Next Tuesday, 10/10, is World Mental Health Day, and I’ve created a blog post to help.
Highlighting mental health is important to me for deeply personal reasons. Treatment-resistant depression, bipolar disorder, and addiction run in my family. I’ve lost multiple friends to suicide and almost committed suicide in college. Opioids and alcohol have claimed the lives of family members and some of my closest childhood friends.
But despair need not lead to deaths of despair.
This new blog post compiles resources that have helped me and millions of readers. Here it is:
https://tim.blog/2023/10/06/tim-ferriss-mental-health-routines-and-tools/
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Highlighting mental health is important to me for deeply personal reasons. Treatment-resistant depression, bipolar disorder, and addiction run in my family. I’ve lost multiple friends to suicide and almost committed suicide in college. Opioids and alcohol have claimed the lives of family members and some of my closest childhood friends.
But despair need not lead to deaths of despair.
This new blog post compiles resources that have helped me and millions of readers. Here it is:
https://tim.blog/2023/10/06/tim-ferriss-mental-health-routines-and-tools/
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“When in darkness, don't fight it. You can't win. Just find the nearest switch, turn on the light.”
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Here’s just one gem: “It turns out that when I graduated from high school, I had already used up 93% of my in-person parent time. I’m now enjoying the last 5% of that time. We’re in the tail end.”
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1) Living in the same place as the people you love matters I probably have 10X the time left with the people who live in my city as I do with the people who live somewhere else.
2) Priorities matter.Your remaining face time with any person depends largely on where that person falls on your list of life priorities. Make sure this list is set by you—not by unconscious inertia.
3) Quality time matters. If you’re in your last 10% of time with someone you love, keep that fact in the front of your mind when you’re with them and treat that time as what it actually is: precious.
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Here’s just one gem: “It turns out that when I graduated from high school, I had already used up 93% of my in-person parent time. I’m now enjoying the last 5% of that time. We’re in the tail end.”
https://waitbutwhy.com/2015/12/the-tail-end.html
1) Living in the same place as the people you love matters I probably have 10X the time left with the people who live in my city as I do with the people who live somewhere else.
2) Priorities matter.Your remaining face time with any person depends largely on where that person falls on your list of life priorities. Make sure this list is set by you—not by unconscious inertia.
3) Quality time matters. If you’re in your last 10% of time with someone you love, keep that fact in the front of your mind when you’re with them and treat that time as what it actually is: precious.
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See the thing about sons,we just want to make our dads proud.
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See the thing about sons,we just want to make our dads proud.
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Andy Grammer - "My Father Does Not Care" Poem Video
MY FATHER DOES NOT CARE. I’ve been doing this in the middle of my set for the whole Good Parts Tour. At the end of the night one of the most asked questions has been where people can get it so I went and shot it. So fun diving into a new art form. More poetry…
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As Michael Lewis writes in The Undoing Project,
Harvard psychologist once asked Amos Tversky why he became a psychologist.
“It’s hard to know how people select a course in life,” he said.
“The big choices we make are practically random. The small choices probably tell us more about who we are. Which field we go into may depend on which high school teacher we happen to meet. Who we marry may depend on who happens to be around at the right time of life. On the other hand, the small decisions are very systematic. That I became a psychologist is probably not very revealing. What kind of psychologist I am may reflect deep traits.”
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Harvard psychologist once asked Amos Tversky why he became a psychologist.
“It’s hard to know how people select a course in life,” he said.
“The big choices we make are practically random. The small choices probably tell us more about who we are. Which field we go into may depend on which high school teacher we happen to meet. Who we marry may depend on who happens to be around at the right time of life. On the other hand, the small decisions are very systematic. That I became a psychologist is probably not very revealing. What kind of psychologist I am may reflect deep traits.”
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Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.
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"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
- Maya Angelou
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What does it feel like when you say “later”? 🕐
What does it sound like when you put something off?
All of us have a catalog of voices in our head. We’ve got the one for feeling behind, the one for not feeling good enough, the one we use when we’re trying to avoid a sore spot.
There are good reasons to decide to wait until later.
Waiting for later keeps our options open.
Waiting for later helps us avoid the short-term hustle.
Waiting for later feels safer.
Too often, waiting for later also keeps us from leaping, from leading and from making a difference. It keeps us from moving on, moving forward.
The feeling of “later” doesn’t go away. it actually gets harder and harder to leap as the time goes by.
It’s easy to turn waiting for later into a habit. It’s a great way to hide from the work we truly care about, especially if it’s uncomfortable.
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What does it sound like when you put something off?
All of us have a catalog of voices in our head. We’ve got the one for feeling behind, the one for not feeling good enough, the one we use when we’re trying to avoid a sore spot.
There are good reasons to decide to wait until later.
Waiting for later keeps our options open.
Waiting for later helps us avoid the short-term hustle.
Waiting for later feels safer.
