Aesthetic as an asexual?

I would love some support.

You see it if you read my profile.

Earlier today I was doing some cleaning and I got upset. I have mild autism and I barely melt down. But I had a melt down because there was a spider and it took me a whole two minutes to get the hose on the vacume to suck it up.

That said...

As well as all else with my being a Butch and Asexual...


I think I just more like how some women look and sound more than anything.


I don't want friends and a partner.

Just being is hard enough as is and I rather continue the rest of my life as I am without those two.

I'm just glad to get through each day at this point. (32 I am.)

Is there anyone else the same or kinda the same?

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Waiting for sex

So I just read a post about an allo heterosexual guy who has been single for 3+ years and now has a girlfriend, but she doesn't want to have sex immediately and is asking him to wait a couple of months, which he is finding incredible annoying and might break up over it.

This is so weird to me - this isn't to say all allos are weird, but plenty of people agreed with him in the comments so I am just so confused. Like if he breaks up, he won't have sex until he finds another girl, which might not happen for a few years again. So why would he break up with a girl he could have sex with in a couple of months, just to be alone? Like why give up sex in three months because you can't wait, when you won't have any sex if you break up????

Does your partner witholding sex build up resentment for them, so much you want to leave them over it just to hurt them back or something? Or does it just remove all your feelings for that person? Or is this guy just weird? Like why is being single better than being with a person who might not want sex immediately?

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I’m very confused

I’m a 27 year old autistic male identifying with my biological sex (male). I’ve recently begun to wonder about asexuality relating to me.

I grew up pretty religious so my sexuality was pretty tamped down, but I have had my fair share of sex with men. The issue I’ve run into is that… I don’t really like sex. I don’t like the sensory stuff, I don’t love kissing, I don’t love bodily fluids on me. The sensory stuff is a nightmare.

I’m dating a guy right now and he has a pretty high libido. But I love him so deeply. But he’ll ask me about my fantasies or kinks and I have legitimately no idea, cause I don’t think about those. I do see attractive men and will have a sort of bodily response (erection, or nerves). But I don’t really… think about having sex with them. If I find them attractive I’m more like ooh talking to them is so hot.

Guys seem to be way more sexually attracted to me than I am to them. I actually feel like sex is a waste of my time, or a waste of our time. And I just feel irritated having to do it. And I often lose my erection during sexy time for like no reason.

I just don’t understand if, like… that means I’m asexual… cause I do find men attractive, and like… I have had sex and like… I’m not against it? But like… if I get aroused at a man, not even thinking about sex, just like them as aesthetically pleasing?

I’ve never had a celebrity crush, really. Like, people say ohhhh that man is so hot I would have sex with him. But I just like see them as hot and have rarely ever had a sexual thought.

I usually use porn when getting off, but I mostly just get aroused by the mechanics of it all and the sounds. But I don’t know that I have ever really WANTED sex???


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I saw this on Tumblr. Never thought of it like that. What do you think
https://i.imgur.com/369fU9R.png

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Why are some allos like this?
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Borger!
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I made a hat :)
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Welp, this i y sign to never talk to strangers :D

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Found at Paris pride, what do we think of this ?
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Accidentally mixed the perfect soap
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sex is disgusting

Any time I read about sex or get shown sexual content or have sex in real life I feel disgusting and ashamed

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As an aroace I often feel like I'm not really apart of the community so thank to the guy who called me a f*g



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That's us broski

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Tfw I wear a cunty ass outfit and get asked who I’m tryna impress
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My bestfriend basically told me I’m out of luck with dating as ace.

I’ve recently got back into looking for a relationship of some sort after straying from it for a couple of years to figure out my sexuality. Now that I’m comfortable, I’ve been looking and whatnot, because I still really would love a romantic connection. I was on the fence about telling my bestfriend because he’s often got opinions I disagree with and this felt like I would possibly be in that group.

Anyways, I was discussing this with him, overall just complaining about the lack of lgbt+ community we have in our area, and he said because I mostly like masc women, that I’ve cut out 90% of the market because I’m Ace.

I’ve always been a little self conscious about not being interested in sex, not feeling good about it because of how judgmental some people will be. And now that I’m comfortable being out about it, his statement is really upsetting me and I just don’t feel good now. Like maybe I shouldn’t get my hopes up and just remain lonely?

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Asexuality from Trauma

I will cut to the chase - I was raped at 19 and have been completely asexual since that. I struggle a lot with feeling like I am devaluing the label of asexuality because some people I’ve talked to say I don’t fit in here at all, because I’m “choosing” this lifestyle. Is it inappropriate for me to be in this space if something that happened to me made me feel asexual, rather than it being my initial innate orientation? This is a genuine question, not meant to be ignorant, just want to gain an understanding.

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AUSSIES RUN TO SUBWAY AT ONCE!! WE WILL FORM A CULT OF ACES AND CONFUSE THE HELL OUT OF THE POOR TEENAGERS WORKING THERE
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Art I made on the feeling/experience of being asexual

https://preview.redd.it/yo6w4lfic6bf1.png?width=4000&format=png&auto=webp&s=6f50681c08f1aff875b1792df656f5eaedfefd0d



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