I was accused of racism because I said i was asexual.
There is this girl in my US history class and her(16F) and i(17M) was texting for a long time. There wasn’t anything romantic or sexual between us(at least i didn’t think there were any) i thought we were friends and having normal conversations that friends would have. But this last week she started acting weird and asking me questions like “would you ever shave your mustache for me?” etc. when she finally told me that she wanted to kiss me in a very disgusting way, i was very surprised and shocked. After politely refusing her and explaining that i was asexual, she freaked out and thought I was doing it because she was ugly. apparently she told on me to the school counselor that i made a racial comment about her ethnicity in the US history class while going through the reconstruction topic. The weird thing is; my counselor did not listen to my side of the story and forced me to apologize to her just to be done with this event.
Sorry if my english is bad. Have a nice week people.
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There is this girl in my US history class and her(16F) and i(17M) was texting for a long time. There wasn’t anything romantic or sexual between us(at least i didn’t think there were any) i thought we were friends and having normal conversations that friends would have. But this last week she started acting weird and asking me questions like “would you ever shave your mustache for me?” etc. when she finally told me that she wanted to kiss me in a very disgusting way, i was very surprised and shocked. After politely refusing her and explaining that i was asexual, she freaked out and thought I was doing it because she was ugly. apparently she told on me to the school counselor that i made a racial comment about her ethnicity in the US history class while going through the reconstruction topic. The weird thing is; my counselor did not listen to my side of the story and forced me to apologize to her just to be done with this event.
Sorry if my english is bad. Have a nice week people.
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I was accused of racism because I said i was asexual.
There is this girl in my US history class and her(16F) and i(17M) was texting for a long time. There wasn’t anything romantic or sexual between...
Sounds absolutely stunning (also wasn’t sure what flair to use so I used this one… I’ll change it if needed)
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Ah yes, desires are definitely induced by our DNA... what do cishets like to say again? "basic biology"?
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I MET ANOTHER ASEXUAL GUY AND WE'RE ROMANTICALLY SO COMPATIBLE
We met on tinder, which is a soul destroying place for an ace to be, and instantly had such a good connection. He came over to my place this evening and we sat in my bed and talked for hours about religion and the universe and sexuality and toxic masculinity and mental health and he didn't try and kiss me or have sex (!!!!). We're so compatible with spirituality, life goals, and HE HAS 3 CATS
I'm so excited I had kind of given up on finding someone like him 🥺 I know it feels like you're the only asexual in the world sometimes but there are others out there!!
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We met on tinder, which is a soul destroying place for an ace to be, and instantly had such a good connection. He came over to my place this evening and we sat in my bed and talked for hours about religion and the universe and sexuality and toxic masculinity and mental health and he didn't try and kiss me or have sex (!!!!). We're so compatible with spirituality, life goals, and HE HAS 3 CATS
I'm so excited I had kind of given up on finding someone like him 🥺 I know it feels like you're the only asexual in the world sometimes but there are others out there!!
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I MET ANOTHER ASEXUAL GUY AND WE'RE ROMANTICALLY SO COMPATIBLE
We met on tinder, which is a soul destroying place for an ace to be, and instantly had such a good connection. He came over to my place this...
The nightly question. Also, they're beautiful, but, like, "I want to look at you for hours" beautiful, not "I want to stick my dick in you" beautiful. Y'know?
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Feel like I’m drowning
I’m allosexual, and have been dating my Ace girlfriend since freshmen year of high school (we’re college freshmen now). I’m a sexual person, I’m not going to lie. But I’ve always been willing to put that off the table for her. But lately I’ve just been overwhelmed, not by the lack of sex, but by the lack of any physical intimacy at all. I feel completely touch starved. And more than that, I feel emotionally neglected to a certain extent. I mean I know she loves me, and I try to speak her love languages, but I’m just not getting admissions of love in mine. I just want to be fucking held man. I love her to death, and I know she loves me too. I feel like she’s not only sex repulsed, but touch repulsed too, even though she’s said many times that she likes cuddling and the like. I’m scared I’m going to start resenting her or something. Especially given the fact that I don’t think I can be celibate all my life. I’m willing to keep trying, but I feel as though I’m missing something important. I don’t want just the orgasms, I want to make love to a woman that I love. I completely respect her sexuality, and I would never make her do something she doesn’t want to do. I just don’t know what to do. Sorry for the mess, I’m not with it enough right now to properly write out my emotions/thoughts. I have a much more detailed post in my post history, if anyone’s curious enough to go read that. Any thoughts/advice would be welcome.
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I’m allosexual, and have been dating my Ace girlfriend since freshmen year of high school (we’re college freshmen now). I’m a sexual person, I’m not going to lie. But I’ve always been willing to put that off the table for her. But lately I’ve just been overwhelmed, not by the lack of sex, but by the lack of any physical intimacy at all. I feel completely touch starved. And more than that, I feel emotionally neglected to a certain extent. I mean I know she loves me, and I try to speak her love languages, but I’m just not getting admissions of love in mine. I just want to be fucking held man. I love her to death, and I know she loves me too. I feel like she’s not only sex repulsed, but touch repulsed too, even though she’s said many times that she likes cuddling and the like. I’m scared I’m going to start resenting her or something. Especially given the fact that I don’t think I can be celibate all my life. I’m willing to keep trying, but I feel as though I’m missing something important. I don’t want just the orgasms, I want to make love to a woman that I love. I completely respect her sexuality, and I would never make her do something she doesn’t want to do. I just don’t know what to do. Sorry for the mess, I’m not with it enough right now to properly write out my emotions/thoughts. I have a much more detailed post in my post history, if anyone’s curious enough to go read that. Any thoughts/advice would be welcome.
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Feel like I’m drowning
I’m allosexual, and have been dating my Ace girlfriend since freshmen year of high school (we’re college freshmen now). I’m a sexual person, I’m...