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"When I first fall for someone, I place them on a pedestal so high above me it feels like I can never reach them" - Franz Kafka
Idealization is not love. A crush is not love because a crush is safe. You can admire someone from a distance. They may not know you exist, let alone that you like them. But it can also happen in relationships. Nietzsche once wrote that you have to be careful that you don't fall in love with the idea of love itself. Which is to say that you don't fall in love with an ideal image of them.
True love is seeing people for who they are. Accepting them for who they are. Loving them not despite but precisely because of who they are. Therefore it's not love when it's based on idealization; it might be a crush. True love is loving the person exactly for who they are
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"When I first fall for someone, I place them on a pedestal so high above me it feels like I can never reach them" - Franz Kafka
Idealization is not love. A crush is not love because a crush is safe. You can admire someone from a distance. They may not know you exist, let alone that you like them. But it can also happen in relationships. Nietzsche once wrote that you have to be careful that you don't fall in love with the idea of love itself. Which is to say that you don't fall in love with an ideal image of them.
True love is seeing people for who they are. Accepting them for who they are. Loving them not despite but precisely because of who they are. Therefore it's not love when it's based on idealization; it might be a crush. True love is loving the person exactly for who they are
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Patience and faith are your best allies when things are tough and uncertain. Never think that the Almighty is unaware of what you’re going through. He’s in control every step of the way. He will unveil His plans when the time is right.
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The most successful relationships are those which both people subconsciously enter asking "What can I give this person?". When you enter in a selfish space of "What can this person offer me?" it will never work. And that's the problem with a lot of society today.... It's all about us.
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The most successful relationships are those which both people subconsciously enter asking "What can I give this person?". When you enter in a selfish space of "What can this person offer me?" it will never work. And that's the problem with a lot of society today.... It's all about us.
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I know that... But still...
I don't think I'm worthy enough to ask that... But still...
But this uneasiness that I feel although it's not like what it seems... But still...
Is it right for me to feel this way... But still...
I don't like that... But still...
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I know that... But still...
I don't think I'm worthy enough to ask that... But still...
But this uneasiness that I feel although it's not like what it seems... But still...
Is it right for me to feel this way... But still...
I don't like that... But still...
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I realized everyone just being fake towards me. So I left so they don't have to pretend anymore.
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I realized everyone just being fake towards me. So I left so they don't have to pretend anymore.
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she did not choose
to be alone,
she simply chose
to love herself more,
and that required her
to be the love of her own life,
until someone
comes to fulfill that position
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to be alone,
she simply chose
to love herself more,
and that required her
to be the love of her own life,
until someone
comes to fulfill that position
@journalofficial
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I wanna be with you in a romantic kind of way
In a disgustingly cute, smiling so hard we forget what we were gonna say
I wanna be your best friend that is so much more than just your friend
And I want us to be the again beginning that just never seem to end
For so many reasons, I don't even know where to start
But I know that not even the greatest painters could recreate you; the ultimate work of art
I mean yeah you're very beautiful, that's obvious, and without a doubt true
But some of the most driven minds of our generation would be in awe, of the work ethic within you
I've never met someone so impressive in so many more ways than one
And one day they will write historical articles about everything that you've done
You may cringe at the compliment but you're one of the best people I've met
Flaws and all included and everything about you that I don't know yet
But honestly, I wanna know it
I think I need an advice now
The question I didn't ask before because we could stay kind of friends, but we could be so much more
I don't care about the past or what our friends might think
I care that when I think of you with someone else it makes my heart sink
It makes me kind of nauseous but I smile and nod my head
I say it doesn't matter but then I can't get out of bed
And I'll think that way tomorrow; it's been months of feeling like this
Because even without being my first you were my very favorite person
"Just friends" you said and barely friends, we would stay
I wanna be your boyfriend
Obviously I mean, who would not?
And I wasn't even looking but in my gaze you still caught
Give it back now please... But take me along too
So I stopped writing for other people, everything I wish that I could say to you
@journalofficial
I wanna be with you in a romantic kind of way
In a disgustingly cute, smiling so hard we forget what we were gonna say
I wanna be your best friend that is so much more than just your friend
And I want us to be the again beginning that just never seem to end
For so many reasons, I don't even know where to start
But I know that not even the greatest painters could recreate you; the ultimate work of art
I mean yeah you're very beautiful, that's obvious, and without a doubt true
But some of the most driven minds of our generation would be in awe, of the work ethic within you
I've never met someone so impressive in so many more ways than one
And one day they will write historical articles about everything that you've done
You may cringe at the compliment but you're one of the best people I've met
Flaws and all included and everything about you that I don't know yet
But honestly, I wanna know it
I think I need an advice now
The question I didn't ask before because we could stay kind of friends, but we could be so much more
I don't care about the past or what our friends might think
I care that when I think of you with someone else it makes my heart sink
It makes me kind of nauseous but I smile and nod my head
I say it doesn't matter but then I can't get out of bed
And I'll think that way tomorrow; it's been months of feeling like this
Because even without being my first you were my very favorite person
"Just friends" you said and barely friends, we would stay
I wanna be your boyfriend
Obviously I mean, who would not?
