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Asexuality at a young age
Hey, so I was wondering what are the odds I'm ace, I've never in 14 years experienced sexual attraction, not sure if I'm old enough to decide but pretty much everyone I've met has had sexual attraction fully developed. Is there a chance I just haven't yet somehow or is it a very high chance I'm ace?
Thanks
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Hey, so I was wondering what are the odds I'm ace, I've never in 14 years experienced sexual attraction, not sure if I'm old enough to decide but pretty much everyone I've met has had sexual attraction fully developed. Is there a chance I just haven't yet somehow or is it a very high chance I'm ace?
Thanks
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Asexuality at a young age
Hey, so I was wondering what are the odds I'm ace, I've never in 14 years experienced sexual attraction, not sure if I'm old enough to decide but...
Been with my partner for 8 years, she admitted to being asexual a year ago and we don't touch anymore
I didn't really know where else to vent but after doing more research it seems like she's also aromantic, there's been some evidence for that over the years but I honestly didn't know it was a thing until recently. She seems to be sex-neutral and will let me have sex with her but honestly it just feels terrible now because I know she doesn't want to, and she's not active anymore the few times we have tried to have sex since she let me know she considers herself asexual.
I'm feeling so touch starved, it annoys her any time I touch her and that makes me feel so unwanted. It's just so hard after so long for things to turn so drastically because I feel like we're just friends now and it's so frustrating.
And I know I should just talk to her about this directly, but talking to internet strangers first is a less scary first step to that conversation and can hopefully give me some insight into how she might be feeling so I can pre-process even just a fraction of this since someone here may have been on the other side of this coin, or a similar one, before.
Regardless of if you feel you have something to share I'm hoping you all are having a wonderful day, and thanks for reading.
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I didn't really know where else to vent but after doing more research it seems like she's also aromantic, there's been some evidence for that over the years but I honestly didn't know it was a thing until recently. She seems to be sex-neutral and will let me have sex with her but honestly it just feels terrible now because I know she doesn't want to, and she's not active anymore the few times we have tried to have sex since she let me know she considers herself asexual.
I'm feeling so touch starved, it annoys her any time I touch her and that makes me feel so unwanted. It's just so hard after so long for things to turn so drastically because I feel like we're just friends now and it's so frustrating.
And I know I should just talk to her about this directly, but talking to internet strangers first is a less scary first step to that conversation and can hopefully give me some insight into how she might be feeling so I can pre-process even just a fraction of this since someone here may have been on the other side of this coin, or a similar one, before.
Regardless of if you feel you have something to share I'm hoping you all are having a wonderful day, and thanks for reading.
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Been with my partner for 8 years, she admitted to being asexual a...
I didn't really know where else to vent but after doing more research it seems like she's also aromantic, there's been some evidence for that over...
Aphobe in tik tok comment section
The video was a girl reading that story about an ace person ordering hot milk at Starbucks. I'm sure you know the one.
Anyways, someone asked why they made up a fake slur for aces (aceggot, which is pretty cringe ik) and someone replied with "because they want to be oppressed so badly" and the comment got over 2000 likes.
I, being stupid, scrolled down to see what people had to say and someone defended us but failed to come up with something and the person commenting said "of course you're white" and "there's no systemic oppression to ace people".
I felt bad and just scrolled past the video but now I can't stop thinking about it.
I shouldn't care this much because it's just a random person with no respect for other people and I've never met a single person (that I know) whos aphobic.
Idk I know I wasn't directly involved in that situation but I still feel kinda bad lol
I guess I just want reassurance from you guys or something to make me feel better because other asexuals know how it feels and I don't know anyone irl whos ace
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The video was a girl reading that story about an ace person ordering hot milk at Starbucks. I'm sure you know the one.
Anyways, someone asked why they made up a fake slur for aces (aceggot, which is pretty cringe ik) and someone replied with "because they want to be oppressed so badly" and the comment got over 2000 likes.
I, being stupid, scrolled down to see what people had to say and someone defended us but failed to come up with something and the person commenting said "of course you're white" and "there's no systemic oppression to ace people".
I felt bad and just scrolled past the video but now I can't stop thinking about it.
