I just don't know how to meet partners who won't try pressure me into sex

I am a trans woman and I have a history of sexual trauma and due to a mixture of these things, I just am not comfortable having sex with anyone ever again.

This past year I've been trying to open myself back up to dating again, but even when I date other trans women who I'd think would get it, we end up breaking up because me just not wanting to have sex is just too mcuh of a deal breaker. Best case scenario we end things on good terms, but my last relationship exploded dramatically because I just kept saying no to her and she tried to force things and I just fell apart.

I really feel like unless I can find someone else who is asexual I'll never be able to find a partner, but dating is hard enough as a disabled trans woman, and it just feels like I have so many deal breakers finding a person willing to try with me properly just feels insurmountable.

How have other sex repulsed people managed to find partners? I just don't really feel like I can keep being alone, but I just don't know where to even start looking. For reference I am also very much not into kink and would not be open to that side of relationships too.

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Are there any dating apps specifically made for asexual people?



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Questioning need advice 💚

Hey I am questioning myself well I to be honest it's like this some random days I am like yeah sex seems ok I want that. But a majority of the time I couldn't care less if I ever did or not. Other days I am like ew nope bleh. I have never had sex yes but anyone would know like if it would be their thing right regardless? Any help is much appreciated sending lots of love and support to everyone 💚

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Hey! First time on this subreddit!



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Hey, need help with mom

What do I do when my Muslim mom goes on long lectures about how being gay is a sin when I mention anything about my sexuality?

She doesn’t seem to understand that asexuality =/= homosexuality (yes they can overlap but not for me)

She’s made it clear that if I was a lesbian I was free to leave the family. She’s a great mom….just awful with this one topic.

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