Questioning need advice 💚
Hey I am questioning myself well I to be honest it's like this some random days I am like yeah sex seems ok I want that. But a majority of the time I couldn't care less if I ever did or not. Other days I am like ew nope bleh. I have never had sex yes but anyone would know like if it would be their thing right regardless? Any help is much appreciated sending lots of love and support to everyone 💚
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Hey I am questioning myself well I to be honest it's like this some random days I am like yeah sex seems ok I want that. But a majority of the time I couldn't care less if I ever did or not. Other days I am like ew nope bleh. I have never had sex yes but anyone would know like if it would be their thing right regardless? Any help is much appreciated sending lots of love and support to everyone 💚
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Hey, need help with mom
What do I do when my Muslim mom goes on long lectures about how being gay is a sin when I mention anything about my sexuality?
She doesn’t seem to understand that asexuality =/= homosexuality (yes they can overlap but not for me)
She’s made it clear that if I was a lesbian I was free to leave the family. She’s a great mom….just awful with this one topic.
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What do I do when my Muslim mom goes on long lectures about how being gay is a sin when I mention anything about my sexuality?
She doesn’t seem to understand that asexuality =/= homosexuality (yes they can overlap but not for me)
She’s made it clear that if I was a lesbian I was free to leave the family. She’s a great mom….just awful with this one topic.
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To all the allosexuals who keep making relationship help posts here:
This sub is a means of finding belonging, solidarity, and community amongst asexuals, not a relationship forum.
To the allosexuals who keep posting on this subreddit about loving an asexual person but having issues with their partner / crushes sexuality:
If your partners asexual and you’re not, no it’s probably not going to work. End of story. The only exception would be you’re willing to give up or greatly limit sex (which most allo askers seem to not want).
Don’t ask us what to do - because we’re probably all thinking along the lines of what I said in the previous paragraph. Venting your fears and frustrations over loving an asexual person as an allo in our forum comes off as inappropriate, quite frankly. We’ve dealt with people finding us weird and inconvenient our whole lives, we don’t need you to come here and tell us how one of us has broken your heart or caused issues in your life, nor do we care to coddle you because of it - we aren’t therapists nor should we really care. If you’re having issues with an ace partner, please just TALK to them. Maybe this is harsh, but I feel like a cross between an animal in a zoo and an unpaid therapist’s intern with the sheer amount of allo posters asking about their situationships.
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This sub is a means of finding belonging, solidarity, and community amongst asexuals, not a relationship forum.
To the allosexuals who keep posting on this subreddit about loving an asexual person but having issues with their partner / crushes sexuality:
If your partners asexual and you’re not, no it’s probably not going to work. End of story. The only exception would be you’re willing to give up or greatly limit sex (which most allo askers seem to not want).
Don’t ask us what to do - because we’re probably all thinking along the lines of what I said in the previous paragraph. Venting your fears and frustrations over loving an asexual person as an allo in our forum comes off as inappropriate, quite frankly. We’ve dealt with people finding us weird and inconvenient our whole lives, we don’t need you to come here and tell us how one of us has broken your heart or caused issues in your life, nor do we care to coddle you because of it - we aren’t therapists nor should we really care. If you’re having issues with an ace partner, please just TALK to them. Maybe this is harsh, but I feel like a cross between an animal in a zoo and an unpaid therapist’s intern with the sheer amount of allo posters asking about their situationships.
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Romantic asexuals, what was your first kiss like?
Just wondering as a romantic asexual who’s never had her first kiss and wondering if it feels amazing!
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Just wondering as a romantic asexual who’s never had her first kiss and wondering if it feels amazing!
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