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Does this annoy any other Aces?

When Allos say they "need" sex. Like the wording drives me mad! You don't NEED it, you want it... you need things like air and water and food, not sex.

Just one of those things that really annoys me, interested to see if anyone else feels the same way

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Does sensual attraction + arousal = sexual attraction?


Ok ik its a weird question and i apologise. But i have Heard so much opinions on arousal+attraction
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Some say its sexual and others say its not. Which Idk which one its true

But i have never Heard if an asexual experience sensual attraction with arousal.

Idk if it counts as sexual bc sensual attraction is mostly misunderstood with sexual. So does these two count as sexual attraction or not??

I would like to know

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Need help identifying what my gf might be?

hey all, I love my gf very much but we have different views of sex, and I'm trying to understand her and help her get some clarity!

My view on sex is "typical" I guess. I enjoy having it in a relationship a lot and I initiate it on a regular basis (1-2 times every week or every other week).

My gf on the other hand, describes it as... inbetween? indifferent?

She says she doesn't seek it out or care for it, but when it is happening she likes receiving. But she doesn't really desire touching me. She says she will do it because it's me and she loves me. Same with sex, she doesn't really require or desire it. But she will do it because I enjoy it and she's like happy to tag along.

Does this fall under a specific type of asexuality? I want to make our relationship work with being able to respect her and understand her

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I thought this edit would already exist but I couldn't find it so I made one
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Do yall feel like yall are left out of lgbtq stuff?

It is 01:35 and I am tired as hell, so please don't take this that seriously. I am just rambling.

Now, to the point. It kinda feels like we're third wheeling the community. Like yes, we are appreciated, but we're not really important? It's as if because we don't do anything outwardly that we are set aside for the more "main stream" Sexualities that can show their Sexuality. I just feel like theirs no point in coming out as aroace, because it's kinda useless ig.

I think I'm a bit too sleep deprived to get my words out properly, but I've always felt like this. Especially around my friends who are bi, gay and lesbian who can express themselves freely while I can't, besides how am I supposed to?? I just only now got the courage to say these feelings. Idk if it's because I'm aroace or other issues that I feel this way, but I feel like this nonetheless.

That's all, byee and hopefully goodnight

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Being ace and a hopeless romantic is not for the weak
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Am I Asexual?

If you are questioning whether or not you are asexual (including all microlabels), reply to this post with what made you start questioning, and why.

If you are too shy to post a reply, then you can scroll through the responses for the advice you may be searching for.

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I just don't know how to meet partners who won't try pressure me into sex

I am a trans woman and I have a history of sexual trauma and due to a mixture of these things, I just am not comfortable having sex with anyone ever again.

This past year I've been trying to open myself back up to dating again, but even when I date other trans women who I'd think would get it, we end up breaking up because me just not wanting to have sex is just too mcuh of a deal breaker. Best case scenario we end things on good terms, but my last relationship exploded dramatically because I just kept saying no to her and she tried to force things and I just fell apart.

I really feel like unless I can find someone else who is asexual I'll never be able to find a partner, but dating is hard enough as a disabled trans woman, and it just feels like I have so many deal breakers finding a person willing to try with me properly just feels insurmountable.

How have other sex repulsed people managed to find partners? I just don't really feel like I can keep being alone, but I just don't know where to even start looking. For reference I am also very much not into kink and would not be open to that side of relationships too.

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