Much older women aggressively hit on me often at special events and I'm tired of no one ever taking me seriously when I complain.
New-ish account for this for personal reasons. For reference, I'm a cis guy in my early 30s.
Whenever I'm at a special event where I have to dress up, there's always one or two older women who'll spend as much time commenting on my body, getting close to me, asking me to dance, touch me, etc as possible. The last thing I was at a lady kept asking me about my "type", if I was a virgin, what my favorite sexual acts were, etc. I had known her for all of 5 minutes. Other events I've worked at in the past had women following me from room to room "interviewing" me about random things while commenting on my legs and chest. I'm not even fit, but I'm naturally very stocky.
Complaining is pointless because whenever I do, I'm told to suck it up, man up, or whatever. That as a man I'm supposed to love this kind of attention, that it's every guy's dream to have a MILF interested in them, that I shouldn't feel threatened because of my gender and appearance and that it could've been worse. Or, that it's a cute thing older people do so just go along with it. Friends I vent to as this is happening in real time push me and the other person together, tell me to go find them, or seek them out and literally pull us together.
I feel crazy when I say this but it makes me afraid to be at certain events, or hang out with certain family members because of how consistently this happens and how it long it effects me.
I'm just so damn sick of being sexualized and objectified. I hate it so much and wish it could all go away, that I could go to these events and not want to throw up from the anxiety of waiting for it to happen eventually. It makes me sick to my stomach being objectified this way, it bugs me for days and days and days, and I feel lost with nowhere to go and no one to talk to about it. I deal with this regularly in my chosen career and this is among the reasons why I'm changing careers without knowing exactly what I want to do.
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New-ish account for this for personal reasons. For reference, I'm a cis guy in my early 30s.
Whenever I'm at a special event where I have to dress up, there's always one or two older women who'll spend as much time commenting on my body, getting close to me, asking me to dance, touch me, etc as possible. The last thing I was at a lady kept asking me about my "type", if I was a virgin, what my favorite sexual acts were, etc. I had known her for all of 5 minutes. Other events I've worked at in the past had women following me from room to room "interviewing" me about random things while commenting on my legs and chest. I'm not even fit, but I'm naturally very stocky.
Complaining is pointless because whenever I do, I'm told to suck it up, man up, or whatever. That as a man I'm supposed to love this kind of attention, that it's every guy's dream to have a MILF interested in them, that I shouldn't feel threatened because of my gender and appearance and that it could've been worse. Or, that it's a cute thing older people do so just go along with it. Friends I vent to as this is happening in real time push me and the other person together, tell me to go find them, or seek them out and literally pull us together.
I feel crazy when I say this but it makes me afraid to be at certain events, or hang out with certain family members because of how consistently this happens and how it long it effects me.
I'm just so damn sick of being sexualized and objectified. I hate it so much and wish it could all go away, that I could go to these events and not want to throw up from the anxiety of waiting for it to happen eventually. It makes me sick to my stomach being objectified this way, it bugs me for days and days and days, and I feel lost with nowhere to go and no one to talk to about it. I deal with this regularly in my chosen career and this is among the reasons why I'm changing careers without knowing exactly what I want to do.
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Much older women aggressively hit on me often at special events...
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