Coming out didn't go perfectly
So I bought an asexual flag yesterday, and it kinda turned into me coming out. Here's the conversation we had:
Mum: what flag is that?
Me: asexual.
Mum: so... Are you just collecting flags at this point?
Me: no, I am asexual.
Mum: so you just... Don't feel sexual attraction to anyone? Ever?
Me: I can still have relationships... I just don't want sex.
Mum: well, I can almost guarantee that will change in 10 years time!
It pisses me off because I know I'm not attracted to people sexually, and I know this because I am aegosexual. I know what that sexual feeling is supposed to be like and I just... Don't feel it with other people. I was too embarrassed to try and explain so I'll have to try again soon. :/
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So I bought an asexual flag yesterday, and it kinda turned into me coming out. Here's the conversation we had:
Mum: what flag is that?
Me: asexual.
Mum: so... Are you just collecting flags at this point?
Me: no, I am asexual.
Mum: so you just... Don't feel sexual attraction to anyone? Ever?
Me: I can still have relationships... I just don't want sex.
Mum: well, I can almost guarantee that will change in 10 years time!
It pisses me off because I know I'm not attracted to people sexually, and I know this because I am aegosexual. I know what that sexual feeling is supposed to be like and I just... Don't feel it with other people. I was too embarrassed to try and explain so I'll have to try again soon. :/
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Coming out didn't go perfectly
So I bought an asexual flag yesterday, and it kinda turned into me coming out. Here's the conversation we had: Mum: what flag is that? Me:...
I like anime, but I have a problem with it
I like anime for the way it can explore crazier concepts and situations than western shows and live action can. But anime likes big boobs. I find them unpleasant.
I guess it’s a personal problem. It’s not that I have a problem with real people who have big breasts as long as I don’t have to see them, but anime characters will have them just out with tight clothes and massive cleavage. When an anime character has large breasts, it’s all I can see, and I find it very unpleasant. I automatically think less of the character and the show, and am disappointed that it’s sacrificing the story and what may otherwise be a good character for fanservice.
I’ve been enjoying Sonny Boy this season. It’s about a bunch of students and their school drifting through different dimensions and developing crazy superpowers. First they’re in a black void, then a tropical island in an ocean that extends forever in all directions. It’s weird and crazy and has a nice art style and movement and I love it. I was glad there were no excessively sexualized characters. But then at the end of episode 4 a teacher with massive breasts and lots of cleavage shows up, and I felt myself deflate. I can only hope it doesn’t effect my enjoyment of the next episode.
Anyone else have something like this happen?
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I like anime for the way it can explore crazier concepts and situations than western shows and live action can. But anime likes big boobs. I find them unpleasant.
I guess it’s a personal problem. It’s not that I have a problem with real people who have big breasts as long as I don’t have to see them, but anime characters will have them just out with tight clothes and massive cleavage. When an anime character has large breasts, it’s all I can see, and I find it very unpleasant. I automatically think less of the character and the show, and am disappointed that it’s sacrificing the story and what may otherwise be a good character for fanservice.
I’ve been enjoying Sonny Boy this season. It’s about a bunch of students and their school drifting through different dimensions and developing crazy superpowers. First they’re in a black void, then a tropical island in an ocean that extends forever in all directions. It’s weird and crazy and has a nice art style and movement and I love it. I was glad there were no excessively sexualized characters. But then at the end of episode 4 a teacher with massive breasts and lots of cleavage shows up, and I felt myself deflate. I can only hope it doesn’t effect my enjoyment of the next episode.
Anyone else have something like this happen?
https://redd.it/p2ot41
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I like anime, but I have a problem with it
I like anime for the way it can explore crazier concepts and situations than western shows and live action can. But anime likes big boobs. I find...
After a month I finally got the self confidence to post this- still sorta scared and nervous to do this tbh
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After a month I finally got the self confidence to post this-...
Posted in r/Asexual by u/stopitcrazy • 56 points and 8 comments
And this is why it’s so difficult dating as an asexual. I get messages like THIS. Sir my profile says I’m asexual 🤦🏻♀️
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Couldn’t resist buying these ace colored Jordan’s. RIP wallet
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I hate that Reddit is so horny all the time.
Every second post on popular seems to be about sex nowdays and every dumb story that mentiones sex has thousands of upvotes, I don't get it. Even the most popular questions on r/askreddit are about sex. Every. Single. Time. It drives me nuts (no pun intended). This is my second account on Reddit and I honestly think about deleting it again, since I usually don't like joining certain sub-reddits (since most posts don't interest me anyway) and popular is my go-to-place.
It kinda makes me sad (and uncomfortable) and I wish there was a setting that will hide any nsfw posts from me. Maybe there is? Does a setting like this exist?! PLS SAY YES.
https://redd.it/p380nc
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Every second post on popular seems to be about sex nowdays and every dumb story that mentiones sex has thousands of upvotes, I don't get it. Even the most popular questions on r/askreddit are about sex. Every. Single. Time. It drives me nuts (no pun intended). This is my second account on Reddit and I honestly think about deleting it again, since I usually don't like joining certain sub-reddits (since most posts don't interest me anyway) and popular is my go-to-place.
It kinda makes me sad (and uncomfortable) and I wish there was a setting that will hide any nsfw posts from me. Maybe there is? Does a setting like this exist?! PLS SAY YES.
https://redd.it/p380nc
@asexualityonreddit
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I hate that Reddit is so horny all the time.
Every second post on popular seems to be about sex nowdays and every dumb story that mentiones sex has thousands of upvotes, I don't get it. Even...