New app created for a-spec people! Seems like it could be cool and wanted to share it with you all!
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This is how I personally feel as an ace/aro person, aware that not everyone will feel the same way
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My Therapist Said I (33F) Am Not Asexual
I told my therapist that I might be asexual. She knows I don't have sex, so she asked if I masturbated. I said yes but only for the pleasure not because I desire sex. Then she asked if I reach orgasm. I said yes. Then she said, "That means you're not asexual." I wonder if she's right. I was so happy identifying as Ace because I can relate to Aces more than both straight people and the LGBT community.
If I'm not asexual, I definitely have a much lower libido than the average person my age. I have never been sexually abused so I don't think it's trauma. I've felt this way since puberty so medications or a hormonal imbalance is not the reason either.
I was relieved when I thought I was ace because I thought it would be a good explanation for why I'm always single. I thought that I could now go on dates with other Aces and not have to worry that an Allo might get impatient with me.
I know that asexuals have their own challenges but I was relieved because I know I'd get a better reaction coming out as ace than bi. I don't want to appropriate asexuality if it turns out I'm not ace though.
I was so excited about the ace identity that I even bought a bunch of black rings on Amazon. I wanted to at least talk to other people who find romance and sex as boring as I do. I've always found romantic plots in movies, books, and songs boring as hell and if I did like them it was for a reason other than romance. I expressed this to my therapist but she shrugged it off.
I thought being asexual explained a lot about myself but what if I'm not?
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I told my therapist that I might be asexual. She knows I don't have sex, so she asked if I masturbated. I said yes but only for the pleasure not because I desire sex. Then she asked if I reach orgasm. I said yes. Then she said, "That means you're not asexual." I wonder if she's right. I was so happy identifying as Ace because I can relate to Aces more than both straight people and the LGBT community.
If I'm not asexual, I definitely have a much lower libido than the average person my age. I have never been sexually abused so I don't think it's trauma. I've felt this way since puberty so medications or a hormonal imbalance is not the reason either.
I was relieved when I thought I was ace because I thought it would be a good explanation for why I'm always single. I thought that I could now go on dates with other Aces and not have to worry that an Allo might get impatient with me.
I know that asexuals have their own challenges but I was relieved because I know I'd get a better reaction coming out as ace than bi. I don't want to appropriate asexuality if it turns out I'm not ace though.
I was so excited about the ace identity that I even bought a bunch of black rings on Amazon. I wanted to at least talk to other people who find romance and sex as boring as I do. I've always found romantic plots in movies, books, and songs boring as hell and if I did like them it was for a reason other than romance. I expressed this to my therapist but she shrugged it off.
I thought being asexual explained a lot about myself but what if I'm not?
https://redd.it/t4hgjj
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My Therapist Said I (33F) Am Not Asexual
I told my therapist that I might be asexual. She knows I don't have sex, so she asked if I masturbated. I said yes but only for the pleasure not...
Was scrolling through my camera roll and found this image I’ve had saved for like 3 years
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Just poking some harmless fun at this community's occasional "inner turmoil" regarding representation and stereotyping
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