#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Ba'zida Ota-onalar va shogirtlar telegramdan yozishadi yoki telefon qilishadi. Ammo heavy workload sababli o'z vaqtida javob qaytara olmayman. Bunda ba'zilar to'g'ri tushunishadi, ba'zilar xafa bo'lishadi, Bonazar kabi shogirtlar esa yarim chin yarim hazillar orqali kayfiyatni ko'tarishadi...
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Ba'zida Ota-onalar va shogirtlar telegramdan yozishadi yoki telefon qilishadi. Ammo heavy workload sababli o'z vaqtida javob qaytara olmayman. Bunda ba'zilar to'g'ri tushunishadi, ba'zilar xafa bo'lishadi, Bonazar kabi shogirtlar esa yarim chin yarim hazillar orqali kayfiyatni ko'tarishadi...
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Shu partaga rasm chizgan bola qanaqa tarbiya ko'rgan bola ekana...
Shuni men yoki farrosh yoki o'zining ustozi o'chirishga majbur bo'lishini o'ylamagani aniq.
Shu bola uyida ham shunaqamikan. Hayronman, bolalarga biz bilim beramiz, gohida ular umuman natijaga erisha olmaydi. Bunda eng katta ayb, uning tarbiyasizligi deb bilaman...
Bunday bolalar darsga e'tibor bermasdan, partaga chizadi, stulni yirtadi, ba'zida devorga rasm chizadi...keyin esa natija 0 ga teng bo'ladi.
To'g'ri ustoz e'tiborli bo'lishi kerak, lekin biz dars berishga qiziqib ketamiz, darsni iloji boricha sifatli, mazmunli va ko'proq ma'lumot berishga harakat qilgan holda o'tishga intilib, darsga chet narsalar e'tibordan chetda qoladi.
Siz bolaga bor bilimingizni, mehringizni berasiz, ammo javobi shunaqa bo'lsa, bolalardan xafa bo'lib ketasiz...
Esingizdan chiqarmang aziz bolajonlar: biz sizdan energiya olamiz...sizni yaxshi o'qishingiz bilan bir qatorda, sadoqatli bo'lishingizni ham istaymiz...
Hurmatli ota-onalar! Bola tarbiyasi bilan ham jiddiy shug'ullaning...bilim tarbiyasiz natija olib kelmaydi...ishoning...
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Shu partaga rasm chizgan bola qanaqa tarbiya ko'rgan bola ekana...
Shuni men yoki farrosh yoki o'zining ustozi o'chirishga majbur bo'lishini o'ylamagani aniq.
Shu bola uyida ham shunaqamikan. Hayronman, bolalarga biz bilim beramiz, gohida ular umuman natijaga erisha olmaydi. Bunda eng katta ayb, uning tarbiyasizligi deb bilaman...
Bunday bolalar darsga e'tibor bermasdan, partaga chizadi, stulni yirtadi, ba'zida devorga rasm chizadi...keyin esa natija 0 ga teng bo'ladi.
To'g'ri ustoz e'tiborli bo'lishi kerak, lekin biz dars berishga qiziqib ketamiz, darsni iloji boricha sifatli, mazmunli va ko'proq ma'lumot berishga harakat qilgan holda o'tishga intilib, darsga chet narsalar e'tibordan chetda qoladi.
Siz bolaga bor bilimingizni, mehringizni berasiz, ammo javobi shunaqa bo'lsa, bolalardan xafa bo'lib ketasiz...
Esingizdan chiqarmang aziz bolajonlar: biz sizdan energiya olamiz...sizni yaxshi o'qishingiz bilan bir qatorda, sadoqatli bo'lishingizni ham istaymiz...
Hurmatli ota-onalar! Bola tarbiyasi bilan ham jiddiy shug'ullaning...bilim tarbiyasiz natija olib kelmaydi...ishoning...
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Kelajakda qaysi yo'ldan yurishni bilmayotganlar uchun!
Ko'pchilik yigitlar va qizlar mendan kim bo'lsam ekan, deb so'raydi. Aytishadiki, dadam: narxozga kir deydi, ayam: o'qituvchi bo'l deydi, akam esa: chetga sur deydi, nima qilishni bilmayapman, deb aytishadi. O'zing kim bo'lmoqchisan desam, duxtir deydi.
