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Do Not Reveal Your Bedroom Secrets❗
Asmā Bint Yazīd radhiyallāhu 'anhā reported that she was with the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ whilst men and women were sitting; so he [ﷺ] said:
"Would a man say what he did with his wife (i.e. sexual relations) and would a woman inform (others) what she did with her husband?” The people remained silent; So I (Asmā') said: "Yes, by Allāh! O Messenger of Allāh they (i.e. women) do that and they (i.e. men) do that."
He ﷺ said: "Do not do so; for indeed it is like a male devil meeting a female devil in the road and having sex with her whilst the people are looking."
[Transmitted by Abū Dāwūd; authenticated by Sheikh Albānī in Ādāb Az-Zifāf]
Asmā Bint Yazīd radhiyallāhu 'anhā reported that she was with the Messenger of Allāh ﷺ whilst men and women were sitting; so he [ﷺ] said:
"Would a man say what he did with his wife (i.e. sexual relations) and would a woman inform (others) what she did with her husband?” The people remained silent; So I (Asmā') said: "Yes, by Allāh! O Messenger of Allāh they (i.e. women) do that and they (i.e. men) do that."
He ﷺ said: "Do not do so; for indeed it is like a male devil meeting a female devil in the road and having sex with her whilst the people are looking."
[Transmitted by Abū Dāwūd; authenticated by Sheikh Albānī in Ādāb Az-Zifāf]
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This might be ovbious to many of you, but unfortunately there are people out there who are unaware that this is Ḥarām. That's why we must not shy away from seeking and spreading knowledge.
In fact, not long ago, I was informed of a sister who - after being married for several months - was unaware that it's obligatory to take a full bath (ghusl) after having sexual intercourse. She only came to find out after informing a relative that she hadn't washed her hair for over a month. The relative was shocked and assumed that there was discord between the couple. But upon enquiry, it became clear that the sister/wife was unaware of this vital piece of knowledge.
More shockingly, a brother relayed to me that in America there was a sister who got married two men believing that polygamy was permissible for women just as it's permissible for men. الله المستعان
That's why I highly recommend the Muslims in London to attend the Ādāb Az-Zifāf (etiquettes of marriage) class that's currently being taught by our teacher, Abū Aṭiyyah ḥafidhahullāh at Masjid Muqbil; see class (21) https://t.me/madrasatuna/1153
The class is open to both brothers and sister. What a romantic way to spend your Friday evening!
In fact, not long ago, I was informed of a sister who - after being married for several months - was unaware that it's obligatory to take a full bath (ghusl) after having sexual intercourse. She only came to find out after informing a relative that she hadn't washed her hair for over a month. The relative was shocked and assumed that there was discord between the couple. But upon enquiry, it became clear that the sister/wife was unaware of this vital piece of knowledge.
More shockingly, a brother relayed to me that in America there was a sister who got married two men believing that polygamy was permissible for women just as it's permissible for men. الله المستعان
That's why I highly recommend the Muslims in London to attend the Ādāb Az-Zifāf (etiquettes of marriage) class that's currently being taught by our teacher, Abū Aṭiyyah ḥafidhahullāh at Masjid Muqbil; see class (21) https://t.me/madrasatuna/1153
The class is open to both brothers and sister. What a romantic way to spend your Friday evening!
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There Is Nothing More Beneficial To The Heart
Al-Imaam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
“There is nothing more beneficial to the heart than reciting the Quraan, with contemplation and reflection. The Quraan bequeathes love, aspiration, fear, hope, repentance, reliance, pleasure, contentment, authority, gratitude, patience, and all the other [necessary] conditions that are life [i.e.vital] to the heart and perfection of it. Likewise, it repels all reprehensible characteristics and actions which cause corruption and destroy the heart.”
[Miftaah Daaris-Sa’aadah, 1/187]
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Al-Imaam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
“There is nothing more beneficial to the heart than reciting the Quraan, with contemplation and reflection. The Quraan bequeathes love, aspiration, fear, hope, repentance, reliance, pleasure, contentment, authority, gratitude, patience, and all the other [necessary] conditions that are life [i.e.vital] to the heart and perfection of it. Likewise, it repels all reprehensible characteristics and actions which cause corruption and destroy the heart.”
