thinking and the things we used to be so stubborn about won't seem nearly as important anymore...
at some point our ideas of right and wrong might switch places..we'll change and the people around us will change too..
and through all of this i've never understood why people hold on so tightly to other people's pasts and find it so hard to accept that they've changed..like dude have you never changed yourself?
one day you'll realize that someone you used to think badly of isn't actually that bad or maybe someone you once loved wasn't as lovable as you thought.. your priorities will change, the things you care about will shift and even your boundaries will look different...
what i'm trying to say is that time passes and we all change just like circumstances and the weather...it's neither strange nor wrong.
maybe sometimes it's painful and maybe it hurts us but that doesn't give anyone the right to judge someone for changing or use their past against them every chance they get.