Ey, baraka topgur ukam, singlim. Bu dunyoda inson ikkita narsani o'zi qaror qiladi: kelajakda kim bo'lish va kim bilan oila qurish. O'zi aytib turibsizku, kim bo'lishingizni, yuragingizga quloq soling, tamom.
Ayam ko'nmadi, dadam molni ipini tutqazdi, akam yemish tashitdi, deb yuraversangiz, bir-ikki yilda yo sizni erga berib yuboradi yo Rossiyaga ishlagani ketasiz.
Shunday ekan, qiziqishingizni inobatga olnig. Agar hali qaysi fanga qiziqayotganingizni bilmasangiz, ingliz tilidan boshlab turing yoki matematika ham yaxshi variant. Til baribir kerak bo'ladi, qaysi eshikdan kirsangiz ham.
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Kelajakda qaysi yo'ldan yurishni bilmayotganlar uchun!
Ko'pchilik yigitlar va qizlar mendan kim bo'lsam ekan, deb so'raydi. Aytishadiki, dadam: narxozga kir deydi, ayam: o'qituvchi bo'l deydi, akam esa: chetga sur deydi, nima qilishni bilmayapman, deb aytishadi. O'zing kim bo'lmoqchisan desam, duxtir deydi.
Ey, baraka topgur ukam, singlim. Bu dunyoda inson ikkita narsani o'zi qaror qiladi: kelajakda kim bo'lish va kim bilan oila qurish. O'zi aytib turibsizku, kim bo'lishingizni, yuragingizga quloq soling, tamom.
Ayam ko'nmadi, dadam molni ipini tutqazdi, akam yemish tashitdi, deb yuraversangiz, bir-ikki yilda yo sizni erga berib yuboradi yo Rossiyaga ishlagani ketasiz.
Shunday ekan, qiziqishingizni inobatga olnig. Agar hali qaysi fanga qiziqayotganingizni bilmasangiz, ingliz tilidan boshlab turing yoki matematika ham yaxshi variant. Til baribir kerak bo'ladi, qaysi eshikdan kirsangiz ham.
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Real muhlislariga bugun qiyin bo'ladimi deymanda.
Bir ko'ngli sevimli jamoasini desa, bir ko'ngli vatandoshini deydi. Jamoasi gol ursayam, urolmasayam siqiladi. Ursa, o'zbek xato qilgan bo'ladi, urolmasa, jamoasi qiyin ahvolda qoladi. Ha rostdanam qiyin ekan...
Real Madrid fans might have a tough time today.
On one hand, their heart supports their favorite team; on the other hand, they want to support their fellow countryman. Whether their team scores or not, they will feel conflicted. If they score, it means an Uzbek player made a mistake; if they don’t, their team will be in trouble.
Yes, it really is a difficult situation...
@marvelacademy_lc
Real muhlislariga bugun qiyin bo'ladimi deymanda.
Bir ko'ngli sevimli jamoasini desa, bir ko'ngli vatandoshini deydi. Jamoasi gol ursayam, urolmasayam siqiladi. Ursa, o'zbek xato qilgan bo'ladi, urolmasa, jamoasi qiyin ahvolda qoladi. Ha rostdanam qiyin ekan...
Real Madrid fans might have a tough time today.
On one hand, their heart supports their favorite team; on the other hand, they want to support their fellow countryman. Whether their team scores or not, they will feel conflicted. If they score, it means an Uzbek player made a mistake; if they don’t, their team will be in trouble.
Yes, it really is a difficult situation...
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Shuncha yillik tajribamdan kelib chiqib shu narsani tushundimki, biz imtihon va testlarda yillar davomida olgan bilimlarimizning 50 balki 60 % ini ishlatamiz. Bu esa ko'p vaqtimiz aslida natijamiz uchun kerak bo'lmagan narsalarni o'rganishga sarflashga olib keladi, degani.
Xulosa, olgan bilimingizni "internalize" (test muhitida ham qo'llay olish) texnikasini oshirish ustida ham ishlash kerak.
Bu mening ko'plab o'zim topshirgan testlarda ham sodir bo'lmoqda. Aslida erkin muhitda be'malol ishlaydigan yoki yozadigan test, qiyindek tuyulishi - bu olgan bilimni qo'llashdagi kamchilik bilan bog'liq.
