The sex repulsed aces are having a field day with this one
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Made a New NSFW Sub for Aces
Yeah, I know the Allos will be scratching their heads about it lol.
I know we have Asexual Porn but that's more of a meme joke place (which I love, we Aces are funny as hell if I do say so myself).
However, I've actually discovered a lot of other Asexual people in the NSFW reddit world of all places. Seems like there are lots of us moving in those spaces but... quietly. Like we Aces have been doing many things, because Allos are just so fucking loud (metaphorically speaking).
I find myself struggling to even know where to post things I am wanting to post because all the spaces are so full of the Allosexual gaze that I can't navigate them well.
Anyway, I made aceapprovednsfw so myself & others could have a space that is geared to our aesthetic gaze; rather than the super sexual NSFW spaces that exist like that. It is Sex Positive but not Sex Driven; so things that are often labeled Sexual is the goal; while not allowing anything that shows sex acts of any kind (solo sex is still sex people. All types of sex are sex when you are taking to Ace people especially ahaha).
Cross posting is welcome & encouraged to give a boost & credit to NSFW creators out there; original content that is not sex driven is also welcome.
Body Positive & Self-Love/Acceptance is the name of the game; quality of the composition matters more than idea beauty standards.
I'm on a mission to join my favorite Ace representation person as an equal someday; I invite any person on the Ace spectrum to travel the path with me by joining this space I made (+18 only, sorry baby Aces, I love you too but this is not for you guys).
*Also if you have experience as a Mod, I would LOVE to add someone else as a Mod since I am still learning lots about reddit.
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Yeah, I know the Allos will be scratching their heads about it lol.
I know we have Asexual Porn but that's more of a meme joke place (which I love, we Aces are funny as hell if I do say so myself).
However, I've actually discovered a lot of other Asexual people in the NSFW reddit world of all places. Seems like there are lots of us moving in those spaces but... quietly. Like we Aces have been doing many things, because Allos are just so fucking loud (metaphorically speaking).
I find myself struggling to even know where to post things I am wanting to post because all the spaces are so full of the Allosexual gaze that I can't navigate them well.
Anyway, I made aceapprovednsfw so myself & others could have a space that is geared to our aesthetic gaze; rather than the super sexual NSFW spaces that exist like that. It is Sex Positive but not Sex Driven; so things that are often labeled Sexual is the goal; while not allowing anything that shows sex acts of any kind (solo sex is still sex people. All types of sex are sex when you are taking to Ace people especially ahaha).
Cross posting is welcome & encouraged to give a boost & credit to NSFW creators out there; original content that is not sex driven is also welcome.
Body Positive & Self-Love/Acceptance is the name of the game; quality of the composition matters more than idea beauty standards.
I'm on a mission to join my favorite Ace representation person as an equal someday; I invite any person on the Ace spectrum to travel the path with me by joining this space I made (+18 only, sorry baby Aces, I love you too but this is not for you guys).
*Also if you have experience as a Mod, I would LOVE to add someone else as a Mod since I am still learning lots about reddit.
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Confused on if I’m ace cause I’m still feel sexually attracted to cartoon characters
By definition, asexuality is described as:
“experiencing little to no sexual attraction.”
And That still feels true for me when it comes to real people.
But at the same time, I can’t deny that I do feel sexual attraction toward cartoon/drawn characters.
So That’s where I get confused.
Cause on one hand, since they’re not “real,” it feels like they shouldn’t count.
But on the other, I’m technically still am experiencing that sexual attraction feeling towards somethin, which contradict the definition of “feeling no sexual attraction.”
So maybe I’m not actually asexual, and that’s fine.
But just wanted to put the thought out there to get some insight or perspective on it.
And if I am still ace, then what’s makes me still asexual, despite being sexually attracted to drawn characters?
I’m questioning this now cause a friend who was just curious to learn. question that fact, and to some extent it made sense. And I didn’t know how to reply. So I come here for some insight
Thank you!
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By definition, asexuality is described as:
“experiencing little to no sexual attraction.”
And That still feels true for me when it comes to real people.
