That's right. However, thank God, some are awakening to the truth, but dear friends, let's not forget that we're all here on the material plane. TERRA. 3Dimension. Three Element. If we were as elevated/enlightened/etheric beings as some believe, I can assure you with certainty that these souls wouldn't be here. So yes, no matter how much faith you have in gurus, you'll know—you'll have realized—that they're also on the Planet. Open your eyes and observe all the details.
We are the fourth element with the gift to gathering the Ether (kundalini) but is not as you think it is believe me.
A simple example that you all know: The female womb gather the ether: where creation takes place.
There are more places in the human body where that gathering is done. Now close your eyes and understand what the chakras are.
Reaching ether by having sex? Don't you see what a huge mistake that is? In Western society, tantra is misunderstood. In fact, people even lose all their kundalini energy by having sex for the mere pleasure of it. These practices are much more subtle—nothing like the animal sexual act many people are accustomed to.
If kundalini energy is lost due to "excesses", stress also influences very much, the body begins to age more quickly.
This is what the pyramids hide, the human being is the fourth dimension with the quality of gathering ether
“Finding love” is just a programming of the matrix to do this beautifully, something that contributes to the process of reaching kulini.