Demak, bolalarda ham shunday. O'qituvchilar o'z o'quvchilari bilan hamma mavzuni o'tishga emas, balki o'tilganlarini qo'llay olish ustida ishlash kerak.
Bu mening xulosalarim...
@marvelacademy_lc
Shuncha yillik tajribamdan kelib chiqib shu narsani tushundimki, biz imtihon va testlarda yillar davomida olgan bilimlarimizning 50 balki 60 % ini ishlatamiz. Bu esa ko'p vaqtimiz aslida natijamiz uchun kerak bo'lmagan narsalarni o'rganishga sarflashga olib keladi, degani.
Xulosa, olgan bilimingizni "internalize" (test muhitida ham qo'llay olish) texnikasini oshirish ustida ham ishlash kerak.
Bu mening ko'plab o'zim topshirgan testlarda ham sodir bo'lmoqda. Aslida erkin muhitda be'malol ishlaydigan yoki yozadigan test, qiyindek tuyulishi - bu olgan bilimni qo'llashdagi kamchilik bilan bog'liq.
Demak, bolalarda ham shunday. O'qituvchilar o'z o'quvchilari bilan hamma mavzuni o'tishga emas, balki o'tilganlarini qo'llay olish ustida ishlash kerak.
Bu mening xulosalarim...
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Today, I understood one thing. If a person wants something so hard, so strongly, they will work towards it no matter what.
If they do not want it or want it superficially, you cannot make them work for it.
You will explain something important with maximum care, subtlety, enthusiasm, energy and whatever genuine methods, however, when you turn yourself to something else, they start acting arrogantly, abruptly, carelessly and lightly.
Then, you come to a conclusion that you tried in vain. Your efforts and endeavors were wasted. They should want it not you. They should try not you. They should suffer not you. They should beg not you. It is their fate, destiny not yours...
@marvelacademy_lc
Today, I understood one thing. If a person wants something so hard, so strongly, they will work towards it no matter what.
If they do not want it or want it superficially, you cannot make them work for it.
You will explain something important with maximum care, subtlety, enthusiasm, energy and whatever genuine methods, however, when you turn yourself to something else, they start acting arrogantly, abruptly, carelessly and lightly.
Then, you come to a conclusion that you tried in vain. Your efforts and endeavors were wasted. They should want it not you. They should try not you. They should suffer not you. They should beg not you. It is their fate, destiny not yours...
@marvelacademy_lc
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#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
I know what to do if I want to live in a house of my dreams: a) leave out my bad habits (immersive video games, binge-watching tv shows, hanging out with my friends or girlfriends); b) learn English and math with sturdyness; c) study important life skills either at universities or as a freelancer; d) not do sins (cheating, depriving someone of their rights, committing adultery, and so on); e) prioritize overall well-being not just myself.
If I do these things, Allah will definitely shows his mercy, and grant me with his blessings.
So, guys! Don't do those bad habits if you really want to live in that heavenly home...
@marvelacademy_lc
I know what to do if I want to live in a house of my dreams: a) leave out my bad habits (immersive video games, binge-watching tv shows, hanging out with my friends or girlfriends); b) learn English and math with sturdyness; c) study important life skills either at universities or as a freelancer; d) not do sins (cheating, depriving someone of their rights, committing adultery, and so on); e) prioritize overall well-being not just myself.
If I do these things, Allah will definitely shows his mercy, and grant me with his blessings.
So, guys! Don't do those bad habits if you really want to live in that heavenly home...
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Maqsad bilim olish bo'lsa, ustoz va shogird uslubi mos tushsa, joyning ahamiyati yo'qligini hayotim davomida bir necha bor boshimdan o'tkazganman.
Marvel endi ochilish arafasida ukam Sardor bilan buyuk orzular (hayollar) qilayotgan paytimizni boshqa ukamiz Rustamjon rasmga olgan ekan.
Shu uch yil davomida ko'p o'sishga erishdik. Bunda Allohning marhamati, ota-onalar duosi va o'quvchilarimizning chanqoqligi sababli hozir sharoitimiz ancha yaxshi.