But at the same time, I can’t deny that I do feel sexual attraction toward cartoon/drawn characters.
So That’s where I get confused.
Cause on one hand, since they’re not “real,” it feels like they shouldn’t count.
But on the other, I’m technically still am experiencing that sexual attraction feeling towards somethin, which contradict the definition of “feeling no sexual attraction.”
So maybe I’m not actually asexual, and that’s fine.
But just wanted to put the thought out there to get some insight or perspective on it.
And if I am still ace, then what’s makes me still asexual, despite being sexually attracted to drawn characters?
I’m questioning this now cause a friend who was just curious to learn. question that fact, and to some extent it made sense. And I didn’t know how to reply. So I come here for some insight
Thank you!
https://redd.it/1nrugkj
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Why is it that when im more comfortable in my relationship, the less i want sex. Is this asexuality?
Usually at the beginning stages of a relationship, or even when things are a little toxic, I have a sex drive but as soon as I'm comfortable, trust my partner and the relationship is healthy, i dont get the urge for sex.
Im wondering was it all performative in the beginning (but i was turned on though) but as soon as i actually feel safe, i can actually be myself (asexual?). Does anyone relate at all?
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Usually at the beginning stages of a relationship, or even when things are a little toxic, I have a sex drive but as soon as I'm comfortable, trust my partner and the relationship is healthy, i dont get the urge for sex.
Im wondering was it all performative in the beginning (but i was turned on though) but as soon as i actually feel safe, i can actually be myself (asexual?). Does anyone relate at all?
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I only recently watched Jaiden's video and it makes me sad
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Do you sometimes wish your weren’t Ace?
For context, I have known I’m ace for over 13 years now. I have lived a ton of things since, but for the last couple of months, I’ve felt like I would love to be « normal ». If there was a cure, a treatment, whatever, I would take it if it meant that I felt more normal, as if it was a sickness of something.
Today, this feeling hasn’t left my mind and my heart.
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For context, I have known I’m ace for over 13 years now. I have lived a ton of things since, but for the last couple of months, I’ve felt like I would love to be « normal ». If there was a cure, a treatment, whatever, I would take it if it meant that I felt more normal, as if it was a sickness of something.
Today, this feeling hasn’t left my mind and my heart.
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What do you guys think about todd chavez from bojack horseman ?
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I'm allo, but i HATE how hypersexual our society is.
The title pretty much says it all, i'm an allo gay man and i hate how sex is portrayed in society. I get absolutely sick when people talk about sex in such a romanticized way as if it was some kind of life-changing experience, like no, it just isn't.
Our society is deeply misogynistic, heteronormative and hypersexual, which of course influences pretty much every aspect of our culture from arts to poetry, music, movies, language, shows and festivals. That makes me feel really uncomfortable and always think twice before consuming any piece of media.
Through my life i've seen many people, mostly cishet men, talk about sex in such dehumanizing and disgusting ways, mostly through the idea of virginity (which is just complete bullshit by the way) or straight up reducing women to it's private parts.
Although i'm gay, i avoid some gay spaces too because i really hate that whole top/bottom shit and i feel it plays by the rules of heteronormativity and hypersexuality.
Anyways, just wanted to share my thoughts and personal experiences and i hope you all can understand my point of view.
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The title pretty much says it all, i'm an allo gay man and i hate how sex is portrayed in society. I get absolutely sick when people talk about sex in such a romanticized way as if it was some kind of life-changing experience, like no, it just isn't.
Our society is deeply misogynistic, heteronormative and hypersexual, which of course influences pretty much every aspect of our culture from arts to poetry, music, movies, language, shows and festivals. That makes me feel really uncomfortable and always think twice before consuming any piece of media.
Through my life i've seen many people, mostly cishet men, talk about sex in such dehumanizing and disgusting ways, mostly through the idea of virginity (which is just complete bullshit by the way) or straight up reducing women to it's private parts.
Although i'm gay, i avoid some gay spaces too because i really hate that whole top/bottom shit and i feel it plays by the rules of heteronormativity and hypersexuality.
Anyways, just wanted to share my thoughts and personal experiences and i hope you all can understand my point of view.
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