I shouldn't care this much because it's just a random person with no respect for other people and I've never met a single person (that I know) whos aphobic.
Idk I know I wasn't directly involved in that situation but I still feel kinda bad lol
I guess I just want reassurance from you guys or something to make me feel better because other asexuals know how it feels and I don't know anyone irl whos ace
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Aphobe in tik tok comment section
The video was a girl reading that story about an ace person ordering hot milk at Starbucks. I'm sure you know the one. Anyways, someone asked why...
Am sorry for disturbing you all I just recently realised I am Aegosexual so I have lot of doubts so that's why am asking lot of questions
Hi I want to say sorry for everyone here in this sub because am posting lot of posts and I am deleting lot of them because I have just recently realised I am Aegosexual so I am getting lot of doubts and when some old doubts goes away I will delete old post and post new so am really sorry for disturbing you people but I hope I will be welcomed in this sub and other two sub which am more continously posting as well π
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Hi I want to say sorry for everyone here in this sub because am posting lot of posts and I am deleting lot of them because I have just recently realised I am Aegosexual so I am getting lot of doubts and when some old doubts goes away I will delete old post and post new so am really sorry for disturbing you people but I hope I will be welcomed in this sub and other two sub which am more continously posting as well π
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Am sorry for disturbing you all I just recently realised I am...
Hi I want to say sorry for everyone here in this sub because am posting lot of posts and I am deleting lot of them because I have just recently...
Just joined the community two days ago and realised am asexual two days back
Hi I want to say sorry for everyone here in this sub because am posting lot of posts and I am deleting lot of them because I have just recently realised I am Aegosexual so I am getting lot of doubts and when some old doubts goes away I will delete old post and post new so am really sorry for disturbing you people but I hope I will be welcomed in this sub and other two sub which am more continously posting as well π
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Hi I want to say sorry for everyone here in this sub because am posting lot of posts and I am deleting lot of them because I have just recently realised I am Aegosexual so I am getting lot of doubts and when some old doubts goes away I will delete old post and post new so am really sorry for disturbing you people but I hope I will be welcomed in this sub and other two sub which am more continously posting as well π
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Just joined the community two days ago and realised am asexual two...
Hi I want to say sorry for everyone here in this sub because am posting lot of posts and I am deleting lot of them because I have just recently...
I hate how we are claimed as "Innocent". I mean if we are innocent is sex a crime then?
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I hate how we are claimed as "Innocent". I mean if we are innocent...
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Well, dear asexuals and fellow demisexuals, it happened. Even fellow queer people erase us from existence.
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My Dad is kind of a dick...
I was talking with my dad a few days ago and I mentioned how I disliked that the girls at my school dressed as skimpy as they possibly could every day, and he said that I should be glad because I'm a lesbian. I told him I was uncomfortable with it and he said, "I wanted you to grow up weird but not THAT weird." He continued on saying that he wanted me to like girls since I was a kid, and wanted me to like looking at them, and now I feel fucking dirty and gross because idk why he would say he expected me to be a fucking pervert. Sorry for the language but I'm just really grossed out. I hope the rest of y'all are having a good day lol.
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I was talking with my dad a few days ago and I mentioned how I disliked that the girls at my school dressed as skimpy as they possibly could every day, and he said that I should be glad because I'm a lesbian. I told him I was uncomfortable with it and he said, "I wanted you to grow up weird but not THAT weird." He continued on saying that he wanted me to like girls since I was a kid, and wanted me to like looking at them, and now I feel fucking dirty and gross because idk why he would say he expected me to be a fucking pervert. Sorry for the language but I'm just really grossed out. I hope the rest of y'all are having a good day lol.
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My Dad is kind of a dick...
I was talking with my dad a few days ago and I mentioned how I disliked that the girls at my school dressed as skimpy as they possibly could every...
I have something to confess, fellow aces...
I do not like cake or garlic bread
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I do not like cake or garlic bread
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I have something to confess, fellow aces...
I do not like cake or garlic bread
brain invalidates me and i just wanna take it out and say βstopβ
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Happy October! I'd like to present to you an alternative way to wear the Ace Ghosty: acrylic pins! Gotta get ready for Ace Week at the end of the month!
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Happy October! I'd like to present to you an alternative way to...
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