Lekin, qayerdan chiqqanimni va qanday qiyinchiliklar boshimizdan o'tkanini hech qachon unutmayman. Alloh biladi, kelajakda nima bo'lishini, qanday sinovlar bizni kutib turganini.
Maqsadlarim hali-hali o'sha: bolalarga bilim olishida sifatli yordam berish, o'zim ham shu asnosida yanada o'sishga erishish, marveldagi boshqa o'qituvchilarga o'z potensiallarini ro'yobga chiqarishida ko'maklashish.
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Maqsad bilim olish bo'lsa, ustoz va shogird uslubi mos tushsa, joyning ahamiyati yo'qligini hayotim davomida bir necha bor boshimdan o'tkazganman.
Marvel endi ochilish arafasida ukam Sardor bilan buyuk orzular (hayollar) qilayotgan paytimizni boshqa ukamiz Rustamjon rasmga olgan ekan.
Shu uch yil davomida ko'p o'sishga erishdik. Bunda Allohning marhamati, ota-onalar duosi va o'quvchilarimizning chanqoqligi sababli hozir sharoitimiz ancha yaxshi.
Lekin, qayerdan chiqqanimni va qanday qiyinchiliklar boshimizdan o'tkanini hech qachon unutmayman. Alloh biladi, kelajakda nima bo'lishini, qanday sinovlar bizni kutib turganini.
Maqsadlarim hali-hali o'sha: bolalarga bilim olishida sifatli yordam berish, o'zim ham shu asnosida yanada o'sishga erishish, marveldagi boshqa o'qituvchilarga o'z potensiallarini ro'yobga chiqarishida ko'maklashish.
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#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Bir narsaga hayronman. Open budget'ni kim o'ylab topgan ekan-a?
Oddiy qishloq yo'lini asfalt qilish uchun har bir uydan 1 mln. pul yig'ib, bir to'da bolalar ko'chama-ko'cha yurib gohida pul gohida yog' berib, ovoz yig'adi.
Aslida biz to'layotgan soliqlardan davlat o'zi kelib, o'rganib, qilib ketishi kerak, tamom.
Nahot, shuni amaldorlar tushunmaydi yoki boshqa sababi bormikan. Xalqni kalaka qilishni nima keragi bor.
@marvelacademy_lc
Bir narsaga hayronman. Open budget'ni kim o'ylab topgan ekan-a?
Oddiy qishloq yo'lini asfalt qilish uchun har bir uydan 1 mln. pul yig'ib, bir to'da bolalar ko'chama-ko'cha yurib gohida pul gohida yog' berib, ovoz yig'adi.
Aslida biz to'layotgan soliqlardan davlat o'zi kelib, o'rganib, qilib ketishi kerak, tamom.
Nahot, shuni amaldorlar tushunmaydi yoki boshqa sababi bormikan. Xalqni kalaka qilishni nima keragi bor.
@marvelacademy_lc
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#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan Bir narsaga hayronman. Open budget'ni kim o'ylab topgan ekan-a? Oddiy qishloq yo'lini asfalt qilish uchun har bir uydan 1 mln. pul yig'ib, bir to'da bolalar ko'chama-ko'cha yurib gohida pul gohida yog' berib, ovoz yig'adi. Aslida…
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Open budget mavzusini davom ettirib...
Bugun obedda, markazimiz oldida bolalar har bir kirib-chiqqan odamdan (asosan o'quvchilardan) 10-20 ming so'm evaziga ovoz yig'ayotgan ekan.
Dastlab, ko'zimga nojo'ya ko'ringani uchun haydab yubormoqchi bo'ldim, keyin ularga rahmim keldi, sababi ba'zilar indamasdan ovoz bersa, ba'zilar elantirib, noz qilib ovoz berardi. Keyin bilsam ular o'zimizning qishloqdagi bolalar bo'lib, qolganlari butun tuman-u shaharga OVOZ yig'gani ketgan ekan. Eh attang, ilmsizlik, bilimsizlik deb rosa alam qildi. Axir shu bolalar hozir bilimli bo'lganda bunaqa yurmasdiku, to'g'rimi?!
Shu shaht bilan kirib darsni bor kuchim bilan o'tdim. Buyog'i endi Allohdan...
Qo'limdan kelsa-yu hamma joyni asfalt qilib tashlamasmidim.
