I’ve decided that for an ace ring, I’ll get a skinny boi, but I can’t decide. Help please

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The only hentai I read
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this is so cute 🥺 *credits to original owner*
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How do you feel about gender?

So I'm female and i don't really care about gender. I feel like as aroace, gender really doesn't matter, as i don't want people perceiving me in any kind of way that relates to my gender.

For a while I thought I could be non-binary as I dress however I please, and don't really care for my appearance or body shape. But then I thought, it's so bothersome to explain your gender whenever you go, and I'm not really uncomfortable with my label, so why bother.

So i ask this question to you, how do you experience gender? Does this rambling make sense to you? do you think there is a relationship between gender and sexuality?

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Is it considered cheating if...

I'm an asexual girl and I have this close male friend to whom I talk a lot about almost anything. (except for anything sexual) He's straight, not asexual and has a girlfriend. Our conversation is never inappropriate/sexual/romantic, it's completely platonic. The thing is I'm a person who has platonic needs and I fill those needs by talking to him. Is it considered cheating on my part even though we're 100% just friends by definition because for me romance/love = having a platonic intimacy with someone?

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Sigh
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Found this on accident on Tumblr lmao
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Found Myself...Finally

I'm a 35 y/o married mother of 2. I've been working toward dismantling my societal expectations of myself for 15 years due to strong religious background and ingrained biases to overcome. I examined the expectations of my role and accepted myself for who I am, and I embraced the ace label. I will say it took another bit of time before I was ready to share with anyone.

I just verbalized it to another person (my husband, who did not take it well) for the first time yesterday, followed closely by three (much more) supportive friends. My husband wants me to get checked out by my doctor, get my meds reexamined (depression and anxiety) for side effects, and see a counselor. I know it's not a medical issue, but to get him to understand, I'll put myself through a little bit of discomfort. I'm not expecting this to be easy, but it's so liberating accepting I am different than I was expected to be. I made this account so I could find a supportive community.

Does anyone have experience you'd be willing to share about finding your label later in life, how it impacted your relationships, and how you're doing now?

Thank you for listening to my story.

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damn did not expect this!

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Didn't expect to see Aphobia in the deltarune\/undertale subreddits of all places lmao

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meme I made after seeing my school's computers
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I got an ace ring!
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When you’re really REALLY lonely
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I just came out for the first time ever

I just told my mom that I'm ace. She literally had never heard this word before even though she's queer herself. I asked her if she could do research because my explaining abilities are as bad as they come, so she did and she actually understood it quite fast.

I feel so light now. I told her a childhood story that relates to me being ace and we laughed together.

Thanks to everyone in this sub, you helped me discover and accept myself <3

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WE ARE EVERYWHERE
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My sister knew I was ace before I did

I'm 19, and about last month I realized I was asexual. I told my best friend about 3 days ago and I just told my mom. She told me that she knew something about me was different, and she had a conversation about it with Bri, my older sister. My mom thought I was gay and just didn't know it. Well, Bri had said that I was probably asexual. Turns out she was right. I find it funny how she knows me better than I do.

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