Sometimes the chains that prevent us from being free are more mental than physical.
βοΈ Discover the best Telegram channels:β‘οΈ@Topchannels10
βοΈ Discover the best Telegram channels:β‘οΈ@Topchannels10
WORDS TO HELP IN A CONFRONTATION π«
- "Yes." Even arguments against should begin with "yes"-it's human nature to calm down when one agrees with them.
- "We." Not "us against you," but "us with you." Try to include yourself and the other party to the conflict in the same social group: people more easily side with members of "their tribe."
- "I understand that you're upset" is in response to all attempts to insult you. In this way you simultaneously reject the insult and offer forgiveness for it.
- "It's really not easy" and other phrases that will show: you recognize that your adversary's life is not easy, but the situation requires extra effort.
- "I heard you" is almost forbidden. Use only if the negative argumentation has gone in a circle, and the circle is the third one.
- "Let's both take a time out and meet in an hour (three o'clock, ten o'clock tomorrow)" - If you understand that the interlocutor under the onslaught of emotions has lost touch with reality.
βοΈ Discover the best Telegram channels:β‘οΈ@Topchannels10
- "Yes." Even arguments against should begin with "yes"-it's human nature to calm down when one agrees with them.
- "We." Not "us against you," but "us with you." Try to include yourself and the other party to the conflict in the same social group: people more easily side with members of "their tribe."
- "I understand that you're upset" is in response to all attempts to insult you. In this way you simultaneously reject the insult and offer forgiveness for it.
- "It's really not easy" and other phrases that will show: you recognize that your adversary's life is not easy, but the situation requires extra effort.
- "I heard you" is almost forbidden. Use only if the negative argumentation has gone in a circle, and the circle is the third one.
- "Let's both take a time out and meet in an hour (three o'clock, ten o'clock tomorrow)" - If you understand that the interlocutor under the onslaught of emotions has lost touch with reality.
βοΈ Discover the best Telegram channels:β‘οΈ@Topchannels10