I realized the type of relationship I want doesn't even exist in society
I'm aroace and I'd love to live with a best friend for life. That's all. But that doesn't happen. Whenever friends live together, it's out of convenience and has a temporary character, only until they find partners. I want someone to want to live with me because I'm their best friend, not because they want to split the rent.
It just never happens. Theoretically it'd take two asexual aromantic friends, that's for sure. But i don't think this very notion exists anyway, even among ace folk.
Friends just never become each other's #1 person. Why does it have to take a relationship for people to care about each other that much?
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I'm aroace and I'd love to live with a best friend for life. That's all. But that doesn't happen. Whenever friends live together, it's out of convenience and has a temporary character, only until they find partners. I want someone to want to live with me because I'm their best friend, not because they want to split the rent.
It just never happens. Theoretically it'd take two asexual aromantic friends, that's for sure. But i don't think this very notion exists anyway, even among ace folk.
Friends just never become each other's #1 person. Why does it have to take a relationship for people to care about each other that much?
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I realized the type of relationship I want doesn't even exist in...
I'm aroace and I'd love to live with a best friend for life. That's all. But that doesn't happen. Whenever friends live together, it's out of...
How nice is this from Childrens Health Queensland Australia that they spelt out LGBTQIA+? it made me cry to see that “A”
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YES
PEOPLE, I JUST FOUND OUT ANOTHER PERSON AT MY SCHOOL IS ACE! Sorry, I'm a bit hyped. But I just had to tell someone, I'm still closeted so that's fun :) Still, I don't know him at all. Like, I barely even know his name. So that's sad too. BUT HEY, I've never met another asexual that I know off. SO Wooo! Farewell, I will now go eat some of the remaining garlic bread
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PEOPLE, I JUST FOUND OUT ANOTHER PERSON AT MY SCHOOL IS ACE! Sorry, I'm a bit hyped. But I just had to tell someone, I'm still closeted so that's fun :) Still, I don't know him at all. Like, I barely even know his name. So that's sad too. BUT HEY, I've never met another asexual that I know off. SO Wooo! Farewell, I will now go eat some of the remaining garlic bread
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YES
PEOPLE, I JUST FOUND OUT ANOTHER PERSON AT MY SCHOOL IS ACE! Sorry, I'm a bit hyped. But I just had to tell someone, I'm still closeted so that's...
my initial reaction to finding out my brother had his girlfriend over while we were away just shows how ace i really am (:
it shouldnt actually be this funny, considering he is in trouble with our parents, but i couldnt help but laugh.
so i went downstairs, right, and when i got to the dining room for breakfast i saw my parents sat with my brother opposite them, chewing his ear off for inviting his girlfriend over while we were out of town for a function (my parents are caterers; we left him at home since he had work). i overheard them saying about how irresponsible he was for sleeping with her, and my first reaction was to ask about his bed. he has a double bed (as do me and our sister in our rooms) so i was confused as to why sleeping in the same bed would be a problem if the bed is designed for two anyway.
then i realised. they werent talking about the act of sharing a bed, they were talking about actually sleeping together. when i tell you i lost it- it really wasnt a laughing matter, but it was quite amusing to me how un-inclined i am to think of sexual things first lmao.
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it shouldnt actually be this funny, considering he is in trouble with our parents, but i couldnt help but laugh.
so i went downstairs, right, and when i got to the dining room for breakfast i saw my parents sat with my brother opposite them, chewing his ear off for inviting his girlfriend over while we were out of town for a function (my parents are caterers; we left him at home since he had work). i overheard them saying about how irresponsible he was for sleeping with her, and my first reaction was to ask about his bed. he has a double bed (as do me and our sister in our rooms) so i was confused as to why sleeping in the same bed would be a problem if the bed is designed for two anyway.
then i realised. they werent talking about the act of sharing a bed, they were talking about actually sleeping together. when i tell you i lost it- it really wasnt a laughing matter, but it was quite amusing to me how un-inclined i am to think of sexual things first lmao.
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my initial reaction to finding out my brother had his girlfriend...
it shouldnt actually be this funny, considering he *is* in trouble with our parents, but i couldnt help but laugh. so i went downstairs, right,...
My ace ring finally broke
After a year of service, the hematite was finally stressed enough to shatter after dropping it lightly onto a table.
RIP my ace ring. ????-2021
Anyways, any good places to buy a new ring from? I’m thinking of going with black ceramic, but a metal ring might be better if the price isn’t exorbitant.
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After a year of service, the hematite was finally stressed enough to shatter after dropping it lightly onto a table.
RIP my ace ring. ????-2021
Anyways, any good places to buy a new ring from? I’m thinking of going with black ceramic, but a metal ring might be better if the price isn’t exorbitant.
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My ace ring finally broke
After a year of service, the hematite was finally stressed enough to shatter after dropping it lightly onto a table. RIP my ace ring....
Happy ace acceptance from my coworker
A few weeks ago a coworker mentioned "when you have kids" to me, and I had to explain that I had no intention of having kids. They brushed me off with "someday you will" and I just rolled my eyes and walked away. Then it came up again, I maintained that I had no desire to have children, and she goes "do you really feel that way?" In kind of a thoughtful way, and I said yes and explained that I'm an asexual and what that means. And she gave me this look like I had just read a page from her personal diary and goes "that's my sister. That's exactly my sister. I didn't know there was a word for that."
And then she told me that she and her husband have her sister living with them because they were afraid of her feeling alone and I almost cried. I love seeing such heart warming acceptance
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A few weeks ago a coworker mentioned "when you have kids" to me, and I had to explain that I had no intention of having kids. They brushed me off with "someday you will" and I just rolled my eyes and walked away. Then it came up again, I maintained that I had no desire to have children, and she goes "do you really feel that way?" In kind of a thoughtful way, and I said yes and explained that I'm an asexual and what that means. And she gave me this look like I had just read a page from her personal diary and goes "that's my sister. That's exactly my sister. I didn't know there was a word for that."
And then she told me that she and her husband have her sister living with them because they were afraid of her feeling alone and I almost cried. I love seeing such heart warming acceptance
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Happy ace acceptance from my coworker
A few weeks ago a coworker mentioned "when you have kids" to me, and I had to explain that I had no intention of having kids. They brushed me off...
I edited a comic I saw on here to have smiles instead of frowns
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Being on the receiving end of someone's sexual fantasy.
I don't think anyone will have fantasised about me because, I'm average looking on a good day. But, even the thought that someone might've masturbated over me (or something similar) makes me feel really disgusted. I feel like a piece of meat. Anyone else?
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I don't think anyone will have fantasised about me because, I'm average looking on a good day. But, even the thought that someone might've masturbated over me (or something similar) makes me feel really disgusted. I feel like a piece of meat. Anyone else?
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Being on the receiving end of someone's sexual fantasy.
I don't think anyone will have fantasised about me because, I'm average looking on a good day. But, even the thought that someone might've...