Pride! From the past. We are not just straight or GSRM people who want to feel special. We are valid as asexuals!
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I found my truth
I apologise, posts like this are probably a dime-a-dozen here. I've only just joined though, and I've not had much of a visit yet. I just kinda feel like I need to get this out there into the universe, say it "out loud" so to speak...
Guys and gals, random strangers on the internet (deep breath)... I'm asexual. (phew)
I realise now I always have been, but was so naïve about what it meant for my ENTIRE life. Like a lot of people, I thought it meant I should never have had sex, that somehow because I've had it (and a kid to prove it) that automatically excluded me from the club. I am a 35yo mum, and I've been with my partner for 14yrs. But man, it's been a long-ass 14yrs of trying to get myself aroused for sex, pretending I'm into it... sometimes crying a little in the bathroom afterwards. My husband would be utterly mortified to know that last fact, he's so supportive and never pushes, but I push myself because I want to make him happy... Just gimmie a few days to mentally prepare myself and I can get the job done. It's probably a tale as old as time.
I first thought I might be asexual 4 years ago but never looked into it further for fear of finding out I wasn't (because if I'm not, I'm just a sexually-broken woman). It was a simple post 2 days ago from an 18yr old, asking a question pertaining to my own situation, and getting such a positive response from you all, that it suddenly all clicked into place. I faced my fear and did more research, and found my truth.
Anyway, there's so much more to my story. But like I said, I needed to get this out. I'm literally staying back late at work to type this, because it was just weighing me down, but I should really get home now. Thanks for listening to my rant, I feel better :)
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I apologise, posts like this are probably a dime-a-dozen here. I've only just joined though, and I've not had much of a visit yet. I just kinda feel like I need to get this out there into the universe, say it "out loud" so to speak...
Guys and gals, random strangers on the internet (deep breath)... I'm asexual. (phew)
I realise now I always have been, but was so naïve about what it meant for my ENTIRE life. Like a lot of people, I thought it meant I should never have had sex, that somehow because I've had it (and a kid to prove it) that automatically excluded me from the club. I am a 35yo mum, and I've been with my partner for 14yrs. But man, it's been a long-ass 14yrs of trying to get myself aroused for sex, pretending I'm into it... sometimes crying a little in the bathroom afterwards. My husband would be utterly mortified to know that last fact, he's so supportive and never pushes, but I push myself because I want to make him happy... Just gimmie a few days to mentally prepare myself and I can get the job done. It's probably a tale as old as time.
I first thought I might be asexual 4 years ago but never looked into it further for fear of finding out I wasn't (because if I'm not, I'm just a sexually-broken woman). It was a simple post 2 days ago from an 18yr old, asking a question pertaining to my own situation, and getting such a positive response from you all, that it suddenly all clicked into place. I faced my fear and did more research, and found my truth.
Anyway, there's so much more to my story. But like I said, I needed to get this out. I'm literally staying back late at work to type this, because it was just weighing me down, but I should really get home now. Thanks for listening to my rant, I feel better :)
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I found my truth
I apologise, posts like this are probably a dime-a-dozen here. I've only just joined though, and I've not had much of a visit yet. I just kinda...
Allo here, just heard about asexuality for the first time 5 minutes ago and now i have come to enlighten you about how it should really be defined and why you're wrong about what your own sexual orientation means
Allos be like
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Allo here, just heard about asexuality for the first time 5...
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My book club is reading Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex this month.
Hi, my discord book club is reading Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen in our LGBTQA+ book club and I wanted to invite you to join us if you're interested. We'll be reading it throughout the month of August and it's read-at-your-own pace, so you can read it as fast or as slow as you like and just post your thoughts as you go.
You can find us here: https://discord.gg/KgFF9j3GTh
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Hi, my discord book club is reading Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen in our LGBTQA+ book club and I wanted to invite you to join us if you're interested. We'll be reading it throughout the month of August and it's read-at-your-own pace, so you can read it as fast or as slow as you like and just post your thoughts as you go.
You can find us here: https://discord.gg/KgFF9j3GTh
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What is something that allos (anyone who does feel sexual attraction) do that you don't understand?
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Am I the only one who feels bad for my future partner(s)???
Unless they are also ace I feel like I won’t be able to give them everything they need. I know that they’re sexual needs aren’t my problem and with how big the porn industry is it shouldn’t be a problem, but I still feel horrible for them, and I don’t even have a partner right now lmfao. I kind of wish I was demi or an ace who was comfortable with sex, because I’m fine talking about sex but going into details or thinking about doing it makes me so put off honestly. Does anyone else feel this way?
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Unless they are also ace I feel like I won’t be able to give them everything they need. I know that they’re sexual needs aren’t my problem and with how big the porn industry is it shouldn’t be a problem, but I still feel horrible for them, and I don’t even have a partner right now lmfao. I kind of wish I was demi or an ace who was comfortable with sex, because I’m fine talking about sex but going into details or thinking about doing it makes me so put off honestly. Does anyone else feel this way?
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Am I the only one who feels bad for my future partner(s)???
Unless they are also ace I feel like I won’t be able to give them everything they need. I know that they’re sexual needs aren’t my problem and...