I FEEL SO SEEN 🥹
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YO FICTOSEXUALS/FICTOROMANTICS. WHAT ARE Y’ALLS ‘’ HEAR ME OUTS’’ ?
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What generation are you?

I'm a 80s Millennial.
Growing up I wish there was a talk or just a safe space on the internet where to talk with other asexuals. We barely had the internet lol.
Society-wise I think little has changed in the perception of differences.

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YO HOLY CRAP GUYS DID YOU KNOW PERFUME IS SUPPOSED TO MAKE YOU SEXUALLY AROUSED??????

Coworkers at work were talking about perfume. Dude coworker pulled out his cologne and told us he won't spray it because drives his wife crazy.

I didn't understand so I asked what it smells like. He gave it to me annnnnnd it smells like the Sears perfume department. I told him it smells like nothing. I asked what I was missing.

He told me it has a bunch of pheromones.

Pheromones, when you smell it increase your sexual attraction and makes you want to do the sex.

Suddenly, everything makes sense. I thought perfume was just fancy deodorant for special occasions. That is why there are sexually attractive people in the commericals. And they act like like they are going to have foreplay on TV in exotic locations.

People buy it to increase their sexual attraction. They show sexy people in the commercial because more sexy actors means this perfume is going to make you more sexy. And people like sex.

Oh my god that is probably why Victoria Secret sells perfume. It isn't special occasion deodorant, it is suppose to make you sexy while you are buying sexy clothes.

God I feel slow as shit.

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4D chess, innit?
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Anyone else like this or is it just me?

I am totally fine with anything sexual - until it involves me. I’ll watch corn, think about it, imagine it, get turned on by it, joke and laugh and talk about it, but having to change in the same room as other people? Hell no! Someone thinks I’m attractive? 🤮

I avoid gynecologists and I don’t masturbate. No trauma or weird parents here either, I’m just…the one who feels like a weirdo cause everyone says that I make no sense.

So I thought I’d find out if I indeed make no sense, cause I know there are aces that masturbate, and then others that don’t even want to see sex scenes in films. Everyone’s a little different. But I haven’t heard anyone say anything like this, even the fictosexuals (a community that I am definitely a part of; no matter how hot real people are, they’re nowhere near as aesthetic as in films lol)

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The only right answer

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‼️VENT-ISH MEME‼️Me realizing that female characters have big boobs and stuff so that they're more sexually appealing to the male audience and that works and is not "just a joke"/failed marketing:
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Gf is allo im ace what to do

Sooo we have been dating for about 3 months now and before getting together we discussed my asexuality. At first we had a pretty bad argument abt it but then she told me that she is fine with it as long as we can openly talk about our feelings and needs. Also I made it clear that it was okay if she wanted to end things with me because of it (even tho it would hurt ofc) but she was so sure that we could make this work.

Now that it has been a while she keeps bringin it up and telling me how much this hurts her feelings and how hard it is for her. I do get it but it does feel like she is guilt tripping me with loong videos of her crying and paragraphs on how she doesn't feel loved or wanted. Still everytime I bring up the fact that no matter how much we love eachother this is oblivious doing damage to both of us and we should really discuss is this going to work in the long term she insist that we are going to be okay.

I feel like she doesnt really even get what it means to be asexual and often tells me that she feels like its something personal i have against her.

What should i do? Try to convince that its not personal and educate her? Push my boundaries and try new things w her? Or are we doomed to end

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As an ace, this is sort of amusing
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If you were famous (or a big TikToker) would you say you were asexual on the internet?

Hi guys, I realized that it's very difficult to see famous people or influencers saying they are asexual. Even accounts from “normal” people that talk about this don’t engage. So, I was thinking: in real life we ​​already receive so many strange comments when we talk about this (I already did), imagine on the internet? If I were famous, I would probably want to speak out to bring visibility, but at the same time I think it's dangerous.
People often see asexuals as a “challenge” or simply don’t take them seriously. And you, what do you think? If they were famous, would they count?

A famous streamer in my country came out as asexual and it was great to see someone big talking about it. But it also created space for a lot of annoying people to talk nonsense, both outside the LGBTQ+ community and within it.

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Funny enough minecraft parodies apply
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"I'm LGB about QIAPN+"

For those who don't know, maybe it's a sensitive topic!!!
But yes it is real, they want to exclude anyone from the community who is not Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual
I'm shocked by this actually. They want to exclude Trans, intersexual, Queer, and by extension us too...

I don't know what to think about this now, and I also know that many here have never felt like they belong to the community in any way, and that's okay, I'm not here to judge.
I'm just disappointed because I think they're trying to pathologize us again 😕

And I have a heavy heart for the Queer, intersexual and especially Trans people who pioneered the existence of this community.

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How many asexual males feel this way?

I'm 17 female, and I found out I was ace like a year ago. I've come to terms with it though I struggle with hopeless when it comes to finding relationships. I always think that no one would want to date me if I wasn't willing to have sex. I'm sex indifferent (for the most part). My feelings fluctuate majorly, okay with somethings sometimes then repulsed by them later. I feel like I COULD have penetrative sex with the right boundaries, but preferably would want a relationship where it's not required... y'know? I don't know why, penetrative fluctuates so much with me. It's an okay idea with boundaries like no full nudity (I'd like to keep a shirt on), but sometimes it's just gross to me. Whereas I'm more comfortable with oral and stuff. Love makeouts and foreplay sorta things. And I'd TOTALLY peg a dude if he wanted tbh. For some reason that makes me more comfortable with the idea of receiving penetrative as well, like it makes it feel even? And then I also just have lower libido and could survive without, I wouldn't want anything often. It feels like no one MATCHES me and my asexuality is my downfall.

Anyway, point of this post being (I like to ramble) are there any men out there that feel similarly to this? Guys who experience similar feelings or desires? Sorta looking for hope that I can still find someone out there!

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Ugh 😩 So true
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I fixed it

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Pro’s and con’s of having your schools main color being purple
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I’ll never meet the “right one”

If you don’t understand asexuality just say that. The pressure to conform when I live like Virgin Mary is UNHINGED. Just think of me as a spider or not at all.



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