Too often, waiting for later also keeps us from leaping, from leading and from making a difference. It keeps us from moving on, moving forward.
The feeling of “later” doesn’t go away. it actually gets harder and harder to leap as the time goes by.
It’s easy to turn waiting for later into a habit. It’s a great way to hide from the work we truly care about, especially if it’s uncomfortable.
- Seth Godin
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Good writing is always about things that are important to you, things that are scary to you, things that eat you up. But the writing is a way of not allowing those things to destroy you.” — John Edgar Wideman
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If more information was the answer, then we'd all be billionaires with perfect abs.
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How to become confident in any skill:
Do it so many times you get bored of doing it.
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Do it so many times you get bored of doing it.
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Collection of some of the best quotes on Focus by James Clear:
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1. Focus collapses your options in the short-term, but expands them in the long-term.
2. There are many capable people in the world, but relatively few that focus on what matters.
3. You need focus to become exceptional at anything. You have to be great at saying no. Massive amounts of time and energy are wasted optimizing things that should be left undone.
4. Do less, but better
5. What looks like a talent gap is often a focus gap. The "all-star" is often an average to above-average performer who spends more time working on what is important and less time on distractions.
6. It sounds so simple, but every project I’ve ever really succeeded on started to come together when I made it my primary focus. “All In” vs “Kinda In."
7. The Paradox of Focus: Make the most of one opportunity and more opportunities come your way. Moving boldly in one direction and more paths will unfold before you. To get more, focus on less.
8. I have a suspicion that most adults (75%+) could pick any skill—excluding sports—and work their way into the top 10% in the world simply by working exclusively on it every day for two years. But almost nobody displays that degree of focus, so we will never know.
9. Highly focused people do not leave their options open. They make choices. If you commit to nothing, you’ll be distracted by everything. The great irony of this is that by limiting your options and remaining focused until you master a skill, you actually expand your options in the long run. Life-changing optionality is a byproduct of providing great value, which can only be achieved through focus.
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"The way to live a full life is to act quickly.
Particularly as you grow older, it's alarmingly easy to let a year or two (or five) slip by without doing the big things you always felt like doing.
You get into a rhythm—not necessarily one you love, but one you become comfortable repeating—and the grooves of your daily routine become deeper and more established.
Speed is perpetually undervalued. That doesn't mean you should feel frantic or rushed.
In fact, it's likely you should eliminate some of the things that make you feel so busy to make space for things you always wanted to do. But it definitely means you should stop letting the days drift by waiting for the moment to be right.
Stop acting like there is infinite time. This—the way you are living right now—is your one life."
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Particularly as you grow older, it's alarmingly easy to let a year or two (or five) slip by without doing the big things you always felt like doing.
You get into a rhythm—not necessarily one you love, but one you become comfortable repeating—and the grooves of your daily routine become deeper and more established.
Speed is perpetually undervalued. That doesn't mean you should feel frantic or rushed.
In fact, it's likely you should eliminate some of the things that make you feel so busy to make space for things you always wanted to do. But it definitely means you should stop letting the days drift by waiting for the moment to be right.
Stop acting like there is infinite time. This—the way you are living right now—is your one life."
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Why are we offended?
The answer at first glance is simple: because our expectations don't match reality. But do you understand the essence of this phrase?
You have made up your mind exactly how something SHOULD be, and you firmly believe that this is reality. And the other person, with different beliefs, is convinced that everything must happen or look the way HE thought it should. And voila, conflict! Two different fairy tales collide and can't come to a happy ending.
Here's a technique for the exercise:
📌 Recall the last grudge you had against a loved one.
📌 Take a piece of paper and write in a column all the thoughts that come to mind about it.
📌 Then take apart each thought in order, asking yourself: Is this true? If not, cross it out!
📌 Set the list aside for a couple of hours or even days. Then pick it up again and see what's left. Question the truth again. Cross it off again.
If you do it right, you'll feel the intensity of the resentment diminish or disappear altogether.
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The answer at first glance is simple: because our expectations don't match reality. But do you understand the essence of this phrase?
You have made up your mind exactly how something SHOULD be, and you firmly believe that this is reality. And the other person, with different beliefs, is convinced that everything must happen or look the way HE thought it should. And voila, conflict! Two different fairy tales collide and can't come to a happy ending.
Here's a technique for the exercise:
📌 Recall the last grudge you had against a loved one.
📌 Take a piece of paper and write in a column all the thoughts that come to mind about it.
📌 Then take apart each thought in order, asking yourself: Is this true? If not, cross it out!
📌 Set the list aside for a couple of hours or even days. Then pick it up again and see what's left. Question the truth again. Cross it off again.
If you do it right, you'll feel the intensity of the resentment diminish or disappear altogether.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
― Alain de Botton
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“This is what you deserve. You could be good today, but instead you choose tomorrow.”
- Marcus Aurelius
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While you are waiting to be motivated, someone finished his work already.
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