Feeling sex repulsed is nothing to be ashamed about
It is fine to seek spaces void of sex, it's fine to inherently be disgusted by the thought of it, you are not in the wrong for feeling like you don't want that around you. You are very valid, and I hate the implication that sex repulsed people need therapy. If that's who you are then that's who you are, who cares? As long as you're not trying to shame people for having sex, then its not really their right to try to shame you, and you're allowed to feel uncomfortable when people non-consensually bring you in on the topic.
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It is fine to seek spaces void of sex, it's fine to inherently be disgusted by the thought of it, you are not in the wrong for feeling like you don't want that around you. You are very valid, and I hate the implication that sex repulsed people need therapy. If that's who you are then that's who you are, who cares? As long as you're not trying to shame people for having sex, then its not really their right to try to shame you, and you're allowed to feel uncomfortable when people non-consensually bring you in on the topic.
Hope this helps someone today ✨
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Just got a Sign from the Universe, someone was selling pins And i found the exact amount of Money i needed on the ground lol
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How do I convince my mom that asexual people don't have a hormone problem?
I'm not asexual, so I'm sorry if this post is not allowed or if I have any misunderstandings of how asexuality works. If I do, I'd appreciate if you'd clear them up for me.
My mom thinks people should wait until marriage to have sex and I think they should only do that if they actually want to. I pointed out that you don't know if you're sexually compatible with the person until you have sex with them and if you wait until you get married you either have to have not as good of sex, a dead bedroom, or divorce, which is a bigger process than breaking up.
She said (paraphrasing), "if you're a man and they're a woman everything will be fine because you have the right parts." I asked what if the person is asexual and doesn't know it because they've never had sex before? She said, "they should see a doctor because something is wrong." How do I convince her that asexuality is not a disease (like she is implying)?
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I'm not asexual, so I'm sorry if this post is not allowed or if I have any misunderstandings of how asexuality works. If I do, I'd appreciate if you'd clear them up for me.
My mom thinks people should wait until marriage to have sex and I think they should only do that if they actually want to. I pointed out that you don't know if you're sexually compatible with the person until you have sex with them and if you wait until you get married you either have to have not as good of sex, a dead bedroom, or divorce, which is a bigger process than breaking up.
She said (paraphrasing), "if you're a man and they're a woman everything will be fine because you have the right parts." I asked what if the person is asexual and doesn't know it because they've never had sex before? She said, "they should see a doctor because something is wrong." How do I convince her that asexuality is not a disease (like she is implying)?
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Sex is cool, but have you started drawing enough to be able to draw whatever you want.
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Does anyone else not want sex or children?
I’m someone who doesn’t want to have sex or children. I know this isn’t a common choice in many cultures, and sometimes it feels really isolating because society expects marriage, sex, and kids.
I’m curious how many people here feel the same way and how you handle these expectations, especially around relationships or family.
Also, if you’ve had to talk about this with family or partners, how did you do it? Any advice or stories would mean a lot.
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I’m someone who doesn’t want to have sex or children. I know this isn’t a common choice in many cultures, and sometimes it feels really isolating because society expects marriage, sex, and kids.
I’m curious how many people here feel the same way and how you handle these expectations, especially around relationships or family.
Also, if you’ve had to talk about this with family or partners, how did you do it? Any advice or stories would mean a lot.
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Worst/Funniest thing ever said to you?
I've had people tell me "you'll get over it" or "it's just a phase." Does anyone have any crazier encounters they've had with people? Please post them I'm interested.
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I've had people tell me "you'll get over it" or "it's just a phase." Does anyone have any crazier encounters they've had with people? Please post them I'm interested.
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Is this being Ace flux?
Hey everyone I’m just wondering if this would be ace flux or not. I fluctuate between grey asexuality and then asexuality but I’ve read that being ace flux is like allo, grey and then asexual like that’s one of the definitions I’ve found.
But I’m never allo only grey ace and then sometimes asexual.
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Hey everyone I’m just wondering if this would be ace flux or not. I fluctuate between grey asexuality and then asexuality but I’ve read that being ace flux is like allo, grey and then asexual like that’s one of the definitions I’ve found.
But I’m never allo only grey ace and then sometimes asexual.
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