Nega bunaqa yuribsan? Senga zarilmi, degan mazmundagi savolga olgan javobim, meni tamom qildi.
- aka indamang, taksi qilaman, mashinam amortizatori tamom bo'ldi, shu asfalt bo'lsa-yu, xarajatim kamaysa...
Eh mening tinchgina taksi qilishni orzu qilgan xalqim...
@marvelacademy_lc
Open budget mavzusini davom ettirib...
Bugun obedda, markazimiz oldida bolalar har bir kirib-chiqqan odamdan (asosan o'quvchilardan) 10-20 ming so'm evaziga ovoz yig'ayotgan ekan.
Dastlab, ko'zimga nojo'ya ko'ringani uchun haydab yubormoqchi bo'ldim, keyin ularga rahmim keldi, sababi ba'zilar indamasdan ovoz bersa, ba'zilar elantirib, noz qilib ovoz berardi. Keyin bilsam ular o'zimizning qishloqdagi bolalar bo'lib, qolganlari butun tuman-u shaharga OVOZ yig'gani ketgan ekan. Eh attang, ilmsizlik, bilimsizlik deb rosa alam qildi. Axir shu bolalar hozir bilimli bo'lganda bunaqa yurmasdiku, to'g'rimi?!
Shu shaht bilan kirib darsni bor kuchim bilan o'tdim. Buyog'i endi Allohdan...
Qo'limdan kelsa-yu hamma joyni asfalt qilib tashlamasmidim.
Nega bunaqa yuribsan? Senga zarilmi, degan mazmundagi savolga olgan javobim, meni tamom qildi.
- aka indamang, taksi qilaman, mashinam amortizatori tamom bo'ldi, shu asfalt bo'lsa-yu, xarajatim kamaysa...
Eh mening tinchgina taksi qilishni orzu qilgan xalqim...
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
U paytlari Ziyo Yog'dusi degan o'quv markazda ishlab yurardim, chamasi 4-5 yil oldin. Bir ajoyib guruhim bor edi, faqat jajji bolachalardan tashkil topgan, lekin u guruhning ajoyibligini o'sha payti rosti bilmaganman. Shu guruhda bitta jajjigina, ko'zlari yonib turadigan, yerga ursa osmonga sapchiydigan shaddod qizcha bo'lgan.
Shu shu, u guruh bilan A2 va B1 darajani tugatdik, endi Pre-IELTS guruhiga saralash ishlarini qilishim kerak edi. Birma-bir hammani saralab keldim va navbat boyagi qizchaga keldi. Hali 4- yoki 5-sinf. IELTS o'qitay desam, yoshlik qiladi, fikrlashi yetmaydi, listening qilishi uchun telefoni yo'q, deb o'yladim. Axir o'sha paytlari IELTS hali hozirgidek urfga kirmagan, lekin o'zi IELTS o'qigisi kelyapti.
Men unga aytdim: endi biroz katta bo'l, biroz dam ol, keyin kelasan. Bu gaplarim unga qanday ta'sir qilishini bilmabman ham o'ylamabman ham. Shu-shu u ketdi...men dars berishda davom etdim...
Oradan yillar o'tdi. Kunlarning birida, endi Marvel'da qabulxonada bir bo'ylari uzungina, ozg'ingina qizcha bobosi bilan meni chaqirdi. Salom alikdan so'ng qizchaga yuzlandim, yuzlari tanish, issiq tuyulyapti. Savol-javobdan so'ng, o'zini eslatdi. Darrov esladim. Birinchi aytgan gapi: endi IELTS guruhga olasizmi?! Mening javobim esa bu safar ijoyib albatta.
Birga ishladik, o'rgandik, biz bu yo'lda turli to'siq va sinovlardan o'tdik. Va nihoyat bugun natijasi chiqdi. Ertalab unga aytdim: agar C1 olmasang seni haydab yuboroman deb, vaholanki men uchun C1 muhim emas edi. U bilan ishlash maroqli, chunki doim sinchkov, e'tiborli, chalg'imaydi, intiluvchan...
E xullas, ko'p maqtab yubormay, havolanib ketmasin, axir u yo'lning endigina boshida...
Bu shunchaki, bir oddiy ustoz va shogird hikoyasi edi...
