I don't get the appeal of nudes.
Obviously, as an asexual they wouldn't work for for me but I just don't get how people can fine them so sexy.
90% of the nudes I've seen are just badly done. I can't help but judge it.
"Oh that's the angle you choose? Okay"
"Ever heard of lightning?"
"I wouldn't focus the picture if that was mine either." 'Well, someone needs a bigger f-stop"
And so on. A poorly taken photo isn't sexy. At least put some effort into it so I can enjoy the artistry.
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Obviously, as an asexual they wouldn't work for for me but I just don't get how people can fine them so sexy.
90% of the nudes I've seen are just badly done. I can't help but judge it.
"Oh that's the angle you choose? Okay"
"Ever heard of lightning?"
"I wouldn't focus the picture if that was mine either." 'Well, someone needs a bigger f-stop"
And so on. A poorly taken photo isn't sexy. At least put some effort into it so I can enjoy the artistry.
https://redd.it/pzt0pm
@asexualityonreddit
reddit
I don't get the appeal of nudes.
Obviously, as an asexual they wouldn't work for for me but I just don't get how people can fine them so sexy. 90% of the nudes I've seen are...
It's been over a month and a half and I'm still reeling from what my doctor said to me
Okay, so for context: I went to meet my partner a state over in June. We had sex while I was there. In August I went to the doctor for a physical and to hopefully get a referral to a therapist (still waiting on the phone call to set up an appointment).
Somehow the topic comes up and I mention being asexual. This is while the doc is doing a physical examination and squishing me all over so it was hard to respond in any meaningful way. I don't remember exact details, but I have bullet points here:
- "you're not asexual, hun, you've had sex"
- "I only ever hear young people say that" (implying I'll grow out of it, I'm 19)
And the one that still pisses me off the most:
- "being asexual is like.. being 7 all the time. You just wanna play tag and eat peanut butter jelly sandwiches"
.. I'm.. sorry?? The fuck did you just say to me? She even tried to say 10 at first, but then corrected it to 7 after realizing that I had gotten my first period at 10. My mom, who didn't want to annoy this woman since she's her doctor too and also super petty, didn't say a thing. She did say when we were in the car that I had that look of "this straight bitch is REALLY gonna tell me how my sexuality works??" Like.. yeah, holy shit, what is wrong with this woman??
How hard is it to understand that I'm just not sexually attracted to people? I don't experience sexual attraction, but I can still have sex with my partner. Just.. ugh, that hugged the hell out of me, and I just hope my therapist isn't like this too.
https://redd.it/pzvvqn
@asexualityonreddit
Okay, so for context: I went to meet my partner a state over in June. We had sex while I was there. In August I went to the doctor for a physical and to hopefully get a referral to a therapist (still waiting on the phone call to set up an appointment).
Somehow the topic comes up and I mention being asexual. This is while the doc is doing a physical examination and squishing me all over so it was hard to respond in any meaningful way. I don't remember exact details, but I have bullet points here:
- "you're not asexual, hun, you've had sex"
- "I only ever hear young people say that" (implying I'll grow out of it, I'm 19)
And the one that still pisses me off the most:
- "being asexual is like.. being 7 all the time. You just wanna play tag and eat peanut butter jelly sandwiches"
.. I'm.. sorry?? The fuck did you just say to me? She even tried to say 10 at first, but then corrected it to 7 after realizing that I had gotten my first period at 10. My mom, who didn't want to annoy this woman since she's her doctor too and also super petty, didn't say a thing. She did say when we were in the car that I had that look of "this straight bitch is REALLY gonna tell me how my sexuality works??" Like.. yeah, holy shit, what is wrong with this woman??
How hard is it to understand that I'm just not sexually attracted to people? I don't experience sexual attraction, but I can still have sex with my partner. Just.. ugh, that hugged the hell out of me, and I just hope my therapist isn't like this too.
https://redd.it/pzvvqn
@asexualityonreddit
reddit
It's been over a month and a half and I'm still reeling from what...
Okay, so for context: I went to meet my partner a state over in June. We had sex while I was there. In August I went to the doctor for a physical...
Do you want to live in a country that is only for asexuals?
A country that is founded only for asexuals and there's nothings sexual there and all or most people are asexual there.
That country is as good as your current country. So the only difference is about its asexuality.
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https://redd.it/pztdcc
@asexualityonreddit
A country that is founded only for asexuals and there's nothings sexual there and all or most people are asexual there.
That country is as good as your current country. So the only difference is about its asexuality.
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https://redd.it/pztdcc
@asexualityonreddit
GF of four years just told me she was asexual.
I’ll cut to the chase, we had lots of sex when we started dating and the sex slowly started dwindling down and heard a lot of the times that sex is all I wanted from her and so on. I went 6 months without sex and when I finally asked her about it she explains to me that she’s asexual. I feel lied to but I also want to understand how she can go from having sex to no becoming asexual.
I just feel like I’m not good enough.
https://redd.it/q02csg
@asexualityonreddit
I’ll cut to the chase, we had lots of sex when we started dating and the sex slowly started dwindling down and heard a lot of the times that sex is all I wanted from her and so on. I went 6 months without sex and when I finally asked her about it she explains to me that she’s asexual. I feel lied to but I also want to understand how she can go from having sex to no becoming asexual.
I just feel like I’m not good enough.
https://redd.it/q02csg
@asexualityonreddit
reddit
GF of four years just told me she was asexual.
I’ll cut to the chase, we had lots of sex when we started dating and the sex slowly started dwindling down and heard a lot of the times that sex...