Forwarded from PREPARING FOR AAKHIRAH
Narrated `Adi bin Hatim heard the Prophet (ﷺ) saying:
إِتَّقُوْا النَّارَ وَلَوْ بِشِقِّ تَمْرَةٍ
"Save yourself from Hell-fire even by giving half a date-fruit in charity."
Sahih al-Bukhari 1417
إِتَّقُوْا النَّارَ وَلَوْ بِشِقِّ تَمْرَةٍ
"Save yourself from Hell-fire even by giving half a date-fruit in charity."
Sahih al-Bukhari 1417
Forwarded from PREPARING FOR AAKHIRAH
'Umar bin Al-Khattab (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: Some prisoners were brought to Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) amongst whom there was a woman who was running (searching for her child). When she saw a child among the captives, she took hold of it, pressed it against her belly and gave it a suck. Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Do you think this woman would ever throw her child in fire?" We said, "By Allah, she would never throw the child in fire." Thereupon Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Allah is more kind to his slave than this woman is to her child". [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Riyad as-Salihin 418
Riyad as-Salihin 418
Forwarded from PREPARING FOR AAKHIRAH
Narrated Abu Musa: The Prophet (ﷺ) used to invoke Allah with the following invocation: 'Rabbi-ghfir-li Khati 'ati wa jahli wa israfi fi `Amri kullihi, wa ma anta a'lamu bihi minni. Allahumma ighfirli khatayaya wa 'amdi, wa jahli wa jiddi, wa kullu dhalika'indi. Allahumma ighrifli ma qaddamtu wa ma akhartu wa ma asrartu wa ma a'lantu. Anta-l-muqaddimu wa anta-l-mu'akh-khiru, wa anta 'ala kulli shai'in qadir.'
O Allah, forgive me my faults, my ignorance, my immoderation in my concerns. And Thou art better aware (of my affairs) than myself. O Allah, grant me forgiveness (of the faults which I committed) seriously or otherwise (and which I committed inadvertently and de- liberately. All these (failings) are in me. O Allah, grant me forgiveness from the fault which I did in haste or deferred, which I committed in privacy or in public and Thou art better aware of (them) than myself. Thou art the First and the Last and over all things Thou art Omnipotent.
Sahih al-Bukhari 6398
O Allah, forgive me my faults, my ignorance, my immoderation in my concerns. And Thou art better aware (of my affairs) than myself. O Allah, grant me forgiveness (of the faults which I committed) seriously or otherwise (and which I committed inadvertently and de- liberately. All these (failings) are in me. O Allah, grant me forgiveness from the fault which I did in haste or deferred, which I committed in privacy or in public and Thou art better aware of (them) than myself. Thou art the First and the Last and over all things Thou art Omnipotent.
Sahih al-Bukhari 6398
السلام علیکم ورحمۃ اللہ وبرکاتہ
There is a hadith that when a women hurts her husband, the hur-al-ayn make dua against her.
What happens if the husband is the one hurting her? What should a person do if these thoughts come to mind that the rewards of men are mentioned and things like these but for the women the conditions and punishments and more strict or she is more sinful.
That although women also struggle and make sacrifices but for the same deeds the rewards for men are mentioned.
Kindly explain a little on the concept of hur so that someone don't get insecure thinking about them or get negative thoughts about the rules the Allah made.
May Allah bless you and your family.
JazakAllah khairan.
وعلیکم السلام ورحمتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ
Firstly always remember that Allah doesn't do injustice on the basis of gender, race etc
Secondly remember that having different types of obligations and rights doesn't mean inequality.
For example a man is obliged to spend on himself and his family while a woman isn't.
A woman's share in inheritance is half as that of a man.
If you look carefully, second statement is justified by first one.
Same is the hikmah(wisdom) in whole Shariah.
Satan tries to put doubts in our mind to distance us from deen.
Seek Allah's refuge.
Now I will answer your question in parts:
Part one:
If woman hurts husband she's cursed by hoor
What if a man does the same
Answer is that he has violated an obligation from Allah:
Quran - Surah No. 4 النساء
Ayah No. 19
وَعَاشِرُوۡهُنَّ بِالۡمَعۡرُوۡفِ ۚ فَاِنۡ كَرِهۡتُمُوۡهُنَّ فَعَسٰۤى اَنۡ تَكۡرَهُوۡا شَيۡـئًـا وَّيَجۡعَلَ اللّٰهُ فِيۡهِ خَيۡرًا كَثِيۡرًا (19)
Translation:
Live with your wives in a good manner. If you dislike them in any manner, it may be that you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good for you.
Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah.
[Part of khutba Hujjatul wida' Muslim 1218a]
Abu Hurairah narrated that The Messenger of Allah said: “The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character among them. And the best of you are those who are best to your women.”
Jami
Grade: Hasan (Darussalam)
Jannah rewards are surprise gifts:
Moreover, in Paradise, the believing woman will have whatever her heart desires and will delight her eyes, such as has never even crossed her mind in this world, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And no soul knows what has been hidden for them of comfort for eyes as reward for what they used to do”
[as-Sajdah 32:17]
There is a hadith that when a women hurts her husband, the hur-al-ayn make dua against her.
What happens if the husband is the one hurting her? What should a person do if these thoughts come to mind that the rewards of men are mentioned and things like these but for the women the conditions and punishments and more strict or she is more sinful.