Shu gaplarni yozyapman, u intiqlik bilan nega uning natijasini kanalga tashlamaganimga hayron bo'lib o'tirgandir...
@marvelacademy_lc
U paytlari Ziyo Yog'dusi degan o'quv markazda ishlab yurardim, chamasi 4-5 yil oldin. Bir ajoyib guruhim bor edi, faqat jajji bolachalardan tashkil topgan, lekin u guruhning ajoyibligini o'sha payti rosti bilmaganman. Shu guruhda bitta jajjigina, ko'zlari yonib turadigan, yerga ursa osmonga sapchiydigan shaddod qizcha bo'lgan.
Shu shu, u guruh bilan A2 va B1 darajani tugatdik, endi Pre-IELTS guruhiga saralash ishlarini qilishim kerak edi. Birma-bir hammani saralab keldim va navbat boyagi qizchaga keldi. Hali 4- yoki 5-sinf. IELTS o'qitay desam, yoshlik qiladi, fikrlashi yetmaydi, listening qilishi uchun telefoni yo'q, deb o'yladim. Axir o'sha paytlari IELTS hali hozirgidek urfga kirmagan, lekin o'zi IELTS o'qigisi kelyapti.
Men unga aytdim: endi biroz katta bo'l, biroz dam ol, keyin kelasan. Bu gaplarim unga qanday ta'sir qilishini bilmabman ham o'ylamabman ham. Shu-shu u ketdi...men dars berishda davom etdim...
Oradan yillar o'tdi. Kunlarning birida, endi Marvel'da qabulxonada bir bo'ylari uzungina, ozg'ingina qizcha bobosi bilan meni chaqirdi. Salom alikdan so'ng qizchaga yuzlandim, yuzlari tanish, issiq tuyulyapti. Savol-javobdan so'ng, o'zini eslatdi. Darrov esladim. Birinchi aytgan gapi: endi IELTS guruhga olasizmi?! Mening javobim esa bu safar ijoyib albatta.
Birga ishladik, o'rgandik, biz bu yo'lda turli to'siq va sinovlardan o'tdik. Va nihoyat bugun natijasi chiqdi. Ertalab unga aytdim: agar C1 olmasang seni haydab yuboroman deb, vaholanki men uchun C1 muhim emas edi. U bilan ishlash maroqli, chunki doim sinchkov, e'tiborli, chalg'imaydi, intiluvchan...
E xullas, ko'p maqtab yubormay, havolanib ketmasin, axir u yo'lning endigina boshida...
Bu shunchaki, bir oddiy ustoz va shogird hikoyasi edi...
Shu gaplarni yozyapman, u intiqlik bilan nega uning natijasini kanalga tashlamaganimga hayron bo'lib o'tirgandir...
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
While I was going to work in a taxi today in the morning, the driver told me that he was considering to leave for Russia to earn in the coming weeks.
He said that when you were in Russia, there was always some money at your disposal even after you transferred some to your family to make ends meet.
I didn’t know what to say in that moment: if I told him to go, he would have to leave his children and mother, however, if I advised him to stay, his family would starve.
I didn't know what to say...I had to keep silent...I was speechless...I came to Marvel, did my job, I wanted my students to study better so that they wouldn't find themselves in a similar situation later.
@marvelacademy_lc
While I was going to work in a taxi today in the morning, the driver told me that he was considering to leave for Russia to earn in the coming weeks.
He said that when you were in Russia, there was always some money at your disposal even after you transferred some to your family to make ends meet.
I didn’t know what to say in that moment: if I told him to go, he would have to leave his children and mother, however, if I advised him to stay, his family would starve.
I didn't know what to say...I had to keep silent...I was speechless...I came to Marvel, did my job, I wanted my students to study better so that they wouldn't find themselves in a similar situation later.
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Hali bu bolalarda sertifikat yo'q, bular akalarining, opalarining sertifikatlari, ammo nasib etsa ular ham yuqori marralarga chiqa olishadi.
Bu yo'l uzoq vaqt, sabr, mashaqqat va albatta ota-onasining daldasini talab etadi. Shu bolajonlarning muvaffaqiyatli kunlarini ko'rish ham nasib etsin.
