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My best friend just asked me to be a QPR with them

The conversation went something like this (we've already known for some time we both have squishes on each other):

Them: Hey so... you want a QPR... you know I have a squish on you... why don't we have a QPR?

Me: Well, do YOU want to be in a QPR?

Them: Yeah.

Me: OK sure :)

And then we went back to drawing. I want to talk to them about it, but I have no idea what to do and I really don't want to mess it up. There's also a voice in the back of my mind wondering if they were actually serious, even though I KNOW that they wouldn't do that. And I don't really know how to go about it. Should I text them about it, or wait until we can see each other in person (probably about a week). Any advice would be awesome and thank you in advance :)

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This has been something I've been really struggling with lately
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Bye everyone! 👋

I recently figured out I’m a lesbian and not asexual so bye! I’ll miss the ace community but I feel like I should leave this sub because I’m no longer ace…

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I've seen you share your rings. I've made my own ace ring 😊💍
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Met a nice guy on a dating app, but he's not asexual

So I got on an online dating site (OkCupid). I very clearing state that I'm asexual and that I won't be having sex with them. I matched with a guy recently. I met him for the first time lat week. He's handsome, funny, and nice. I haven't noticed anything crazy. The thing that's bothering me is that he hasn't stated that he's asexual and I haven't directly asked him about his sexuality. Maybe he's a closeted asexual, idk. I haven't discussed with him how he feels about me being asexual, but we have a second date coming up so I want to talk to him about it soon. I feel there's chemistry and that he likes me on some level. I don't want to get caught up before I know how he feels.

It just feels too good to be true. Even if I'm friend-zoned I worry that he thinks he'll be able to talk me into having sex or try to convince me that how I feel is wrong. Why would a non-asexual guy entertain a woman on a dating site if he knows they won't have sex? What are y'all's protocols for situations like this (asexual and non-asexual dating)? It's hard to find asexual men that I want to date. I've tried AsexualCupid.com, but the website isn't great and Redditors scare me (I haven't had a good experience with people on this site). I joined a Meetup, but I haven't been to many events yet.

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I found this and thought that it kinda fits here
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