Any pet owners here moved on from separation w their pet?

Getting tips from chatgpt was the worst decision cuz it made it worse (idek why did i come up with the idea that gpt could help)

Guys I can’t, I really can’t


I can’t focus on while reciting Quran tooo, cuz I keep feeling the way how my kitten used to play w me when I recited Quran

Everyone is sleeping. Late midnight. Peaceful. To the point that I don’t have any right to be ungrateful. I can’t be ungrateful.

But
I feel alone with a horrible sore throat, and without my cat. My connection with this little kitten was the only stable relationship, bond and connection at this stage of my life.

Now i no longer have that stability and i hit that late night depression with a fever 🤒🥲

With this lil kitten, I didn’t have to pretend. That lil kitten made me feel like I can be me, and made me feel like being in my true self was not scary nor unacceptable. At first I was feeling guilty and worried and surprised with how i felt. But when i actually got comfortable with not pretending, I got deprived from this lil thing.

Yes, I can be acting too childish or immature for my age. And yes i can be laughing later on about how I’m feeling rn. But i don’t understand, i feel so hurt and much pain that I for the first time caught myself feeling this low.

Everytime i felt sad and went thru something i always saw the way out of that, but now, perhaps for now? I cant see any way out, and i dunno if i should get the kitten back or just accept it and move on even if Im going to be stressed for long enough period of time cuz of longing for the warmth i felt with the kitten?


How can a pet be a safe place? A home? Cuz now she’s gone I don’t feel safe anywhere, i dont see the warmth anywhere.

- dad, I fell sick whole day and I can’t feel happy, feeling like with kitten all of my happiness hormones are now gone, where do i get oxytocin?
- from Quran

I knoooow i already know Quran heals everything 😭😭but how am I gonna get that if i keep crying and longing for the sweet distractions of my kitten, while reciting Quran too???? Teach me the art of detachment from the pet.


Time will heal, perhaps I am being tested cuz I might have loved the kitty to the point where it wasn’t possible to love like this and I got attached too much? But when everything and everyone seemed fake to me, she was the only one real.

I don’t understand how could I develop such a bond and deep connection with something real and alive? I dont understand why am i, as an adult crying more than my preschool lil sister?

I never knew I could feel this way. I literally never knew I could feel black and white.

And yes, I already heard people telling me to move on, not to focus on what is gone now, that is pointless to cry and grieve, that I am not acting appropriate to my age and bla bla bla.

I, myself want and know what to do, do sth else instead of focusing on this all rn, but no matter what I do, it aint mattering, got no idea how to fix this loneliness or feeling now. Perhaps I dont have to fix it, but just give myself some time to live through it?

Xullas, occupants of Jannah

There is this very intelligent lady, my coursemate. She’s a physics teacher and mother of 3. We attend driving classes.

She is literally so kind, yk, do u feel the energy of people? Her energy is pure, so clean and warm. Full of love. Sincerity. She always has that soft smile on her shiny face.

Today, she was happier than usual that I thought, perhaps this lady is living her dream life, happy with her family, and great job. Now getting a driver license too. MashaAllah

She kept asking me what can she get for the bday of her toddler and kids. (Meal). I asked what was the favorite meal of her kids. As she talked about the way her kids enjoy particular meal, it felt like she was over the moon that time. And when she talked abt her husband, she felt content too. For a sec i thought: oooh, mashaAllah, how happy life she is living, she keeps balance in career, study and family, how wonderful. She must be happy cuz I think she got everything she needs for happiness.

Until she brought up that, she was happy cuz she got some bonuses ig to her salary, she finally can afford the surgery of her toddler.

Then i thought myself: ooooh girll…..

I wanted to ask what was wrong (as if i could help, i wish i could tho)

My curiosity didn’t let me shut up so I insisted on asking what was wrong 😭

Then she showed me her toddler. Oh my littliee such a sweeeeet baby guy with curly hair 😭😭 I hope he will make it thru all good🩷

The costs of surgery different based on the location. She said that they wanted to get the best done for their kid but they can’t afford it in Turkey.

24k$ in Turkey
10-15k$ in Moscow
2k$ in Uzb

She shared her story with her all kids.
That she was all the time tested by them. And yet she got that strength to smile?????

The mothers are literally the strongest warriors ever. 🥺

I pray to Allah all children to be safe please, and healthy 😭😭😭

What I wanna say is, we never know how much pain the smile can keep behind. Be a little more kind. Even if people are not kind to you, keep being kind to others. Cuz u never know how much of support your warmth can have 🩷🫶🏻

And take care of yourself, ur health

I dunno how did I come to this, it is just Allah has brought me here, perhaps today. Cuz yesterday i was with those what ifs too.

Yk those “what ifs”.

All of my what ifs stopped when i said “what if i just trust my matters to Allah?”

I’m not in control of whether those “what ifs” will happen or no. But I can simply trust those what ifs to Allah, and worry less, obviously while doing my best too.

Overthinking. That’s what I meant, what if your “what if” will happen? So what? U r still talking to Allah before sleep, at the end of the day. U r not alone even if the “what if” will happen.

Today’s driving class was traumatizing.

Alhamdulillah, i can breathe ✨

May Allah reward all of the hijabis for their patience and dignity.

Aaaaaa i hate 💉🫩
What is with this falling sick in this hot, Subhanallah

Please pray for me

I am going to share all you need to know about the day of Ashura.

In 1,2,3 u will inshaAllah get the most informative post on it

Ashura in Islam

The day of Ashura (10th of Muharram) /it is gonna be inshaAllah 5th of July/ tomorrow-> held special significance even during the pre-Islamic era. Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated:

“The day of Ashura was observed as a day of fasting in the pre-Islamic era. After the advent of Islam, those who wished could fast on it, and those who didn’t want to could leave it.”
(Narrated by Imam Muslim)

It is narrated that:

“Whoever feeds an orphan on the day of Ashura, Paradise will be guaranteed for him with its food and drink.”

Allah granted the Ummah of Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him several blessed months, days, and nights. For example, Rajab, Sha’ban, and Ramadan are blessed months; Laylat al-Bara’ah and Laylat al-Qadr are sacred nights; both Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha are festive celebrations; and Friday is a blessed day. Likewise, the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah and the first ten days of Muharram are blessed.


“Whoever applies antimony (kohl/surma) to his eyes on the day of Ashura will never suffer from eye ailments.”
(Narrated in “Jami’ al-Kabir”)

It is said that after the flood, when Prophet Noah (peace be upon him) disembarked from the Ark, he and his people applied kohl made from the residue of the Ark’s wood. They lost their sight for six months. On the 10th of Muharram, Allah commanded them to apply proper kohl, and their eyesight was restored.

On the day of Ashura, Allah granted miracles to ten Prophets:
Accepted Adam’s (peace be upon him) repentance.
Raised Idris (peace be upon him) to the heavens.
Saved Noah’s (peace be upon him) Ark.
Gave kingship to Solomon (peace be upon him).
Rescued Jonah (peace be upon him) from the belly of the fish.
Reunited Joseph (peace be upon him) with his father Jacob (peace be upon him).
Raised Jesus (peace be upon him) to the heavens.
Saved Moses (peace be upon him) from Pharaoh.
Saved Abraham (peace be upon him) from the fire of Nimrod.

FASTING

According to Sahih Muslim, the fast of Ashura is highly rewarding:

“Fasting on the day of Ashura expiates the sins of the previous year.”

In 2025, the day of Ashura falls on Saturday, July 5th.

Let us take advantage of these blessed days and make the most of them.