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Anyone else ever wanna just kiss someone passionately (like how they do in movies, usually b4 they end up having seggs) and then when ur satisfied, just stop kissing and cuddle or smth? Bc dam. Same.

I just want this in a relationship so bad but im single as hell right now. Also, im a little curious abt whether there are other ace people who would like stuff like this.

https://redd.it/rcmi3c
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I couldn't find any good ace spectrum quizzes, so I made one!

# Discretion advised: this quiz contains questions about sex and pornography. It contains no images and strives to be tasteful in its descriptions.

Link to the quiz.

Why did you make this?

I think a lot of the "am I ace" style quizzes out there are really bad (that applies to most other "am I [X\]" quizzes as well), so I decided to try to make one myself! The goal is to include a very large number of labels that a person can match to, rather than the fewer than five that you usually get. I also wanted to make the questions very clear and straightforward; having your first question be "do you experience sexual attraction" is not just lazy, it's insipid! You're supposed to tell me that! The reason I'm taking this quiz is because I'm confused about what "sexual attraction" even means, and now you're expecting me to do all the legwork anyway? That just makes the quiz pointless!

What is in the quiz?

The quiz contains nine questions, with 4–13 answers each. It should take you 2–4 minutes to finish, certainly no more than five. You can select as many answers as you like, or none at all; just be true to yourself! At the end, you will be presented with a list of labels used by people in the ace community (~~21 terms at the moment~~ (edit: 28 now), feel free to request more!). Each label will have a percentage match to your answers, and they'll be sorted by how well they apply to you! If you get more than 60%, that means that label probably applies to you!

I took the quiz, can I give you feedback?

Yes please! You can comment or DM me about any thoughts you have! Do you want me to add another label? Was a question or description phrased in an unintentionally disrespectful way? Did you not get the results you expected and think the values from the questions should be recalibrated? Do you think a question is unclear? Would you just like to tell me about the result you got? I'm all ears!

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Edit: minor spelling corrections.

https://redd.it/rcoauj
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i just found out im ace!!! :)

so for the past year i have been seriously questioning my sexuality and really society’s obsession with heteronormative sex. it’s been really difficult for me i used to think i was bisexual for a while because while i did experience attraction to men and women alike i never quite really experienced much sexual attraction to either one. for a long time i felt and a lot of the people in my life i went to for advice felt that i was “broken” or “too emotional” but really im just asexual and i’ve never been happier. :)

https://redd.it/rcpk9m
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When You Don't Want Sex So You Tell Them You Forgot Your Cock At Home
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Its so hard being a guy who is asexual/demisexual...

Im sorry. Theres so much societal pressure on being a man especially when it comes to sex. In a relationship I just want to feel safe, I want to make time feel limitless from just fun conversation alone that's personable and meaningful. I don't get what love is. I want something so small pure, and I crave that emotional connection so much over the conventional sex wave. Im sorry.

https://redd.it/rcvkni
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When you're not confident to come out in real life, so you do it in a game where no one knows you instead. You’d think it would get easier second time round at 32 🤷🏻
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[OC] Calling attractive people “hot” was not the thing for me
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Celebrating being ace in a safe place💜🤍🖤

It’s been three years since I found this group and realized I am ace. I just wanted to say how much I love and appreciate this community.
As a generally 70% sex favorable/ 30 sex repulsed ace, I know that for us sex favorable peeps it can be a little unsettling to see so many sex indifferent/repulse post. Post that may say how annoying or off putting sex is. But we can go anyway else and see sex favorable things and this is the only place I can come when I just want to be okay and vent with other individuals that really don’t give a f about sex stuff. Sometimes I just really need to see other people not be into all the mainstream sex everywhere thing. So even if I never saw another sex favorable post on here again, I always have anywhere else to go. But still this is the only place I know that I can go that someone(anyone) else will understand. I’m just saying I understand both sides and I love this group. That is all. Keep rocking hard.

https://redd.it/rcveix
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I'm 13 and I think I'm a sexual I need some help

Okay so basically I've never had like attraction to anyone I've never had a crush I've never really had the desire to do anything. I got a boyfriend because I guess you're supposed to date people and I didn't really get the point. Like he's a nice guy or whatever but I didn't really see why I was dating him. I don't know this like normal or whatever I might just be a late bloomer but it's really weird.

https://redd.it/rcp6fc
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So I might need some help figuring out labels and such

I'm suddenly realizing i dont think I fall under asexual but im deffinately not interested in sex or sexual interactions. The thought of sexual interactions with another person makes me anxious. Almost stressed? And I dont think that fits the label of asexual or the spectrum of it.

https://redd.it/rcy71o
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Thank you for all the love and garlic bread 💜
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