I’m scared of dating an allo

It’s something that has been going around my head for some months now; I’ve never dated in my life, but it’s something that scares me

At first I thought that maybe it was fear of commitment, then my sexual orientation, then that I was just weird, but I finally managed to pinpoint that it’s fear; fear of dating an allo, fear of getting cheated on because of it, fear of not being enough, all of that

I just needed to write my thoughts somewhere, just to hopefully get them out of my head

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You do not need sex to confirm your asexuality!

From one ace to another. Please do NOT think you need to "just give it a try" to know. PLEASE! I don't care if you're a man and your girlfriend couldn't wait. You do not owe anybody anything. If you don't want sex, that's just how it is!! I am literally unable to say no, please learn from my mistakes.

I have had so much sex. I'm sure the incels would see me as some kind of alpha male. I do not care. I would undo ALL OF IT IF I COULD. I fucking hate my life. I wish I wasn't such a pushover!

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These prints turned out amazing!
https://redd.it/ra0ip4
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I was so close to a bingo on mine.
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Been questioning if I’m ace... this confirms everything

Had a dream with my “crush” in it and we made a cake together XD

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About the ace bingo

Has anyone else noticed that like 6 of the 12 possible "bingos" are contradictory/impossible? Is noone going to talk about this? its driving me NUTS!!!!!!! How can we be ace if we dont get bingos on the ace bingo????

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Ace panic? Ace panic.
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What?
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I'm so sick of the "If you don't wanna get pregnant then don't have sex" mentality.

As a lifelong asexual, as in I've known since I was 13 that I am ace and now I'm 33 and still ace. I have zero sexual interest. It doesn't appeal to me independently. But I absolutely love making love with someone that I have deep care for, and that has deep care for me. It is the pinnacle of human closeness, for me. Being able to put aside all of my feelings around how sex is weird and the worries about making a baby. And just be in the moment with all of the feelings and smells (oh God the smells are my favorite).

All of this to say that the BS that only "sexually depraved sluts" need abortions is fucking worn out and exactly that BULLSHIT. When I was 24 my BF of 2 years and I ended up pregnant, even though we took precautions and had to have an abortion at 6weeks. It cost almost 1k and took about 2 weeks to be done. That is my one and only pregnancy in 33years of life and I had to have it, because even asexuals can get pregnant.


With all the talks around Roe v Wade, people of all genders and sexualities can have unwanted pregnancies and should be allowed to not have to carry to term.

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Bunch of cute pride jewelry. They all come in earrings, necklace and keychains. Also have regular stripe pieces. And also marble pieces for a more subtle look. Would love to hear your thoughts?

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I’m ace but I still get fucked every day

By depression

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Ace Vibes!
https://redd.it/raalyu
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