And I wasn't even looking but in my gaze you still caught
Give it back now please... But take me along too
So I stopped writing for other people, everything I wish that I could say to you
@journalofficial
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Maybe I'm too kind at thinking about other people's feelings first, maybe I'm pleaser people. And do people care about my feelings? No, because I'm the one who kind for care about people feeling.
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Maybe I'm too kind at thinking about other people's feelings first, maybe I'm pleaser people. And do people care about my feelings? No, because I'm the one who kind for care about people feeling.
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I don't know either I put my standard too high or I'm too scared to reach someone. But surely not now I opened my heart, so stop asking :)
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I don't know either I put my standard too high or I'm too scared to reach someone. But surely not now I opened my heart, so stop asking :)
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It's over about us now. Let's move. I means let's move to another stage because the term of 'acquaintance' between us over already.
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It's over about us now. Let's move. I means let's move to another stage because the term of 'acquaintance' between us over already.
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Maybe,
I'm the one who late reach your heart.
Maybe,
I'm the one sided person.
Maybe,
I'm confused by you treating me.
Maybe,
I'm catch feeling easily.
Maybe,
It's my fault.
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Maybe,
I'm the one who late reach your heart.
Maybe,
I'm the one sided person.
Maybe,
I'm confused by you treating me.
Maybe,
I'm catch feeling easily.
Maybe,
It's my fault.
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some nights we are not our best selves
we're not sure why or how we feel
the way we do on the said nights.
some nights communication seems impossible
words can't form in our minds
to describe how exactly we feel at the time.
some nights we're just not sure
of who exactly we are
and where we stand in the lives of others.
but on those nights it is necessary to know
that we're loved
we are thought of
we exist in the hearts of lovely people
we live in sweet memories of beautiful minds
traces of us are everywhere
our name resides on the tips of tongues.
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we're not sure why or how we feel
the way we do on the said nights.
some nights communication seems impossible
words can't form in our minds
to describe how exactly we feel at the time.
some nights we're just not sure
of who exactly we are
and where we stand in the lives of others.
but on those nights it is necessary to know
that we're loved
we are thought of
we exist in the hearts of lovely people
we live in sweet memories of beautiful minds
traces of us are everywhere
our name resides on the tips of tongues.
@journalofficial
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Any girl can be beautiful
But not every girl can be you
As miniscule as beauty is to the naked eye
Yours still shines
Even through the most microscopic of lenses
Any girl can be royalty
But not every girl can be a queen
As graceful as your poise is
Your intelligence always prevails
Even through the most chaotic of times
Any girl can be a planet
But not every girl can be a star
As bright as your smile is
Your love illuminates my heart, body and soul
Even in the darkest of the days
Every divine woman can be a powerful girl
But you define femininity with a single twirl
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Any girl can be beautiful
But not every girl can be you
As miniscule as beauty is to the naked eye
Yours still shines
Even through the most microscopic of lenses
Any girl can be royalty
But not every girl can be a queen
As graceful as your poise is
Your intelligence always prevails
Even through the most chaotic of times
Any girl can be a planet
But not every girl can be a star
As bright as your smile is
Your love illuminates my heart, body and soul
Even in the darkest of the days
Every divine woman can be a powerful girl
But you define femininity with a single twirl
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I was unconditionally in love with you, but leaving you is my intention for you to have a better love story.
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I was unconditionally in love with you, but leaving you is my intention for you to have a better love story.
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I wish I had enough courage to confess my true feelings for him but still I can't.
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I wish I had enough courage to confess my true feelings for him but still I can't.
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Falling in love with you, is my choice
To fall in love with me, is your choice
Whatever choice you make, the love that I have won't disappeared
Others will have it, even if you can't take it
So don't you worry my dear
Just tell me what you feel
Because knowing your feelings is the most important thing for me
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Falling in love with you, is my choice
To fall in love with me, is your choice
Whatever choice you make, the love that I have won't disappeared
Others will have it, even if you can't take it
So don't you worry my dear
Just tell me what you feel
Because knowing your feelings is the most important thing for me
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How to kill my heart. I'm so damn tired of being stupid for searching the meaning of love but end up nothing good happens.
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How to kill my heart. I'm so damn tired of being stupid for searching the meaning of love but end up nothing good happens.
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