My entire workplace found out I’m asexual
So I don’t really talk about being asexual to people. Only those I’m very close to know. If I’m on a dating app I put it in my bio because I feel it’s important to know if you’re gonna date me. Well somebody at my job saw a dating profile that I forgot about and then went around and told everybody at work that I’m asexual and now everybody knows before I was ready for people to really know.
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So I don’t really talk about being asexual to people. Only those I’m very close to know. If I’m on a dating app I put it in my bio because I feel it’s important to know if you’re gonna date me. Well somebody at my job saw a dating profile that I forgot about and then went around and told everybody at work that I’m asexual and now everybody knows before I was ready for people to really know.
https://redd.it/p0vdrj
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My entire workplace found out I’m asexual
So I don’t really talk about being asexual to people. Only those I’m very close to know. If I’m on a dating app I put it in my bio because I feel...
My sibling's partner is aphobic regularly
Instead of ranting about how upset this makes me, because they know I'm ace and am proud of it, I want to instead say this:
To all ace people, no matter where you are on the ace spectrum, no matter your romantic orientation or lack thereof, no matter how niche other people think your identity is, you are valid. You are loved. You are an important part of this community and of the LGBTQIA community. Your experiences matter, and you deserve to be accepted as you are
https://redd.it/p0w0pc
@asexualityonreddit
Instead of ranting about how upset this makes me, because they know I'm ace and am proud of it, I want to instead say this:
To all ace people, no matter where you are on the ace spectrum, no matter your romantic orientation or lack thereof, no matter how niche other people think your identity is, you are valid. You are loved. You are an important part of this community and of the LGBTQIA community. Your experiences matter, and you deserve to be accepted as you are
https://redd.it/p0w0pc
@asexualityonreddit
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My sibling's partner is aphobic regularly
Instead of ranting about how upset this makes me, because they know I'm ace and am proud of it, I want to instead say this: To all ace people, no...
people telling me im not asexual
i have sex ONCE !!! every blue moon, and im constantly told im not asexual. i feel like crying bc ??? who are you to tell me what i am and what im not ??
totally dismissing me like that is so tiring to deal with, especially when ur friends just dont understand it. im honestly just: tired.
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@asexualityonreddit
i have sex ONCE !!! every blue moon, and im constantly told im not asexual. i feel like crying bc ??? who are you to tell me what i am and what im not ??
totally dismissing me like that is so tiring to deal with, especially when ur friends just dont understand it. im honestly just: tired.
https://redd.it/p0rft9
@asexualityonreddit
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people telling me im not asexual
i have sex ONCE !!! every blue moon, and im constantly told im not asexual. i feel like crying bc ??? who are you to tell me what i am and what im...
Guys, I’m asexual
And I’m crying lmao im a grown adult and now am finally accepting that it’s okay
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And I’m crying lmao im a grown adult and now am finally accepting that it’s okay
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@asexualityonreddit
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Guys, I’m asexual
And I’m crying lmao im a grown adult and now am finally accepting that it’s okay
Do you feel aesthetic attraction?
This is basically just a follow up to a post I made yesterday, because apparently a lot more people feel the way I do than I expected.
Edit: I only mean in people. I think most people can find things that aren't people aesthetically pleasing, so I'm just wondering about people.
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This is basically just a follow up to a post I made yesterday, because apparently a lot more people feel the way I do than I expected.
Edit: I only mean in people. I think most people can find things that aren't people aesthetically pleasing, so I'm just wondering about people.
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https://redd.it/p10ui9
@asexualityonreddit
you guys ever get guilty during high libido times?
i know it’s a biological thing but i still feel like i’m a fraud, and it’s so frustrating because i just think why?? why now?? and I can’t even think of much to relieve it :(
I just want to know i’m not alone in this :/
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i know it’s a biological thing but i still feel like i’m a fraud, and it’s so frustrating because i just think why?? why now?? and I can’t even think of much to relieve it :(
I just want to know i’m not alone in this :/
https://redd.it/p17xeg
@asexualityonreddit
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you guys ever get guilty during high libido times?
i know it’s a biological thing but i still feel like i’m a fraud, and it’s so frustrating because i just think why?? why now?? and I can’t even...
