I thought this was posted here because I was certain this was an ace meme
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Which name would be a better name for a special asexual state (If existed)?
Edit: If "Acesota" wins, all the ace people are welcomed to the best coffee shop of acesota for a tasty coffee with cheese cake there. There will be a big meeting with free coffee and cheese cake.
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Edit: If "Acesota" wins, all the ace people are welcomed to the best coffee shop of acesota for a tasty coffee with cheese cake there. There will be a big meeting with free coffee and cheese cake.
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There are sexy things I like, but "sex-sex" isn't one of them
Background - 30ish male. Have had a few relationships but always a problem with sex because... when the time comes, I find I just have no desire to put my penis inside whatever orifice. To me, it's like everyone is obsessed with sticking their finger up everyone else's noses, and I just don't understand why that's pleasurable. It just feels kind of weird to me.
I like kissing and cuddling and I can masturbate and there are kinks that I'm into, but. This has honestly made my dating life extremely difficult as my girlfriends just get frustrated with me after a while. I think they feel bad like I'm not attracted to them, but I'm not sure its for the reason they think.
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Background - 30ish male. Have had a few relationships but always a problem with sex because... when the time comes, I find I just have no desire to put my penis inside whatever orifice. To me, it's like everyone is obsessed with sticking their finger up everyone else's noses, and I just don't understand why that's pleasurable. It just feels kind of weird to me.
I like kissing and cuddling and I can masturbate and there are kinks that I'm into, but. This has honestly made my dating life extremely difficult as my girlfriends just get frustrated with me after a while. I think they feel bad like I'm not attracted to them, but I'm not sure its for the reason they think.
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There are sexy things I like, but "sex-sex" isn't one of them
Background - 30ish male. Have had a few relationships but always a problem with sex because... when the time comes, I find I just have no desire...
Painted my ukulele pick with the ace flag, because music is way better than sex.
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needed to find a way to express myself. I think this'll work.
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dating while ace
Something I've noticed from when I've dates people is they view dating me as friendship plus. Like we are basically friends but they get the added bonus of sometimes I pay for their stuff. It's obvious they don't like my back but they don't take it seriously because I don't want to do the dirty. I want a relationship. I want to go out on dates and hold hands and be in love
But every time I want to go out with someone they treat is like a friendship. Do others have this problem or am I just interested in bad people?
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Something I've noticed from when I've dates people is they view dating me as friendship plus. Like we are basically friends but they get the added bonus of sometimes I pay for their stuff. It's obvious they don't like my back but they don't take it seriously because I don't want to do the dirty. I want a relationship. I want to go out on dates and hold hands and be in love
But every time I want to go out with someone they treat is like a friendship. Do others have this problem or am I just interested in bad people?
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dating while ace
Something I've noticed from when I've dates people is they view dating me as friendship plus. Like we are basically friends but they get the added...
What do I call it when I just- Don't want to have sex?
It's not that I can't feel sexual attraction, because I can. It's not like I don't like masturbation, because I do. It's not that I don't feel romantic feelings, because I do. I am not sex repulsed, I can watch porn and it's fine.
But I don't want to have sex with people. A tentacle monster from another dimension? A weird machine? Might give it a chance. But people? Actual people? Other humans? Yeah, no thanks. Too much touching. Too much sweat and other disgusting fluids. In my head that might be "hot" sometimes. But then I think about the possibility of actually having sex with another person and I realized that I just. Don't want it. I am repelled by it. Me? Actually, having sex? Yeah, not gonna happen. And you know, I actually tried it and it felt disgusting every time. So we never got too far.
So. What do you call this. It feels wrong to call myself asexual because I do feel sexual attraction, although very rarely, and I have considered the label aegosexual before, and it more or less fits. But I don't know.
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It's not that I can't feel sexual attraction, because I can. It's not like I don't like masturbation, because I do. It's not that I don't feel romantic feelings, because I do. I am not sex repulsed, I can watch porn and it's fine.
But I don't want to have sex with people. A tentacle monster from another dimension? A weird machine? Might give it a chance. But people? Actual people? Other humans? Yeah, no thanks. Too much touching. Too much sweat and other disgusting fluids. In my head that might be "hot" sometimes. But then I think about the possibility of actually having sex with another person and I realized that I just. Don't want it. I am repelled by it. Me? Actually, having sex? Yeah, not gonna happen. And you know, I actually tried it and it felt disgusting every time. So we never got too far.
So. What do you call this. It feels wrong to call myself asexual because I do feel sexual attraction, although very rarely, and I have considered the label aegosexual before, and it more or less fits. But I don't know.
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What do I call it when I just- Don't want to have sex?
It's not that I can't feel sexual attraction, because I can. It's not like I don't like masturbation, because I do. It's not that I don't feel...