Stuff I got at MCM Comic Con last weekend (I'm bi-rom ace, so I got ace and bi stuff)
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Dealing with gendered expectations as an ace man
M46 here. I've been seeing a couple of allo women and I'm feeling really frustrated with how it seems like they see me as a man first and a person second. One of them told me tonight she wants to just be friends, and I was talking things over with her afterwards when she used the phrase "get your dick wet" on me. After we had the asexuality talk, even. It feels so gross. Like, yes, I'm sex favorable, but that doesn't mean I'm dating anyone just for sex. I hate it when anyone invokes my gender to explain my actions. Does anyone else relate?
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M46 here. I've been seeing a couple of allo women and I'm feeling really frustrated with how it seems like they see me as a man first and a person second. One of them told me tonight she wants to just be friends, and I was talking things over with her afterwards when she used the phrase "get your dick wet" on me. After we had the asexuality talk, even. It feels so gross. Like, yes, I'm sex favorable, but that doesn't mean I'm dating anyone just for sex. I hate it when anyone invokes my gender to explain my actions. Does anyone else relate?
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What to do on pride month yalll
This is my first June with me totally confident about my asexuality (i think) so Im just confused. Do yall do do anything in June?
(i know its not that deep)
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This is my first June with me totally confident about my asexuality (i think) so Im just confused. Do yall do do anything in June?
(i know its not that deep)
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Hey yall, I have a discord server if anyone wants to join!
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Pro tip don’t ask people on a platform ‘would you date an asexual’
The answers will not make you feel good. Here’s some responses I got: (not on reddit)
Redacted: “She would just be a maid would she not 😅”
Redacted: “Relationships are inherently sexual.. are you a child?”
Redacted: “Yeah no way. What a waste of time”
Redacted: “In a relationship no, maybe friends but if we are together and she won’t have sex thats abuse”
Redacted: “OP you need therapy if you think this is normal or okay”
Redacted: “No because who ever would put their partner through that is cruel. Thats not love but actual abuse.”
And the list goes on…
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The answers will not make you feel good. Here’s some responses I got: (not on reddit)
Redacted: “She would just be a maid would she not 😅”
Redacted: “Relationships are inherently sexual.. are you a child?”
Redacted: “Yeah no way. What a waste of time”
Redacted: “In a relationship no, maybe friends but if we are together and she won’t have sex thats abuse”
Redacted: “OP you need therapy if you think this is normal or okay”
Redacted: “No because who ever would put their partner through that is cruel. Thats not love but actual abuse.”
And the list goes on…
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I finally figured out how to describe how I feel about sex
Specifically regarding discussion of it, or representation of it in media.
It's like poop
That's it
You're having regular bowel movements, that's great, but why are you telling me that when I'm not your doctor and for the love of god do not describe your turd to me in great detail
Sex scenes in movies hit me like if the movie it suddenly cut to the characters taking a big fat drawn-out sh*t, like yeah I'm not denying those characters probably use the bathroom sometimes but why are you showing me this fkhglhghkghk
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Specifically regarding discussion of it, or representation of it in media.
It's like poop
That's it
You're having regular bowel movements, that's great, but why are you telling me that when I'm not your doctor and for the love of god do not describe your turd to me in great detail
Sex scenes in movies hit me like if the movie it suddenly cut to the characters taking a big fat drawn-out sh*t, like yeah I'm not denying those characters probably use the bathroom sometimes but why are you showing me this fkhglhghkghk
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I came out to my mom today and she was supportive! So I'm celebrating with some good food and new yarn.
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So, do we need a meeting to establish an Ace version of this? Best thing I could come up with was: Be Ace buy paste
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28M . I like romantic parts of a relationships, that might be about it
I'm straight, relatively good-looking as I've been told, tbh I'd ideally be looking for a relationship with the opposite sex, as just identify as hetero and love partners this way. So yes, I'm into females and don't judge based on looks nor age. I love personality traits, good convos, having things in common , duhh, also romance and can flirt just normal. I'm also very passionate in general about someone I like. I'm open to give the chance of knowing someone new right now, but when it comes to the sex act, I just can't guarantee it. Most of the time I have to think a lot about going on it, I've tried it but figured my personality doesn't allow me to be in that mood just like "regular" people. In fact, I feel like I could totally live till the end of days without it. I'm physically fine, but I'm here for the psychological aspect of it that everyone seems to come to this subreddit for, too.
Anyways, can also make friends if you're good with it, could add on discord , tg or something, not afraid of receiving Dms or just casual chat, just figured you can Dm on reddit too lol
Thanks to everyone on this sub for making me feel more comfortable about the topic.
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I'm straight, relatively good-looking as I've been told, tbh I'd ideally be looking for a relationship with the opposite sex, as just identify as hetero and love partners this way. So yes, I'm into females and don't judge based on looks nor age. I love personality traits, good convos, having things in common , duhh, also romance and can flirt just normal. I'm also very passionate in general about someone I like. I'm open to give the chance of knowing someone new right now, but when it comes to the sex act, I just can't guarantee it. Most of the time I have to think a lot about going on it, I've tried it but figured my personality doesn't allow me to be in that mood just like "regular" people. In fact, I feel like I could totally live till the end of days without it. I'm physically fine, but I'm here for the psychological aspect of it that everyone seems to come to this subreddit for, too.
Anyways, can also make friends if you're good with it, could add on discord , tg or something, not afraid of receiving Dms or just casual chat, just figured you can Dm on reddit too lol
Thanks to everyone on this sub for making me feel more comfortable about the topic.
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