Bolalarga nima uchun o'qiyotganliklarini eslatib turish muhim. O'qishining natijasini o'z ko'zlari bilan ko'rsa, motivatsiyasini yo'qotmaydi. (Like Yamal had this with Messi or Neymar in his youth)
@marvelacademy_lc
Hali bu bolalarda sertifikat yo'q, bular akalarining, opalarining sertifikatlari, ammo nasib etsa ular ham yuqori marralarga chiqa olishadi.
Bu yo'l uzoq vaqt, sabr, mashaqqat va albatta ota-onasining daldasini talab etadi. Shu bolajonlarning muvaffaqiyatli kunlarini ko'rish ham nasib etsin.
Bolalarga nima uchun o'qiyotganliklarini eslatib turish muhim. O'qishining natijasini o'z ko'zlari bilan ko'rsa, motivatsiyasini yo'qotmaydi. (Like Yamal had this with Messi or Neymar in his youth)
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
In the first years of 2010s, while I just started teaching as a tutor, my friends and acquaintances felt like this profession didn't have future and opted for teaching at schools and universities instead. They thought working at an education center is just killing the time and doesn't give you any work experience. As a result, you cannot have a proper pension after you retire.
I thought and felt shame as men in early 20s were thinking about the life after 60 when they would depend on those pension funds for survival.
Instead, I continued working as a private teacher and constantly improving my skills. Now, after more than a decade, I am teaching children of those people who chose school and university jobs. Most of them say they want their children to be educated so that they won't end up like their parents and live paycheck to paycheck.
Actually, 10 years before, they acted cowardly and made themselves live this unhappy life which blames this discomfort on the system of the government.
@marvelacademy_lc
In the first years of 2010s, while I just started teaching as a tutor, my friends and acquaintances felt like this profession didn't have future and opted for teaching at schools and universities instead. They thought working at an education center is just killing the time and doesn't give you any work experience. As a result, you cannot have a proper pension after you retire.
I thought and felt shame as men in early 20s were thinking about the life after 60 when they would depend on those pension funds for survival.
Instead, I continued working as a private teacher and constantly improving my skills. Now, after more than a decade, I am teaching children of those people who chose school and university jobs. Most of them say they want their children to be educated so that they won't end up like their parents and live paycheck to paycheck.
Actually, 10 years before, they acted cowardly and made themselves live this unhappy life which blames this discomfort on the system of the government.
@marvelacademy_lc
#mening_hayollarim_ruknidan
Tarbiyaning roli
Biz ustozlar bolalarga bilim beramiz, belgilangan kunlarda, masalan Du, Cho, Ju, har bir dars 2-3 soatdan. Bu degani haftada o'rtacha 6-9 soat. Bir haftada 150 soatdan ko'p vaqt bor. Shundan boringki bolaning 10 soati biz bilan 140 soati esa ko'chada, maktabda, uyida o'tadi.
Biz bolani dars payti nazorat qilamiz: telefon o'ynagani yoki gaplashgani qo'ymaymiz, so'kinib gapirishiga ruxsat bermaymiz, maksimum o'zini madaniyatli insondek tutishiga harakat qilamiz. Lekin darsdan tashqarichi? Asl muammo shu yerda...
Bilasiz men Marvel Academy o'quv markazi direktoriman va bundan tashqari bolalarga ham dars beraman. Bizning markazimiz binosining podval'ida billiardxona va gaming klubi bor. Ko'pchilik hali 18 ga yetmagan bolalar turna qator bo'lib kirib ketishadi. Chiqarib haydaymiz, urushamiz, ammo foydasi yo'q. Darsga kirsak, yana shu ahvol.
Bundan tashqari ba'zi bolalar sigaret chekishadi. Pachkalab, yana shu ahvol hali 18 ga kirmagan, bundan tashqari jamoat joyi.
Borib so'rasam, bizning markazda o'qiydigani ham men endi Marvel'da o'qimayman, men ko'chadaman xohlaganimni qilaman, men aslida ota-onamdan so'rab gaming klubga keldim, men boshqa o'quv markazda o'qiyman, kabi bahonalar aytishadi va qochib ketishadi.
Xullas, bu bolalardan natija kutib bo'lmaydi. Ota-onasi qayg'urmayotgan joyida menga nima farqi bor desam bo'ladi, lekin befarq bo'lish qiyin.
