Am I Asexual?
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If you are questioning whether or not you are asexual (including all microlabels), reply to this post with what made you start questioning, and why.
If you are too shy to post a reply, then you can scroll through the responses for the advice you may be searching for.
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Average ace at a party (was I supposed to pick up any social cues ?)
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Just had the most affirming and wonderful Healthcare experience
I've been having a lot of issues with both my period and GI issues,and hips, and everything, I'm falling apart essentially, so my doc ordered ultrasounds and xrays be done.
I'm sitting here in the clinic waiting on xrays after having the most wonderful echo experience in my life. I'm used to getting on that table and being a slab of meat they prod aggressively while I try not to pee. But she was gentle and reassuring, and explained everything she was doing and talked every step through. And then came time for the dumb wand. But she asked a question I was never asked before. Usually techs just shove that bad boy in there without talking. But she asked, are you sexually active and is it with men. And I said, no, I'm asexual. And she said, then I don't think I want to put you through this discomfort.
I can't get over it. One simple tweak to the sexually active question and she was like "this will be uncomfortable for you, let's not and see if we can get what we need without it". And she did!
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I've been having a lot of issues with both my period and GI issues,and hips, and everything, I'm falling apart essentially, so my doc ordered ultrasounds and xrays be done.
I'm sitting here in the clinic waiting on xrays after having the most wonderful echo experience in my life. I'm used to getting on that table and being a slab of meat they prod aggressively while I try not to pee. But she was gentle and reassuring, and explained everything she was doing and talked every step through. And then came time for the dumb wand. But she asked a question I was never asked before. Usually techs just shove that bad boy in there without talking. But she asked, are you sexually active and is it with men. And I said, no, I'm asexual. And she said, then I don't think I want to put you through this discomfort.
I can't get over it. One simple tweak to the sexually active question and she was like "this will be uncomfortable for you, let's not and see if we can get what we need without it". And she did!
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Husband of 15 years realized he is asexual - how do we proceed?
My husband and I have been together since college - for about 15 years now and have a 2yo child. He recently came to the realization that he is asexual and does not want to engage in virtually any kind of physical relationship/intimacy moving forward. We care about each other a lot but have certainly fell out of love over the years and have had a lot bumps in our relationship. We are discussing options for moving forward, which include divorce, living together but being separated, or staying together but trying an open relationship of some sort. No matter what, we envision remaining a major part of each others’ lives and hope to remain very close friends.
We are both very dedicated parents and can’t imagine splitting time with our child and worry about the impact it would have on him. At the same time, I feel like I’m sacrificing my happiness and having the opportunity to find a new partner if I stay (but also know there’s no guarantee I’ll even find someone/can’t even wrap my head around dating again…). I’m just torn in two.
Does anyone have any advice? Really struggling here and can’t figure out what the right thing to do is.
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My husband and I have been together since college - for about 15 years now and have a 2yo child. He recently came to the realization that he is asexual and does not want to engage in virtually any kind of physical relationship/intimacy moving forward. We care about each other a lot but have certainly fell out of love over the years and have had a lot bumps in our relationship. We are discussing options for moving forward, which include divorce, living together but being separated, or staying together but trying an open relationship of some sort. No matter what, we envision remaining a major part of each others’ lives and hope to remain very close friends.
We are both very dedicated parents and can’t imagine splitting time with our child and worry about the impact it would have on him. At the same time, I feel like I’m sacrificing my happiness and having the opportunity to find a new partner if I stay (but also know there’s no guarantee I’ll even find someone/can’t even wrap my head around dating again…). I’m just torn in two.
Does anyone have any advice? Really struggling here and can’t figure out what the right thing to do is.
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"The house smelled like pancakes. Why would a vampire's house smell like pancakes?"
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