Can some asexuals have sexual needs?



Like..not for ppl but for their horniness?


Like, they are so hungry they need food but they dont crave a specific food. They just crave food?


Idk how to explain it. Ppl keep saying that asexuals dont have sexual needs. Which i got confused bc there are some who has libido and yes ik there are some who has a libido but dont need to be taken care of. I am talking abt the ones who needs sex for their libido.


Idk if its possible or not. So i am here to Ask if it is possible?



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Anyone else depressed that they won’t ever find an ace partner?

Im a very romantic ace and I dream of the perfect relationship with another ace, however I’m also socially awkward and scared to talk to people. I’m also scared of men which is rough because I’m attracted to men..

I’m also less likely to find someone who will accept me because I’m also nonbinary.. AFAB but I present gender neutrally.

It upsets me that I’ll end up probably in an online relationship, that means I can’t ever hug, cuddle, or kiss my partner.. and I am extremely touch starved

I cant settle for an allo, I cant compromise either. I’m sex repulsed and even if someone touches me sexually while fully clothed I get uncomfortable and nope out.

Either way I’m scared of dying alone, I wish I was Aro as well as Ace so I wouldn’t have to worry about this.. sucks to be in the 1% of people worldwide..

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Ok it's a rant but more like a ugh do I have to identify myself rant

So I recently went to LGBTQ community thing I was the only person with the he pronouns. I didn't say I'm asexual because I don't really feel the need to identify myself and I'm not out to my coworkers or family and only 2 people in my life are aware.

So I don't broadcast it even if my coworkers wouldn't care it would be a violation of the unspoken separation of life and work rule.

My friends and family would probably have a million questions and make it into a big deal I would be defined by my asexuality.

So yeah I realize that I seem to be getting kind of pushed to the edge like I'm hitting a fence. One of them tells me they're a lesbian and I'm just like ok cool. afterwards I started to think about it and realized she probably wanted me to identify myself.

I'm just miffed like I get why they are cautious with men but I really don't want to feel like I need to wear an ace flag pin or something. O well I guess keep going until they realize I'm not trying to sleep with them or something else.

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Bro, y’all were not joking abt this sub 😂😂😂

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ik ik it’s Tarantino but I do agree with him on this
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It doesn't matter. We shall march on.
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How feasible is it to live with a best friend?

I’ve known my best friend (we’re both women btw) for about 13 years now, and she’s amazing. When we were younger, we’d joke that we’d live together someday.

Well, we’re in college now. The other day, she asked me if I’d want to own a house or share an apartment with her some day—as in, we’d grow old together, raise some cats along the way—and I told her, truthfully, that it sounds amazing. She’s aroace, so she’s never planning on getting married or having children.

As for me, it’s odd. I’m asexual, but not quite aromantic. I’ve had crushes (rarely, though), I’ve been on dates and I’ve felt the butterflies, but I’ve never had a boyfriend, and I’m not interested in marriage or children either. Honestly, I’ve never felt as comfortable with or as connected to someone as I do with my best friend. She’s the only person I can hang out with for days on end and not get bored or end up feeling drained. Maybe that’s why I don’t feel like dating anyone. So, I would love to live with her for the rest of my days.

But it seems like that’s just… not a thing people do? I’ve seen people who are married with children, who are married/dating but without children, who live alone, who live with their friends until they can move out, but never someone who lives with their best friend permanently. I know it’s early to be thinking about any of this, but still, is it possible? Are we just weird?

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