[Miftaah Daaris-Sa’aadah, 1/187]
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Like A Breeze That Blows Through The Heart
Al-Imaam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"Longing for Allaah and the meeting with Him is like a breeze that blows through the heart and removes the blaze of this worldly life."
[Al-Fawaaid, Pg. 157]
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Al-Imaam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"Longing for Allaah and the meeting with Him is like a breeze that blows through the heart and removes the blaze of this worldly life."
[Al-Fawaaid, Pg. 157]
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Abuu Rizq Mundhir Ibn Muhammad, may Allaah preserve him
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The Origin Of Every Good
Shaykhul-Islaam Ibn Taymiyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"The origin of every good in the worldly life and the Hereafter is fear of Allaah."
[Majmuu' Al-Fataawaa, 7/20]
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Shaykhul-Islaam Ibn Taymiyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"The origin of every good in the worldly life and the Hereafter is fear of Allaah."
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How The Wise Man Should Be With His Family
Ibn 'Aqeel, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"When the wise man is alone with his wife, he should then leave his intellect in a corner as a respected shaykh and (start) joking and fooling around with her to give her and her soul its rights. And when he is alone with his children, then he should come to them in their shape (I.e. act like them, be like them etc)."
[Al-Aadaab Ash-Shar'iyyah, 3/388]
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Ibn 'Aqeel, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"When the wise man is alone with his wife, he should then leave his intellect in a corner as a respected shaykh and (start) joking and fooling around with her to give her and her soul its rights. And when he is alone with his children, then he should come to them in their shape (I.e. act like them, be like them etc)."
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BENEFIT 30: Muhammad Al-Imaam (author of Al-Ibaanah) is a misguided invidividual❗️
This man says: 'the Hoothees are our Muslim brothers'
How are they our brothers when they have the same beliefs as the Rafidha; as you yourself affirmed in your book رافضة اليمن?! See link:
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How are they our brothers when you yourself had -in some of your previous works, which you now want to burn- demonstrated their clear-cut Kufr. You stated in one of your books that, as part of their celebration during Eidul Ghadeer, the Hoothees would bring a black dog, bury it halfway in the ground and then stone it to death, claiming it to be our Mother A'ishah radhiyallāhu 'anhā; they would do so -according to them- in order to establish the penalty of Zina upon her, seeing as it had not already been established.
This alone is sufficient to take them out of the fold of Islam. So do you really see them to be our brothers?!!!
How can they be Muslims when they trampled on the speech of Allah in broad daylight and even had the guts to film themselves doing so.
How are the hoothees Muslims when they continue to murder, rape and imprison innocent Muslims?!
How are they Muslims when they mercilessly bomb the houses of Allah?!
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BENEFIT 30: Muhammad Al-Imaam (author of Al-Ibaanah) is a misguided invidividual❗️
This man says: 'the Hoothees are our Muslim brothers'
How are they our brothers when they have the same beliefs as the Rafidha; as you yourself affirmed in your book رافضة اليمن?! See link:
https://t.me/madrasatuna/1134
How are they our brothers when you yourself had -in some of your previous works, which you now want to burn- demonstrated their clear-cut Kufr. You stated in one of your books that, as part of their celebration during Eidul Ghadeer, the Hoothees would bring a black dog, bury it halfway in the ground and then stone it to death, claiming it to be our Mother A'ishah radhiyallāhu 'anhā; they would do so -according to them- in order to establish the penalty of Zina upon her, seeing as it had not already been established.
This alone is sufficient to take them out of the fold of Islam. So do you really see them to be our brothers?!!!
How can they be Muslims when they trampled on the speech of Allah in broad daylight and even had the guts to film themselves doing so.
How are the hoothees Muslims when they continue to murder, rape and imprison innocent Muslims?!
How are they Muslims when they mercilessly bomb the houses of Allah?!
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BENEFIT 12: ARE THE RAFIDHA MUSLIMS?
While discussing the belief of Ahlus Sunnah pertaining to the Ṣaḥābah in one of the recent Ḥā'iyyah classes, Sheikh Wahb Adh-Dhayfani mentioned that:
The Rafidha are non-Muslims…
BENEFIT 12: ARE THE RAFIDHA MUSLIMS?
