Nothing says "I don't care who you are as a person" like asking if you want FWB/Casual.
I'm not sure what it is with some folks but I tend to attract people who say they want to be my friend, then they ask me if i'm interested in CASUAL/FWB - and then when I tell then that i'm not interested, they choose to stop talking to me.
I don't quite understand this technique but the way it comes off to me is "You don't really matter, I just need a willing orifice to stick my genitalia in to".
This happens to me so often, it's like as soon as they find out that i'm not interested in having sex with them, it's over.
How the heck do you find people who are actually genuinely interested is beyond me... I'm also Autistic so my social skills are already not super great.
Anyways, just wanted to rant a little bit about this.
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I'm not sure what it is with some folks but I tend to attract people who say they want to be my friend, then they ask me if i'm interested in CASUAL/FWB - and then when I tell then that i'm not interested, they choose to stop talking to me.
I don't quite understand this technique but the way it comes off to me is "You don't really matter, I just need a willing orifice to stick my genitalia in to".
This happens to me so often, it's like as soon as they find out that i'm not interested in having sex with them, it's over.
How the heck do you find people who are actually genuinely interested is beyond me... I'm also Autistic so my social skills are already not super great.
Anyways, just wanted to rant a little bit about this.
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Nothing says "I don't care who you are as a person" like asking if...
I'm not sure what it is with some folks but I tend to attract people who say they want to be my friend, then they ask me if i'm interested in...
I'm just asexual, not misogynistic
I think my friends find it a bit hard to understand my sexuality. Me and my friends in context here are all girls. Whenever they're talking about how they're taking sexy pics and sexting with guys they met just a few weeks ago. I tend to react a bit repulsively, with a remark similar to " I would never do that". And I think they misunderstand me to being a prude. While having a discussion about music and female rappers, I commented how I don't really like their music, specifically Doja Cat, because majority of it is very sexual and just not relatable to me. Now don't get me wrong Doja is an amazing artist, her beats are sick, but lyrics may I say, Scare Me. I told them how I wish more female rappers could sing about stuff other than sex. But my friends went on a rant about sexual liberation and how women have been confined and now they're finally speaking up so this genre is here to stay. I guess they got the wrong idea. But I still very much believe pop female rappers can explore more different topics in their work and there's so much we've got to talk about through this medium. Am I the asshole here? :(
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I think my friends find it a bit hard to understand my sexuality. Me and my friends in context here are all girls. Whenever they're talking about how they're taking sexy pics and sexting with guys they met just a few weeks ago. I tend to react a bit repulsively, with a remark similar to " I would never do that". And I think they misunderstand me to being a prude. While having a discussion about music and female rappers, I commented how I don't really like their music, specifically Doja Cat, because majority of it is very sexual and just not relatable to me. Now don't get me wrong Doja is an amazing artist, her beats are sick, but lyrics may I say, Scare Me. I told them how I wish more female rappers could sing about stuff other than sex. But my friends went on a rant about sexual liberation and how women have been confined and now they're finally speaking up so this genre is here to stay. I guess they got the wrong idea. But I still very much believe pop female rappers can explore more different topics in their work and there's so much we've got to talk about through this medium. Am I the asshole here? :(
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I'm just asexual, not misogynistic
I think my friends find it a bit hard to understand my sexuality. Me and my friends in context here are all girls. Whenever they're talking about...
In honor of LGBT History Month, I made an Asexual History Book!
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In honor of LGBT History Month, I made an Asexual History Book!
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Realised my bats design could be modified into an Ace flag. Would love to hear what you guys think about it =)
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Definitely a repost, but I found this and thought of you dudes
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I told my best friend I'm asexual, and now she's telling all of our friends without my consent.
I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm fine with them knowing I'm ace. I don't care if I just met you, I'll tell you, but I don't know how to process this. Yeah I'm okay if they know but I don't want her telling everyone as soon as I come up in some sort of Convo. I wanted so bad to come out to my friends on my own terms, not have her ruin it for me. I tried to "come out" to one of our good friends and he looked dead at me and said "yeah I knew. (Girl) told me already." And I sat there so dumbfounded. That was the second time I had been told she'd done that. She's one of my only friends and I don't want to lose her so I don't know how to bring it up to her. I love her so much but I seriously hate her for this. How could she? It feels like she betrayed my trust. I don't know what to do. :(
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I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm fine with them knowing I'm ace. I don't care if I just met you, I'll tell you, but I don't know how to process this. Yeah I'm okay if they know but I don't want her telling everyone as soon as I come up in some sort of Convo. I wanted so bad to come out to my friends on my own terms, not have her ruin it for me. I tried to "come out" to one of our good friends and he looked dead at me and said "yeah I knew. (Girl) told me already." And I sat there so dumbfounded. That was the second time I had been told she'd done that. She's one of my only friends and I don't want to lose her so I don't know how to bring it up to her. I love her so much but I seriously hate her for this. How could she? It feels like she betrayed my trust. I don't know what to do. :(
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I told my best friend I'm asexual, and now she's telling all of...
I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm fine with them knowing I'm ace. I don't care if I just met you, I'll tell you, but I don't know how to process...