Adab Meminta Tolong:

✅ direct bagitau mau minta tolong apa + “klu ko nda busy la” (lebih sopan lagi ko tambah; “sorry klu ganggu”
✅ klu org tu suda menolak samada secara halus apalagi kalu terang² suda, jwb la "oh nda apa, tq ☺️” Jangan cuba² untuk runding atau paksa secara kasar mahupun halus, belajar hormat hak & keputusan org lain. Mesti dia ada keutamaan lain yg dia perlu selesaikan. Tdk perlu kecil hati. Cukup sekali org tu kata "tidak".

Jarang sy nampak org yg tdk tau benda mudah ni kecuali budak² kecik masih belum sekolah atau masih sekolah rendah. Jadi bila sy nampak wujudnya org dewasa yg masih tdk tau benda ni mmg sy rasa mcm mau tepuk dahi 🤦🏻‍♀️

Kwn² sy yg rapat & sudah lama kenal pun, klu sy blg "sorry nda dpt tlg 🙏" pun tdk pernah la drg paksa sy atau sakit hati sbb sy tdk dpt tolong. pujuk2 sy “tolong ba tolong ba" pun nda walaupun suda kenal lama 😂 biasa yg nda rapat tu yg begitu, sebab tu la nda kn jd rapat dgn sy sbb sy anti sikit org bgitu 😅

#thoughts #advice
@quietworld🍃

Sometimes taking a moment to be still and just chill is the most productive thing to do instead of always 'running' full speed checking off all the stuffs in your to-do list; because you might missed the most important & precious thing.

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Everything starts from within & everything you awaken from within are more long lasting.

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When people pretends to be caring but the truth is they are just nosy, I get really irritated & annoyed real fast 📈📈🙄

as if I don't know, they're just being nosy af 🙄

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This holiday I just want to do nothing. I'm too tired to socialize, make plans, etc. I may miss my family & want to meet up but I feel tired to even do anything that I like. All I feel like is want to be on my own, unbothered by people, lie down & stare into the abyss.

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I love being alone but when people keep questioning, it does makes me feel lonely but at the same time I don't want to simply have anyone by my side just for the sake of having company.

Probably because I have been traumatised of betrayal from someone close. Now it is hard for me to trust people. It was indeed difficult for me to trust people & now it has get more difficult. Ahh didn't really realize the toll of all 'those situations' had on me until right now.

#thoughts #randomrants
@quietworld🍃

🙈🙉🙊
It's better to just mind my own business & stop being a listener because even though I don't ask people about their business, but when they keep on talking & complaining to me, their negative vibe can get into me. Then, I'm the one who burst out & get ugly 🥴

I wish I remember this sooner.
Nevermind, what's done is done. Keep chin up, stay strong & move forward. They'll shut up eventually.

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Focusing on my own shit is a bliss ☺️✨

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Lebih baik makin tua makin bongkok daripada makin tua makin bongkak. 😆

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Believe in yourself.
Focus on your dream.
Be humble and kind.
Let others be themselves and you be you.

☺️🌻

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@quietworld🍃

Pulled a card for messages regarding yesterday & I got the card “Stop fuvking whining.” 😂

“No one wants to listen to that shit. Complaining makes you weak. You have the strength to change your world; so do it.”

Thank you for the message, Spirit Guides ☺️ Imma pick myself back as usual. I may not always have people to be there for me whenever I'm down but I always can count on my angels & Spirit Guides.
I have an army of my spiritual team around me that always have my back. We all do.
Isn't that the best thing ever?

They can do what humans can't do.

#thoughts #meditation #tarot #oracle @quietworld🍃

You may feel down, anxiety may attack you multiple times sometimes out of nowhere. Overthinking may come & try to get you.

Go & sit in meditation, just let it flow through you, & pick yourself up.

Yes, sometimes you gotta pick yourself up. If you seek to be understood, it is more likely that people can't see through your lens. But why bother, you don't need validation from others on how you feel.

If you vent to the wrong person, you may end up in worser condition than before you vent it at the first place. You don't need to vent out to everyone you know, you don't need to vent out to all your close friends & family members. If you need to, choose only one.

Talk to your angels. Call upon your higher self. They got your back.

note: just an advice to myself in my situation.

#thoughts #selftalk @quietworld🍃

It's ok. I've done my part. I've received clarity. It's time to let go & fully let God for He knows what's for the highest good of all. 🙏

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Thank you Lord for reminding me how to truly rely on You & surrender everything to You.

God works in wondrous ways 🙏

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This holiday I just want to do nothing. I'm too tired to socialize, make plans, etc. I may miss my family & want to meet up but I feel tired to even do anything that I like. All I feel like is want to be on my own, unbothered by people, lie down & stare into the abyss.

#thoughts @quietworld🍃

Wah, about 2 years ago 😆 Now it's about 2 years later & I felt similar - the only difference is that this time it's mot because of tired, no hard feelings either; I just felt called to recharge in solitude, spending all my time doing what's good for me, what's make me happy, what's giving me sense of purpose, decluttering & sending my prayer of gratitude every single day. 🙏🪷

#thoughts #life @quietworld🍃

#thoughts #life #ponderlog222
@quietworld🍃

I just realized... I carried it too well that it made you think you can do better, so you took over only to carry it miserably & cry. The only thing you are great at seems to be playing victim.

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