I came out to my sister
Everyone loves a good ally story... That's not one of them.
During the pandemic my mum, my sister and I started weekly discord calls to have coffee and catch up. After an hour or two, mum leaves the call and my sister and I keep chatting, most of the times for at least two more hours, sometimes with a glass of wine.
During these chats we overcame our issues with each other, in fact we realized that we're basically the same person. I see and hate my bad traits in her and vice versa. Now that we know that, we see more eye to eye, so I felt safe to come out to her during one of our calls after mum had left (she kinda knows but that's another story, if anyone is interested).
So... I sat there in front of my laptop, looked awkwardly in the camera, the topic was already close enough, so I decided to give it a shot.
Me: Er... You know... I'm actually asexual.
Her eyes widened, she stared at me in shock for a second and I'll never forget her first words after that.
Sister: OMG, same! I've never met another ace before and now you're telling me, my own sister is one! That's so cool!
Me: Wait what? How cool is that! I guess there must be something to the theory that being queer may be a question of genetics!
I felt a whole bunch of different emotions. I was relieved, I was happy, I never expected her response. We shared a laugh and talked a little more about it, finding out that we're actually both aegos but I'm aro while she's not. She actually told me about this subreddit.
I don't know if she feels the same way (even though I believe she does) but I feel like that brought us even closer together.
(Just so you know, I asked my sister in advance if she's okay with me posting here, she is and just asked for the link, I didn't drag her out if the closet without her consent)
https://redd.it/pdrwqn
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Everyone loves a good ally story... That's not one of them.
During the pandemic my mum, my sister and I started weekly discord calls to have coffee and catch up. After an hour or two, mum leaves the call and my sister and I keep chatting, most of the times for at least two more hours, sometimes with a glass of wine.
During these chats we overcame our issues with each other, in fact we realized that we're basically the same person. I see and hate my bad traits in her and vice versa. Now that we know that, we see more eye to eye, so I felt safe to come out to her during one of our calls after mum had left (she kinda knows but that's another story, if anyone is interested).
So... I sat there in front of my laptop, looked awkwardly in the camera, the topic was already close enough, so I decided to give it a shot.
Me: Er... You know... I'm actually asexual.
Her eyes widened, she stared at me in shock for a second and I'll never forget her first words after that.
Sister: OMG, same! I've never met another ace before and now you're telling me, my own sister is one! That's so cool!
Me: Wait what? How cool is that! I guess there must be something to the theory that being queer may be a question of genetics!
I felt a whole bunch of different emotions. I was relieved, I was happy, I never expected her response. We shared a laugh and talked a little more about it, finding out that we're actually both aegos but I'm aro while she's not. She actually told me about this subreddit.
I don't know if she feels the same way (even though I believe she does) but I feel like that brought us even closer together.
(Just so you know, I asked my sister in advance if she's okay with me posting here, she is and just asked for the link, I didn't drag her out if the closet without her consent)
https://redd.it/pdrwqn
@asexualityonreddit
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I came out to my sister
Everyone loves a good ally story... That's not one of them. During the pandemic my mum, my sister and I started weekly discord calls to have...
I just went to a gay a bar and a girl wanted to have sex with me.
I am now crying and shaking with my ears ringing and I am not sure why. I thought I was sex neutral, but this fucked me up in a way I didn’t expect. I don’t know what is wrong with me. Has anyone had a similar experience?
https://redd.it/pdq5ui
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I am now crying and shaking with my ears ringing and I am not sure why. I thought I was sex neutral, but this fucked me up in a way I didn’t expect. I don’t know what is wrong with me. Has anyone had a similar experience?
https://redd.it/pdq5ui
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I just went to a gay a bar and a girl wanted to have sex with me.
I am now crying and shaking with my ears ringing and I am not sure why. I thought I was sex neutral, but this fucked me up in a way I didn’t...
Ace pride flag I painted cus I'm too poor to get a real flag. I love placing it in the background of my videos, pictures, and streams hoping people comment on it 🙃 even though no one does
https://redd.it/pdu0yq
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Went to a pride event today
The parade had almost no ace rep but at one point there was a person walking in the parade with an ace and an aro flag tied around their neck. I was wearing a face mask with an ace flag on it and we had this moment of solidarity looking at eachother and making a little nod like "I see you, you're cool" and it definitely made my day better.
https://redd.it/pdvzst
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The parade had almost no ace rep but at one point there was a person walking in the parade with an ace and an aro flag tied around their neck. I was wearing a face mask with an ace flag on it and we had this moment of solidarity looking at eachother and making a little nod like "I see you, you're cool" and it definitely made my day better.
https://redd.it/pdvzst
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Went to a pride event today
The parade had almost no ace rep but at one point there was a person walking in the parade with an ace and an aro flag tied around their neck. I...
New theory: we're ace because we ate too much garlic(bread) so the sexuals couldn't bite us
https://redd.it/pdwctn
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Hey, I'm looking for asexual friends and maybe a qpp. I dont know anybody else who is asexual. Super socially awkward, shy asexual here. I have trouble making friends because people dont approve of me being asexual etc. Im mentally ill which makes it even harder to make friends. James, They/Them
https://redd.it/pe13sa
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Hey, I'm looking for asexual friends and maybe a qpp. I dont know...
Posted in r/asexuality by u/SamTheLoverOfAnimals • 75 points and 46 comments
Head Cannon: Jason Voorhees is a raging sex-repulsed asexual and no one can’t tell me otherwise (Not my art. I just thought it fit)
https://redd.it/pe3r5v
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