While discussing the belief of Ahlus Sunnah pertaining to the Ṣaḥābah in one of the recent Ḥā'iyyah classes, Sheikh Wahb Adh-Dhayfani mentioned that:
The Rafidha are non-Muslims…
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{وَمَا نَقَمُوا۟ مِنۡهُمۡ إِلَّاۤ أَن یُؤۡمِنُوا۟ بِٱللَّهِ ٱلۡعَزِیزِ ٱلۡحَمِیدِ}
“Their only grievance against them was their belief in Allah, the Mighty, the Praiseworthy.”
[Surah Al-Buruj 8]
{وَمَا نَقَمُوا۟ مِنۡهُمۡ إِلَّاۤ أَن یُؤۡمِنُوا۟ بِٱللَّهِ ٱلۡعَزِیزِ ٱلۡحَمِیدِ}
“Their only grievance against them was their belief in Allah, the Mighty, the Praiseworthy.”
[Surah Al-Buruj 8]
Judge Her Based Upon Justice
Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"The wise approach is to not judge the wife when there is conflict or when she has wronged you. No! Rather, look at those good cherished times in the past you both have enjoyed together as well as look at what a brighter future holds for you both, then judge based upon justice."
[Explanation Of Riyaadhus-Saaliheen, Chapter Of Advice On Women, Hadeeth No. 275]
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Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"The wise approach is to not judge the wife when there is conflict or when she has wronged you. No! Rather, look at those good cherished times in the past you both have enjoyed together as well as look at what a brighter future holds for you both, then judge based upon justice."
[Explanation Of Riyaadhus-Saaliheen, Chapter Of Advice On Women, Hadeeth No. 275]
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Al-Hasan Al-Basree, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
“Sincere repentance is that you hate the sin just as you used to love it and that you seek for forgiveness for it whenever you remember it.”
[Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 8/169]
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“Sincere repentance is that you hate the sin just as you used to love it and that you seek for forgiveness for it whenever you remember it.”
[Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 8/169]
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The Effects Of Disobeying Allaah
Al-‘Allaamah As-Sa’dee, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
“Indeed, disobedience spoils character, deeds, and provisions.”
[At-Tafseer, 318]
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Al-‘Allaamah As-Sa’dee, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
“Indeed, disobedience spoils character, deeds, and provisions.”
[At-Tafseer, 318]
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The Reality Of Manners
Al-Imaam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
وَحَقِيقَةُ الْأَدَبِ اسْتِعْمَالُ الْخُلُقِ الْجَمِيلِ وَلِهَذَا كَانَ الْأَدَبُ اسْتِخْرَاجَ مَا فِي الطَّبِيعَةِ مِنَ الْكَمَالِ مِنَ الْقُوَّةِ إِلَى الْفِعْلِ
"The reality of manners is that it results from beautiful character. Thus, manners is the externalization of the integrity and strength in one’s inward disposition into action."
[Madaarijus-Saalikeen, 2/361]
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Al-Imaam Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
وَحَقِيقَةُ الْأَدَبِ اسْتِعْمَالُ الْخُلُقِ الْجَمِيلِ وَلِهَذَا كَانَ الْأَدَبُ اسْتِخْرَاجَ مَا فِي الطَّبِيعَةِ مِنَ الْكَمَالِ مِنَ الْقُوَّةِ إِلَى الْفِعْلِ
"The reality of manners is that it results from beautiful character. Thus, manners is the externalization of the integrity and strength in one’s inward disposition into action."
[Madaarijus-Saalikeen, 2/361]
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When Allaah Becomes Displeased With The Wife Regarding Her Husband
Abuu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, reported that the Messenger of Allaah, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:
"إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَلَمْ تَأْتِهِ فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلاَئِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ."
"When a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not come, and he (the husband) spends the night being angry with her, the angels curse her until morning."
[Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, No. 3237, and Saheeh Muslim, No. 1436. Wording of Saheeh Muslim].
Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"Regarding the angels cursing the wife mentioned in the Hadeeth, it means they make du'aa (supplication) against her to be cursed! And the word 'curse' means, that the cursed person be far removed from the Mercy of Allaah. So, if the wife refused to have sexual intercourse with her husband, which Allaah has allowed and made this act lawful for the husband, if she does not allow him, then the angels curse her and we seek Allaah's refuge! If the wife refuses him til the morning, Allaah's angels curse her time-after-time!