That although women also struggle and make sacrifices but for the same deeds the rewards for men are mentioned.
Kindly explain a little on the concept of hur so that someone don't get insecure thinking about them or get negative thoughts about the rules the Allah made.
May Allah bless you and your family.
JazakAllah khairan.
وعلیکم السلام ورحمتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ
Firstly always remember that Allah doesn't do injustice on the basis of gender, race etc
Secondly remember that having different types of obligations and rights doesn't mean inequality.
For example a man is obliged to spend on himself and his family while a woman isn't.
A woman's share in inheritance is half as that of a man.
If you look carefully, second statement is justified by first one.
Same is the hikmah(wisdom) in whole Shariah.
Satan tries to put doubts in our mind to distance us from deen.
Seek Allah's refuge.
Now I will answer your question in parts:
Part one:
If woman hurts husband she's cursed by hoor
What if a man does the same
Answer is that he has violated an obligation from Allah:
Quran - Surah No. 4 النساء
Ayah No. 19
وَعَاشِرُوۡهُنَّ بِالۡمَعۡرُوۡفِ ۚ فَاِنۡ كَرِهۡتُمُوۡهُنَّ فَعَسٰۤى اَنۡ تَكۡرَهُوۡا شَيۡـئًـا وَّيَجۡعَلَ اللّٰهُ فِيۡهِ خَيۡرًا كَثِيۡرًا (19)
Translation:
Live with your wives in a good manner. If you dislike them in any manner, it may be that you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good for you.
Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah.
[Part of khutba Hujjatul wida' Muslim 1218a]
Abu Hurairah narrated that The Messenger of Allah said: “The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character among them. And the best of you are those who are best to your women.”
Jami
at-Tirmidhi 1162
Grade: Hasan (Darussalam)
Part two:
What will women get in Jannah
Answer is that she will be also rewarded for his deeds as other servants of Allah
“Whoever works righteousness — whether male or female — while he (or she) is a true believer (of Islamic Monotheism) verily, to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter)” [al-Nahl 16:97]
Narrated Umm 'Umarah Al-Ansariyyah: that she came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: "I do not see but that everything is for the men, and I do not see anything being mentioned for the women." So this Ayah was revealed: 'Indeed the Muslim men and the Muslim women, the believing men and the believing women... (33: 35)'
Jami at-Tirmidhi 3211Grade: Hasan (Darussalam)
Jannah rewards are surprise gifts:
Moreover, in Paradise, the believing woman will have whatever her heart desires and will delight her eyes, such as has never even crossed her mind in this world, as Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And no soul knows what has been hidden for them of comfort for eyes as reward for what they used to do”
[as-Sajdah 32:17]
Part three:
Why are you jealous of a hoor?
No doubt hoor is mentioned in the Qur'an and Sunnah as a beautiful creation of Allah
But❗
Just think, she was created in Jannah as a reward for someone else and you will enter Jannah as a reward of your deeds.
The situation of the believing woman in Paradise will be better than the situation of the hoor al-‘iyn; she will be higher in status and more beautiful. Several ahadith and reports have been narrated concerning that, but none of them can be proven to be sound.
But if a righteous woman from among the people of this world enters Paradise, then she will do so as a reward for her righteous deeds and as a honour from Allah to her for her religious commitment and righteousness. As for the hoori who is one of the delights of Paradise, she has only been created in Paradise for the sake of someone else, and has been made the reward for the believing man for his righteous deeds. There is a great difference between one who enters Paradise as a reward for her righteous deeds and the one who was created as a reward for one who did righteous deeds. The former is a queen and a princess, and the latter, no matter how beautiful she is, is undoubtedly lower in status than a queen, and she is subject to the command of her believing master for whom Allah created her as a reward.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked: Does the description of the hoor al-‘iyn include the women of this world?
He replied:
It seems to me that the women of this world will be better than the hoor al-‘iyn, even in outward appearance, and Allah knows best.
Fatawa Noor ‘ala al-Darb.
Why are you jealous of a hoor?
No doubt hoor is mentioned in the Qur'an and Sunnah as a beautiful creation of Allah
But❗
Just think, she was created in Jannah as a reward for someone else and you will enter Jannah as a reward of your deeds.
The situation of the believing woman in Paradise will be better than the situation of the hoor al-‘iyn; she will be higher in status and more beautiful. Several ahadith and reports have been narrated concerning that, but none of them can be proven to be sound.
But if a righteous woman from among the people of this world enters Paradise, then she will do so as a reward for her righteous deeds and as a honour from Allah to her for her religious commitment and righteousness. As for the hoori who is one of the delights of Paradise, she has only been created in Paradise for the sake of someone else, and has been made the reward for the believing man for his righteous deeds. There is a great difference between one who enters Paradise as a reward for her righteous deeds and the one who was created as a reward for one who did righteous deeds. The former is a queen and a princess, and the latter, no matter how beautiful she is, is undoubtedly lower in status than a queen, and she is subject to the command of her believing master for whom Allah created her as a reward.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked: Does the description of the hoor al-‘iyn include the women of this world?
He replied:
It seems to me that the women of this world will be better than the hoor al-‘iyn, even in outward appearance, and Allah knows best.
Fatawa Noor ‘ala al-Darb.
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