A shoutout to aces who:
-have sex for different reasons
-read smut
-love to fantasize about having sex but don’t physically want to
-watch porn
-make sex jokes
-aren’t your ‘stereotypical asexual’
you’re all valid and ily💜🖤🤍
https://redd.it/p1bn7y
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-have sex for different reasons
-read smut
-love to fantasize about having sex but don’t physically want to
-watch porn
-make sex jokes
-aren’t your ‘stereotypical asexual’
you’re all valid and ily💜🖤🤍
https://redd.it/p1bn7y
@asexualityonreddit
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A shoutout to aces who:
-have sex for different reasons -read smut -love to fantasize about having sex but don’t physically want to -watch porn -make sex jokes -aren’t...
Ending a long term relationship due to sexual incompatibility
We're both in our mid twenties and we were together for 4 and half years. And the decision was mutual, to my understanding.
Me being ace was always an issue since the beginning of our relationship, and we really tried to make it work but as he put it finally, "literally everything about our relationship is perfect, except for this". My worst fear and repeat of my last relationship.
Walking away from him was one of the hardest things I've done and I'm just so gutted. Despite having a lot of love for each other, the breakup was a mutual decision. I feel so awful, and so sad. I hate the way that I am, I hate that I couldn't satisfy him sexually. He doesn't deserve to be in a relationship where he has to constantly question if I desire him sexually or always has to initiate sex, and I'm trying to feel ok about telling myself that I deserve a relationship where I don't have to feel pressure to be a sexual being when it's just not in me to a be past a very small extent.
One thing he said in the end as we were crying in front of each other: "maybe I'm just not the right piece for your puzzle and you the same to me, but damn you are really close" literally sent me over the edge, I couldn't help but sob.
He said he wanted to still be friends but I just genuinely don't think I can just be friends with him, it would hurt too much.
I'm just so sad, I try to be ok and accepting to myself about being ace but right now I just hate it so much. I'm gonna call a therapist today for the first time.
Idk if any of this is coherent, and I'll probably delete later, but if you can relate or have anything to say that might help, please i could use anything.
https://redd.it/p1dqkf
@asexualityonreddit
We're both in our mid twenties and we were together for 4 and half years. And the decision was mutual, to my understanding.
Me being ace was always an issue since the beginning of our relationship, and we really tried to make it work but as he put it finally, "literally everything about our relationship is perfect, except for this". My worst fear and repeat of my last relationship.
Walking away from him was one of the hardest things I've done and I'm just so gutted. Despite having a lot of love for each other, the breakup was a mutual decision. I feel so awful, and so sad. I hate the way that I am, I hate that I couldn't satisfy him sexually. He doesn't deserve to be in a relationship where he has to constantly question if I desire him sexually or always has to initiate sex, and I'm trying to feel ok about telling myself that I deserve a relationship where I don't have to feel pressure to be a sexual being when it's just not in me to a be past a very small extent.
One thing he said in the end as we were crying in front of each other: "maybe I'm just not the right piece for your puzzle and you the same to me, but damn you are really close" literally sent me over the edge, I couldn't help but sob.
He said he wanted to still be friends but I just genuinely don't think I can just be friends with him, it would hurt too much.
I'm just so sad, I try to be ok and accepting to myself about being ace but right now I just hate it so much. I'm gonna call a therapist today for the first time.
Idk if any of this is coherent, and I'll probably delete later, but if you can relate or have anything to say that might help, please i could use anything.
https://redd.it/p1dqkf
@asexualityonreddit
reddit
Ending a long term relationship due to sexual incompatibility
We're both in our mid twenties and we were together for 4 and half years. And the decision was mutual, to my understanding. Me being ace was...