The Prophet, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said (in another narration):
"وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ مَا مِنْ رَجُلٍ يَدْعُو امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَتَأْبَى عَلَيْهِ إِلاَّ كَانَ الَّذِي فِي السَّمَاءِ سَاخِطًا عَلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَرْضَى عَنْهَا."
"By Him in Whose Hand is my life! When a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not respond, the One Who is above the heaven becomes displeased with her until he (her husband) becomes pleased with her."
This narration is more severe than the previous narrations because in it Allaah Himself is displeased with her! And certainly if Allaah is displeased with someone, then this is far worse than the mere curse of any man...
As for the Prophet's (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) words: 'the angels curse her until morning' it indicates Allaah being displeased with the wife solely based on her husband being upset and angry with her! It is possible that when the Prophet, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, mentioned 'until morning' it could be counted as the least time that the husband remains angry and upset with her. And it is also possible that the husband remains angry with her but not til the morning, just before sunset and it is just as likely that at times the husband will remain angry with his wife more than a day, maybe two. Whatsoever the case may be, as long as the husband remains angry with his wife, even if that is for a very long time period, Allaah, the Exalted and High, will remain displeased with her."
[Explanation Of Riyaadhus-Saaliheen, Chapter Of Advice On Women, The Husband's Rights Concerning His Wife, Hadeeth No. 281]
Important Note: A man should give his wife her rights, and she should give him his rights. If the man is not giving the woman her rights but he is demanding his right from her, she should reach out to a reliable person of knowledge and authority who can assist her and try to rectify their affairs, and Allaah knows best.
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Abuu Hurayrah, may Allaah be pleased with him, reported that the Messenger of Allaah, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said:
"إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَلَمْ تَأْتِهِ فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلاَئِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ."
"When a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not come, and he (the husband) spends the night being angry with her, the angels curse her until morning."
[Saheeh Al-Bukhaaree, No. 3237, and Saheeh Muslim, No. 1436. Wording of Saheeh Muslim].
Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-'Uthaymeen, may Allaah have mercy upon him:
"Regarding the angels cursing the wife mentioned in the Hadeeth, it means they make du'aa (supplication) against her to be cursed! And the word 'curse' means, that the cursed person be far removed from the Mercy of Allaah. So, if the wife refused to have sexual intercourse with her husband, which Allaah has allowed and made this act lawful for the husband, if she does not allow him, then the angels curse her and we seek Allaah's refuge! If the wife refuses him til the morning, Allaah's angels curse her time-after-time!
The Prophet, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said (in another narration):
"وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ مَا مِنْ رَجُلٍ يَدْعُو امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَتَأْبَى عَلَيْهِ إِلاَّ كَانَ الَّذِي فِي السَّمَاءِ سَاخِطًا عَلَيْهَا حَتَّى يَرْضَى عَنْهَا."
"By Him in Whose Hand is my life! When a man calls his wife to his bed and she does not respond, the One Who is above the heaven becomes displeased with her until he (her husband) becomes pleased with her."
This narration is more severe than the previous narrations because in it Allaah Himself is displeased with her! And certainly if Allaah is displeased with someone, then this is far worse than the mere curse of any man...
As for the Prophet's (salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) words: 'the angels curse her until morning' it indicates Allaah being displeased with the wife solely based on her husband being upset and angry with her! It is possible that when the Prophet, salallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, mentioned 'until morning' it could be counted as the least time that the husband remains angry and upset with her. And it is also possible that the husband remains angry with her but not til the morning, just before sunset and it is just as likely that at times the husband will remain angry with his wife more than a day, maybe two. Whatsoever the case may be, as long as the husband remains angry with his wife, even if that is for a very long time period, Allaah, the Exalted and High, will remain displeased with her."
[Explanation Of Riyaadhus-Saaliheen, Chapter Of Advice On Women, The Husband's Rights Concerning His Wife, Hadeeth No. 281]
Important Note: A man should give his wife her rights, and she should give him his rights. If the man is not giving the woman her rights but he is demanding his right from her, she should reach out to a reliable person of knowledge and authority who can assist her and try to rectify their affairs, and Allaah knows best.
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