Shu sababdan, endi quyidagilarni joriy qilmoqchiman:
1) Agar bizning markazdagi bola podvalga kirganini ko'rsak, to'g'ridan to'g'ri markazdan haydayman;
2) Sigaret chekayotgan bolalar ikkita qonunni buzayotgan bo'ladi (a) voyaga yetmagan; b) jamoat joyi) va to'g'ridan-to'gri ichki ishlarga topshiraman, hamma joyga kamera o'rnatilgan va o'rnatilmoqda qochiq ketsa ham topib borishadi.
3) Darsda bizning markazdagi ustozlar bolalarga yomon odatlarning illatlari haqida tushuntirish olib borishadi, buni ulardan talab qilaman.
Demak, aziz ota-onalar! Farzand sizniki, u ertaga sizga kerak bizga emas. Shunday ekan, bola tarbiyasi bilan ham shug'ullaning. Bolani repetitorga berdim degani, u bilim oladi degani, tarbiya emas. Tarbiyasiz boladan bilimli bola chiqishi amri mahol. Xuddi, gunohkor banda jannatga kira olmasligi kabi.
@marvelacademy_lc
Tarbiyaning roli
Biz ustozlar bolalarga bilim beramiz, belgilangan kunlarda, masalan Du, Cho, Ju, har bir dars 2-3 soatdan. Bu degani haftada o'rtacha 6-9 soat. Bir haftada 150 soatdan ko'p vaqt bor. Shundan boringki bolaning 10 soati biz bilan 140 soati esa ko'chada, maktabda, uyida o'tadi.
Biz bolani dars payti nazorat qilamiz: telefon o'ynagani yoki gaplashgani qo'ymaymiz, so'kinib gapirishiga ruxsat bermaymiz, maksimum o'zini madaniyatli insondek tutishiga harakat qilamiz. Lekin darsdan tashqarichi? Asl muammo shu yerda...
Bilasiz men Marvel Academy o'quv markazi direktoriman va bundan tashqari bolalarga ham dars beraman. Bizning markazimiz binosining podval'ida billiardxona va gaming klubi bor. Ko'pchilik hali 18 ga yetmagan bolalar turna qator bo'lib kirib ketishadi. Chiqarib haydaymiz, urushamiz, ammo foydasi yo'q. Darsga kirsak, yana shu ahvol.
Bundan tashqari ba'zi bolalar sigaret chekishadi. Pachkalab, yana shu ahvol hali 18 ga kirmagan, bundan tashqari jamoat joyi.
Borib so'rasam, bizning markazda o'qiydigani ham men endi Marvel'da o'qimayman, men ko'chadaman xohlaganimni qilaman, men aslida ota-onamdan so'rab gaming klubga keldim, men boshqa o'quv markazda o'qiyman, kabi bahonalar aytishadi va qochib ketishadi.
Xullas, bu bolalardan natija kutib bo'lmaydi. Ota-onasi qayg'urmayotgan joyida menga nima farqi bor desam bo'ladi, lekin befarq bo'lish qiyin.
Shu sababdan, endi quyidagilarni joriy qilmoqchiman:
1) Agar bizning markazdagi bola podvalga kirganini ko'rsak, to'g'ridan to'g'ri markazdan haydayman;
2) Sigaret chekayotgan bolalar ikkita qonunni buzayotgan bo'ladi (a) voyaga yetmagan; b) jamoat joyi) va to'g'ridan-to'gri ichki ishlarga topshiraman, hamma joyga kamera o'rnatilgan va o'rnatilmoqda qochiq ketsa ham topib borishadi.
3) Darsda bizning markazdagi ustozlar bolalarga yomon odatlarning illatlari haqida tushuntirish olib borishadi, buni ulardan talab qilaman.
Demak, aziz ota-onalar! Farzand sizniki, u ertaga sizga kerak bizga emas. Shunday ekan, bola tarbiyasi bilan ham shug'ullaning. Bolani repetitorga berdim degani, u bilim oladi degani, tarbiya emas. Tarbiyasiz boladan bilimli bola chiqishi amri mahol. Xuddi, gunohkor banda jannatga kira olmasligi kabi.
@marvelacademy_lc