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Good writing is always about things that are important to you, things that are scary to you, things that eat you up. But the writing is a way of not allowing those things to destroy you.” β€” John Edgar Wideman

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If more information was the answer, then we'd all be billionaires with perfect abs.
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How to become confident in any skill:

Do it so many times you get bored of doing it.

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Collection of some of the best quotes on Focus by James Clear:

1. Focus collapses your options in the short-term, but expands them in the long-term.


2. There are many capable people in the world, but relatively few that focus on what matters.


3. You need focus to become exceptional at anything. You have to be great at saying no. Massive amounts of time and energy are wasted optimizing things that should be left undone.


4. Do less, but better


5. What looks like a talent gap is often a focus gap. The "all-star" is often an average to above-average performer who spends more time working on what is important and less time on distractions.



6. It sounds so simple, but every project I’ve ever really succeeded on started to come together when I made it my primary focus. β€œAll In” vs β€œKinda In."


7. The Paradox of Focus: Make the most of one opportunity and more opportunities come your way. Moving boldly in one direction and more paths will unfold before you. To get more, focus on less.


8. I have a suspicion that most adults (75%+) could pick any skillβ€”excluding sportsβ€”and work their way into the top 10% in the world simply by working exclusively on it every day for two years. But almost nobody displays that degree of focus, so we will never know.



9. Highly focused people do not leave their options open. They make choices. If you commit to nothing, you’ll be distracted by everything. The great irony of this is that by limiting your options and remaining focused until you master a skill, you actually expand your options in the long run. Life-changing optionality is a byproduct of providing great value, which can only be achieved through focus.


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"The way to live a full life is to act quickly.

Particularly as you grow older, it's alarmingly easy to let a year or two (or five) slip by without doing the big things you always felt like doing.
You get into a rhythmβ€”not necessarily one you love, but one you become comfortable repeatingβ€”and the grooves of your daily routine become deeper and more established.

Speed is perpetually undervalued. That doesn't mean you should feel frantic or rushed.
In fact, it's likely you should eliminate some of the things that make you feel so busy to make space for things you always wanted to do. But it definitely means you should stop letting the days drift by waiting for the moment to be right.

Stop acting like there is infinite time. Thisβ€”the way you are living right nowβ€”is your one life."

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Why are we offended?

The answer at first glance is simple: because our expectations don't match reality. But do you understand the essence of this phrase?

You have made up your mind exactly how something SHOULD be, and you firmly believe that this is reality. And the other person, with different beliefs, is convinced that everything must happen or look the way HE thought it should. And voila, conflict! Two different fairy tales collide and can't come to a happy ending.

Here's a technique for the exercise:

πŸ“Œ Recall the last grudge you had against a loved one.
πŸ“Œ Take a piece of paper and write in a column all the thoughts that come to mind about it.
πŸ“Œ Then take apart each thought in order, asking yourself: Is this true? If not, cross it out!
πŸ“Œ Set the list aside for a couple of hours or even days. Then pick it up again and see what's left. Question the truth again. Cross it off again.

If you do it right, you'll feel the intensity of the resentment diminish or disappear altogether.


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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
― Alain de Botton
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β€œThis is what you deserve. You could be good today, but instead you choose tomorrow.”

- Marcus Aurelius


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While you are waiting to be motivated, someone finished his work already.


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You either do it or you don't,
Either way, you will bear the consequences.


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The Blame Game

Continue to blame social media for distracting you, instead of switching the app off and being productive.


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That’s why Seneca talked about how everyone, even slaveholders, could be slaves to something. Whether it was a mistress, ambition, gossip, or busyness, self-mastery was the ultimate freedom. Being in command of your thoughts, emotions, and actions equates to true liberty. This is what we aspire to achieve, and the arrival of a new year presents the ideal opportunity to break free.

What are you hooked on? What is difficult for you to go without? What exerts control over you?

Now ask, what are the costs of being hooked on whatever it is that has control over you? How much is it costing youβ€”financially, physically, emotionally, personally and professionally? How much would it be worth to be able to free yourself from that which has control over you, to be a better version of yourself? Are you looking to be freed, to be your best self? Are you looking for guidance, for people to hold you accountable, for the concrete steps to take towards that better version of yourself?


You must stop delaying. You must get started.

Today.

Right now.

A new year is upon you. Is there a better time than now?

No, there is not.

Let’s go.



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"Don't spend too much time around someone whose primary way of engaging with life is as a martyr. When suffering becomes your identity, you only see the hard parts of life." - James Clear

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β€œIf your choices are beautiful,” Epictetus said, β€œso too will you be.”

It’s simple and it’s true. You are what your choices make you, nothing more and nothing less.

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Seneca would say that he actually pitied people who have never experienced challenges.
β€œYou have passed through life without an opponent,” he said,
β€œNo one can ever know what you are capable of, not even you.”
Epictetus said when a challenge is put in front of you, think of yourself as an athlete getting paired with a tough competitor.
You want to be Olympic-class? β€œThis is going to take some sweat to accomplish,” he said.

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"Of all the ways you could be spending your precious time and attention, it is very unlikely that you are currently spending it in the optimal way.
The only path I know for figuring out a better way to spend your life is to sit and think.
You simply have to carve out some time to think carefully about what you're doing, why you're doing it, and what you're really trying to achieve. Nobody stumbles into a well lived life. It has to be cultivated. Reflection and review are critical."



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