Asexuals make great partners!
I get that there seems to be some negativity in this sub so I wanted to share something positive about having an ace person for a partner. Ace people are great! They're these delightful little creatures who only crave your love and affection and nothing more. They're easy to please and they really enjoy getting to know you. They won't objectify you or pressure you into something you don't like. They'll love you for you and not what you can offer them in the bedroom. I don't know what all the fuss is about. Dating an ace person is truly a wonderful experience if you just give them a chance! (:
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I get that there seems to be some negativity in this sub so I wanted to share something positive about having an ace person for a partner. Ace people are great! They're these delightful little creatures who only crave your love and affection and nothing more. They're easy to please and they really enjoy getting to know you. They won't objectify you or pressure you into something you don't like. They'll love you for you and not what you can offer them in the bedroom. I don't know what all the fuss is about. Dating an ace person is truly a wonderful experience if you just give them a chance! (:
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I told my doctor I’m asexual, she told me the term is too vague
I was just at my doctors because of mental health problems. She asked me about friends and partners and I told her that I’m asexual and aromantic. She told me that the term is too vague and people mean different things by it. I got pretty angry with her because I felt the usual rejection of my identity that I have gotten from doctors before. I told her that there is literally a definition of asexual online. Then she told me that I’m being nit picky and argumentative. And what she meant was that what’s interesting is what is behind the asexuality. I also asked her if she would say the same thing to a homosexual person. She said no. So I asked okey, so it’s because they have attraction to other (same sex) people? And she said yes. I don’t get it? Asexual just means you don’t have attraction. How hard is that to understand?
Was I in the wrong here or was she? I’m depressed and in a shitty mood so I honestly can’t tell
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I was just at my doctors because of mental health problems. She asked me about friends and partners and I told her that I’m asexual and aromantic. She told me that the term is too vague and people mean different things by it. I got pretty angry with her because I felt the usual rejection of my identity that I have gotten from doctors before. I told her that there is literally a definition of asexual online. Then she told me that I’m being nit picky and argumentative. And what she meant was that what’s interesting is what is behind the asexuality. I also asked her if she would say the same thing to a homosexual person. She said no. So I asked okey, so it’s because they have attraction to other (same sex) people? And she said yes. I don’t get it? Asexual just means you don’t have attraction. How hard is that to understand?
Was I in the wrong here or was she? I’m depressed and in a shitty mood so I honestly can’t tell
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PrideOoh, bandwagon time! This is what an asexual can look like :)
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Didn’t have any burger buns last night so I had to improvise.
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Sex negative people should be banned
And with that I mean anyone who degrades and dehumanises others over them having sex. Anybody who ideologically against sex has no space in a queer community.
Sex averse people are fine obviously I don’t mean those. But I am tired of reading through the posts and comments of people saying that others having sex (just the concept of others not that they are involved in anyway) is disgusting.
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I am sorry but thinking shit like this is extremely harmful for our fellow queer people and shouldn’t be tolerated. If you are against the mere existence of sex , sexuality and porn fuck off right now. I have been in this community for years! I have been identifying as ace for 6 years but recently I don’t want to anymore because I refuse to be associated with people like this. Don’t want sex? Then don’t have sex very simple. But don’t harm others for that…
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And with that I mean anyone who degrades and dehumanises others over them having sex. Anybody who ideologically against sex has no space in a queer community.
Sex averse people are fine obviously I don’t mean those. But I am tired of reading through the posts and comments of people saying that others having sex (just the concept of others not that they are involved in anyway) is disgusting.
https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/s/4rPiFl3D5A
I am sorry but thinking shit like this is extremely harmful for our fellow queer people and shouldn’t be tolerated. If you are against the mere existence of sex , sexuality and porn fuck off right now. I have been in this community for years! I have been identifying as ace for 6 years but recently I don’t want to anymore because I refuse to be associated with people like this. Don’t want sex? Then don’t have sex very simple. But don’t harm others for that…
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