Ah yes, desires are definitely induced by our DNA... what do cishets like to say again? "basic biology"?
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How much for an hour?
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I MET ANOTHER ASEXUAL GUY AND WE'RE ROMANTICALLY SO COMPATIBLE

We met on tinder, which is a soul destroying place for an ace to be, and instantly had such a good connection. He came over to my place this evening and we sat in my bed and talked for hours about religion and the universe and sexuality and toxic masculinity and mental health and he didn't try and kiss me or have sex (!!!!). We're so compatible with spirituality, life goals, and HE HAS 3 CATS

I'm so excited I had kind of given up on finding someone like him 🥺 I know it feels like you're the only asexual in the world sometimes but there are others out there!!

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Hehe tits

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The nightly question. Also, they're beautiful, but, like, "I want to look at you for hours" beautiful, not "I want to stick my dick in you" beautiful. Y'know?
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Feel like I’m drowning

I’m allosexual, and have been dating my Ace girlfriend since freshmen year of high school (we’re college freshmen now). I’m a sexual person, I’m not going to lie. But I’ve always been willing to put that off the table for her. But lately I’ve just been overwhelmed, not by the lack of sex, but by the lack of any physical intimacy at all. I feel completely touch starved. And more than that, I feel emotionally neglected to a certain extent. I mean I know she loves me, and I try to speak her love languages, but I’m just not getting admissions of love in mine. I just want to be fucking held man. I love her to death, and I know she loves me too. I feel like she’s not only sex repulsed, but touch repulsed too, even though she’s said many times that she likes cuddling and the like. I’m scared I’m going to start resenting her or something. Especially given the fact that I don’t think I can be celibate all my life. I’m willing to keep trying, but I feel as though I’m missing something important. I don’t want just the orgasms, I want to make love to a woman that I love. I completely respect her sexuality, and I would never make her do something she doesn’t want to do. I just don’t know what to do. Sorry for the mess, I’m not with it enough right now to properly write out my emotions/thoughts. I have a much more detailed post in my post history, if anyone’s curious enough to go read that. Any thoughts/advice would be welcome.

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I love garlic bread
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Spooky season, scary upstairs
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Seems wonderful!
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Is it normal to be repulsed by the idea of having sex with the opposite gender but somewhere between neutral and mildly repulsed by the same gender?



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Why does this happen way too often?
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I get it but it’s tiring

All these posts from allos talking about how miserable they are dating asexuals is really doing a number on my confidence tbh

I get that this is a good place to get advice, but there’s just been so many recently and it just makes me feel kinda hopeless

It feels like there’s a new post every day with the exact same story about how they love their partner but they’re fundamentally incompatible

I wish I had the self-confidence not to get mopey over a couple of failed relationships, but it just seems to reaffirm my fears that my identity is fundamentally a burden

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Ace representation in the German Hygiene Museum in Dresden in their sexuality exhibit. Was kinda nice to see this
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